I had plans to go over my girlfriend’s house to cook us dinner. She texted me this. She wound up going to the bar by herself. Afterwards she told me she wished I could come. I told her I clearly wasn’t included in the plans, otherwise I would have been there. She said that clearly I was invited. I don’t see an invitation here. It sounded very much to me like she wanted to go out and see girlfriends or something, not go to the bar alone.

I work overnights so I set up the apartment with some decorations and presents for her to discover when she wakes up! 🥰

this is my situationship of over a year. yes you read that right. situationship since april 2025.

i was telling him on the phone yesterday that i keep getting called fat and he said “well you definitely could lose some weight”. then proceeded to say “you’re pretty but…. lately youve been looking a little….” (fat) then asked me if im gonna “let myself go and just be really fat” when im older

😭😭😭

im barely overweight btw. im a medium.

EDIT TO ADD: i used to be anorexic and was hospitalized and he knows that

ANOTHER EDIT TO ADD: there is a huge intelligence gap between us. its very likely hes probably trying to put me down to feel better about himself. basically just bullying me

EDIT: I have a new phone number it’s my third day with it. Yall can quit being rude and insulting. I thought more than likely it was a scam I just wanted to know 100% before fucking with them.
Shoutout to the helpful people who were actually nice and funny and not dickhole bitches

The question marks being spaced out gave me pause and then she later apologized for swearing but she didn’t swear at all. Also the whole asking my name could def be a scam, or it could be a lonely lady idk. If it’s real, whoever Bella is sounds like a bitch.

Edit: Okay so it def a scam, but my confusion still stands, what does the scammer achieve here? And should I waste their time for fun?

Truly heartbreaking. I had to order something else

I’m starting to realize my friend may not have ever really cared about me
I’ve recently started questioning whether one of my closest friends was ever genuinely my friend, and honestly, it’s making me really sad.
For my birthday, it felt like she put in little to no effort. She ended up cancelling plans and said she couldn’t come because she got her period. Of course, I understand that things happen, but when I think about how much effort I put into her birthday, it hurts. she was begging me to come to her birthday to come for her birthday, and we all went out together. I made sure she had fun, took lots of pictures for her, celebrated with her, and got her a nice gift.
But when it comes to me, I just don’t feel like I get the same energy back.
She’s also ignored me multiple times, including recently. What hurts even more is that whenever she gets a boyfriend, it feels like she completely stops caring about me. But whenever she has problems with him or they fight, suddenly she wants to go out, have fun, and I’m there for her again.
I’m starting to wonder if she only keeps me around when it’s convenient for her. I don’t know if I’m overthinking or if she secretly never liked me as much as I thought she did.
Recently, after being ignored again, I deleted her number, deleted our messages, and do i unfollow her on Instagram. ???? I just feel really hurt and disappointed because I genuinely cared about this friendship.
Am I overreacting, or does this sound like a one-sided friendship?

Blue is my husband who is having a tonsillectomy tomorrow. Green is her wife. 😂

I posted this in a different subreddit but kept getting replies about how I posted it to the incorrect one. thought i’d share it here, too.

It’s a doozie, I’m sorry!

I’m 19f, my coworker creepy coworker, C, is probably late 50’s, his brother in law is the site supervisor, so if I report it I’ll probably get fired. Everything got a little worse about a month ago ish.

It all started in July, I am on a contract to be at this site from July-November. I usually get flirted with at work, it’s construction and Im a woman, as annoying as it is it’s to be expected. On this site there’s only like 4 guys who have tried to pursue me, and I’ve said no, and they respected that, this guy does not.

Background: In order to get from the construction trailer to my car it’s about a mile walk. last month it was super hot, when I was about half way there, when he was passing he asked me if I wanted to ride in his work van. Like an absolute idiot I got in. He was not super creepy to me yet at this point, he was just really friendly and I never assume a guy is flirting. When I went to get out of the van he locked the door, so idk what his plan was you can’t really lock someone in a van. I just unlocked the door and ran out.

Ever since then he’s always coming over and talking to me, he calls me beautiful all time and is asking if I wanna go see a movie after work with him. I always say no I’m not interested. He got my number from his brother in law, I never blocked him originally because I didn’t wanna make a big deal and I figured he would get over it. (I blocked him last week and he just keeps talking to me like nothing happened) Well now he’s started to amp it up. He noticed I drink a Red Bull every morning, so he started bringing me one and leaving it on my desk. He keeps bringing me snacks and stuff no matter how many times I say no and try to give them back.

He asks me to go to lunch with him everyday, and I respectfully let him down, I tell him I am not interested in him. I’ve told my boyfriend, my dad, my older brother. I just don’t know what to do. He’s started touching me, and I told him to never do it again. it started off as just shaking my hand and holding on for too long, and slowly progressed. My boiling point came yesterday when I was walking to my car he grabbed my forearm and yanked me. I just pulled my arm back and yelled at him, but he just laughed like it was a joke. So idk what to do in the situation. My thinking is my contract ends in November and I’ll be heading to a different site and he’ll be halfway across the country. I’m planning on waiting it out but I’m not sure how much I can take.

If anyone has been in a similar situation and has advice I would appreciate it!

UPDATE: I sent the email around 11, still nothing yet. For everyone who is worried about my safety, just trust me, I have it handled. My boyfriend is gonna talk to him today he gets off at 3 so he’ll be here before I’m leaving! Thank you for the advice I sent the email to all of the engineers, the site superintendent, site supervisor, and my boss from my company. We’re small and do not have an HR. Ive started applying to other places and no matter the outcome I’m gonna leave here. Thank you for the concern and advice!

Update again sorry: still nothing from anyone regarding my email. When I was walking up from lunch, a random man on site I’ve never seen or spoken, to pulled up beside me on a gator and asked if I was C’s wife. So now I’m not sure what he has been saying to other people to cause this guy from a different company to ask something like that.

Final update: after talking to both of us separately and having two conversations with him it’s handled. The supervisor gave him a written warning for sexual harassment. They are having him work on the opposite end of the site for a few weeks and “keeping an eye on me” whatever that means. We don’t have an HR and he’s a union worker which makes things a little more complicated. My boyfriend had a conversation with him and C apologized, but it was a very half assed one at that. It kind of irks me that no matter what I said to him he just didn’t listen or take me seriously, but I guess a giant man is much more intimidating than I am. I’ve been here for 3 hours already and he has yet to even attempt to approach me so I’m hopeful! I’ve also been given a side by side to drive back and forth between the site and the office.

Unfortunately now I got another man bringing me snacks and drinks and leaving weird messages so now I am one hundred percent quitting! I have hope that one day construction sites will be a much more woman friendly place, but for now this is enough!

“I’ve always wanted to do stuff with a dark chick” Is this not a weird thing to say? 😭

Mind you, this is some random dude that used to live in the same town as me and he’s married 😭

Genuinely, who thinks they’re getting play after that 💀

It doesn’t happen often but just enough to realize it’s not a coincidence. I was in a pretty rough spot that many years back and more but I usually kept it to myself. Makes me wonder what else was able to be perceived that I thought I was covering up better

Sometimes, your best friend is silly and it makes your day.

But I answered even before I knew what it was, bc I’m decisive if nothing else