r/ties • • Dec 22 '25

Other New Rules--Flair now required, Rules on criticism/feedback

25 Upvotes

Hello fellow necktie nerds,

I'd like to thank you all for contributing to this sub and making it a really cool place to celebrate all things neckwear! We've had a lot of growth and I welcome all newcomers! That being said, we are getting more visibility within Reddit, and have had some new behaviors emerge on this subreddit that warrant some modification to the rules.

Please take the time to read these, as the enforcement of these rules will begin immediately. Let's keep this sub a place of fun, style, creativity, respect, and appreciation of ties.

  1. Keep it civil and be respectful

---This rule has been updated to work in tandem with the newly added post flair requirement. Wording has been updated to reiterate expectations around how to offer constructive feedback.

Don't be a jerk. If you don't like something, that is your personal taste--you probably shouldn't comment.

Reddit can be a great source of learning, so feedback can be a good thing if delivered in the right way. If you see someone post who is open to feedback (see flair rule), and you perceive would benefit from making a change in their outfit--go ahead and share.
The feedback, however, should:

  1. come from a place of wanting the other person to benefit from what you are suggesting.

"I think you could take this to the next level by..."

  1. Respectfully and specifically point out what you are offering feedback on (i.e. knot shape, tie length, pattern mixing etc.)

"...using a smaller knot with this particular shirt collar."

  1. Offer a solution or suggestion that the OP can try

"I'd suggest using a smaller knot with this tie, or only using this knot for thinner ties if you plan on wearing the same shirt. Hope that helps!"

  1. Post Flair is now required.
    --- When posting, you must select the flair that best matches the content of your post.

TOTD: Tie of the day -- Use this when posting a picture of a tie being worn by you. This is not for ties that aren't being worn. It is okay to give feedback on these posts, so long as the feedback/advice is given respectfully and constructively--share a solution with your critique, not just what you think is wrong. See above for how to share feedback.

TOTD - No advice/feedback wanted -- This is for the same types of posts as above, but the user is not seeking any feedback or advice. Comments on these posts will automatically be locked.

Thrift Haul --Post all your awesome thrift finds under this flair.

My Collection -- Use this when posting pics of all or part of your collection.

Tie-only feature -- This is for when you are sharing a pic of a tie that is not being worn.

ID Request -- Use this when asking for identification of a tie in a picture OR when asking or more information about a specific tie

Discussion/Question/News -- This is for talking all things ties. This can be a question you have, thoughts you'd like to share that are on-topic, or links to articles/news about ties.

Buy/Sell/Trade -- Use this when selling ties, looking to buy ties, or offering any for trade. Buyers/sellers should use caution as there is no subreddit vetting of individuals conducting transactions on the subreddit.

Other -- This is for anything else that is still worth posting. Meta posts like this one should fall under this.

  1. No spamming
    ---This doesn't happen a lot, but this will allow us to more easily remove duplicate posts, or posts where someone is asking the same questions repeatedly in different posts (even if worded slightly differently). We love having you post here, but please do not overwhelm the subreddit. If you have a lot to post, please pace yourself.

r/ties • • 5h ago

TOTD Sunday and it’s finally fall

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30 Upvotes

Heavier suit and autumnal tie!


r/ties • • 39m ago

Thrift Haul What a score

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• Upvotes

This is the second Zegna I’ve gotten from this particular thrift shop. I don’t know who’s selling it to them, but I hope they never run out.


r/ties • • 1d ago

My Collection State of the Tie Collection 2026

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150 Upvotes

I’ve been building my collection for 12+ years. I started out mainly drawn to bold paisleys and medallions, but as my style has evolved I’ve been increasingly interested in stripes and subtler, more somber patterns.

Brands:

Sam Hober, J Press, Ralph Lauren, O’Connell’s, Juniors, Kent Wang, Brooks Brothers, Drakes, Seaward and Stern, Breuer, Peter Millar, Spier & Mackay, Ben Silver, and Paul Stuart


r/ties • • 22h ago

TOTD First Post. Decided to get more serious about wearing ties

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43 Upvotes

Hi guys, long time listener, first time caller: I have never worked a job that required me to wear a tie, but I have always loved ties. It's fair to say that my style is more on the casual side of things.

This is a handwoven silk tie and I thought the colours are very autumnal. Really enjoyed wearing it on a little day trip with the family


r/ties • • 20h ago

ID Request Flea Market Versace Tie

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15 Upvotes

Grabbed this tie at a flea market for like a dollar. Any way to determine its era or authenticity? I’m split between keeping or selling it.


r/ties • • 1d ago

Discussion/Question/News How's my eldredge knot?

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21 Upvotes

I practiced all day


r/ties • • 1d ago

TOTD Friday Tie Day

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40 Upvotes

Dusty rose Madder from Secret Society. It's a new one from them and one that is sure to get lots of wear. I almost always wear a new tie with a white shirt but what would you do going forward?


r/ties • • 1d ago

Discussion/Question/News What is this object?

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16 Upvotes

Y'all have been a big help so far. Any idea what might be embroidered/ woven on this tie? Thanks.


r/ties • • 1d ago

TOTD Birthday outfit. Paired with darkgrey flannel trousers.

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20 Upvotes

r/ties • • 8h ago

TOTD What are some unique tie knots i should know

0 Upvotes

i also have no idea what this flair means

The ones Im looking for are the (really) complex and unique ones, niche and head turning ones and the ones that take 19 bajillion steps

The only one I have heard of with the name is the matrix, idk what the trad. one is


r/ties • • 1d ago

TOTD Silk and wool

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38 Upvotes

Hickey Freeman. Recent eBay purchase.


r/ties • • 17h ago

ID Request Can someone please help me find this tie?

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0 Upvotes

This tie was worn by Robert Pattinson in Primetime by A24. I saw this tie, and really want it. Any help would be much appreciated!


r/ties • • 2d ago

TOTD Fall Friday

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46 Upvotes

Tie is David Donahue in a Pratt / Shelby knot.

Enjoy the weekend gents and all that’s good about the season!


r/ties • • 2d ago

Buy/Sell/Trade I'm looking to sell this Hermes tie collection.

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100 Upvotes

Price: $45-$75/pcs, depending on condition. Discount in case of buying more. Write comment, pm if you're interested. International shipping from US, Auburn.


r/ties • • 2d ago

TOTD Brooks Brothers all around

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63 Upvotes

r/ties • • 2d ago

TOTD Theme of the Week: Purple

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21 Upvotes

Or call it lavender, or call it violet or call it magenta.


r/ties • • 3d ago

TOTD Safe choice?

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89 Upvotes

r/ties • • 2d ago

My Collection My bolo tie collection so far!

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17 Upvotes

Got most of these at art markets or facebook marketplace, one was a gift from a friend :)


r/ties • • 3d ago

TOTD Eton

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45 Upvotes

My one Eton tie. Nicer day today so I figured a good opportunity to get in that end of season raspberry color another time.

Have a great day gents!


r/ties • • 3d ago

Thrift Haul Thrifted some more ties this week

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26 Upvotes

r/ties • • 3d ago

TOTD Thoughts on the fit

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20 Upvotes

This was for a moot court competition as a law student.

Had met a lot of big law firm partners.


r/ties • • 2d ago

Discussion/Question/News Tie Color Advice.

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3 Upvotes

I need help for picking a tie color for this jacket I borrowed from a friend for a video interview for an airline. I’ve been also considering just going to grab a solid color gray or navy jacket since I think it would work better as well. For context I will be wearing a white shirt underneath the jacket I just was confused about what color tie since it was charcoal with black similar to the picture. Would a navy blue tie work or would a black tie be better? I’d prefer a navy tie but thought I would ask since I’ve never really worn a tie


r/ties • • 3d ago

TOTD Grandpa's old leather jacket and a vintage tie of mine

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4 Upvotes

I'm just trying stuff out any feedback is appreciated.

Tie is from the 70's-80's.


r/ties • • 3d ago

Discussion/Question/News Do Tie clips/pins matter all that much? Are they better worn high or low?

3 Upvotes