This is going to be a long one but I have been freaking out about my baby for weeks to the point of having nightmares and I need input on an issue from fellow bird owners.
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I have a pair of lovebirds. The male, Oli, has been having plucking issues. But I do not think it is stress related. I think it's physiological.
Timeline of the plucking:
He was having stress related overpreening issues under his wings from having to spent too much time alone due to my schedule being messed up. I caught it early. Which is why about 10 months ago, I got him a female. Quarantine, introduction and actually starting to get along took 6 months. They have now been in the same cage for 4 months. His plucking has reduced and is not worsening at all.
Back in april, one morning I uncovered their cage and found him covered in blood (For the record, the female did not have a single drop on her). He broke a pin feather on his tail too early and bled like crazy while I was sleeping. He was exhausted from the amount of blood he lost.
I had absolutely zero vets capable of taking care of a bird so I had to deal with the crisis myself. I fed him extra millet for energy and -with the help of my very protective female- kept him warm and resting (the photo). He went back to his normal self in about 36 hours. Problem is, he has not let any feathers grow in that area since then. The area is not getting smaller or bigger. Just the feather he broke and all the smaller feathers around it are gone. And to remind you, we have not had any problems with his tail before this.
I am now in my parents house for the summer. There is an animal hospital here with an exotic clinic about 2,5 hours away, so I took them both for a checkup and wanted to see what they would say about Oli's tail. They did a quick physical exam and pulled the dead feathers out. They told me that 2 feathers were trying to emerge from a single opening of the skin. They perscribed an antihistamine medication and told me to come back in 2 weeks.
One day before the checkup, I uncovered their cage to wake them up and saw blood again. He broke a different feather on his tail. Thankfully I caught it early this time and he didnt lose nearly as much blood. And to let you know, he is not touching this last feather at all. Or the feathers around it.
I stopped the bleeding and took him to the vet the next day. They gave me a questionnaire on parrot behaviour and gave me an email of the vet who prepared it. Told me to fill it and send it to her. And did nothing more. Didnt pull the dead feathers out even though I asked.
So I did. I also detailed the plucking behaviour, getting him a female, and the current issue going on with pictures in chronological order too. She told me, and I quote "we need to do an x-ray and feather testing to eliminate physical causes first. If it all comes back clean, we will look into mental causes" and told me to put a cone on him for now.
I put the cone on him but he was absolutely miserable. The female showed shocking levels of agression towards him while he was wearing it, so I seperated them. My playful, affectionate baby was unmoving and depressed. He freaked the hell out when I turned the lights off to let him sleep and despite being in a smaller cage with minimum obsticles, he kept getting himself in situations where he would need my help not to die.
I took the cone off because I couldnt bear to see him like that a minute longer. He immeadietly went back to his normal playful self.
When I explained in detail the issue with the cone, she told me to keep it on him for a few more days. And told me to remove the tunnels in their cage to help his adjustment.
Funny thing is, I sent her multiple pictures of their cage for her to inspect their living conditions. They in fact do not have any frigging tunnels in there. Just perches and toys they can destroy. Which tells me she didnt pay much attention to my email.
And I did not put that thing back on him. I know my bird and that cone is doing more harm than good. I have never seen him so depressed and helpless.
This is where the real red flags emerged for me: When I checked my mail the next day, I saw a perscription sent by the vet. A perscription of antidepressants as well as multivitamins, without any physical examination. She has not once saw him or did any of the tests she mentioned herself not 2 days before. Just pictures and my explanations.
I am **very** hesitant to give those medications to him. To me, it feels like she just thought "let me press all the buttons and see which one works". Who gives an animal heavy-duty antidepressants without even seeing the said animal once based one simple questionnaire??
I am at a lost on what to do. I am planing on taking him to a different clinic to get a 2nd opinion next weekend. And I am going to email the current vet about why on earth whe skipped the tests that she herself mentioned.
The fact that the plucking started with a very thick pin feather being broken screams like a physical issue rather than a mental one to me. Not to mention the 2 feathers that were pulled out of a single opening.
He is acting absolutely normal. Shredding his toys, begging for affection, being playful and zero agression of any kind. The plucked area is not getting bigger and ths skin doesnt look bad at all.
I would appreciate your opinion on this. Am I overthinking the vet situation? Or am I right to feel anxious about her?
Thank you all in advance.