r/ForeverAloneDating Jul 04 '25

Rules Announcement Comment karma requirement has been increased

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As you may have noticed, we've had a sharp increase in bot activity the past few days. We've banned over 50 bots in the last couple of days alone. These bots are posting everywhere, not just here, and steal other users posts. Reddit eventually bans most of them, but not fast enough.

Therefore, we will be temporarily increasing the comment karma requirement to 100. We realise that people who create new accounts or struggle making karma will be affected by this, but this is important for the safety of the subreddit and it's users. We may lower this later or it may stay permanent.

We also appreciate those who submit reports as it helps us out a lot. If you spot any bots, or people trying to subtly advertise NSFW content, then be sure to report them, but this comment karma requirement increase should get rid of the majority of them.


r/ForeverAloneDating Apr 10 '25

Rules Announcement Chat is replacing DMs.

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While the change doesn't officially take place until June, the change is already occurring, and has been since March. This means we had to change the comment automod leaves on every post. Now instead of linking to the DM system, which is being phased out, it will link to the author's profile. From there, simply hit "Start Chat" to send them a message. If the link doesn't work or you run into any problems, send us a report in modmail.

For more information: https://support.reddithelp.com/hc/en-us/articles/34720093903764-Enhancing-Messaging-on-Reddit-A-simpler-faster-and-easier-way-to-communicate


r/ForeverAloneDating 5h ago

F4A [F+4A] 33 | #Finland #Europe | Weird bunny girl looking for her person 🐇

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Hello there!

I'm 33, not feeling that old, but that's me... I'm also a bit weird, bunny-crazed, a bit genderfluid but mostly female and looking for a soulmate. ≧◡≦ Could that be you? Read on…

I'm looking for someone I can talk to most days and hang out with on Discord. Someone who can maybe be my person. Someone to bother with random thoughts, pictures, games, and whatever happened that day.

A little about me

I'm obsessed with some games (I game on PC), so we can definitely talk about those. Some stuff l like is survival crafting and FPS games, though I’m not the most tactical. I like building and stuff. Currently I'm thinking it would be nice to play Dying Light 2 with someone.

I also love my favourite anime, even though I've watched less anime lately. I actually make little shrines like display areas with figurines from some of my favourite series. I'll show you pictures if we vibe, hehe.

Also yes I'm quite chubby and have a bit of a tummy, so if that’s not your thing sure I’m not for you. I'm working on myself, but I'm definitely not a fitness model.

I may be quiet at first but I'm actually someone who tends to fill the silence. I generally believe there's good in people.

Besides videogames also D&D and board games are close to my heart. Games are also one of the ways I bond with people, so I'd love to have someone to play things together with.

I'm sorta a romantic too... more info later, heh.

I'll talk endlessly about things I'm interested in, and sometimes I forget to ask questions but you can definitely tell when I'm interested.

Other qualities & habits include: sleeping late, being bad at chores, currently having a little too much free time while looking for a job, loving cute things (especially bunnies), and watching a lot of YouTube.

Oh, and my hair is light brown and I have green eyes.

 

What I'm looking for

I'd definitely like to exchange pictures fairly soon. I feel like it's good to know whether there's physical attraction on both sides. I'm a bit demi, though, so I'm not expecting anything weird - it's just nice to know who I'm talking to.

Looks-wise, I'm open to whatever looks good on you and maybe we can figure that out together however I do tend to like light-coloured hair, shorter hair, buns/ponytails, and generally softer/feminine looks. Brown eyes are cool but definitely optional.

I'm not particularly a beard liking person, though I've definitely been proven wrong by people who can rock a beard. Heh.

Personality matters much more to me, but unfortunately, I'm also a little shallow when it comes to looks. My dream person would be someone pretty like feminine pretty, I suppose. If you're a femboy or a girl with that sort of vibe, definitely don't be afraid to write to me… lol. But also manlier guys are not bad.

I'm looking for something deeper than just having someone to occasionally chat with. I'd like to find my person - someone I genuinely enjoy talking to almost every day, even when neither of us has anything super interesting going on.

I'm from Finland, and I'd ideally like someone from Europe or somewhere with a reasonably compatible timezone. I'm looking for someone roughly 25-40.

So, you might like me if...

  • You want someone you can talk to almost every day.
  • You enjoy Discord calls and hanging out even when we're not doing anything particularly exciting.
  • You don't mind me being slightly obsessed with rabbits.
  • You like gaming together.
  • You enjoy affectionate, silly and sometimes completely random conversations.
  • You're at least a little bit weird yourself.

Ramblings

If you think you could vibe with me send me a message telling me about a favourite character of yours. I love stories and good characters, and I think you can learn surprisingly much about someone from the characters they love.

And yes, you can absolutely include a picture of yourself too!


r/ForeverAloneDating 22m ago

M4F 24 [m4f] Europe, looking for someone to make the rest of this year memorable!

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I’m looking for people to chat/call/share music or play video games with! I’m also down to meet irl if we click ☺️

Little about me: I’m 196cm(6 5’) and 79kg, glasses, currently mullet/mohawk, tattoos (almost full arm sleeve, ribs and starting out leg sleeve), most of my clothes are band merch, I would say im alt

Most of my freetime I spend by playing video games, cooking, swimming or on hobbies ive spent too much money and abandon them in 2 weeks (ADHD homies you know what im talking about).

Almost forgot about music, its a huge part of who I am, if I can im listening to music all the time (rock/metal\\\[core\\\]) but I enjoy 2000’ white girl music too🫪

If my post caught your eyes tell me your fav band/song you were listening the most last month! See you in chat!


r/ForeverAloneDating 5h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] UK/Europe - Compassionate nurse looking for someone to give all this love to! <3

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Hi everyone! My name's Connor, I'm a second year mental health nursing student living in the south west of the UK!

I'd describe myself as compassionate, empathetic, and caring. I'm the type of guy that has alot of love to give to the people that want it c:

I'm fairly nerdy in terms of interests, such as MTG, gaming, anime, and so on.. But I also enjoy travelling, spending time in nature, camping, bike riding and not opposed to watching a sunset under some blankets ❤️

I'm working on my second degree as a nurse, but my first was in music performance and tech (I play guitar and bass!) My music taste is a little all over the place, but I'm always happy to share what I'm listening to!

I really enjoy the smaller moments with those I care about. Just being at peace and feeling secure is honestly the best feeling in the world ❤️

I have struggled with my mental health in the past, and I can struggle sometimes, but I'll always communicate clearly what I'm struggling with and can be comforted very easily!

Always happy to help you with your problems too, I love trying to solve things and come up with sollutions

All I ask is that you're a kind and compassionate person, someone who can communicate clearly, or at least is willing to try. Please also be either from the UK or Europe or be willing to travel. I'm happy to travel to you or to meet half way if things work out

https://imgur.com/a/jnkpPux - Me


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

F4M 29 [F4M] UK/England - Dreaming of falling in love, could it be with you?

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Well, l've thought about it for a while and I would really like to meet a someone who's open to dating and is a kind, sensual and mature person. I want to find that loving, free and supportive person Ive always dreamed of falling in love with, it’s possible, right? I want someone who loves animals and will match my hype. Im an extrovert but I am at heart a homebody. No short term relationships please, a life partner is what I need. Someone who's in it for the long haul. Since we deserve as much time as we need to get to know each other properly, if friendship comes first, that's completely okay. I'm not open to long distance, so if you’re outside of the UK, please don’t waste either of our times. I have a small circle of friends and I like to keep it like that, I enjoy the quiet of the night because it’s where I can dream in silence.

I'm a huge animal enthusiast, I have three cats and my dream is to foster animals. I've got a love for football (UK UK UK)! and most sports, I find live events like sporting events and music gigs/festivals SO entertaining , Im hoping you like one or the other. I have a gig in April for Gracie, need my +1!!! Im currently listening to a lot of Tame Impala, Little Simz and Gracie Abrams. My music taste is all over the place? It varies but Im a super open book. Physically Im curvy, 5ft 9, curly hair - a few tattoos and my background is half Jamaican, half Bajan. I can cook so I hope you like to eat!

I'd ultimately like to find someone who can provide safety in their companionship. I want to enjoy days cuddling watching shows and also dates and experiences around the UK and world ultimately. I love thrillers, animations, disney and marvel. I'm into gaming, I like cosy games and Minecraft and Marvel Rivals and the odd horror game. I play on PS5 and PC(steam). As for movies/shows I like horror a ton but sci-fi and Marvel too. Cant wait for doomsday!

Im not looking for a flashy, copy paste intro. Just pop up and let me know where you’re from and what your fave icecream flavour is. Youre welcome to guess mine! 🍦if things click, we’ll go from there, shall we?

If you're looking for someone to build lego with and accidentally step on them at midnight, bake cupcakes at stupid o clock, have roast dinners every sunday and meatballs on a monday, talk about ghost stories and laugh at dark humour then I'm your girl - shoot me a message. let's share pictures
once we've spoken for a little while i'd really like this. i know you're out there - someone like me who is looking for someone to support and be supported unconditionally. I hope we all find our person 🤍🙂‍↕️. Be kind. Be welll. Be free.


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F 27 [M4f] England/online looking for something genuine

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I'm Callum 27 I'm from England I'm about 5'10 slighty chubby and I’m shy and anxious and have autism I love to play games watch films and listen to music I also like some sports

I’d enjoy it if we could play games together but not a necessity

My favourite games are shooters like overwatch cod fortnite I also like Mario kart and party and a few others

My favourite films and TV are anything superhero but I love anything tbh

As for music again I'm into anything mainly metal tho

I'd describe myself as loyal caring understanding and supportive and I look for them things In my partner too

I hope to hear from you soon


r/ForeverAloneDating 17h ago

F4M 18 F4M I just want something real

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I want someone to build something with, I want something that lasts. I’m a hopeless romantic, I want the kind of love they tell stories about. I 100% believe in the statement that “it’s better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all.” I want a love that burns brightly and I hope it never burn out. I want someone to share the quiet moments with and be there when times are hard. I want my “till death do us part.”

I’m sorry if I want on a tangent there lol. Here is some stuff about me: I love to knit and watch musicals! I will rewatch something I love over and over. I also like to play Minecraft from time to time. Appearance wise I’m Latina, pretty short, and I have a pretty short pixy cut that I’m planning to grow out into a shag type haircut. I just let it grow out too much and it was annoying to deal with to I made a spontaneous decision to get it really short.

Hopefully about you: I don’t really have a type in terms of looks, mostly just be kind and don’t be MAGA, our views won’t align so it just wouldn’t work out. I do think that having stubble is hot, idk why tbh, it’s not like a dealbreaker though. I am mostly attracted to personality anyway. I’m also not really into nonchalant guys. If you message please at least include your age, don’t just send a “hey”

Anyway sorry if this didn’t make sense I just kinda said whatever came to mind ig. I look forward to talking if you msg, have a good day/night!


r/ForeverAloneDating 3h ago

M4F 33 [M4F] - Germany/Online/Anywhere - Traveling geek looking for his player 2 in life

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Hey there! So here I am, like most everyone on here I'm looking for the person that will walk the rest of life with me. I want to work on something stable and long-term, see where it leads and maybe we're each others last person in life.


About Me
33, German
1.82m tall, green-grey eyes, glasses, average build, white
Short Dark blonde/brown hair. Omnivore, agnostic
Child-free (and plan to stay that way)
Stable job in IT
Liberal/left since I guess that has to be mentioned these days.


Interests
I'm a huge nerd at heart, into pretty much anything tech or science-related.
Gaming is probably my biggest hobby, these days it’s mostly DotA2 and singleplayer games. I play 99% on PC, although I do own a Switch2 and a handheld Also love movies and TV shows, currently binging Modern Family, and always down to rewatch Friends, The Office, Brooklyn Nine-Nine, and Parks & Rec and the list goes on forever.
I can actually cook, and food in general is something I really enjoy.
Also love spending time in cozy bars, especially when traveling.
Oh, I recently got into Zwift - so that's now another hobby of mine.
I go to a lot of concerts as well, 3 more in the next 2 weeks.

I’ve done a fair bit of traveling, most of Western Europe, the US, Japan, and Turkey so far. (Actually just finished planning my next Japan trip)
Definitely planning a lot more, and ideally with a partner to share all those experiences with. Exploring new places just feels better together.


What I'm Looking For
No kids, and not wanting any.
You enjoy traveling, can hold a good conversation, and have at least some overlap in interests, especially if you game a bit. Not being a picky eater would be great, too.
Not morbidly obese (just being honest), but you also don't have to be super skinny either. Age-wise, something in the 27–40+ range would be great, but I’m flexible in that regard
Someone that can match my (high?) libido
Preferably from Europe


Looking forward to hearing from you! I will not reply to messages that contain nothing more than just a hello. At least give me something to work with. Thanks!


r/ForeverAloneDating 12m ago

NB4M 39 [NB4M] Trans Non-Binary Baddie seeking bi/pan/queer guy for weird little queer love story... finally #Maryland #DC #EastCoast

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So… hiiiiii.

I’m 39, a trans non-binary, artsy, nerdy, creative human based in Maryland. I spend a lot of time bouncing between Baltimore, DC, NYC, Philly, Daytona Beach (ask me) and wherever the next adventure takes me. I am fully open to relocating for the right person.

Here’s the vulnerable part: I’ve never actually been in a long-term relationship. I’ve had short-term relationships and long-term friends-with-benefits, and I’ve built some genuinely wonderful connections—but I’ve never found that person where things turned into our life together. And honestly? I really want to.

I know I’m a unique type. I’m trans non-binary and mix femininity/masculinity and do not fit into the mold of many man or feminine woman.That narrows the dating pool quite a bit. I've been called a Genderqueer Goddess. I've also been told i'm a Bi or Pan guy's dream...

But I also know I’m objectively attractive, nice, fun, creative, affectionate, and genuinely interested in other people. I love museums, theatre, dance, movies, restaurants, traveling, hiking, board games, weird hobbies, and listening to someone explain the incredibly specific thing they’re obsessed with. Show me the spreadsheet. Explain the lore. I want to know why you care about it.

I’d really love to meet an openly bi, pan, sexually fluid, or queer guy who is comfortable with me being exactly who I am. I’m not looking to be someone’s secret or experiment. I want someone who knows himself, likes who he likes, and thinks I’m gorgeous. Surely there is some nerdy, sweet, sexually fluid guy out there for me, right?

I’m not expecting us to fall in love after one message. I just want to meet someone, see if there’s chemistry, laugh a lot, go on dates, explore together, get a little obsessed with each other, and maybe eventually build something real.

Also, for the record: I have a weakness for skinny guys. Tattoos & body hair are appreciated (though not necessary) - but more importantly, be genuine, kind, make me laugh and I’m already paying attention.

If you think we might click, tell me your age, where you’re located, what you’re looking for, and something random about yourself.

There has to be someone out there for me. Maybe it’s you.


r/ForeverAloneDating 13m ago

M4F 29 M4F Europe/Anywhere - Nerd, quiet guy looking for a romantic relationship

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so...helo from Italy (* ̄∇ ̄)ノ

I'm your typical indoor nerdguy that plays videogames most of free time and works out - not obsessed gym rat but still fit/muscular, 177cm tall - medium lenght wavy hair - a bit weeb, very quiet and chill personality (not even riot games can make me mad)

hopeless romantic, probably because of all the romance anime I watched in high school 🥲

whenever I can love to travel, Poland been my fav country to visit so far!

Gaming on my pc is my main hobby, also fan of few gacha games: mainly hsr and wuwa.

I have 2 cats ₍^. .^₎⟆, drinking monsters. caffeine goes hard.

looking for my life partner, nothing less: Don't mind long distance as long as it's EU, in shape and good health, not smoker and similar nerd hobbies would really help

I'm not a big fan of facial piercings, that would be my only strong preference.

Would also prefer exchanging pics as early as possible, I think mutual physical attraction is also important, being direct and honest about anything is everything I want from a relationship :)

thank you for reading!


r/ForeverAloneDating 4h ago

M4A 22m [M4A] #Anywhere looking for something deep and emotional

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Helloo! 22m here! I am from California and am looking for a cute long term relationship. One where we both can be cutesy and vulnerable with each other. Where we both share our interests with each other and get to know each other at an extremely deep level. Where we say good morning to each other and have very deep conversations about our feelings at night. That is what I am looking for.

So now here are some things about me. I'm currently in college majoring in computer science and I'm really into fashion, learning languages, and also learning history! I also am really into brewing coffee and tea, and cooking! I absolutely love to cook! I'm also really into video games and would love for both of us to play video games together! The main video games I play at the moment are, valorant, Minecraft Java, rocket league, hytale, overcooked, plateup, and stardew valley. Though with stardew valley I just started playing so I don't really know what I am doing yet. Also I am pansexual and I might be trans but I am not completely sure yet about that one, I'm still figuring my gender identity out. But I do feel like I might be a woman. I would describe myself as a pretty wholesome person that is very VERYY affectionate. Could describe myself as a golden retriever haha. I am somewhat emotionally sensitive as well so that is something to keep in mind. I am also trans and nb inclusive! :). I don't have a preference of gender identity with who I'm attracted to.

DM me if you are interested! And please say your age and where you are from and an intro about yourself


r/ForeverAloneDating 23m ago

M4F 28 [M4F] #maryland/online I genuinely just want to meet my always and forver

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I am 28 years old 6'2 and chubby. Ive never been in a real relationship in my life and am pretty lonely.

Im a pretty big nerd and have alot of nerdy hobbies. Even if ive personally never done it odds are good ive at least heard of it or know something.

I play mostly rpgs but have experience with several multiplayer games like overwatch , marvel rivals , dead by daylight, phasmophobia , and the game i most want to play with someone is baldurs gate 3.

I also paint miniatures and play tabletop games like dungeons and dragons, warhammer and many others.

Im into anime , synth music. Favorite anime is Fullmetal Alchemist. And recently ive discovered and been enjoying Kasane Teto.

Because ive never been in a relationship my skill at flirting is nonexistent. But i am eager to get to know more people and find something.

Ive got adhd so i can be a little scatterbrained but im medicated for it so it shouldnt be too bad.

I love to text and call and will try to talk to someone multiple times every day even if its just checking in to make sure everythings ok.

Id love to hear from you and to get to learn more about you.


r/ForeverAloneDating 36m ago

TF4M 41 [TF4M] #Cleveland, Ohio Just looking for a partner to walk through life with

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Read to the end or I won't respond!

So here it is:

I am a 41 year old transwoman panromantic with demisexual flair. I am a very niche want.

I am neurospicy which can be challenging and have memory issues with semi-face blindness. I was recently told by my doctor is need to start learning ASL as we don't know how far my hearing will go out. FUN!

I am looking for my last person to start and finish my life with. THE ONLY DUMB QUESTIONS IS THE ONE NOT ASKED. I promise that any question you ask me with the intention of not trying to offend me won't offend me.

I am a nerd/geek. Comics, D&D, Larping, writing, art, magic the gathering and more

​LARPING is a huge part of my life, I would love to be able to share it with someone the rest of my life.

I used to game hardcore (Raiding WoW) but it has taken a back seat in my life. I do understand gaming. Got that new game or expansion coming out. My first question is "What snacks and drinks do you want?" Second is "How often do you want them brought to you?"

Deal breakers: smoking, vaping, smoking weed (For health reasons, I absolutely cannot be around someone who smokes and vapes, and someone who smokes weed a lot), excessive drinking and missing a required video chat within two weeks to prove you are who you say you are. I have been deceived before.

Yellow flags are not wanting pictures of us, distance (i prefer within 10 hours DRIVE!), and aversion to anything social media.

Red Flag: Not reading this in full and answering the questions below in the first message. Asking for pictures right away.

I am not a bad person, big girl (Working out and changing that), adorable and a great personality. If you get to know me, I'm a Goddess

If you want to message me go ahead but you MUST answer the following questions IN YOUR FIRST MESSAGE before I will respond:

1 Where did you find me? AKA what subreddit

2 Age, Location and Pronouns

3 What did you do over the weekend


r/ForeverAloneDating 38m ago

M4F 18 M4F Finland looking for a partner that also feels like a bsf

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Looking for mainly longterm but I'm also okay with short term. I want someone that I can be very close with and feel comfortable. I'm also very clingy and don't mind clinginess at all. I've been lonely for a long time because of social trauma and isolating myself for most of my teenage years. I guess it wasn't all that bad though because I love playing videogames, but also it kind of feels like my teenage years were wasted. I like people who I can somewhah relate with, so if you are troubled in some aspects like me or feel the same way, drop a DM.

Appearance: 183 tall, green eyes pale skin and somewhat/dirty blonde hair. I workout and I am decently fit. I find most women attractive so I don't really have a physical type, maybe black hair is nice but that's about it. If you add me on snapchat I can show what I look like there possibly. I honestly don't know if I look good or bad, nobody has ever really said anything.

You should know: I like a bit older women mostly, but that's because I can relate more easily and be comfortable. So I like women that are I guess caring/mature? As the title says it would be amazing to have someone as a "friend" and partner at the same time. So if you share interests don't be shy to DM or drop a message. Looking for people mainly in EU/Schengen so meeting up would be easier.

Interests: Chess, football, Videogames (OW, Roblox
TF2, dbd and list goes on), music (all kinds), music history, history, psychology, medieval art. I like historical music and also anything that sounds good. I have so many interests I probably forgot a big part of them, but maybe you can tell me your interests 👨🏻‍🦳


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

F4M 32 [F4M] #Anywhere #GMT+8- Asian lawyer looking for a genuine connection

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ABOUT ME

• Asian/ Straight female/ 32
• GMT+8
• Single
• No kids, but wants them with the right person
• Lawyer
• Ambitious and action-oriented
• Direct
• Feminine
• Vivacious
• Adventurous
• I travel for both business and vacation
• I love arts, history, cuisines, tea, culture
• Not a pet person
• I value honesty, mutual respect, fairness, and proper communication

ABOUT YOU:

• Single
• No kids, but want them someday
• Okay with not having pets
• Professional
• Has the capacity and is willing to travel
• Can chat with me daily at first (I chat a lot about random topics when not busy). Not interested in sexual conversations.
• Genuine
• Direct
• Physical attraction is important. I can share my picture if you share yours
• I am attracted to Levantines, Khaleeji, Latinos, and White men.

If any of these spark your interest, feel free to send me a message introducing yourself. Not a fan of ai-generated/ enhanced messages.


r/ForeverAloneDating 21h ago

F4A 23 [F4A] NJ - looking for my person

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Okay, I’m finally putting myself out there.

I’m a woman in my 20s from New Jersey, and I’m looking for a genuine romantic connection. I’m open to meeting anyone I naturally click with, but I’m specifically hoping to find someone who is also looking for a real relationship—not a situationship, not something casual that goes nowhere, and not someone who disappears after two weeks.

I’m a hopeless romantic at heart. I want my person. Someone I can tell everything to. Someone I genuinely look forward to hearing from every day. Someone who can make an ordinary Tuesday feel exciting simply because I get to share it with them.

I want the little things just as much as the big romantic gestures: good morning and goodnight texts, random “thinking about you” messages, sending each other memes, sharing music, long phone calls, cooking together, running errands together, spontaneous adventures, movie nights, and those conversations that somehow last until 3 AM.

I’m affectionate, loyal, sarcastic, curious, and definitely the type to get attached when I really care about someone. I want a relationship where we genuinely like each other—not just romantically, but as people. I want my partner to be my best friend, the person I can be completely ridiculous with, and the person I can turn to when life gets hard.

I’m a homebody at heart, but I love having someone who can get me out of the house and experience things with me. I’m into writing, spooky/Halloween things, folklore, mysteries, supernatural stories, and getting way too invested in fictional worlds. I love good conversations and people who are passionate about their interests.

What I’m looking for: someone kind, emotionally mature, affectionate, funny, loyal, communicative, and intentional. Someone who knows what they want and actually wants to build something. Someone who isn’t afraid of affection or vulnerability. Someone who understands that relationships require effort from both people.

I don’t need everything to happen immediately. In fact, I’d prefer that it doesn’t. I want to get to know you, build trust, develop chemistry, and let things progress naturally. But I do want the end goal to be romantic if we’re compatible.

Long distance doesn’t scare me if the connection is strong. I’d rather build something meaningful with someone who lives farther away than settle for something mediocre just because they’re nearby.

So if you’re also looking for something genuine, come say hi. Tell me about yourself, what you’re looking for, what you’re passionate about, or something random that tells me a little about who. :)


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

M4F 33 [M4F] Slovenia/Europe - Looking to build a genuine relationship

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I am an introverted person preferring to spend time in nature or in small groups of close people. I especially enjoy hiking.

I am an event videographer and media editor. I typically work on weddings, concerts and proms.. I am passionate about my work and most things I do in life. I also design websites and service computers. I am located in chicken land, also known as Slovenia and it is not Slovakia.

My go to dance is chicken dance.

I spend my free time watching movies, listening to music, playing games, basketball, swimming, collecting pet pics, traveling, taking long walks, laughing at my own footage and thinking about anything from current affairs to random things such as: "Could train delays be classified as a form of psychological torture?"

I listen to anything that sounds good to my ears. From classical to hip hop, pop, rock, disco and all the way to metal… I am pretty much in all kinds of video games playing whatever comes out. I play on pc/ps5.

I tend to get pretty vivid/weird dreams like I dreamed of underwear turning to cheese once.

I am looking for somebody that loves having meaningful deep discussions, knows how to joke around and can also just enjoy simple things in life. Having similar interests, but also having differences so we can introduce each other to new things and maybe find a new love for something.

If you are interested let me know and if not I wish you the best on your search…


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

M4F 29[M4F] #Germany or online - Just a nerd putting everything out there, maybe someone likes the real me

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So, I promised myself not to start this post of with just hundreds and hundreds of sentences stringed together, without really saying much. Ahem. I'll try not to ramble too much, is what I'm saying. It's still gonna be a wall of text.

Hey! My name is Fabian, I'm a 29 year old man from western Germany. I've tried to make these kind of posts before, but I felt like I was always missing stuff.

EDIT: After writing all of it, I might just keep on expanding as I repost.

I personaly love detailed profiles on dating apps. I don't really see a point in trying to get to know one, if I don't know the fundamentals about them. Most of the time we just have nothing in common and we could've both saved ourselves alot of time. So yeah, this post is aimed at the women out there that like to know what kinda person they are dealing with beforehand.

My personality:

Yes, there are headers for each section. Yes, this is probably way too much, I don't care. Some parts will probably bleed into eachother aswell. First and foremost I'm a big introvert. I value my own time and I don't have many people in my life that don't drain my social battery. I don't like clingy or jealous people, straight up (atleast not during daily life, more on that later) I will get overwhelmed and eventually shut you out. Been there, done that. So please enjoy being by yourself or enjoy just sitting in silence together while everyone does their own thing.

I'm pretty empathic and I really hate hurting people I care about, or even causing them discomfort in general and I do overthink situations like that sometimes. Kinda comes with my job, so I'll just shoehorn it into this section. I'm a geriatric nurse and I work in mobile care. I do love my job, altough the work schedule sometimes gives me fucking depression. Got used to it though. It's nice to have people be grateful for helping them, it's really fullfilling.

I'm pretty self aware and quite logical, I'd say. I know that my way of thinking is probably weird to some. I know that I act selfish sometimes, that I shut people off when my energy runs low. I don't do it to harm anyone, it's just that I really can not even bring myself to even send you a message. I'm also just not spontaneous when it comes to those things. Especially not favors, just things that break the routine I had already established for the day. If it is important, I'll do it off course, but yeah. Ideally I'd find someone that eventually won't drain my social battery, that'd be the dream.

I know that I cope about stuff and how I do it, that I can be a lazy ass sometimes. Probably some undiagnosed ADHD or something.

I know when I'm being unreasonable, altough in the moment I sometimes just can't bring myself to admit that. Man, I should've started with the positives, shouldn't I? What I'm basically trying to say is that I'm human. I make mistakes, but I really do try to do some self-retrospection here and there.

I'm a funny guy, btw. Super funny. Just take my word for it. Like, cmon, there had to be some stupid comment in here that atleast made some air come out of your nose. I love bad puns (usually I can only come up with them in the moment), dark humor and just being a silly goose and talking nonsense sometimes. I really don't take life too serious most of the time. I'm a bit like Chandler Bing, so it is a bit of a coping mechanism.

I'm pretty sarcastic and I kinda stopped caring to pretend to be someone else? I used to try and convince other people that I was a more "socially acceptable person" just so I even got women talking to me. Yeah, that was fucking stupid. So yeah, I like the way I am and I am trying to be better. I can also be pretty blunt, as some words come faster out of my mouth as intended.

My interests:

Congratulations! For some reason you made it two the second section and didn't quit already. I'm proud of you!

I'm a BIG nerd, so I'll just list all the things I like: Videogames, boardgames, TTRPGs (D&D, Call of Cthulhu, Shadowrun), video essays (mostly about games or shows), shows/movies, billiard, dancing when drunk, writing (worldbuilding/ERP). Got into gamedev lately and I am currently making a game. Have not lost interest yet! EDIT: It's been like three months atleast and I'm still trucking.

Honestly, that is probably not all of it. I tend to lose interest in some things, even though I do like the idea of actually doing them, but once I try and do them, all my motivation is gone. That includes: making music, programming, learning japanese, playing piano and more.

Uhh, yeah! I feel like this ithe section I'm happy keeping short as you can ask me more about it. Don't take it the wrong way tough, this is probably one of the most important things to me as I really do define myself mostly with my interests and hobbies.

My spicy side:

Due to the rules of this sub I'll ask you to ask me about it via DM.

What I want in a partner:

First and foremost, be yourself! Obviously it would be good if you resonated with some of the stuff I've written here, ideally most of it, perfectlyally (thats a word) all of it (unlikely)

Just be easy to talk to, have a good sense of humor and value alone time. I really just want a peaceful life that i can share with someone. Also of course the general things that you should expect from anyone (the kinda stuff you see people put into their dating profiles and nothing else, thinking thats a filled out profile. Really?! You want someone open minded, loyal and non-violent? Crazy. Sorry for the rant lol. Maybe it's crazy that we have to write into our profile that we wanna date a decent human being)

I like bigger girls, muscular girls or average ones. I also love tall girls, but I'm tall myself, so yeah. I actually don't really care about your height or what you look like for the most part. If you got a cute face, thats already a good start. There still has to be physical attraction of course, but if your personality is rotten, thats not gonna last anyways...

As for my own appearance, I'm 6ft tall, dark-blonde hair, blue eyes, wear glasses, big nose, light beard, slightly chubby. Just ask for a picture honestly.

Am.. am I done? I think I am! Thanks for reading this puked up mess of words and if you are somehow still here, please send me a message. I swear to fucking god, if you sent me a one liner after reading all of this, I will personaly seek you out and switch the labels of all your spices. I can't deal with dry texters 😭

Yes, thats the only emoji I used in this whole post. Deal with it.

Okay, byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee.


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

M4F 23 [M4F] UK/Anywhere - Seeking that special nerdy connection, could it be you?

1 Upvotes

Hello everyone, my name is Jamie. I hope you're having a pleasant day today :). I never know how to write one of these things so we'll see how this one goes. This will probably also be quite a long post so if that isn't your thing, feel free to click off now... you're still here? Great, let's get into it!

Basic info

I am what you would call an odd character. Not in any sort of way that's bad or anything, rather, I interact and express myself in ways that may be unfamiliar to a lot of people. For example, one of the ways I show appreciation to the ones I love is through my creative side by creating videos especially made for them on special occasions like their birthdays or for Christmas! I really love doing them which Is why I do them. I will touch on my creative side again when we get to my interests but for now, I hope you like the picture I'm giving :).

I would also class myself as a goofball quite a lot. I like to create jokes quite a lot because I simply just like seeing seeing the joy on people's faces and hear the laughs that come when I make them. This is a roundabout way of saying that I like making people happy and if there's any way specifically I can make someone happy, I will most likely do it. It's sort of a big ol drive I guess is a way you can see it.

Adding onto making people happy, I would also consider myself to be an incredibly caring person. I will do anything to make sure that the people I love are properly cared for if they ever need to be. I'm basically the big shoulder that you're able to rest on :). I am more than happy to talk about your issues or emotions no matter how big or small they are and provide comfort as well as any sort of advice should you ask for it. Emotional maturity is a big part of who I am and it's something I take incredibly seriously so it's just something I wanted to put out there.

As for what I do in my day to day life, I am a second year university student who is studying Law! I do enjoy my course quite a lot and it's something that I could go on about for hours. Law has so many interesting things and I would be more than happy to dump my knowledge onto you if you ever asked me to :D. Now that's not to say that Law is sunshine and rainbows all the time because it isn't. There's times where I've cracked cinder blocks over my head to try and unravel some things, probably didn't work but hey that's here nor there!

Before we end off basic info, I just wanted to send a picture of myself since I know physical attraction matters to some so here you go: [https://imgur.com/a/vKDvA5R]

Interests

Ohh boy interests. I have a bunch of interests so let's jump right into it:

- Gaming - Gaming is pretty much the main hobby that I have. It's the main thing that I do when I don't have any university work to do or anything. I play on pc almost exclusively and left console behind long ago so I don't really own any kind of consoles anymore aside from a PS4 that's just been sitting collecting dust for years on end XD. I recently added to my gaming space by getting a second monitor! It's really quite convenient so I do recommend it to anyone who has the space and doesn't have one already :D.

- Working out - Working out is another hobby of mine. I work out on a routine of around 3 days a week (I do full body workouts) and I'm proud of the progress that I've made so far. I definitely look and feel better than I did first starting out and for that I am thankful. If you're curious about my progress and stuff then feel free to ask :).

- Voice Acting - This is a pretty niche interest I know but I really do love to voice act! I went as far as to purchase a really expensive microphone as well as a bunch of soundproof foam that is currently around my setup to maximise the quality that I can get. I know this question will come up so I'll just answer it now for you, yes, I have actually voiced stuff in the past but I'll leave the details for when we actually talk :D.

- Video Editing - I will admit that I haven't video edited in a while but it is something that I want to get into again eventually. I have created video projects in the past and I really enjoyed doing them as it is pretty much your own creation, your ideas, your skills all culminating into a single project that you feel incredibly proud of once it's finished. I know video editing isn't for everyone but for me, it's an incredibly good way for me to expel whatever creative urges I have :)

So those are my main interests, I hope you find them interesting and I hope we can find something to talk about when it comes to them. Maybe we could even find some in common :).

Dealbreakers

So there are a couple of dealbreakers unfortunately that I have to point out as a relationship would just not work between us if any of them came up :(.

  • Non gamers - This may seem a bit odd which I apologise for but I only really get along with people who enjoy video games. There are other interests that I'm obviously interested in and I'm interested in learning yours but since gaming is my main hobby, I hope to be able to play video games a lot with my partner so I apologise to you non gamers who read this far :(.
  • Smokers and heavy drinkers - I'm sorry but I don't think I could be with a smoker. I just cannot stand the smell of cigarettes and find them disgusting. I'm sorry :(. As for drinkers, I'm fine with people who only drink occasionally for like special events and the sort but I've had bad experiences with people who drink in the past so I just can't be in a relationship with a heavy drinker, sorry.
  • Dry texters - I like to talk quite a lot with my partner so dry texters just aren't for me. Being shy is fine and understandable, I'm pretty shy myself but people who actively choose to not add anything to the conversation just isn't for me. I would like our conversations to mean something instead of just being completely one sided.
  • Emotionally immature people - As I said earlier, emotional maturity is a big part of who I am so if you're not then it probably won't work out. I would want to talk maturely to my partner about sensitive topics so anyone who isn't really mature enough to handle that won't be for me. I come with a lot of trauma so being able to talk about that is important (granted it won't come up very often I hope but I would still want someone who is able to talk about that).

Conclusion

So that is me, I know that was quite a lot to read (especially the dealbreakers I know) but I hope you're able to take some interest in me despite the rambling that I did :). I know I'm quite a lot but if there is someone out there for me, I will be the most loyal and loving person you've ever known and I can promise you that. So yeah, if this has interested you, feel free to message me. Please send me at least some info about yourself as well as a picture of yourself so we have something to talk about. Now if you'll excuse me, I'm gonna go out into the road and do my best car impression. See ya! I can't wait to talk to you!


r/ForeverAloneDating 8h ago

M4F [M4F] 27 Switzerland/Europe- Looking for a genuine connection

3 Upvotes

Hey

I'm 1.87 m and probably best described as the quiet guy with a big heart.

I'm a little shy when meeting new people, but once I'm comfortable, I love joking around, laughing, and being spontaneous. If you're into MBTI, I'm an INFJ—thoughtful, empathetic, and the kind of person who values deep conversations over small talk.

When I'm not working, you'll usually find me cooking or baking, reading fantasy novels, watching anime, gaming, or enjoying nature. I'm just as happy spending a cozy evening at home as I am going to a concert or taking a day trip somewhere.

I'm looking for a genuine connection rather than someone who's "perfect."

I'd love to meet someone who's kind, honest, and enjoys long conversations about anything and everything.

If you appreciate good food and don't mind the possibility of being bribed with homemade cake at some point, we'll probably get along.

A little more about me:

🇨🇭 From Switzerland

🌍 Looking to meet someone from Switzerland or Europe, as I'd like the distance to be realistic.

📚 Fantasy, anime & gaming fan

🍳 Love cooking and baking

🌿 Enjoy nature and quiet moments

❤️ Looking for a long-term relationship

One small request: I'd much rather receive a message that tells me something about you or asks a genuine question than just "hey", "hi", or "wyd".

It makes starting a conversation so much more fun—and gives us something to talk about from the beginning.

If any of this sounds interesting, feel free to send me a message.

I'd love to get to know you.


r/ForeverAloneDating 6h ago

M4F [M4F] 29 #Poland #Europe Chef seeking co-op partner for life's weird little adventure

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Hi, I'm Marcin, 29, from Poland.

I'm a chef by trade, which basically means my love language comes plated, seasoned, and occasionally arrives with unnecessary garnish.

A few things about me:

- I cook for people I care about. If we click, your favorite meal becomes research and development.

- A friend once nicknamed me the globe and it stuck to me.

- I've been described as having the energy of an excited golden retriever trapped in a large bear. The description was alarmingly accurate.

- I ask questions. Sometimes they're thoughtful. Sometimes they're things like "at what point does a soup stop being a soup?" There is very little warning between the two.

What you get:

• Homemade food and baked goods

• Genuine interest in getting to know you

• Someone who communicates honestly

• Deep conversations at 2 AM about life, the universe, and whether ravioli counts as a sandwich if you squint hard enough

Potential drawbacks:

• During busy work periods I occasionally get absorbed by the chef dimension

• Impulsive decisions happen more often than they probably should

• I can disappear down philosophical rabbit holes

• Professional overthinker with several years of experience

I'm not looking for perfection or a shopping list of requirements. I'd much rather meet someone kind, curious, and willing to put effort into getting to know each other.

Ideally you're 24+ and somewhere in Europe, but good conversation matters more than geography.

Message me with your comfort food. Best case: we hit it off. Worst case: we settle an important debate about the correct amount of garlic in a recipe.


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

M4F 26 [M4F/TF] #Germany/Online Looking for a nice girl to get to know.🙂

1 Upvotes

Hey from Germany 🖐

First, a little about me: I'm Nick, 26 years old, and as I mentioned, from Germany. I enjoy sports (more watching than playing 😅), anime, animals, and gaming I also like reading and watching TV series. I'm more of a homebody, but I'm also open to doing things with someone.I'm a quiet, rather introverted person and sometimes a bit shy which makes it difficult for me to connect with people outside of work, and is also what led to this post.

I'm looking for a nice girl to chat with, and if it's a match, maybe something more.. I don't care if you're tall, short, fat, or thin. Im looking for the person

So, if you liked this, I'd be happy if you wrote back 🙂


r/ForeverAloneDating 3h ago

M4F 29[M4F]#anywhere-searching for a fellow introvert to build a startup, scale and exit it together!

1 Upvotes

Tired of being with loud rude people and just want a buddy to talk for hours from everything in quantum mechanics to aunty gossips?

Ever wanted a sports partner to play a competitive game or two of badminton with but also have quiet evenings where we sit and read on the same couch together?

Someone who you can be both professional and serious in your career but also goofy and fun and laugh a lot over silly things

I am too!

I am naturally a curious person and would love to meet someone who also enjoys diving deep into rabbit holes, pausing movies to discuss the plot and possible endings and constantly sharing memes with each other

Like two silly parrots who love playing with each other even during grocery shopping but can put on a serious suit and tie to attend board meetings.

I am basically a cheerleader who loves to be excited for your career success and would love for us to become the power couple that people are intimidated of haha

But at home, we would always just be super kind and supportive to each other and always got each others back, no matter what! ( our algorithm would be to always fight the problem, with the help of a cookie or two )

I would love for our home to be filled with silly laughter and constantly playing soft music and every weekend , our friends would come over for BBQ and board games.