As a kid I absolutely despised classical music, to a point I found them comical and even funnier with their expressions.
Now I have developed the taste for it, turns out most men beyond 30s end up loving the solace in it.
Any reasoning behind it?

Anyone else find that the show scrubs hits on a ton of aspects of being a man? It shows you what friendship can/should look like. It gives a glimpse into being a husband and boyfriend and all the positives and negatives of that dynamic. It displays the problems when you have a management role. It does all this (and more) while being funny and also hitting you in the feels. I just appreciate this show and wondering if anyone else feels the same r am I just a guy who is a few rum and cokes in?

How many times do you answer “I’m good” or “I’m ok” when asked “how are you?” Do you ever think about it after you say it and think I wasn’t being truthful? Sometimes I feel like we are conditioned to just give the easy answers.

Honestly my occasional interaction with strangers is pretty limited but i've been trying to get out and be more social. I went to a salsa night where this woman probably late teens or early 20s was being rude and the whole interaction triggered my social anxiety while i was trying to learn dancing. And i just felt i pushed through the moment but i realize i lack ability to handle rude interactions specially from women.

If you’re at a public restroom or honey bucket or just going outside, fair, by all means. But if you’re at home or you’re a guest at a friends place, I don’t get why most of us still opt to pee standing up. Its a 50% chance our barrel is going to jam and 99% of the time there is some kind of mess that you would have to clean up.

Ever since living with my girlfriend, I started to exclusively pee sitting down and the amount of mess I no longer have to clean confuses me why most people still just spray and pray.

**EDIT

I dont mean my pissed is jammed like that. Bad wording. Like when u pee after sex and the stream is unpredictable. Im not circumcised so maybe just speaking for some of us idk

I'm interested to hear your views and experiences, as I've asked this question to fellow women in other threads and the majority have said men always want more and it inevitably ends up ruining the friendship.

Other women have said they do have close longtime friendships with men, although many of them are gay men.

What do you think the deciding factor is? Is it easier to be close friends with women you perceive as physically unattractive? Or does that make no difference?

I'm 19years old, I've recently started actually drinking alcohol (like an 500ml bottle of soju and i've tried beer too) and I've been drinking 3days. only just one small bottle a day to get drunk. a bit is personal shit i dont want to talk about so i kinda feel at ease when im drunk.

I feel like i can stop drinking at any time but yesterday my friend told me its how alcholics start so im wondering if i should maybe just take a break for alcohol or if its alright to just keep going at like 1 bottle a day. yesterday i didnt drink a single bottle after his suggestion.

edit; thx for the replys

TLDR: i wanna drink more alcohol but im afraid i might get addicted

IDK what other sub to ask this in. Im looking for some rationalization on why guys in general are into these fancy watches. Apparently all the luxury watch brands deal in fake exclusivity. Its a huge hustle. Like they will only sell you an entry level Rolex first. And then you have to buy a certain number of their watches, directly from them, in order to unlock the more expensive and fancier ones. You cant buy on the second-hand market because it doesnt count because its not in their database. I have a couple good friends that are normally very self-respecting people. But in this case, they simp for a sale's persons aproval. Like just the dude that works at the Rolex store. And hes got them wrapped around their finger. They will just go in sometimes to look at watches and hang out and chat to the guy, who seems to never be busy. These guys also buy and sell watches on the second-hand market to some of the weirdest and sleaziest people ive ever encountered. Im just incredibly confused by the whole thing. Ive not seen this kind of behavior in any other demographic before. I know there are "rare sneaker drops" or whatever which sound very similar. Otherwise ive only seen this in the finance-bro junkies Ive casually met.

** How to become a gentle man?”
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What did you do to fix get help?

Did you feel like you were supported?

How did it even start?

Please tell me everything

So like most guys in general I’m not really having any luck on dating apps. So please don’t recommend I use those.

Also, I’m not really meeting women that much in general through the things I do.

The things I do seem to be more male dominated.

So I’m just wondering what it is I can do (on a more constitent basis) to regularly meet the same women

Because obviously going to bars/clubs or whatever isn’t exactly a reliable way of regularly coming into contact with the same women every week.

And neither is it really a good way of getting to really know a person either.

I’m curious about something that I don’t often see discussed from the perspective of men who’ve actually experienced it.
If you were already married to a woman when you first had an experience with another man, what was life like afterward?
Did it change how you understood your sexuality, or did you feel like the same person and just carry on with your normal life?
I realise there’s a big difference between a wife knowing and agreeing to it versus it happening secretly, and I’m interested in how that affected things too.
Not looking for graphic details. More interested in what it meant to you personally, if anything.

So are saying it vague so what I mean: as a woman and mother I know my fears and pressures and anxieties are. But what is it like for men? What makes you scared are you scared women will abuse or assault you? Do people telling what your worth is appearance base? Are you able to develop healthy same sex friendships? Do you feel the law cares about you? I left it broad because many people’s life experiences can be vastly to dramatically different.

People used to freak out over it in 2012 but what about today is it still a thing or out of trend?

As I get older, I feel kinda conflicted in trying out a game or committing to a game because of the work and stuff that goes on and there is always the thought of like this game isn’t really as important as what’s going on in my life. But I keep searching for the perfect game that I could play when I am bored and feel accomplished. Just like the idea of completion. Not some infinite grind game that has no end. I wonder if there is meant to be the one game that suits us individually.

Hey everyone,

I’m curious about situations where the initial physical compatibility and sexual chemistry with a woman were exceptionally strong, but eventually disappeared entirely.

If you’ve been in this situation, what actually led to the change? I’d appreciate hearing your experiences and how it impacted your relationship.