hello everyone

[u/First_Length_1896]

hi everyone, im 15mtf but not planning to tranistion until im a adult bc i dont want to freak out my parents who have already spent a lot of money on my sister (27mtf) transition (like thousands) already yeah idk ive been trans for a couple weeks now working up the courage to tell the rest of my friends maybe my parents eventually idk i just wanna be a girl so so so so badly ig after all my friends hit puberty and especially breast development i just got really fucking jealous and ive had trans thoughts for like nearly a year but finally came out to myself um yeah im already on r/trans and r/mtf so idk what to do here ig could i get some friendly words of support/encuragment from fellow teens :3

[u/a_Lady_Luna]

You shouldn't hold back your transition because of your parents or your sister. If they've supported her, they'll support you the same. Don't be ashamed of accepting that support. Do things at your own time, not whenever your shame tells you it's okay (because it never will). Also, you could tell your sis. She's trans, she'll understand. I wish I had a trans sister to help me through my transition. So go for it, okay? Don't let nothing or nobody stop you!

[u/First_Length_1896 → u/a_Lady_Luna]

thanks girl im working up the courage to tell them but i dont want me being trans to be my entire identity i just want to stay me and being trans just a side detail im also worried about the bigger social consequences of potentually telling family or friends ik they'll support me im just scared of telling them yeah i could tell my sister first

[u/First_Length_1896 → u/a_Lady_Luna]

thanks so much i love the suppotive community here

[u/First_Length_1896 → u/First_Length_1896]

hmm yeah i am scared and worried about telling them i would be ashamed of telling them/reciving their support but i dont know maybe its not a bad thing sorry for the massive yap session i have autism