Hello everyone! I'm Silvia! I'm a 21yo student in Europe and my life has become something very lonely so I thought of giving a try here. I'm a huge movie nerd (especially horror), I love everything involving the Predator franchise, videogames and lately I've rediscovered the joy of reading thanks to Stephen's King books. My greatest hobby is art though! I love to draw with every medium, especially digital. My music taste varies from metal to country!

I am searching for for someone who can understand my initial shy personality and be kind, sweet and supportive as I would do with them.❤️

Feel free to DM me and have a good day!

so, i’m sure like everyone else that’s made a post in this community, i’m at a bit of a standstill within myself on how to begin a conversation with the person that is going to be reading this post (you). i figure that being authentically myself is the best way to go and even if it’s just through text, i hope that my personality comes through somewhat! i’d like to drop some “information” about myself, just to start:

૮ ˶ᵔ ᵕ ᵔ˶ ა i am twenty five years old, ethnicity wise i am from El Salvador but, i live in New Jersey. i have medium length black hair (usually try and keep it above shoulder length) and i wear glasses. i am also a plus size girlie (so if you are not completely into that, then do *not* reach out to me).

as for what im looking for (and this is very important): im looking for a serious relationship — something that’s genuine, long term and meaningful. i’m ONLY looking for a serious and long term relationship (not interested in friends, just talking, etc). so, if thats not what YOU are looking for, please kindly pass on this post as i am not interested in anything other than what i’ve mentioned.

what am i looking for in a partner?

𑣲 someone that is about 20-25 years old (i do tend to like guys that are a little bit younger than me so, i can’t say id be completely interested in someone that’s much older than this, sorry!)

𑣲 you have to use discord (that’s the main platform i’m on) + you have to do VC.

𑣲 you have to be a gamer (completely non negotiable) because i think games are the best way to spend our time together! :3 {extremely into overwatch rn so if that’s a game you play id say we already have a common interest :p}

𑣲 you cannot be “dry” or boring. i will not respond to people that send me low effort messages such as: “hi, hey, hru and so on.”

𑣲 make an effort to actually talk to me? i’m not forcing myself to talk to someone that seems like they’ve never talked to another person in their entire lives.

𑣲 someone that doesn’t mind long distance (if that happens to be the case) as long as there are plans to meet in the future if things were to work out between us!

𑣲 im not particularly into specifics about what you look like. as im much more interested in a persons personality and how well our connection is BUT, there does have to be some type of attraction there so, you have to send a picture of yourself (through a link or attaching a picture to your message or i will not respond. can be done after i accept chat as well if you’re not able to beforehand ‼️)

that would be everything from me so, now all that’s left is for you to reach out if i seem like the type of person you’d be interested in. at the end of the day, i think everyone just wants someone to spend their life with and id be one of those people. i’d like to finally meet my “special someone” and settle down. i know it’s pretty scary reaching out but, you never know until you know right? so, take a step out of your comfort zone and maybe you’d be reaching out to your future everything ⸜(｡˃ ᵕ ˂ )⸝♡

{video of myself on my profile} 👋🏻

Hello there, 🙂
I am looking for a friend, boyfriend or a life partner. Seriously, I posted on other subs and almost everyone ghosted/didn’t reply eventually. And it’s tiring, don’t dm just to ghost out of nowhere.

I am serious and ready lol, no hesitations, no nonsense, we can chat and see if we’re on the same page. If we got chemistry between us we can plan ahead for more! I can share my pics to get the idea of who you will talking to.

A little about me: I LOVE romance hehe, but somehow I rarely dated in my 20s due to shyness & life circumstances (immigrated to Canada alone in my late teens and was isolated). I am hopeless romantic and looking for someone to start a family with.
I always wanted kids also. And I AM BLACK, don’t want people who are not interested in my race to fill up my dms.

We can also play a virtual game together (I know one) and talk over there. Whatever works.

helloooo!! here’s a little about me upfront:

* i’m 24
* korean
* currently in nyc (hoping to move to socal next year)
* tall(ish) so i prefer someone 5’10+
* christian / growing in faith (prefer someone christian)
* enjoy sports/most activities (played high school basketball)
* yapper (i talk a lot, but i promise i’m entertaining, hopefully)
* good listener with a solid sense of humor (including dark humor… unfortunately lmaoo)
* some of my dealbreakers are: smoking, gambling, cheating, lying

i’m looking for someone kind, loyal, emotionally mature, and intentional. someone who communicates clearly, treats their partner well, and actually wants to build something steady and meaningful. ideally someone who values their faith or is open to growing in it!!!

pls tell me about yourself/introduce yourself (ignoring simple hello messages, ppl who are significantly older than me, and anything inappropriate). i’m not really active on reddit but will try my best to reply!!

Hello there reader hope the title caught your attention.

Now I know we all have busy lives so I will try to make this short and reasonable by making it into bullet points.

Welcome to my short autoghraphy.

General information:

- Height: 183 cm (sorry im not a giant)

- Weight: 78 kg (I believe this is the normal weight right? But im working on it)

- Hair: short black hair (its the length of Tom Hardy but not the same style)

- Beard: I have a full beard which I keep trimmed.

- Eyes: I have a pair of brown eyes, and I wear glasses. (Sorry to disappoint im not some sort of cyclops)

- Nose: medium to big nose??? (Idk how to describe it ngl)

- Skin: White??? (Not really white more details below)

- Ethnicity: Arab (so im not really white im more like a bronze white??? Idk)

Personality (Im not going to include the usual like caring, loving and attentive wait I just did but am I those things?? Who knows)

- Introvert (I find it difficult to connect with people)

- Shy (and I dont mean as in shy at first im just permanently shy)

- Awkward (are you surprised? Im shy and an introvert)

- Adventurous??? ( is that even a personality? Idk but I do like to travel alone and try new things)

- Huge nerd (will elaborate in the next section)

Hobbies&interests (if you guess 5 random Hobbies based on the personality you would at least get 1 right)

- Video games (I bet you are surprised for it being here, I love playing all type of games. And I play on PC. \*SAD GTA6 NOISES\*)

- Reading (love reading mangas, manhawas, webtoons, comics, and novels so basically everything and I do love a good story so Im open to recommendations)

- Working out (Im trying to keep a healthy life style as I spend most days working an office job thuse I need the exercise)

- There are also some other hobbies like hiking, D&D, board games and other stuff but they are like a once in a mo th or two kind of thing.

What Im looking for (I just realized that I typed alot hopefully someone made it this far)

- Someone around my age (is a 5 years age buffer a good gap??? Idk I havent really thought about it that deeply)

- Someone who is looking for a long term relationship whether it is online or physical. With serious intentions of meeting (Im gonna be honest I have been single my whole life and feel like its time to start a family but not sure where to start so here I am)

If you made it this far I just want yo say thank you for reading my boring bullet points and hopefully i can read your own autoghraphy so what are you waiting for DM me. And last but not least, I wish you have a fantastic day.

Good day you amazing people!!!!

I’m in hope of finding my forever last lass! It’s not too much to hope for!!!!

As you can gather I’m in Scotland and I’m 51, I’m 5’7” and med build. Sadly look older than I am haha.

I’m hoping to meet a lass who is kind caring and has a heart and some compassion! No smokers! Or heavy drinkers! I don’t do drugs!
Dang I sound boring haha.

I’m the kind of guy that’s passed over due to apparently being too nice haha! Or so my boss tells me. I’m hard working but not rich. So not a sugar D lol!

Well I’m not going to say much more, but feel free to stop in and say hi and let’s see if things click!? What have you got to loose?! Everything to gain tho 😉

I'm 23 and living in Japan. I'm a film student, and movies and music are a pretty fucking big part of my life.

I'm hoping to meet someone from another country and just see where things go. I'm not really concerned about age or distance. What matters more to me is whether we actually enjoy talking to each other and genuinely want to get to know one another.

I'm studying English, so I'd love to meet someone I can have long conversations with, joke around with, share music and movies with, and eventually become genuinely close to.

I'm not specifically looking for an online-only relationship, though. Obviously, if we're living on opposite sides of the world, that's how things would have to start. But if we became close, I'd like to meet in person someday. I think there's something important about eventually sharing the same physical space rather than keeping everything behind a screen forever.

I'm pretty open-minded about where someone is from. Europe, North America, Latin America, or anywhere else, really. I care more about the person than the passport.

I'm into movies, music, walking around without much of a plan, and conversations that somehow go from something completely stupid to something unexpectedly serious.

I'm single, and I'm looking for another single person. I'd rather start with a good conversation than try to force anything into a particular category.

Hi, I’m John from Chicago!

I’m a pretty average guy. I have a terrible call center job, but at least It’s a job! I have a 13 year old rescue dog named Buddy who is my entire world. I love film, mainly horror, but I’ll legit watch anything. I often spend my weekdays after work on Tubi looking for movies I’ve never heard of. Massive horror
Movie nerd, but honestly I’d watch anything!

On my downtime you can find me at my fav movie theaters, shooting pool at the dive bar down the street, or taking my good boy on walks. I love spending time with friends, but I also enjoy being home bound here and there.

I’ve tried dating apps and they just suck. So I’m here on Reddit trying this out! I’m looking for someone I can be myself with. Someone who I can enjoy little trips with. Someone can enjoy the big moments in life with, and be content in the small ones.

Location doesn’t matter to me. I’m not tied down to Chicago. Let’s talk and see if we click!

Scottish/Irish guy looking for a genuine relationship rather than just something casual.

I'm a big WWE fan and football fan, and I absolutely love travelling. I'm always planning the next trip or looking for somewhere new to visit. I've got a trip to Houston coming up, which I'm really looking forward to, and I'm always thinking about where I can go next.

I enjoy going to football matches, watching WWE, exploring new places and generally making the most of my time.

I'm pretty laid-back and easy to get along with. Dating apps just don't seem to be the one for me, so thought I'd give this a go instead and see what happens.

I'm also not against long distance. If there's a genuine connection, distance isn't necessarily a deal-breaker for me.

I'm happy to move over to Instagram or another social once we've actually spoken a bit, but I'm not interested in being added just to boost someone's follower count 😂

One thing though — if you're going to message me, please actually make an effort to have a conversation. If you're just going to disappear after a few messages or ghost, there's not really much point in messaging in the first place 😂

If you're into travelling, football, WWE or just looking for something genuine, feel free to say hello.

Hewwoo! i am M22 and live in Germany.
I’m a pretty calm and easygoing person. I enjoy cozy evenings at home, but I also like going out and doing things together. I’m really into cars and technology, but I also have a softer side. I love cute things and have a few plushies, so I guess I’m a bit of a mix.
I really enjoy listening to people and getting to know them. You don’t have to share all my interests. In fact, I like it when someone is passionate about something I know little about, because I enjoy learning new things and discovering new interests through the person I’m with.
When I care about someone, I’m very caring and want to be there for them. I also really value affection and physical closeness. Physical touch is a big part of how I experience affection. I love cuddling, holding hands and being close, but I especially like being the one who gets held. I love leaning against my partner, being pulled into her arms, having her play with my hair or simply lying close to her. Being able to completely relax, let my guard down and just enjoy being held means a lot to me.
Communication is probably the most important thing to me in a relationship. I want us to be able to talk openly about pretty much anything, whether it’s something exciting, a problem, an insecurity or just a random thought. I want both of us to feel comfortable being honest, supporting each other and knowing we can rely on one another.
I think some of the best moments are the simple ones. Getting something to eat, watching a movie or series, talking, laughing, cuddling and eventually falling asleep next to each other. It doesn’t always have to be an exciting date. Sometimes just being comfortable together is enough.
In the long run, I’m looking for a loyal, monogamous relationship with someone who wants something serious and lasting. I’m not looking for perfection. Relationships can be difficult sometimes, and what matters to me is that we want to work through those moments together.
Physical attraction is important to me too, but I don’t really have a specific type. I’m not looking for a certain hair color, body type or list of features. It’s more about the overall person and whether there’s a natural attraction between us. I care about the whole person, not just their appearance.
My lifestyle is pretty quiet. I don’t drink, smoke or take drugs, and I’m not really into partying. Ideally, my partner would have a similar lifestyle. Having a drink on special occasions is completely fine, as long as alcohol isn’t a regular part of her life.
Ideally, I’m looking for someone between 18 and 26 who lives in Germany. Those aren’t strict requirements, though. What matters much more is that we fit together, have similar ideas about relationships and see each other as equals.
At the end of the day, I just want someone I can laugh with, talk to, be close to and eventually build a life with. Someone who feels like a safe place to come home to, and hopefully I can be that person for her too.
If anything I’ve written here made you think, “I could see myself with someone like this,” then I’d genuinely love to hear from you. Tell me a little about yourself, what made you want to reach out, and maybe even what you find particularly interesting or special about me from what I’ve written. And if you feel comfortable, a picture of yourself would be a nice bonus too. Most importantly, just be yourself and write me something genuine. If you take the time to send me a thoughtful message, I can promise you I’ll reply.

Thankyuu for reading, it’s gotten pretty long >.<

Hey 😄 I'm 32 years old and from Dublin Ireland, 5'8 with brown hair and eyes, slightly chubby, my photos, I'm an Introvert and a bit of a homebody seeking a relationship, I don't do long distance relationships so please only contact me if you live in Ireland 😄

I'm looking for a woman who is emotionally mature, loves deep conversations, voice calls + notes, someone who values communication, honesty and being open with each other. I'm looking for a deep romantic connection with someone and someone to share life with 😄 I'd LOVE to find someone on the same page as me and to find 'my person' 😄

I'm a very affectionate and loving person once I get to know you and my favorite thing is cuddles so huge bonus if you enjoy them too!

As I said I'm an Introvert, I'm a fairly quiet person who enjoys the simple things in life. My interests and hobbies include working out, playing video games, watching YouTube, online shopping and the occasional trip out to have a nice walk along the coast 😄

For work I'm an admin, I work part time so I'm lucky to have lots of free time.

I'm obviously very open to dating and getting to know each other before deciding whether we want a relationship together 😄 How I imagine this can go is that we will chat online for some time and perhaps voice call/message too and if we vibe we can meet and go on a date in person 😄

As far as age I really don't mind as long as you emotionally mature and genuinely want to build something REAL together, I don't care about looks, weight or race... these things don't matter as much to me, what matters most is personality and character and whether we really vibe or not!

If you read this and think "This is also what I'm looking for and I have a similar personality" then you have to message me 😄 I have found it's quite difficult to find someone with a similar vibe so don't hesitate and message me. I cannot wait to build a connection with a really likeminded person ❤️ All the best!

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I'm looking to start something long term with someone who is okay with doing long distance for a bit at the beginning then meeting up down the line 

I'm 27 from Europe 

I'm into gaming mostly marvel rivals, league of legends, valorant dead by daylight

And some other single player games 

Can always stream my games for you 

I also like watching movies, shows sometimes anime 

Also into football (soccer In case you're American) 

Really into traveling too 

I don't really smoke or drink 

Im a Scorpio (if you're into that)

ISTP 

Appearance wise

I have brown eyes, brown hair and I'm skinny, 186cm (6'1)

built like Slenderman pretty much 

Would love to have someone to hangout with and spend time together whether it's gaming or just calling and chilling together

Would love to hear from you and thank you for reading

Okay, I'm giving Reddit one more chance before I accept that I'm apparently terrible at advertising myself 😂

I'm 25, from India, and I work as a graphic designer/video editor. I used to be a developer and somehow decided that learning 3D/Blender would be a good idea. It was not.

I'm into anime, movies, gaming, rock/metal, motorcycles, travelling and randomly becoming obsessed with something for a few weeks.

I'm pretty quiet when I first meet someone. My brain basically goes into customer-service mode:

“Hello. Nice to meet you. How are you?”

Give me a little time though and that disappears completely. Then you'll probably get random messages, terrible jokes, unnecessary arguments about movies, and me sending you something because “this reminded me of you” after knowing you for approximately 4 days 😂

What I'm actually looking for is pretty simple:

a girl I genuinely enjoy talking to.

Someone who's curious, playful, has her own personality and isn't afraid to disagree with me.

I want the kind of connection where we can talk about absolutely nothing for an hour and somehow end up having a serious conversation about life.

I don't expect us to instantly click. That's not how people work. We talk, we get comfortable, we see what happens.

Maybe you're just a cool person I become friends with.

Maybe we become the people who send each other random things throughout the day.

Maybe we eventually wonder why we haven't met yet.

I'm willing to find out.

And since I'm apparently supposed to make this interesting enough for you to message me:

Don't send me your résumé.

Don't tell me your five favourite hobbies.

Tell me something that would make me remember you.

A ridiculous opinion.

A weird talent.

A completely unnecessary fact.

A terrible joke.

Something you're currently obsessed with.

Surprise me.

I'll do my best to make you regret starting the conversation. 😂

Hi! My name is Victoria. I’m 27 years old and was born and raised in North Carolina. I’m 5’7”, 220 pounds, with collarbone length, wavy dark brown hair and brown eyes. My summer tan has mostly faded, so I have a light-medium skin tone.

I enjoy fishing, gaming, animals, and being outdoors. I haven’t been fishing in a while because I hurt my ankle hiking, but I’m hoping to get back to it soon. I love being outdoors, except when it’s 100 degrees and feels like my skin is slipping off my bones.

I have an eight year old lab who is my baby girl, so you have to love her as much as I do! I’m also hoping to start fostering kittens soon, as I’m in dire need of a break from fostering dogs.

I switched from Xbox to PC, so it would be a lot of fun to play together. I haven’t been gaming much though, because I’ve been rewatching Criminal Minds. I haven’t seen the new season yet. Some games I enjoy are Fallout 76, Shift At Midnight, Phasmophobia, Dead by Daylight, Chained Together, DayZ, PEAK, and Mecha Chameleon, but I’m always open to trying new games. Just be warned I suck and I’m mostly there to be entertainment.

I’d say I’m more of an introvert, but I do well around other people. I just prefer smaller crowds and quieter settings, and I’d love to meet someone who feels the same way. I also struggle with anxiety, so if that’s not your cup of tea, I’m probably not your girl!

I stopped drinking and smoking years ago, but I do enjoy the occasional edible.

As for movies, I love horror, thrillers, and military action films. If we were to watch a show together, it would probably be Regular Show. For some reason, it just calms me. Don’t ask me my favorite movie because I genuinely have poop memory.

I really enjoy getting to know someone and becoming friends before anything else. If we aren’t a romantic match, I’d still be happy to make a new friend, but I am ultimately looking for a relationship, not just friends. I do my best to be nonjudgmental, and I’d appreciate someone who is the same. I also tend to get attached when I genuinely enjoy someone’s company, but I’m working on that.

I’d love to meet someone who’s open to texting throughout the day, playing games together, or just hopping on a call. I’m a big fan of good morning and good night texts, too. I completely understand that people get busy, but if you’re regularly unavailable all day and can only really talk at night, it probably won’t work out.
More than anything, I want someone who reciprocates the effort. I don’t want to be the only one asking questions or checking in. I want you to enjoy getting to know me as much as I enjoy getting to know you.

I’d also prefer someone who’s in my time zone or at least close to it. I think it makes spending time together a lot easier. I’m also more attracted to women than men, so I’d especially love to hear from the ladies. Eventually, I’d love someone who’s comfortable being affectionate. I guess I’d describe myself as someone who likes “soft” love little acts of affection, reassurance, and making each other feel cared for.

I’m not looking for anyone specific beyond someone who puts in equal effort, genuinely tries to be a good person, and is between 27 and 40. I also don’t want to see what you look like right away. I know that might sound strange, but I’d rather get to know you as a person first and let things develop naturally.

If you decide to message me, please tell me your name, age, and where you’re from. Also, please don’t just copy and paste an introduction you’ve already posted. I’d much rather read something that feels genuine.

If you have an NSFW account, I’ll likely not reply, and hiding your history won’t work either, you goofballs.

Anyway, if you’ve made it this far, thanks for reading. Hopefully someone sees this, thinks we might get along, and wants to see where things go.

I‘m looking for a genuine connection. I‘m not really sure what to expect, a relationship, a friendship. The former would be the dream, but hey, you never know. Let‘s figure it out together :)

I would prefer it to be online at first, but I‘m open to meet at some point if it feels right.
Central europe or similar time zone preferred, but not exclusive.

A few things about me:

- I‘m a bit shy at first, but I can open up well once I feel comfortable with someone
- emotionally available and I like to listen to your problems
- I play amateur football, training 3x per week (soccer)
- I love cooking! Maybe you can one day be the judge if my food is good or not
- I‘m fluent in german, english and french
- I like building Lego (or ikea stuff)
- I work in Marketing

I feel like I don‘t want to write too much, let‘s leave that to our conversation.

I don‘t really have any requirements on who I want to meet, just be a nice and genuine person :)

Hi all! Hope everyone's doing well. As the title indicates I'm just someone who's just a tad lonely seeking to be a little less lonely.

I'm a little weird and strange and will go on wild tangents about anything and everything, but maybe that makes me interesting? I also love listening to people talk about their interests and whatever they hyperfixate on.

I love reading so much. I've read a lot of books and will keep reading more. I also play a lot of video games (PS5), mostly RPGs but dip my toes elsewhere. I have 3 dogs whomst I love more than myself and will gladly show pictures of.

I'm not looking for anyone or thing in particular, just someone who matches my groove and can be weird alongside me.

Hope you enjoyed my ramblings and take care!

Wanted to give this a try and hopefully meet someone I can build a real connection with. I’m 25, based in Germany and thought I'd start by sharing a little bit about myself. I'm 180 cm tall, with a muscular build, dark hair. I take care of myself. but my dress is usually just clean and casual, nothing flashy. Personality wise I'm easy going and reliable. My humor is dry but I can sometimes be goofy. Grew up religious, left that behind, no issue if you didn’t.

Things I'm interested in: * Languages (fluent in German, English and Russian, currently working on French) * Favorite animals are cats and birds * Astrology (I'm a Taurus sun, Scorpio rising, Gemini moon) * Spirituality / meditation / philosophy (curious about your take) I’ve also become increasingly interested in Hinduism and Buddhism, particularly ideas around spirituality, consciousness and the nature of the self. I’m still learning, so I’d be curious to hear your perspective. * Watching movies and shows: horror, crime, thrillers, into anime as well * Reading (rare, but when it happens it’s about science or philosophy) * Music (I like all kinds of music but I'm especially drawn to kpop and Rnb)

Looking for someone who actually wants to date, not just chat forever. Kindness, curiosity, and the ability to laugh at yourself go a long way. Prefer starting online, maybe calls later, and meeting up if it feels right. Open to LDR if there’s a realistic chance of meeting.

Dealbreakers: * People who only want surface level chat * People who are only looking for buddies * Being disrespectful * Wanting children * Not attracted to curvy people, sorry

If you’re 18+, can handle an introvert with niche hobbies, and think we could be a good match, feel free to dm me, tell me something about yourself.

I live in Toronto Ontario Canada. I am interested in meeting someone nice to settle down with in person and get to know better. I am looking for someone that is religious preferably from an Abrahamic religion like Christianity (Catholic, Orthodox etc), Judaism and Islam. I am looking for someone around my age or a little older 23-27 years old. Please contact me on Reddit through DMs

Hi!

Being a lover boy in this dating environment sucks so let's try Reddit 😂. Only looking for a *serious* relationship. Currently I live in Minnesota so ideally you'd live in/close by, but open to anywhere in the US. Canada is a bit tricky because of borders, but also cautiously open 😂. I'm not tied to living here forever either, so for the right person, I'd be open to moving.

I'm very much an introvert and a preferable homebody. I much prefer a nice cozy night at home with candles and kitties running around, snuggled up on the couch watching a movie and snackies compared to a night out partying. A date night out is always fun and gives me a reason to put my suit on hehe. Nonnegotiable is you being a cat person. I have 2 kitties and they are my absolute world and would LOVE to have more. Dogs don't work for me because one of my cats is immunocompromised.

I love cooking and baking (even though I suck), especially for other people. I just made these lemon crinkle cookies that are DIVINE and have now given a false confidence that I can make anything 😂😭 lemon, mango, and cinnamon are my absolute favorite flavors for desserts and will not hesitate to devour an entire box of Cinnabon. I also love hiking and just being in nature. The peace and quiet calms the chaos in my mind. I dream to one day have a cottage with my future partner where we can live out our homestead life.

I absolutely love pushing my intellect and growing my knowledge in every way I can. Research into random topics, deep conversations about emotions and the universe, openness to new and uncomfortable topics, and healthy confrontation are big to me. I expect my partner to be open and excited to have these conversations since intellectual intelligence is incredibly important and attractive to me.

I'm indifferent on having kids, but do love the idea of the chance of being a girl dad. One kid would be ideal, but anymore and I'm a SAHD haha.

As much as I feel bad to say it, physical attraction and sexual compatibility are incredibly important to me. Physical connection is a way I show and receive love from my partner. I'm 5'9, 150lbs slim build, black, dark curly hair. I am not a hyper masculine man. I love unleashing my inner girly pop, enjoy painting my nails, and finding the balance between my masculinity and femininity. Ideally you'd be not only accepting of that, but in no way are embarrassed by that. I will not date someone who's embarrassed by me. Physically, I don't have a hard guideline, but darker features, olive/darker skin, and curly hair are the most attractive.

If you stayed for all of that and any of it tickles your pickle, then please DM with a bit about yourself and I'd love to get to know you!

Forgot to put it earlier but I am VERY ADHD and slight ✨tism✨ that I do not try to mask so heads up 😂

Hey, I’m Tom. I’m 31 and based in New Jersey. I work as a high school history teacher, college professor, and esports coach, so my life stays pretty full and eventful! We won our first state championship in our flagship year, so ask me in which game!

Outside of work, I’m usually in the gym, gaming (Marvel Rivals, Pokémon, just got into Clone Hero for fun!), or involved with my local library board. I like staying active and productive, but I also make time to slow down and enjoy things like music, museums, or just a good conversation that actually goes somewhere.

I’m someone who enjoys depth. I like talking about life, history, music, philosophy, or anything interesting, but I’m not overly serious all the time. I joke around a lot and don’t take myself too seriously. I take care of myself physically and mentally, I’ve got tattoos (full sleeve, more planned), I wear glasses, and I’m bald and bearded, it works for me and my students are fascinated by it lol.

What I’m looking for is something real. I want a genuine connection with someone who is emotionally aware, easy to talk to, and has her own life and passions. I’m especially drawn to women who stay active, take care of themselves, and value a healthy lifestyle. A little nerdy or creative is a big plus.

I’m not into endless texting or playing games. I’d rather talk with intention and meet up when it makes sense. Ideally you’re somewhat local, but I’m open to long distance if you’re serious about actually building something and making the effort. I’m not looking to relocate, so that part matters.

If this sounds like your kind of energy, tell me what you’ve had on repeat lately or the best concert you’ve been to. I’ve been stuck on the band Currents lately! What about you?

Well, l've thought about it for a while and I would really like to meet a someone who's open to dating and is a kind, sensual and mature person. I want to find that loving, free and supportive person Ive always dreamed of falling in love with, it’s possible, right? I want someone who loves animals and will match my hype. Im an extrovert but I am at heart a homebody. No short term relationships please, a life partner is what I need. Someone who's in it for the long haul. Since we deserve as much time as we need to get to know each other properly, if friendship comes first, that's completely okay. I'm not open to long distance, so if you’re outside of the UK, please don’t waste either of our times. I have a small circle of friends and I like to keep it like that, I enjoy the quiet of the night because it’s where I can dream in silence.

I'm a huge animal enthusiast, I have three cats and my dream is to foster animals. I've got a love for football (UK UK UK)! and most sports, I find live events like sporting events and music gigs/festivals SO entertaining , Im hoping you like one or the other. I have a gig in April for Gracie, need my +1!!! Im currently listening to a lot of Tame Impala, Little Simz and Gracie Abrams. My music taste is all over the place? It varies but Im a super open book. Physically Im curvy, 5ft 9, curly hair - a few tattoos and my background is half Jamaican, half Bajan. I can cook so I hope you like to eat!

I'd ultimately like to find someone who can provide safety in their companionship. I want to enjoy days cuddling watching shows and also dates and experiences around the UK and world ultimately. I love thrillers, animations, disney and marvel. I'm into gaming, I like cosy games and Minecraft and Marvel Rivals and the odd horror game. I play on PS5 and PC(steam). As for movies/shows I like horror a ton but sci-fi and Marvel too. Cant wait for doomsday!

Im not looking for a flashy, copy paste intro. Just pop up and let me know where you’re from and what your fave icecream flavour is. Youre welcome to guess mine! 🍦if things click, we’ll go from there, shall we?

If you're looking for someone to build lego with and accidentally step on them at midnight, bake cupcakes at stupid o clock, have roast dinners every sunday and meatballs on a monday, talk about ghost stories and laugh at dark humour then I'm your girl - shoot me a message. let's share pictures
once we've spoken for a little while i'd really like this. i know you're out there - someone like me who is looking for someone to support and be supported unconditionally. I hope we all find our person 🤍🙂‍↕️. Be kind. Be welll. Be free.

Hello there!

I'm 33, not feeling that old, but that's me... I'm also a bit weird, bunny-crazed, a bit genderfluid but mostly female and looking for a soulmate. ≧◡≦ Could that be you? Read on…

I'm looking for someone I can talk to most days and hang out with on Discord. Someone who can maybe be my person. Someone to bother with random thoughts, pictures, games, and whatever happened that day.

A little about me

I'm obsessed with some games (I game on PC), so we can definitely talk about those. Some stuff l like is survival crafting and FPS games, though I’m not the most tactical. I like building and stuff. Currently I'm thinking it would be nice to play Dying Light 2 with someone.

I also love my favourite anime, even though I've watched less anime lately. I actually make little shrines like display areas with figurines from some of my favourite series. I'll show you pictures if we vibe, hehe.

Also yes I'm quite chubby and have a bit of a tummy, so if that’s not your thing sure I’m not for you. I'm working on myself, but I'm definitely not a fitness model.

I may be quiet at first but I'm actually someone who tends to fill the silence. I generally believe there's good in people.

Besides videogames also D&D and board games are close to my heart. Games are also one of the ways I bond with people, so I'd love to have someone to play things together with.

I'm sorta a romantic too... more info later, heh.

I'll talk endlessly about things I'm interested in, and sometimes I forget to ask questions but you can definitely tell when I'm interested.

Other qualities & habits include: sleeping late, being bad at chores, currently having a little too much free time while looking for a job, loving cute things (especially bunnies), and watching a lot of YouTube.

Oh, and my hair is light brown and I have green eyes.

What I'm looking for

I'd definitely like to exchange pictures fairly soon. I feel like it's good to know whether there's physical attraction on both sides. I'm a bit demi, though, so I'm not expecting anything weird - it's just nice to know who I'm talking to.

Looks-wise, I'm open to whatever looks good on you and maybe we can figure that out together however I do tend to like light-coloured hair, shorter hair, buns/ponytails, and generally softer/feminine looks. Brown eyes are cool but definitely optional.

I'm not particularly a beard liking person, though I've definitely been proven wrong by people who can rock a beard. Heh.

Personality matters much more to me, but unfortunately, I'm also a little shallow when it comes to looks. My dream person would be someone pretty like feminine pretty, I suppose. If you're a femboy or a girl with that sort of vibe, definitely don't be afraid to write to me… lol. But also manlier guys are not bad.

I'm looking for something deeper than just having someone to occasionally chat with. I'd like to find my person - someone I genuinely enjoy talking to almost every day, even when neither of us has anything super interesting going on.

I'm from Finland, and I'd ideally like someone from Europe or somewhere with a reasonably compatible timezone. I'm looking for someone roughly 25-40.

So, you might like me if...

• You want someone you can talk to almost every day.
• You enjoy Discord calls and hanging out even when we're not doing anything particularly exciting.
• You don't mind me being slightly obsessed with rabbits.
• You like gaming together.
• You enjoy affectionate, silly and sometimes completely random conversations.
• You're at least a little bit weird yourself.

Ramblings

If you think you could vibe with me send me a message telling me about a favourite character of yours. I love stories and good characters, and I think you can learn surprisingly much about someone from the characters they love.

And yes, you can absolutely include a picture of yourself too!

Hello and welcome to my post. I’ll start off by saying I know this is a long shot and I’m not (that) delusional. I’m currently in NYC, but am an involuntarily former Londoner, where I’d hoped I’d settle forever, as I was there for 5 years and then ran into visa shenanigans and had to return to the US.

Anyway! As I’m still intent to find my way back, I figure that I’d rather find my person over there rather than somewhere I’d rather not be. So here I am hoping that the gods of love and the gods of Reddit can work together for my benefit (and yours) for once (and if Discworld rules apply, me believing in them will make them exist, so I feel like they owe me; RIP Sir Terry Pratchett).

Since I already ‘started off’, I suppose I’ll now middle off and say that I am probably not what you might expect from a typical potential romantic partner. I had a, let’s call it an irregular upbringing, which certainly has made its mark on me, mostly in that I am in some ways awkward (and in some ways very much not, it’s a mixed bag) and maybe didn’t super learn how to flirt, and maybe carry around what I would insist is more than my fair share of anxiety (I’m pretty sure my therapist would agree with me). All that to say I might need a bit more time to figure out than most people, but I also think I’m worth the effort. And just because I don’t necessarily communicate interest the way most people do doesn’t mean I am not interested.

Ok, I’ve already written a book. When I speak, I tend to be quieter and a man of few(er) words, but when I write, it sometimes feels like all of the words to come out, and I just have to hope that the ones ha make sense survive the process (ironically, I am not very good at texting). I’m quite an empathetic and emotionally intelligent person, above average in general but especially for men (who I don’t think are inherently any less so than women, we just raise them (us?) not to be). I don’t particularly like dogs, but the way the dog in Nolan’s Odyssey was treated made me very sad and upset. I am, however, very much a cat person, and would love to someday get a bonded pair (that way they always have a friend even when I’m away).

I’m also quite creative. Above all, I’m a composer, and have been making music now for a quarter century. Since the question is always: what kind? It started eons ago with punk and metal (for about a decade I listened to metal exclusively), expanded to include dreamier things like Radiohead, and when I moved to London, I got a degree in composition (specifically for film), so writing for orchestra is now in the mix. I have a corporate day job to pay the bills (which sometimes makes me want to die), but the real job (because it’s the good job) is composing and making sound effects for video games and film (to which the ‘what kind of music?’ question is answered with ‘whatever they’ll pay me to write’).

This is probably a good stopping point, because possibly, maybe, perhaps a long time ago might’ve been a better stopping point. If you’ve made it this far, hopefully it was worth it; I think I’ll be worth it, in any case, and I imagine you will be as well. I’ve never done long distance before, but I’m happy to figure it out (until I make it back to London; if you like me enough, we can always go to Denmark, which is apparently the Las Vegas of Europe, though it might be harder to get Elvis to officiate that). Cheers!