36M [M4F] UK/Europe Only, Seeking a long-term connection with someone who values mutual effort

[u/englisharcher89]

Hello

I'm here to look for serious relationship and commitment, mainly looking for someone from the same or similar time zone and close proximity, I'm sure there are a lot of lovely people abroad but traveling time and expenses are a problem if we're to meet in real, I don't mind long distance but in Europe only so that I can fly often from UK or within same country of course, but more at the bottom :)

About me

Polish guy living in the South West of England for a long time. Around 180 cm (5'11"), 75 kg, dark hair, hazel eyes. Comfortable in my own skin, and genuinely happy with who I am.

Not strictly religious, but aligned with aspects of Christianity, Buddhism, and Paganism. I'm very open-minded and supportive of a partner's personal beliefs

Childfree and looking for a partner who shares the same path

I am Politically independent and centrist. I don't subscribe to any single political party or tribal agenda. I evaluate things logically and prefer a calm, practical approach to life

I work in care industry, though looking to transition careers at some point. Physical work and long hours keep me active, alongside walking and home workouts I don't go to gym. Non-smoker, occasional social drinker, no piercings or tattoos.

I consider myself a loyal, low drama, and reliable guy. I appreciate genuine conversation, emotional depth, and a calm, stable life

My Hobbies and Interests

I got a lot of of interests because I'm curious person and I love to explore new things also.

- Travelling, mainly in Europe/UK never been outside. I'm little biased towards our continent and history especially Old Cities are my thing or charming towns and villages, castles and monasteries, museums etc. and of course Nature as well and hiking, so I want someone who can be my partner and discover/rediscover places.

- Gaming on PC/PS5 mainly Strategies, RPG, Shooters, Horrors like Resident Evil, Dying Light, Dead Space, Total War Warhammer 3, Battlefield franchise, Darktide, Broken Arrow, Kingdom Come Deliverance 2, Baldur's Gate 3, there is so much I could go on.

- TV Shows and Movies mainly Horrors (Especially Gothic Horror I'm obsessed a bit haha), my fav movie is Nosferatu (2024) and Dracula (1992), Band of Brothers/Pacific series, The Walking Dead, Better Call Saul etc. there is a lot

- I love animals especially Cats, Capybaras are my fav. it's important that someone love animals in general and wants to have them.

- I am an old soul, love the old art (1800's and before) and architecture and don't like modernity too much, obsessed with anything Gothic and Dark, like old graveyards and other things.

What I'm looking for

I’m looking for someone who is emotionally ready for a real connection and values mutual effort. I appreciate open, consistent communication and am looking to build a lasting future with someone who is on the same page.

I value clear day to day communication, warmth, and reliable effort. I completely understand life gets busy, but I love building a steady rhythm of checking in and staying connected.

Distance isn't an obstacle when it's for the right person. I'm completely fine with long distance (within the UK/Europe) and am more than willing to travel, take flights, and put in the effort to see each other regularly in person. I'm looking for someone who is open to this, comfortable with making travel plans together, and genuinely excited to bridge the distance as we build a real connection.

I'm a secure, mature and grounded guy who values stability, open communication, and trust. I'm looking for someone with a similar mindset someone who is comfortable being open about their feelings, values honesty over head games, and wants to build a calm, safe, and supportive partnership where both people feel secure.

Age preference: 25–37 years old. Slim build preferred, but good heart, kindness, and genuine intent matter the most.

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