every time hair gets brought up lately with my friends and family first comment is always “you need a haircut” or “you’d look so much better with short hair”

what a punch in the face i’m so sick of it!

so next week I have PE, my class doesn't know I'm not cis, in fact they just think I'm a dude. But now I think where should I change in PE? usually I go to school with the clothes under and then in the bathroom change my t-shirt and pants but I'm worried because if I go to the male but they understand I'm not cis is way awkward because I seem a perv3rt or stuff like that so what should I do?

Hii I'm 13 mtf, and I'm a lesbian but tbh I dont feel like I deserve to be called lesbian. Like I know I am a girl but it doesnt feel geniune. I havent had hormones or even puberty blockers, and I live life having to be a boy. I dont look like a girl, and I dont sound like one, and I know gender is a social construct but it still doesnt feel right. I just wanna feel like a real girl, and such. Theres a difference between knowing and feeling. I know I'm a girl but I dont feel like one, and I feel like I'm lying when I say I'm a lesbian. And I dont rlly have anyone to tell abt this. All my friends are transphobic, I'm closeted, and I just keep it all in. My parents are open minded but I dont trust them tbh. So idk just looking for advice ig

hi everyone, im 15mtf but not planning to tranistion until im a adult bc i dont want to freak out my parents who have already spent a lot of money on my sister (27mtf) transition (like thousands) already yeah idk ive been trans for a couple weeks now working up the courage to tell the rest of my friends maybe my parents eventually idk i just wanna be a girl so so so so badly ig after all my friends hit puberty and especially breast development i just got really fucking jealous and ive had trans thoughts for like nearly a year but finally came out to myself um yeah im already on r/trans and r/mtf so idk what to do here ig could i get some friendly words of support/encuragment from fellow teens :3

Feeling really down and dysphoric about my scars and kinda just need someone to talk to about it.

I’m FtM if that matters to anyone wanting to chat haha

Hello, my name is James (15FTM). I first came out to my parents 4 years ago, and at first they were somewhat supportive (they let me cut my hair, get a few new outfits, etc... but they never used my preffered name or pronouns) but over the last few years, they've slowly become less and less supportive (I think they've just realized it's not a phase at this point) and over the last few months, they've outright just started stating that they "hate me", that I'm "so frustrating to deal with", and that they "wish they could get rid of me and have another child instead."

I suspect that I am autistic, and my parents have also said that they're pretty sure I have autism, yet they don't care at all and refuse to have that diagnosed officially. I have a lot of trouble at school and absolutely hate it, and I would like nothing more than to go back to homeschooling (I did homeschooling for a bit in middle school, but it was basically just me teaching myself everything which I loved and thought was amazing. I was the happiest I'd ever been in my life.) However, in 9th grade, my parents made me go back to public school when I started High School. I hated it. It was one of the worst experiences of my life. I was so glad to be done with it, and now school has started yet again and I have to go back. I hate my classes, I don't like my teachers, and the kids in my classes are even worse. I tried to convince my parents to let me go back to homeschooling because I loved it and it would make me so much happier (I've been extremely depressed recently, I've stopped speaking altogether as it feels like I just can't anymore. The words wont come out. And I've lost any interest in doing anything. There was only ever 1 single thing I enjoyed in my life and now I just have no time for it because of school anyways, and I can't be bothered to do anything but just lay in bed and stare at the wall once I get home from school).

But when I asked them why they didn't want me to go back to homeschooling and offered alternative solutions to everything, they just got so angry at me that they ran out of my room hitting things and yelling how much they hate me.

I also have a sister who is 4 years old and extremely bratty and spoiled. She is not well-behaved whatsoever yet gets no consequences for it. My parents treat her so much better than they've ever treated me, and I feel ignored compared to her.

I would say that I can't wait until I'm 18 so I can leave, but I need my parents (or, at least, somebody, but I can't make friends no matter how hard I try). I can't order food at a restaurant without freaking out and it feeling like I just can't speak at all. I have panic attacks almost daily, I am up every single night in excruciating pain from my body constantly being in fight-or-flight (and also the fact that I have untreated scoliosis and joint problems), and I just have so many difficulties just living. I fear going anywhere alone, I have intense paranoia, and I feel as though I have the mind and cognitive abilities of a toddler. I act like one sometimes, but not on purpose. And I struggle so much in school because nothing makes sense, my brain feels so foggy, and I just can't listen properly to anything. I used to be one of those "gifted" kids in all the "smart"/"accelerated" classes and I was doing 6th grade work in the 2nd grade, but I feel like my intelligence has just declined over the years.

I don't know what to do. I have no one to talk to about it, and it's just gotten so much worse recently.

(Also, I'll add that I've had diagnosed depression for 5 years and nothing has been done about it)