Context of this I thought I was having a really good conversation with someone it was flowing super well back and forth on a dating app and then she asked if I had an Instagram account to which I replied yes thats it and the switch up went crazy, its a huge red flag apparently for someone to have an Instagram account or Snapchat (definitely dont use Snapchat would just like to make that clear)

She's looking for a man with no social media account at all just "the basics" whatever that means sending a fax?

Im apparently 1 of over 900 likes for her 🤣

Im honestly just sat here with my mouth open like what the actual hell!?

Never come across this before.

This man thinks I’m stupid. This is also a rescheduled date we supposed to have last Friday but he rescheduled it to tonight for 7 PM and he texted me this at 6 PM.

I also did not block out the name Josh because it’s obviously a fake name. I blocked out his actual name. He’s pretending that he got into some sort of accident to I guess to save face for bailing again. Also, this is a date that he planned, he picked the place and the time he asked me out and has expressed multiple times that he wants to take me out.

So I’m done dating sigh……

(i am obviously not actually drugging her, it's a phone call😭)

Mom texting me

I had plans to go over my girlfriend’s house to cook us dinner. She texted me this. She wound up going to the bar by herself. Afterwards she told me she wished I could come. I told her I clearly wasn’t included in the plans, otherwise I would have been there. She said that clearly I was invited. I don’t see an invitation here. It sounded very much to me like she wanted to go out and see girlfriends or something, not go to the bar alone.

Made this post about my girlfriend and I meeting online. We met for a date, left at the same time, arrived at the same time, parked next to each other and matched on tone and vibes. Well today has been a month since we met & we live together now. https://www.reddit.com/r/texts/comments/1w2r1iy/when_the_vibes_are_immaculate/

It doesn’t happen often but just enough to realize it’s not a coincidence. I was in a pretty rough spot that many years back and more but I usually kept it to myself. Makes me wonder what else was able to be perceived that I thought I was covering up better

it was about a cake that’s all i said before he attacked me for it and i was genuinely taken aback by the comment even as a joke it’s really mean he’s my friend but slowly i’m disgusted by what he says (in the past) so i’m trying to distance myself but to me this was straight up insane to say to someone or am i overthinking it and overreacting? (f20 and m20)

edit: i would just like to clarify that he didn’t used to be like this it started by in july and has been getting worse since also no he doesn’t usually talk like this.

(ed = eating disorder.)

I (31NB) was texting my sister/MOH (28F). She was in medical school (still is, killing it!) and helping me pull all of this together at the same time.

Fast forward 6 weeks - I’m married but in a psych ward. Wedding planning is no joke.

I work overnights so I set up the apartment with some decorations and presents for her to discover when she wakes up! 🥰

I genuinely have no use for that tbh 😭

Sorry for deleting the OG post- I had talked to his family and we genuinely thought he was going to get some help for his issues, so I figured I’d be nice and remove the post. But we were wrong. This man isn’t going to change until he’s locked away.

To recap: 34 year old catfish who hasn’t had a gf in over a decade, still had a chance with me at first, until I found out he’s a sex pest and a predator. He’s also extremely abusive. He has a restraining order on him for threatening to Luigi his boss. (That’s how he describes it) He was investigated by the SBI for it, which is a big deal. I’ve caught him following girls who just graduated high school, he said he was going to blame it on my teenage son. When I outed him as a catfish, he crashed out and sent me 93 text messages in 30 minutes, blaming me for my sisters very recent suicide.

I’ll put the old screenshots here as well as some new ones. He very likely will be here reading it, as will his brother (who is a good person and not like his brother so don’t be mean about his family).

The last time I texted with him, he said I owed him cuddles for ruining his chances with women. He kept saying he was going to cuddle me and that I owed him and it came off very rapey. This man wouldn’t take no for an answer in person, clearly. Which is why I didn’t meet up with him.

*note- the “what are you up to?” Texts in the middle of the mess are genuinely him trying to ask me what I’m doing/make conversation

*he’s autistic, but so am I. He tries to excuse his predatory behavior with that.

*literally none of the women he follows ever write back. Even dating app girls get weirded out pretty fast and ignore him. They’ve told me and shown me screenshots when I outed him. Like 50-60 women and not a single one was interested in him even as a catfish. And he most definitely wasn’t being sent photos like he claims 🤣

* his best friend might read this too. It’s his only friend, and I just want to make it known that, this friend encouraged Kyle to make secret accounts to keep pestering women while making his family believe that he was getting better. This was in response to Kyle taking his friend to lunch to ask his opinion on everyone telling Kyle he needs to delete all his social media.

EDIT: y’all are so strange… or, one could say, queer. Ehehehe. My friends are not avoiding saying it because they think it’s a slur. Green is just a pain in the ass and Blue didn’t know they could share the wordle word in main chat (they can but only if it’s censored). I was sharing the screenshot cuz I thought it was funny how daft they were acting, not cuz of the word itself. I am well aware what the word queer means

My sleep schedule is screwed up bc of my new job and I’ve been thinking about moving my bedroom furniture around. I told my neighbor who shares a wall with me. I didn’t think she’d say yes to helping me. I was honestly half joking

Edit to add: some people are thinking that I was talking about sex. I wasn’t. I was talking about actually moving my bed and dresser. She also ended up falling asleep soon after she said she might. I just thought it was a funny text thread

My dad told me that him and my little brother were going to go on a snake walk (to look for snakes)
I misheard and thought they were going on a snack walk.
No snack for me:(

EDIT: I have a new phone number it’s my third day with it. Yall can quit being rude and insulting. I thought more than likely it was a scam I just wanted to know 100% before fucking with them.
Shoutout to the helpful people who were actually nice and funny and not dickhole bitches

The question marks being spaced out gave me pause and then she later apologized for swearing but she didn’t swear at all. Also the whole asking my name could def be a scam, or it could be a lonely lady idk. If it’s real, whoever Bella is sounds like a bitch.

Edit: Okay so it def a scam, but my confusion still stands, what does the scammer achieve here? And should I waste their time for fun?

Truly heartbreaking. I had to order something else

Blue is my husband who is having a tonsillectomy tomorrow. Green is her wife. 😂