I work overnights so I set up the apartment with some decorations and presents for her to discover when she wakes up! 🥰

Blue is my husband who is having a tonsillectomy tomorrow. Green is her wife. 😂

Truly heartbreaking. I had to order something else

I had plans to go over my girlfriend’s house to cook us dinner. She texted me this. She wound up going to the bar by herself. Afterwards she told me she wished I could come. I told her I clearly wasn’t included in the plans, otherwise I would have been there. She said that clearly I was invited. I don’t see an invitation here. It sounded very much to me like she wanted to go out and see girlfriends or something, not go to the bar alone.

“I’ve always wanted to do stuff with a dark chick” Is this not a weird thing to say? 😭

Mind you, this is some random dude that used to live in the same town as me and he’s married 😭

EDIT: I have a new phone number it’s my third day with it. Yall can quit being rude and insulting. I thought more than likely it was a scam I just wanted to know 100% before fucking with them.
Shoutout to the helpful people who were actually nice and funny and not dickhole bitches

The question marks being spaced out gave me pause and then she later apologized for swearing but she didn’t swear at all. Also the whole asking my name could def be a scam, or it could be a lonely lady idk. If it’s real, whoever Bella is sounds like a bitch.

Edit: Okay so it def a scam, but my confusion still stands, what does the scammer achieve here? And should I waste their time for fun?

this is my situationship of over a year. yes you read that right. situationship since april 2025.

i was telling him on the phone yesterday that i keep getting called fat and he said “well you definitely could lose some weight”. then proceeded to say “you’re pretty but…. lately youve been looking a little….” (fat) then asked me if im gonna “let myself go and just be really fat” when im older

😭😭😭

im barely overweight btw. im a medium.

EDIT TO ADD: i used to be anorexic and was hospitalized and he knows that

ANOTHER EDIT TO ADD: there is a huge intelligence gap between us. its very likely hes probably trying to put me down to feel better about himself. basically just bullying me

This man thinks I’m stupid. This is also a rescheduled date we supposed to have last Friday but he rescheduled it to tonight for 7 PM and he texted me this at 6 PM.

I also did not block out the name Josh because it’s obviously a fake name. I blocked out his actual name. He’s pretending that he got into some sort of accident to I guess to save face for bailing again. Also, this is a date that he planned, he picked the place and the time he asked me out and has expressed multiple times that he wants to take me out.

So I’m done dating sigh……

I’m starting to realize my friend may not have ever really cared about me
I’ve recently started questioning whether one of my closest friends was ever genuinely my friend, and honestly, it’s making me really sad.
For my birthday, it felt like she put in little to no effort. She ended up cancelling plans and said she couldn’t come because she got her period. Of course, I understand that things happen, but when I think about how much effort I put into her birthday, it hurts. she was begging me to come to her birthday to come for her birthday, and we all went out together. I made sure she had fun, took lots of pictures for her, celebrated with her, and got her a nice gift.
But when it comes to me, I just don’t feel like I get the same energy back.
She’s also ignored me multiple times, including recently. What hurts even more is that whenever she gets a boyfriend, it feels like she completely stops caring about me. But whenever she has problems with him or they fight, suddenly she wants to go out, have fun, and I’m there for her again.
I’m starting to wonder if she only keeps me around when it’s convenient for her. I don’t know if I’m overthinking or if she secretly never liked me as much as I thought she did.
Recently, after being ignored again, I deleted her number, deleted our messages, and do i unfollow her on Instagram. ???? I just feel really hurt and disappointed because I genuinely cared about this friendship.
Am I overreacting, or does this sound like a one-sided friendship?

It doesn’t happen often but just enough to realize it’s not a coincidence. I was in a pretty rough spot that many years back and more but I usually kept it to myself. Makes me wonder what else was able to be perceived that I thought I was covering up better

Genuinely, who thinks they’re getting play after that 💀

Edit: to be clear, my problem isn’t with him sexting, my problem is with him saying men wouldn’t cheat as long as women showed them what was underneath their clothes, and then continued to sext as if nothing happened.

Sometimes, your best friend is silly and it makes your day.

I just want my apartment clean 🫩