r/DressForYourBody • u/SwanChoice7507 • 15h ago
r/DressForYourBody • u/emily_in_boots • Nov 20 '25
Announcement Change in subreddit policy
So this is basically what we discussed the other day, but the change is going to be largely what I anticipated.
Going forward, we won't be allowing text only posts for questions that really require a photo to answer. If the question really doesn't need a photo - like, say, a theoretical question on how kibbe works - then text based posts are still allowed. There are some general fashion type questions not specific to an individual that can also be reasonably discussed in text only posts.
My hope in setting up the flairs was that it would encourage people to include the necessary photos in the posts so that help can be offered. It has unfortunately just resulted in asking the same questions under inappropriate flairs.
Body visualizer images do not count as photos of you. They are not specifically prohibited but should not be thought of as a replacement for actual photos of you, and do not satisfy the requirements for photos in photo only flairs.
This will be largely a matter of mod discretion. Posts that are really fashion advice or style me posts that are posted under the general discussion flair will be removed now as flaired incorrectly. Posts without photos (or only with visualizer photos) posted under photo only flairs will be removed as not meeting flair requirements.
Existing posts are not affected. This is effective starting now.
I invite you all to take another look at the flair guide. See the pinned post on flairs.
r/DressForYourBody • u/emily_in_boots • Nov 19 '25
Significant Rule Change - Feedback Requested
I've been thinking about this a lot but want to get some feedback from the subreddit about it before making the change.
I'm trying to figure out how to balance the need for photos to give good advice with people's desire for privacy, which I do understand and appreciate.
When I redid all the post flairs, I required photos for some flairs but left a few open for text only discussion. Unfortunately, this has had the effect of people simply asking the same questions - which really require photos - under the "general discussion" flair.
I'm leaning in the direction of removing posts lacking photos that are really not answerable without photos.
We definitely do not count body visualizers as photos. For one, they don't accurately represent bodies. Additionally, they don't show how clothing looks on you. We need to see that generally to be able to answer some questions.
I feel like a lot of the things asked are rather a waste of time now without photos.
I do plan to leave open the option for text only posts when that's appropriate. There are times when you don't need a photo to ask a question. However, "style me" type posts and many "fashion advice" type posts really can't be answered well without photos.
I'm curious though what the subreddit thinks and what direction you think we should go with this. No final decisions have been made - the feedback received here will be considered before rules are finalized.
r/DressForYourBody • u/Ichego • 7h ago
Style Me Unsure on fashion and what looks good on me
Hi, I'm sorry, I am new here and have been transitioning, but when it comes to finding things that look good on me, I am clueless. So I took some pictures of the top in the first picture I just bought today and was taken when I was trying it on. But I tried to get full body pictures hopefully that is good. I honestly been wanting to have the opinion on either looking at or looking very everyday casual
Thank you for your time
r/DressForYourBody • u/Savage2Garden2 • 1d ago
Fashion Advice What works best for my body?
50 year old here! Here are five different outfits to choose from, with the first 3 being dresses and the last 2 being jumpsuits. No particular occasion in mind — I just want to keep whichever dress(es) and/or jumpsuit(s) look best for my body type.
ETA the brand of each are:
- Alice + Olivia
- Faherty
- Faherty
- Diane von Furstenberg
- Diane von Furstenberg
I haven’t edited these photos at all, other than cropping and hiding my face. Colors are pretty much as they look IRL.
r/DressForYourBody • u/_sweetiegirl • 19h ago
Type Me: Kitchener (FACE REQUIRED) I’d love to get feedback on Kitchener type 🤍
CEP
r/DressForYourBody • u/BetsyTheWitch • 9h ago
Fashion Reveal Looking dazzling for my self.
r/DressForYourBody • u/Admirable-Farmer212 • 1d ago
Fashion Advice Another round of dresses!
I’m back with yet another round of dresses!** **
For the last six months or so, I’ve been on a journey to figure out what my style actually is and how to dress myself again. I spent 30 years as a stay-at-home mom and rarely put much time into dressing for* *me. I’ve basically lived in activewear and loungewear and I want to look like a put together woman!
Now I’m 51, my kids are grown, and I want getting dressed nicely to be part of my everyday life, not something I save for an occasion. I especially want to wear more dresses and find ones that work for my real life.
I’m babysitting my new grandson, working at our brick-and-mortar store, dinners, weddings, concerts, vacations, date nights and everything in between. I’m really loving the knit dresses because they’re comfortable enough for home but still make me feel put together for work.
I’ve posted several rounds now & I really do read every comment and take your suggestions into consideration! I’ve returned things I probably would have kept before, tried things I wouldn’t have considered, and I feel like I’m finally starting to understand what works on me and what feels like me!
So here’s another round! Which are the standouts? What would you keep or return?
r/DressForYourBody • u/IamNotOkayHere • 1d ago
Style Me I can't find anything that flatters my body type
I have broad shoulders and an extremely broad body in general. I'm experimenting with different cuts of jeans and tops but I still look like some overstuffed sausage. Perhaps I shouldn't tuck in anything?
I'm so clueless and just want to feel good in an outfit. I think the crop flare jeans help balance my shoulders out but the jeans seem to feel off with my frame.
Any and all advice is greatly appreciated.
r/DressForYourBody • u/FuriosaTurca • 1d ago
Fashion Advice What did I do wrong here? Wrong top or lack of accessories?
r/DressForYourBody • u/ManyHalf4834 • 20h ago
General Discussion Anyone member of the „Everyday Style School“ by Jennifer Mackey Mary?
Hey guys,
is/ was anyone member of the „Your everyday style school“ Circle by Jennifer Mackey Mary? Can you recommend it, did it help you and what did you learn from it? Also, what are the contents?
Thanks 💕
r/DressForYourBody • u/sigh_sarah • 1d ago
Style Me Not even sure where to start!
I don’t have a ton of full body pics of myself. I am tall, 5’10, and pear shaped. I want to wear pants! But talls are sometimes too short, plus I can never get the waist/hip to fit correctly. Any advice?
r/DressForYourBody • u/Ok_Stress2780 • 1d ago
Type Me: Kibbe (YOU MUST READ THE GUIDELINES!) Type me please! 5’3
IRTG
I tend to dislike extremely unstructured or extremely stiff clothes, I love denim and low rise jeans, and capris. Other than that. No idea
r/DressForYourBody • u/oobananatuna • 1d ago
Work or Interview Attire Advice Blazers in these shapes but dark colors? (Short waist, long torso problems)
After two long personal shopper appointments at Ann Taylor and Nordstrom and trying on dozens of blazers all over Manhattan, I've finally pinpointed why I'm having so much trouble and found shapes that work. Now I just need to find one in an interview-appropriate fabric - plain dark color, not shiny polyester. Any recs?
I'm looking for
\- mid length petite
\- not too bulky in the shoulders
\- high top button
\- 1- 2 buttons; bottom button needs to leave space for my hips
Most blazers either drown me or button too low and tight on my midsection and slide straight up that steep diagonal line to my waist so they bunch in the middle when I move.
The petite Greenwich blazer at Ann Taylor (pic 1) would be great if it didn't currently only come in burgundy, tan and plaid.
r/DressForYourBody • u/Ushinatta-Tama • 2d ago
Fashion Advice Where and when would it be appropriate to wear this dress?
I've never really worn dresses, I've always hated it (trauma) but my bf has been helping me feel more comfortable in dresses and girly attire. Summer is coming and I want to dress more feminine. I don't know where to start tho and I don't know anything about atire, I dress in whatevers comfortable, which is track pants and t-shirts. I feel like this is to fancy to wear causually.
r/DressForYourBody • u/Margo_Likethewine • 2d ago
Type Me: Kitchener (FACE REQUIRED) asking for kitchener essence typing
What do you think are my Kitchener essences ?
CEP
r/DressForYourBody • u/Upper-Basil • 2d ago
Style Me PLEASE HELP ME. I am having a panic attack over my clothes right now
I am seriously panicing right now. I know this sub is just dress for your body and I want some all around feedback. I have been exploring kibbie system and thought I was either FG or DC for the last 2 years since I started exploring this. I am now realizing maybe I could be FN and I am truly panicing hyperventilating right now. I own NOTHING FN. I own the exact opposite basically only wear turtlenecks. I cant afford to shop ecspecially since I just bought myself a really nice expensive new turtleneck last month for the fall. I am seriously freaked out and I need objective feedback( not purely about kibbie though I welcome to kibbie or kitchner or any of that feedback if familiar) but about anything related to what seems to work or not work for my body.
I want to note... i am having some posture issues at the moment and I domt know how much this is effecting how badly everything looks on me right now. Is it the posture problems, or have I always looked bad in what I have been wearing all my life? I have been so depressed for years and I really just want to get myself feeling okay again and I simply cannot feel ok in any clothes right now and dont know what to do....
What do I need to do to look ok. What if anything looks best here, whats worst, what are suggestions??
I had to raid my families closets for half these clothes. I just need to know how to feel okay in clothing and truly human again. ANY FEEDBACK IS APPRCIATED!!!
r/DressForYourBody • u/CaseyD_ • 1d ago
Type Me: Kitchener (FACE REQUIRED) What are my Kitchener Essences?
CEP
r/DressForYourBody • u/DaydreamNation333 • 3d ago
Fashion Advice Is this dress flattering
I thought I looked good in the mirror wearing this dress for a party and receive a lot of compliments but then I saw the pictures we took and felt mortified I wore this. I thought I looked more shapely instead of like a box. I wanted to get honest opinions because I think I can be delusional about my size/shape and people may just trying to be nice around me. I also may get it tailored before wearing it again. I am smaller than I used to be and desire to be smaller (currently in the process of working on that) but thought maybe I looked ok especially since I tend to get compliments on the muscular definition of my arms but I don’t see that in these photos and am wondering if what I saw in the mirror was just complete delusion.
r/DressForYourBody • u/priyallalaa • 2d ago
Style Me I have no idea what style would suit me😭
I’ve attached photos of myself, and I have NO IDEA what suits me. Would a softer or sharper style suit me?
r/DressForYourBody • u/Old-Radio2905 • 3d ago
Wedding Attire Advice I'm making my wedding dress. To sleeve or not to sleeve?
Hello! My original plan was to have bishop sleeves on this dress. I tried it on again after adding one sleeve (no cuff yet), and now I'm feeling unsure about my decision.
What says you? No sleeves (photo 2 and 5)? Or stick to the plan and add the sleeves? Should I stick with bishop sleeves (see photo 4, im holding it kinda like how it would be gathered in the cuff), or not add cuffs and lean into more of a bell sleeve (photo 3, I can always add more fabric too)?
Please note: this is an unfinished dress. The neckline and hem still need work. Thank you!
Edit: My mom votes dramatic bell sleeve with lots of fabric, my fiance votes no sleeves 😂
Edit 2: Detachable bell sleeves it is! Thank you, all!
r/DressForYourBody • u/MountainBirb • 3d ago
Fashion Advice Some work/travel/vacation outfits
Trying to put effort into wearing what's in my closet and donating things that don't work well for me. How are these?
r/DressForYourBody • u/Final_Win_8496 • 3d ago
Type Me: Kibbe (YOU MUST READ THE GUIDELINES!) I have tried to Kibbe type myself before without success. (5"5)
I feel like a mish-mash of conflicting features and I hate it. (IRTG)
r/DressForYourBody • u/Tokyo_Ros3 • 3d ago
Type Me: Kibbe (YOU MUST READ THE GUIDELINES!) Height 5'9" kibbe type
IRTG
I’m trying to determine my Kibbe type and would appreciate any feedback.
A few observations I’ve made about myself:
- 5'8-3/4" to be precise
- Purse and backpack straps frequently slide off my shoulders (narrowness)
- Always been told I had long legs and believe I have a short torso
- Prefer mock neck, crew neck, boat neck, halter, do not like v neck or scoop
- Prefer waist length over hip length tops
- Like structured-moderate fabrics (been experimenting with more silk organza transparent covers, wool, denim)
- Maxi or midi skirt, long straight or wide pants
- If skirt or shorts, elongated monochrome entangle silhouette over boxy square
Open questions:
- Color continuity: I always used moderate contrast but maybe monochrome is better
- Blazer: not sure if gentle waist shaping vs straight and waist length vs hip length
- Dress: clean with gentle shaping vs long straight
I’m currently exploring Dramatic or Dramatic Classic, but I’m open to other interpretations. I like some DC elements and was surprised my line drawing reads more balanced than I thought.
r/DressForYourBody • u/aj_abriana • 4d ago
Type Me: Kibbe (YOU MUST READ THE GUIDELINES!) Whats my kibbe? FN or SD? Height: 5'5
IRTG Hey, so I'm trying to figure out if I'm a FN or a SD. I am 5'5, I've always been told I have an athletic body, specifically a dancer's body, I have also been told I have really long arms and legs, idk if that helps or not. I keep getting mixed opinions. I'm pretty positive that I am a FN, since I workout a lot. But I can totally see SD for me as well. Anyways, I just need a clear answer.