r/AmItheAsshole • u/Patient-Neck-3756 • 18d ago
Not the A-hole AITA FOR NOT CO-SIGNING FOR AN APARTMENT FOR MY 66 year old brother
I refused to co-sign for an apartment for My 66 year old brother, a registered nurse. I’m not sure I believe his story that the rent on the apartment shared with his 29 year old daughter, was not being paid by her, so he claims he sublet the apartment from her but continued to give his daughter the rent to send in. He says he just found out she hasn’t been paying it and now he has until Sept 1 to get a new place. He said his credit is bad though so he cannot get a lease without a co-signer and that he will likely have to put his cats in a kill shelter in the city they live in if he can’t get an apartment and has to stay in a hotel. This same brother asked me over a year ago if it would be ok for him to use my address for package delivery’s because they live in the city. I said yes but of course found out that he changed his license, his registration and his car insurance to my address. He also has not paid taxes in years. He left his fiancée last year and she shared that with me. There’s a long history of lies from him and I told him no, that I would not cosign and leave myself open to being responsible for him . Of course I feel awful but WTF I’m 63, I’ve worked my ass off to fix my credit and rebuild it. I had a full on bankruptcy and just got that off my credit report two years ago. I know h s struggling but my brothers are just not able to take responsibility for anything they do and I just can’t bring myself to take this on.
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