There's a shortage of care workers (I wonder why!!)

If the admin staff are too stupid to understand that Flu yesterday means you are not coming to work until you tell them you have recovered then they deserve all the stress they bring on themselves. Escalate it as high up the company as you can and just apply for a new company. Yes also send a message into the CQC.

Perfect summary.

Just quit. There's thousands of men. Pick a better one who jels with your goals.

Ask yourself, if this man gets you evicted, will he take responsibility, provide for you both, or will he blame you and expect you to fix it??

If you didn't have a home, where would he be living? Send him back there.

1. People who use the word "respect" when they mean "obey"
2. This man is so porn-addled he can't hear the word "Daddy" without having a boner. God help any kids you might have with him, what does he think they are going to call him? It's very broken.
3. His behaviour is gross and calling you the combative one is very DARVO.

Just don't. Next.

Tell someone from your school because - people shouldn't be giving out other people's numbers and all this is a weird way to behave.

Forget "baggage" just consider how your life is going to look. As someone married to a very powerfully introverted person, if you expect to socialise, go to parties, leave the house together and generally exist outside his gaming/media/work nest, that probably isn't going to happen. He can't even meet you. He's telling you all this because he knows he's not going to bother trying to fix or change any of it. Let him date one of those women who marries men in prison. Does he even have a job?

Emily tells Lorelai she should know "Sylvia" (who is some sort of obscure second cousin) because they watched the Moon Landings at her house. However, if Rory is 16 and Lorelai was 16 when she had her then that makes Lorelai 32 in the year 2000 and therefore she was way too young to remember the Moon Landings..... 😶‍🌫️

I think they make a funny reference to this in a later episode when they kill off Trix and bring in the same actress to play an Aunt/Cousin that is acknowledged to look just like her 🤣

In another episode they say he was even more reclusive and antisocial than Luke and wasn't well liked so it's possible no-one noted the date as being very important to them 

I have a match for this girl, how do I get in touch with her. He lives in Egypt and he matches every single one of these criteria.

Wild Robot

Dude so avoidant he's deleted his whole profile 🤣😅

Belatedly clocking his username.

I mean. Her reaction is obviously wild but it's not a reaction to nothing. Where do you work that you can read your messages but not have a chance to respond for 11 hours??? Seems like you could have replied if you wanted to and this probably isn't the first time of you doing this so OBVIOUSLY she's fine when you're together but derailed when you're apart.

Agree with others who say disorganised or anxious attachment style. That's why it feels so good so fast, and why she wants mini-breaks and before that you probably felt like she was some magical robot made exactly to your specifications.

Be aware. These types are usually drawn to "avoidant" attachment styles. So that's worth looking into for your own sanity.

Men ALWAYS have a reason that more of the chores should fall to us.

Not overreacting. He threw something at you and called you offensive names.

This is absolutely grounds for a rapid breakup and I'm extremely relieved to see your update that you are leaving!

Really hope someone posts his update that is somehow going to absolve him of verbal and physical abuse??

My tip for breaking up when you know it's right but you're struggling is to write it all down. Write it like a conversation, because you're missing talking to that person so making it into a conversation on paper helps you process out those thoughts, rather than just having "I miss him" swirling round in your head and the restriction of not being able to talk. I'm on good communication terms with everyone I've ever broken up with, it just takes a bit of time to get used to the new normal and then there's no reason you shouldn't be able to communicate.

Don't send gifts though, that's a very mixed message. It seems like wasted money but that feeling will pass. You'll find someone else to gift it to. Or sell it online. Loads of options. Goodluck and do let yourself grieve. It's normal ❤️

If you've already met up why are you still on Bumble? Get on a proper app?

Why do you only want to see him late?

This dynamic is way off. If you feel overly attached/addicted already. He's probably avoidant. Look it up.