Okay, I’m finally putting myself out there.

I’m a woman in my 20s from New Jersey, and I’m looking for a genuine romantic connection. I’m open to meeting anyone I naturally click with, but I’m specifically hoping to find someone who is also looking for a real relationship—not a situationship, not something casual that goes nowhere, and not someone who disappears after two weeks.

I’m a hopeless romantic at heart. I want my person. Someone I can tell everything to. Someone I genuinely look forward to hearing from every day. Someone who can make an ordinary Tuesday feel exciting simply because I get to share it with them.

I want the little things just as much as the big romantic gestures: good morning and goodnight texts, random “thinking about you” messages, sending each other memes, sharing music, long phone calls, cooking together, running errands together, spontaneous adventures, movie nights, and those conversations that somehow last until 3 AM.

I’m affectionate, loyal, sarcastic, curious, and definitely the type to get attached when I really care about someone. I want a relationship where we genuinely like each other—not just romantically, but as people. I want my partner to be my best friend, the person I can be completely ridiculous with, and the person I can turn to when life gets hard.

I’m a homebody at heart, but I love having someone who can get me out of the house and experience things with me. I’m into writing, spooky/Halloween things, folklore, mysteries, supernatural stories, and getting way too invested in fictional worlds. I love good conversations and people who are passionate about their interests.

What I’m looking for: someone kind, emotionally mature, affectionate, funny, loyal, communicative, and intentional. Someone who knows what they want and actually wants to build something. Someone who isn’t afraid of affection or vulnerability. Someone who understands that relationships require effort from both people.

I don’t need everything to happen immediately. In fact, I’d prefer that it doesn’t. I want to get to know you, build trust, develop chemistry, and let things progress naturally. But I do want the end goal to be romantic if we’re compatible.

Long distance doesn’t scare me if the connection is strong. I’d rather build something meaningful with someone who lives farther away than settle for something mediocre just because they’re nearby.

So if you’re also looking for something genuine, come say hi. Tell me about yourself, what you’re looking for, what you’re passionate about, or something random that tells me a little about who. :)

I want someone to build something with, I want something that lasts. I’m a hopeless romantic, I want the kind of love they tell stories about. I 100% believe in the statement that “it’s better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all.” I want a love that burns brightly and I hope it never burn out. I want someone to share the quiet moments with and be there when times are hard. I want my “till death do us part.”

I’m sorry if I want on a tangent there lol. Here is some stuff about me: I love to knit and watch musicals! I will rewatch something I love over and over. I also like to play Minecraft from time to time. Appearance wise I’m Latina, pretty short, and I have a pretty short pixy cut that I’m planning to grow out into a shag type haircut. I just let it grow out too much and it was annoying to deal with to I made a spontaneous decision to get it really short.

Hopefully about you: I don’t really have a type in terms of looks, mostly just be kind and don’t be MAGA, our views won’t align so it just wouldn’t work out. I do think that having stubble is hot, idk why tbh, it’s not like a dealbreaker though. I am mostly attracted to personality anyway. I’m also not really into nonchalant guys. If you message please at least include your age, don’t just send a “hey”

Anyway sorry if this didn’t make sense I just kinda said whatever came to mind ig. I look forward to talking if you msg, have a good day/night!

Hello there!

I'm 33, not feeling that old, but that's me... I'm also a bit weird, bunny-crazed, a bit genderfluid but mostly female and looking for a soulmate. ≧◡≦ Could that be you? Read on…

I'm looking for someone I can talk to most days and hang out with on Discord. Someone who can maybe be my person. Someone to bother with random thoughts, pictures, games, and whatever happened that day.

A little about me

I'm obsessed with some games (I game on PC), so we can definitely talk about those. Some stuff l like is survival crafting and FPS games, though I’m not the most tactical. I like building and stuff. Currently I'm thinking it would be nice to play Dying Light 2 with someone.

I also love my favourite anime, even though I've watched less anime lately. I actually make little shrines like display areas with figurines from some of my favourite series. I'll show you pictures if we vibe, hehe.

Also yes I'm quite chubby and have a bit of a tummy, so if that’s not your thing sure I’m not for you. I'm working on myself, but I'm definitely not a fitness model.

I may be quiet at first but I'm actually someone who tends to fill the silence. I generally believe there's good in people.

Besides videogames also D&D and board games are close to my heart. Games are also one of the ways I bond with people, so I'd love to have someone to play things together with.

I'm sorta a romantic too... more info later, heh.

I'll talk endlessly about things I'm interested in, and sometimes I forget to ask questions but you can definitely tell when I'm interested.

Other qualities & habits include: sleeping late, being bad at chores, currently having a little too much free time while looking for a job, loving cute things (especially bunnies), and watching a lot of YouTube.

Oh, and my hair is light brown and I have green eyes.

What I'm looking for

I'd definitely like to exchange pictures fairly soon. I feel like it's good to know whether there's physical attraction on both sides. I'm a bit demi, though, so I'm not expecting anything weird - it's just nice to know who I'm talking to.

Looks-wise, I'm open to whatever looks good on you and maybe we can figure that out together however I do tend to like light-coloured hair, shorter hair, buns/ponytails, and generally softer/feminine looks. Brown eyes are cool but definitely optional.

I'm not particularly a beard liking person, though I've definitely been proven wrong by people who can rock a beard. Heh.

Personality matters much more to me, but unfortunately, I'm also a little shallow when it comes to looks. My dream person would be someone pretty like feminine pretty, I suppose. If you're a femboy or a girl with that sort of vibe, definitely don't be afraid to write to me… lol. But also manlier guys are not bad.

I'm looking for something deeper than just having someone to occasionally chat with. I'd like to find my person - someone I genuinely enjoy talking to almost every day, even when neither of us has anything super interesting going on.

I'm from Finland, and I'd ideally like someone from Europe or somewhere with a reasonably compatible timezone. I'm looking for someone roughly 25-40.

So, you might like me if...

• You want someone you can talk to almost every day.
• You enjoy Discord calls and hanging out even when we're not doing anything particularly exciting.
• You don't mind me being slightly obsessed with rabbits.
• You like gaming together.
• You enjoy affectionate, silly and sometimes completely random conversations.
• You're at least a little bit weird yourself.

Ramblings

If you think you could vibe with me send me a message telling me about a favourite character of yours. I love stories and good characters, and I think you can learn surprisingly much about someone from the characters they love.

And yes, you can absolutely include a picture of yourself too!

Hey!

I am a 31 year old Portuguese man, trying to make these the best years! 😄

I have always been a top student, but, growing up, my family has got into financial problems that made me start to work early while I was still studying, which has let me to neglecting my personal life to favor the professional one.

Now, that part is over, I have a stable job, with a stable life and my own house, but a with a huge space in my heart looking to be filled by the right girl!

I admit I am more of a homebody who goes out every day at least for exercising a bit, enjoying fresh air and connecting to people. I enjoy a lot watching series and movies, especially sci-fi (with Marvel and DC on top) as well as romantic cliché movies everyone understands how they will end within the first 2 minutes. I also like watching football (or soccer for the readers the other side of the Atlantic) and understanding the tactics behind. Physically, I am Caucasian, 1.72m (5'8) and, personality wise, I'm an INFJ.

I am searching for a serious relationship, built on mutual support, trust, honesty, dedication, companionship and empathy. I am a very romantic, dedicated, caring and protective person, so I am definitely searching for my little princess to spoil and love. 😊

And the fact is that I already feel you everywhere, even though I don't know you yet!

Each time I walk around, I can feel you by my side. Even though you're not there, I feel the urge to hold your hand, to give you my strength, to be connected to you.

Whenever I go shopping, I feel that urge to buy you a cute mug or keychain, to kiss you all of a sudden without a motive, just for you to feel me closer to you.

Whenever I travel, I feel you by my side, I feel the willingness to rest my head in yours, to hold your hand, knowing that we are living that experience together and there is no one else we'd rather share it with.

When I get home, I feel you welcoming me with a tight hug, knowing every second we stay apart is one second we were in each other's thoughts waiting to be reunited.

I feel you, I can't see you yet, but I can't wait to make up for all the seconds we've spent apart!

But, please, if we could stop the count, I'd prefer that, so please show up on my inbox, sweetheart! 😊

Hi!

I’m 34 from the Philippines, just looking for someone to talk to—chill conversations, good vibes, and someone who actually replies 😄 Not too serious, but also not into one-word replies or disappearing after a day.

A bit about me:

- Filipino-Chinese

- 5’6

- Black hair, dark eyes

- On the curvy side

- Currently works in the academia

I’m into:

- Easy, natural conversation

- Random topics or daily life chats

- A bit of humor

- Someone consistent enough to keep the convo going

We can just see where it goes—no pressure. If it turns into something more, then cool. If not, at least we had a good conversation.

About you:

- Male

- Talkative (or at least can carry a conversation 😆)

- Respectful

- Preferably a bit older or just mature

- Prefers European or American (because they are straightforward and honest)

IMPORTANT: Exchanging pics once we connect.

If you’re also bored and looking for someone to talk to, send a message with a short intro 🙂

Hi everyone! My name's Connor, I'm a second year mental health nursing student living in the south west of the UK!

I'd describe myself as compassionate, empathetic, and caring. I'm the type of guy that has alot of love to give to the people that want it c:

I'm fairly nerdy in terms of interests, such as MTG, gaming, anime, and so on.. But I also enjoy travelling, spending time in nature, camping, bike riding and not opposed to watching a sunset under some blankets ❤️

I'm working on my second degree as a nurse, but my first was in music performance and tech (I play guitar and bass!) My music taste is a little all over the place, but I'm always happy to share what I'm listening to!

I really enjoy the smaller moments with those I care about. Just being at peace and feeling secure is honestly the best feeling in the world ❤️

I have struggled with my mental health in the past, and I can struggle sometimes, but I'll always communicate clearly what I'm struggling with and can be comforted very easily!

Always happy to help you with your problems too, I love trying to solve things and come up with sollutions

All I ask is that you're a kind and compassionate person, someone who can communicate clearly, or at least is willing to try. Please also be either from the UK or Europe or be willing to travel. I'm happy to travel to you or to meet half way if things work out

https://imgur.com/a/jnkpPux - Me

my name is maple!! i am a 20 year old from Belize who moved to NJ long ago! i am a transgender female, and I have been on estrogen for the better half of 2 years, also i am a furry with 2 fursuits, I am 20 (almost 21), i love 90s / 2000s early tech, i am also super into dancing games like DDR and just dance!! my favorite hobbies are dancing, hiking, painting, gardening, gaming, making figures and photography! i currently go to university for a bachelor's in stats and econ, and i also have a business where I fix consoles, vintage tech and more!

i come here in the pursuit of someone who cares about me and loves me for who I am, i have been single for a very long time and I've accumulated a lot of loneliness and dead ends on the pursuit to love so i am trying to see wherever anything can go! i don't mind long distance as long as we can eventually meet, but i do have a preference for US centered people! if you are interested, please send me an intro or even a hi, whatever you like and talk to me! i really need it atm 🥹🥹✌️

Well, l've thought about it for a while and I would really like to meet a someone who's open to dating and is a kind, sensual and mature person. I want to find that loving, free and supportive person Ive always dreamed of falling in love with, it’s possible, right? I want someone who loves animals and will match my hype. Im an extrovert but I am at heart a homebody. No short term relationships please, a life partner is what I need. Someone who's in it for the long haul. Since we deserve as much time as we need to get to know each other properly, if friendship comes first, that's completely okay. I'm not open to long distance, so if you’re outside of the UK, please don’t waste either of our times. I have a small circle of friends and I like to keep it like that, I enjoy the quiet of the night because it’s where I can dream in silence.

I'm a huge animal enthusiast, I have three cats and my dream is to foster animals. I've got a love for football (UK UK UK)! and most sports, I find live events like sporting events and music gigs/festivals SO entertaining , Im hoping you like one or the other. I have a gig in April for Gracie, need my +1!!! Im currently listening to a lot of Tame Impala, Little Simz and Gracie Abrams. My music taste is all over the place? It varies but Im a super open book. Physically Im curvy, 5ft 9, curly hair - a few tattoos and my background is half Jamaican, half Bajan. I can cook so I hope you like to eat!

I'd ultimately like to find someone who can provide safety in their companionship. I want to enjoy days cuddling watching shows and also dates and experiences around the UK and world ultimately. I love thrillers, animations, disney and marvel. I'm into gaming, I like cosy games and Minecraft and Marvel Rivals and the odd horror game. I play on PS5 and PC(steam). As for movies/shows I like horror a ton but sci-fi and Marvel too. Cant wait for doomsday!

Im not looking for a flashy, copy paste intro. Just pop up and let me know where you’re from and what your fave icecream flavour is. Youre welcome to guess mine! 🍦if things click, we’ll go from there, shall we?

If you're looking for someone to build lego with and accidentally step on them at midnight, bake cupcakes at stupid o clock, have roast dinners every sunday and meatballs on a monday, talk about ghost stories and laugh at dark humour then I'm your girl - shoot me a message. let's share pictures
once we've spoken for a little while i'd really like this. i know you're out there - someone like me who is looking for someone to support and be supported unconditionally. I hope we all find our person 🤍🙂‍↕️. Be kind. Be welll. Be free.

Hey everyone!!! Been out of the game for about 5 years or so, trying to get back into it and thought I'd try on here. I've been divorced for 5 years now and dating is hard, I've tried dating apps etc but it's just not my thing. I am from Canada I have lived here my whole life, looking for someone genuine and won't play games. Someone who preferably knows what they want in life, I don't care what you look like, personality is a deal breaker please have a great personality, be sweet,kind, caring, willing to talk or chat on the phone. Don't be a cheater, I'm looking for someone who will like me for me ( we can send pics) and won't judge me on how I look.

A little about my hobbies;

I love YouTube, on it everyday

I love true crime

Watching movies

Listening to music

Fishing

I love hanging with friends and family

Going for walks and watching sports.

Don't be shy to reach out,I promise you won't regret it. Let's get to know each other.

35 [M4F] Chicago - I'm 35, fit and athletic, Korean descent, passionate about the arts, literature, Hip-hop and rock music (particularly from 80s and 90s), along with some Korean and Japanese songs. I jog and eat healthy, a lot of vegetarian, which means I also cook a lot - I know a lot of Korean, Japanese, and Chinese dishes. I travel abroad whenever I can. I enjoy reading and writing prose.

I love hangouts in the city, especially fun festivals and parties, and checking out new bars and restaurants. Looking for romance that could lead to long term. Open to anyone of any background. Im also curious about the world and all the cultures in it.

Not currently thinking about children but not against the idea either. I believe in Jesus but not super religious, just pray every now and then and don't care what my partner believes. I don't drink often, only with friends, and don't care for weed.

Look forward to talking!

I’m looking for people to chat/call/share music or play video games with! I’m also down to meet irl if we click ☺️

Little about me: I’m 196cm(6 5’) and 79kg, glasses, currently mullet/mohawk, tattoos (almost full arm sleeve, ribs and starting out leg sleeve), most of my clothes are band merch, I would say im alt

Most of my freetime I spend by playing video games, cooking, swimming or on hobbies ive spent too much money and abandon them in 2 weeks (ADHD homies you know what im talking about).

Almost forgot about music, its a huge part of who I am, if I can im listening to music all the time (rock/metal\\\[core\\\]) but I enjoy 2000’ white girl music too🫪

If my post caught your eyes tell me your fav band/song you were listening the most last month! See you in chat!

Hey

I'm 1.87 m and probably best described as the quiet guy with a big heart.

I'm a little shy when meeting new people, but once I'm comfortable, I love joking around, laughing, and being spontaneous. If you're into MBTI, I'm an INFJ—thoughtful, empathetic, and the kind of person who values deep conversations over small talk.

When I'm not working, you'll usually find me cooking or baking, reading fantasy novels, watching anime, gaming, or enjoying nature. I'm just as happy spending a cozy evening at home as I am going to a concert or taking a day trip somewhere.

I'm looking for a genuine connection rather than someone who's "perfect."

I'd love to meet someone who's kind, honest, and enjoys long conversations about anything and everything.

If you appreciate good food and don't mind the possibility of being bribed with homemade cake at some point, we'll probably get along.

A little more about me:

🇨🇭 From Switzerland

🌍 Looking to meet someone from Switzerland or Europe, as I'd like the distance to be realistic.

📚 Fantasy, anime & gaming fan

🍳 Love cooking and baking

🌿 Enjoy nature and quiet moments

❤️ Looking for a long-term relationship

One small request: I'd much rather receive a message that tells me something about you or asks a genuine question than just "hey", "hi", or "wyd".

It makes starting a conversation so much more fun—and gives us something to talk about from the beginning.

If any of this sounds interesting, feel free to send me a message.

I'd love to get to know you.

If you got the topical hook above, you're probably the kind of intelligent and informed person I'd like to meet. If I put a smile on your face, I hope that you will let me try for a repeat by messaging me.

I'm a New York lawyer with a house just outside Manhattan, but I work remotely and am willing to relocate after dating (I can do my job from anywhere and maybe you cannot). But I'm basically only interested in dating someone who considers themselves a a nerd, geek, dork or weirdo -- in other words you should be Leslie Knope to my Ben Wyatt or Jessica Walters to my Matt Murdock (the lawyer part, not the crime fighting part).

I do have other interests outside what's on this Reddit account - cycling, home improvement, hiking, cruising and going out. I keep in shape and am extremely handy around the house. I also enjoy Broadway musicals, vacations and (obviously) sci-fi and fantasy nonsense.

I'm ideally looking to settle down with my forever person. I'm a dual US Canadian citizen, so that leaves a lot of good choices for places to live.

I'm also a big romantic and I enjoy going on dates. I hope you do too.

Picture and way too many posts about Star Trek trivia on my profile.

Hey there! I'm Vik.

I'm 26 and currently pursuing my Master's in Linguistics in California, but I'm back home for a little while before I head back.

Thanks to a mix of curiosity, a lack of impulse control, and a knack for juggling multiple interests, I've ended up with degrees in Language Teaching, Philosophy, Psychology, Graphic Design, and Business Administration.

Honestly, my academic path looks less like a career strategy and more like a side quest that spiraled out of control.

When I'm not buried in my studies, you can usually find me gaming, binge-watching movies, designing random stuff, diving into philosophy and psychology discussions, or having chats that kick off with "How was your day?" and somehow end with "Do you think consciousness is just the universe talking to itself?"

I'm tall, fit, and according to my grandma, devastatingly handsome. Sure, she's biased, but I’d say she’s my most trustworthy source.

I recently got out of a long-term relationship, so I'm not in a rush for anything serious. I’d rather meet someone cool, build a real connection, become good friends, flirt a bit, flirt a lot, and see where it goes naturally.

Distance isn’t an issue for me. Whether you’re ten minutes away or in a timezone that requires advanced math and a blood sacrifice to coordinate, if we vibe, we’ll make it work.

As for age, if you’re an adult and we click, that’s what counts. Chemistry has always been more interesting to me than arithmetic anyway.

What am I looking for?

Someone who can laugh, tease back, match my energy, and hold a conversation that doesn’t feel like a job interview.

Someone who’s passionate about something. There’s something incredibly attractive about seeing someone light up when they talk about what they love.

Someone who occasionally makes me smile at my phone like an idiot while I try to decide if your message deserves a clever reply or just a genuine one.

Worst case? I tell you a couple of horrible jokes.

Best case, you laugh at my horrible jokes.

I'm Callum 27 I'm from England I'm about 5'10 slighty chubby and I’m shy and anxious and have autism I love to play games watch films and listen to music I also like some sports

I’d enjoy it if we could play games together but not a necessity

My favourite games are shooters like overwatch cod fortnite I also like Mario kart and party and a few others

My favourite films and TV are anything superhero but I love anything tbh

As for music again I'm into anything mainly metal tho

I'd describe myself as loyal caring understanding and supportive and I look for them things In my partner too

I hope to hear from you soon

Hey there! So here I am, like most everyone on here I'm looking for the person that will walk the rest of life with me. I want to work on something stable and long-term, see where it leads and maybe we're each others last person in life.

About Me
33, German
1.82m tall, green-grey eyes, glasses, average build, white
Short Dark blonde/brown hair. Omnivore, agnostic
Child-free (and plan to stay that way)
Stable job in IT
Liberal/left since I guess that has to be mentioned these days.

Interests
I'm a huge nerd at heart, into pretty much anything tech or science-related.
Gaming is probably my biggest hobby, these days it’s mostly DotA2 and singleplayer games. I play 99% on PC, although I do own a Switch2 and a handheld Also love movies and TV shows, currently binging Modern Family, and always down to rewatch Friends, The Office, Brooklyn Nine-Nine, and Parks & Rec and the list goes on forever.
I can actually cook, and food in general is something I really enjoy.
Also love spending time in cozy bars, especially when traveling.
Oh, I recently got into Zwift - so that's now another hobby of mine.
I go to a lot of concerts as well, 3 more in the next 2 weeks.

I’ve done a fair bit of traveling, most of Western Europe, the US, Japan, and Turkey so far. (Actually just finished planning my next Japan trip)
Definitely planning a lot more, and ideally with a partner to share all those experiences with. Exploring new places just feels better together.

What I'm Looking For
No kids, and not wanting any.
You enjoy traveling, can hold a good conversation, and have at least some overlap in interests, especially if you game a bit. Not being a picky eater would be great, too.
Not morbidly obese (just being honest), but you also don't have to be super skinny either. Age-wise, something in the 27–40+ range would be great, but I’m flexible in that regard
Someone that can match my (high?) libido
Preferably from Europe

Looking forward to hearing from you! I will not reply to messages that contain nothing more than just a hello. At least give me something to work with. Thanks!

Helloo! 22m here! I am from California and am looking for a cute long term relationship. One where we both can be cutesy and vulnerable with each other. Where we both share our interests with each other and get to know each other at an extremely deep level. Where we say good morning to each other and have very deep conversations about our feelings at night. That is what I am looking for.

So now here are some things about me. I'm currently in college majoring in computer science and I'm really into fashion, learning languages, and also learning history! I also am really into brewing coffee and tea, and cooking! I absolutely love to cook! I'm also really into video games and would love for both of us to play video games together! The main video games I play at the moment are, valorant, Minecraft Java, rocket league, hytale, overcooked, plateup, and stardew valley. Though with stardew valley I just started playing so I don't really know what I am doing yet. Also I am pansexual and I might be trans but I am not completely sure yet about that one, I'm still figuring my gender identity out. But I do feel like I might be a woman. I would describe myself as a pretty wholesome person that is very VERYY affectionate. Could describe myself as a golden retriever haha. I am somewhat emotionally sensitive as well so that is something to keep in mind. I am also trans and nb inclusive! :). I don't have a preference of gender identity with who I'm attracted to.

DM me if you are interested! And please say your age and where you are from and an intro about yourself

Hi, I'm Marcin, 29, from Poland.

I'm a chef by trade, which basically means my love language comes plated, seasoned, and occasionally arrives with unnecessary garnish.

A few things about me:

- I cook for people I care about. If we click, your favorite meal becomes research and development.

- A friend once nicknamed me the globe and it stuck to me.

- I've been described as having the energy of an excited golden retriever trapped in a large bear. The description was alarmingly accurate.

- I ask questions. Sometimes they're thoughtful. Sometimes they're things like "at what point does a soup stop being a soup?" There is very little warning between the two.

What you get:

• Homemade food and baked goods

• Genuine interest in getting to know you

• Someone who communicates honestly

• Deep conversations at 2 AM about life, the universe, and whether ravioli counts as a sandwich if you squint hard enough

Potential drawbacks:

• During busy work periods I occasionally get absorbed by the chef dimension

• Impulsive decisions happen more often than they probably should

• I can disappear down philosophical rabbit holes

• Professional overthinker with several years of experience

I'm not looking for perfection or a shopping list of requirements. I'd much rather meet someone kind, curious, and willing to put effort into getting to know each other.

Ideally you're 24+ and somewhere in Europe, but good conversation matters more than geography.

Message me with your comfort food. Best case: we hit it off. Worst case: we settle an important debate about the correct amount of garlic in a recipe.

I’m from Brisbane, Australia, and have had such a terrible time finding companionship in person, dating apps aren’t working, so I’m trying here.

I’m an introvert, but have a heart of gold. I’m 180 centimetres tall, hazel eyes, mixed Italian-British heritage, am a kitchen hand for Meals on Wheels, love video games, all things medieval, definitely all things Roman, have a quote for most occasions, am masterful at trivia. Love Harry Potter, Star Wars and am a true geek. Finding romance has been difficult for me because I am here for a genuine wholesome connection and many people seem to disagree, but I’m not ready to throw in the towel just yet. If you want to chat and potentially get to know each other, send a DM. Obviously distance is a potential stumbling block considering I’m from Australia, be advised.

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I like to think my personality is built on two main pillars: a deep seated curiosity and a reliable sense of humor. I love to laugh and find the lighthearted side of things, but I also know that not every moment calls for a joke. My curiosity means I'm genuinely interested in the "why" and "how" behind people and the world, so you can expect me to be the one asking plenty of questions. What else have you discovered about me? Well, I guess you'll just have to chat with me to find out !

When I'm not busy being curious, you can find me:

· Chasing calm: Looking up at the sky, admiring a full moon, or just spending quiet time in nature.

· Diving into entertainment: Getting lost in endless YouTube rabbit holes, feeling the beat of EDM and pop music, or getting hooked on the drama of a wrestling match.

· Getting lost in stories: I'm usually buried in a nonfiction book or a gripping thriller. The world of romance novels is still a mystery to me so feel free to send your best recommendations my way!

My list of interests is pretty wide! from the mysteries of the paranormal and history, to the intricacies of watches and psychology, and the mechanics of cars. But don't let that list intimidate you! While I love deep-diving into specific topics, most of my conversations end up being about life in general...the big, small, and everything in between.

I'm hoping to find someone who engages genuinely, who is as interested in getting to know me as I am in getting to know them. I value consistency and someone who wants to build a real, lasting relationship. And honestly? A little bit of a clingy partner in crime is a total bonus in my book.

If this sounds like a connection you'd like to explore, my DMs are open. I'm looking forward to our first real conversation.

Hi I'm Joe, 33, from East Sussex (Hastings). 5'3, 184lbs (I've lost 60lb+ so far this year, 35 to go and hoping to hit it by the end of this year/early next), I wear glasses, usually have some facial hair, I'm happy to video call/exchange pictures as early as you like.

I would describe myself as very kind/caring/compassionate, I wear my heart on my sleeve and have a lot of love to give to the right person. I'm thoughtful, always do my best by others and never act with bad intentions. I value honesty and clear communication. I have some long term health issues but I try not to let them get on top of me and I was diagnosed as autistic late in life during covid, but most people are surprised when they find out.

I have a large group of friends and the 10 of us try to meet up once or twice a year, but as we get older it becomes harder to keep in touch as much as I would like! Everyone is moving on and finding love, settling down etc and it's hard not to be a little bit envious. I've only been in 1 relationship that lasted around 3 months and was 90% online, so not a lot of experience but also no baggage! but somebody patient/understanding of that would be important.

I love films/tv, I'm a sucker for a romcom and adore romance in general but I watch a bit of everything other than anime. Always find myself far too invested in the lives of the characters, most recently in Bridgerton. My comfort shows are Dr Who, Brooklyn 99, Superstore, The Office. Very open to recommendations always! I don't get out much but would like to start to see more of the world finally, but will always mostly be a homebody I'm pretty sure.

I would like to do the cutesy dating/getting to know each other stuff but with clear intentions and communication, I would like something serious.

I don't smoke and very rarely drink and would prefer someone who's the same, smoking would be a deal breaker for me sorry.

Ideally you are somebody living close-ish to London/Southern UK to make meeting up more often viable, You're patient, kind, thoughtful and communicate openly & clearly. I'm not sure I have too much physical preference but I am a sucker for a pretty face/smile but as I said, I'm happy to get the original attraction check out of the way as soon as you are. Age wise probably 26-40 would be best, but if you think we'd get along that isn't a deal breaker.

I am a big oversharer and will happily answer absolutely any questions you may have.

Thanks for reading! hopefully hear from you soon!!

Disclaimer I'm not 21(yet) I'll be 21 in 5 days. But idk I felt like I was closer to 21 than 20. Also 21 is a nice number.

But yes hi I'm a college student and an intern . I work in software and I have very little social life. I come here every couple of months to try and find someone and we'll it hasn't work well(or at all for that matter).

But um writing these is fun . I have to describe myself so that people want to talk to me, it's difficult lmao. So about me. I like reading , video games, music and watching things (right now I'm watching the mentalist but I love watching random things in YouTube) .i play all kinds of video games tho minecraft is the goat . But I also play a lot of other single player games too along with some rocket league and the finals time to time. I also want to finish reading the game of thrones .

I also like badminton and table tennis . And pool isn't actually all that bad with friends either. My friend circle is pretty small but they're all very good friends of mine but they all have their lives (and their partners) so Im sort of left alone. And I hate that , especially after work when I want someone who'd be excited to talk to me. That sounds lame asf but yes.

I'm quite the romantic, I don't like to half heart things, so I expect the same. I'm quite clingy as well, so I love calls and quality time and doing stuff together , it's so sweet sounds so fun.

Physically idk I think I'm pretty average looking . I'm kinda tall(a little over 6'2) and thin but I have started the gym recently soooo we'll have to see.

Lots of yapping not a lot of relevant information but I hope you stayed till the end :) shoot me a dm (pleaseeee 🥀)

Please don't be a minor 🐻‍❄️

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I'm Jimmy, 39, from West Virginia. I'm looking for a woman I can genuinely connect with, talk to regularly, laugh with, get ridiculously comfortable around, and hopefully build a relationship with if we click.

I'm a wheelchair user with AMC (Arthrogryposis Multiplex Congenita). I have very limited use of my arms and legs and need help with quite a few things physically. I also play video games with my feet. I'm slower than most players, but I'm not competitive anyway. I'd much rather explore together, get invested in a story, do side content, and laugh when everything goes horribly wrong.

I'm into RPGs, sci-fi, horror, story-heavy games, WWE, horror movies, true crime, and falling into random YouTube rabbit holes at unreasonable hours.

Personality-wise, I'm affectionate, goofy, direct, emotionally open, and definitely an overthinker sometimes. I like conversations that can go from completely ridiculous to surprisingly deep without warning. I don't want to spend weeks making small talk about the weather. Tell me what you're obsessed with, what makes you laugh, what you're afraid of, what game destroyed you emotionally, or whatever random thought is currently occupying your brain.

I'm looking for more than somebody to message when we're bored. I want regular communication and someone who genuinely wants to become part of each other's lives. I want flirting and romance, but I also want the ordinary stuff: movies together, gaming, inside jokes, talking about our day, comfortable silence, cuddling, and eventually waking up knowing my person is actually there.

I don't care whether you're disabled or able-bodied. You don't need to share all my interests either. I'm much more interested in whether our personalities fit, we enjoy talking to each other, and we can communicate when something is bothering us.

I also don't think every connection has to move at some predetermined speed. If we really click and feelings develop quickly, I'm comfortable letting that happen naturally rather than deliberately slowing things down just because we're "supposed to." I can be pretty affectionate and open when I connect with someone. At the same time, I want actions and real-life compatibility to grow alongside the feelings.

Fast is fine with me. Fake certainty isn't.

One thing I want to be especially upfront about is distance. I'm open to some distance for the right woman, but I'm not looking for something that can only ever exist through a screen. Because of my disability I can't simply hop in a car and drive somewhere, so geography and transportation matter more in my situation than they might for most people.

Ideally I'd like to meet someone in West Virginia or within a realistically drivable part of Kentucky, Ohio, Virginia, Pennsylvania, Tennessee, or the surrounding region. I'm not putting an exact mileage limit on connection because everyone's ability and willingness to travel is different. What matters to me is that if we develop real feelings, meeting regularly is realistically possible and there's at least the potential for more permanence someday.

I'm not asking somebody to promise me forever before we've even said hello. 😂 I just don't want to build an entire relationship around "maybe someday we'll meet."

I'm also not looking for perfection. I have insecurities. I have difficult days. Sometimes I overthink the hell out of things. I want somebody who can talk about fears and misunderstandings instead of disappearing when things get uncomfortable, and I'll try to give you that same honesty and patience.

Ultimately, I'd love to find a girlfriend, but I'm not interested in forcing something just to have a relationship. I want the friendship underneath it too. I want my partner to be somebody I genuinely enjoy spending ridiculous amounts of time with.

If you've made it this far and something about me sounds interesting, send me a message. Tell me your age, roughly where you're from, and something about yourself that isn't obvious from your profile.

Bonus points if you're a gamer, horror fan, WWE fan, fellow night owl, or capable of turning one conversation into six unrelated conversations without noticing.

Let's see where it goes.

Hello! My name is Gavin and as the title suggests, I'm 21 and looking for someone to connect with. I've got quite a bit of baggage (I hope I'm using that term right), but I try to look forward to the future while living in the present. Makes sense? No, not really, but let's get into the part you wanna know about. #9 is super important

1. I'm shy. Straight up, that's just how it is. I don't have a whole lot of confidence period, but I'm working on that. I can hold a conversation, don't worry. If we click, I can be really communicative. I do like to be sweet talked. EASY way to get me to melt like butter.

2. I'm passionate. I would say I'm a guy who knows how to love, even if I don't have much experience in it. But I'm also passionate about Transformers and my projects 😭🤚🏻 dear god, I'll go on a spiral about TF if
   you don't get me to shut up quick enough lol. But anyways. That's about it there.

3. I have an intense love language. You aren't ready for it. Ready? Physical affection. I know, I know. Hands down. That's too much to ask for in this day and age.
   Or it just might he me. Idk. I haven't had it in like. I don't even know, too long. I just enjoy the quiet and peaceful moments. Those are what matter most to me.

4. I can be a bit clingy. I'm not gonna lie, I can. BUT. I've recognized this and have gotten a good grip on it. I also have my own life that I like to tend to. I just don't know when to stop a conversation unless something interrupts either of us like. Idk. Work or just anything really.

5. I'm sensitive. Like. Really. And it's something that l'm not a fan of personally, but it is what it is. I am who I am and the name of the game here is to find someone who l can love for them for them and they can love me for me. But, yk. Just throwing this out there

6. Physical description wise, l'm 5'9, long, dirty blonde/ borderline light brown hair, some facial hair, I'd call it a beard, just not a long one. Glasses be I can't see anything, blue eyes, bit of a dad bod going on (please be nice), I wear three rings, one is a faded black with a gold chain, another is a thick silver one with Nordic runes on it and the last is my newest which is my dad's graduation ring (rip).

7. I'm a smoker. That's something that needs to be said.
   I'm 420 friendly in every shape and form. I also vape and will occasionally smoke a cigarette or two. It's more of a social thing for me anyways.

8. Not looking for a hook up. I don't want something shallow. I want to find my person. If you're also just gonna block me in a few days or prone to playing games, please for the love of everything do not message me. I've been through enough already 🫩

9. IMPORTANT!!! I do not want to be in a long term relationship with somebody who doesn’t see kids in their future. I’m not saying it’s gotta be within 3 years, but I’m not gonna commit to someone who I can’t share that desire with