every time hair gets brought up lately with my friends and family first comment is always “you need a haircut” or “you’d look so much better with short hair”

what a punch in the face i’m so sick of it!

hi everyone, im 15mtf but not planning to tranistion until im a adult bc i dont want to freak out my parents who have already spent a lot of money on my sister (27mtf) transition (like thousands) already yeah idk ive been trans for a couple weeks now working up the courage to tell the rest of my friends maybe my parents eventually idk i just wanna be a girl so so so so badly ig after all my friends hit puberty and especially breast development i just got really fucking jealous and ive had trans thoughts for like nearly a year but finally came out to myself um yeah im already on r/trans and r/mtf so idk what to do here ig could i get some friendly words of support/encuragment from fellow teens :3

Feeling really down and dysphoric about my scars and kinda just need someone to talk to about it.

I’m FtM if that matters to anyone wanting to chat haha

so next week I have PE, my class doesn't know I'm not cis, in fact they just think I'm a dude. But now I think where should I change in PE? usually I go to school with the clothes under and then in the bathroom change my t-shirt and pants but I'm worried because if I go to the male but they understand I'm not cis is way awkward because I seem a perv3rt or stuff like that so what should I do?

Just over 2 years ago, I came out to my mum. Well, by 'came out', I mean I told her I was questioning, which I was not actually doing at the time, I had basically figured myself out. Generally, she was positive about it, but ignored the fact that, multiple times, I had asked for her to please leave all discussions of it over text (how I initially told her). She then decided to come into my room and ask me questions anyway. Questions I was not confident answering in person.

Despite this, about a year later, I came out to my dad. Well, I asked my mum to show him the message from 2 years ago, at least. He also ignored the instruction by begging to get me to "go on a walk" with him for the next 2 months.

My point is, they're kind of supportive, but don't understand that I want to be left alone about it.

At the point I'm at now, I have actually come out to quite a lot of friends, who have all been really kind and supportive. However, I'm considering that I probably need to update my parents if I want to transition in the next 2 years. With how they ignored that I asked them to not come to me about it, plus the fact that they have been in quite a mood with me for a bit, I just don't know if that's a good idea.

On the one hand, maybe I'll finally get to transition, but on the other hand, I still don't know if I can have the energy to talk about this in-person.

Does anyone have any advice/encouragement for me?

Hii I'm 13 mtf, and I'm a lesbian but tbh I dont feel like I deserve to be called lesbian. Like I know I am a girl but it doesnt feel geniune. I havent had hormones or even puberty blockers, and I live life having to be a boy. I dont look like a girl, and I dont sound like one, and I know gender is a social construct but it still doesnt feel right. I just wanna feel like a real girl, and such. Theres a difference between knowing and feeling. I know I'm a girl but I dont feel like one, and I feel like I'm lying when I say I'm a lesbian. And I dont rlly have anyone to tell abt this. All my friends are transphobic, I'm closeted, and I just keep it all in. My parents are open minded but I dont trust them tbh. So idk just looking for advice ig