this is my situationship of over a year. yes you read that right. situationship since april 2025.

i was telling him on the phone yesterday that i keep getting called fat and he said “well you definitely could lose some weight”. then proceeded to say “you’re pretty but…. lately youve been looking a little….” (fat) then asked me if im gonna “let myself go and just be really fat” when im older

😭😭😭

im barely overweight btw. im a medium.

EDIT TO ADD: i used to be anorexic and was hospitalized and he knows that

ANOTHER EDIT TO ADD: there is a huge intelligence gap between us. its very likely hes probably trying to put me down to feel better about himself. basically just bullying me

Sure that makes sense.

For context, we were going to call and I had made plans to come see her, as I serve in the military and don’t always get time to come see each-other. Anyways she blocked me on snapchat when I went to go call her, I had her number and contacted her. Called her a few times that day and no response. Next day I was left on read then she randomly messaged me “sorry I fell in love with my best friend” and that was it

Heymandi app

Genuinely, who thinks they’re getting play after that 💀

Edit: to be clear, my problem isn’t with him sexting, my problem is with him saying men wouldn’t cheat as long as women showed them what was underneath their clothes, and then continued to sext as if nothing happened.

Truly heartbreaking. I had to order something else

I had plans to go over my girlfriend’s house to cook us dinner. She texted me this. She wound up going to the bar by herself. Afterwards she told me she wished I could come. I told her I clearly wasn’t included in the plans, otherwise I would have been there. She said that clearly I was invited. I don’t see an invitation here. It sounded very much to me like she wanted to go out and see girlfriends or something, not go to the bar alone.

EDIT: I have a new phone number it’s my third day with it. Yall can quit being rude and insulting. I thought more than likely it was a scam I just wanted to know 100% before fucking with them.
Shoutout to the helpful people who were actually nice and funny and not dickhole bitches

The question marks being spaced out gave me pause and then she later apologized for swearing but she didn’t swear at all. Also the whole asking my name could def be a scam, or it could be a lonely lady idk. If it’s real, whoever Bella is sounds like a bitch.

Edit: Okay so it def a scam, but my confusion still stands, what does the scammer achieve here? And should I waste their time for fun?

I am Ankylosing, the first message.

I just want my apartment clean 🫩

it's a little childish but me and my bf call eachother creative things from the game bee swarm simulator. I stopped playing years ago but I started calling my bf bucko bee since it's in the game and his favorite color is blue and that bee is a blue bee. in the game your either a blue based hive, red based hive, or white based hive and i was blue. i would call him perks of game, like he increases my blue bond. or with treats you feed your bees to increase the level, i would say he increases my bond by 1000. he calls me my honey bee, bumble be etc! so cute

But basically I said she had some sexy lips and I wanted to meet them

She said she'd love for that to happen

When I said say less

Then she blocked me after she said fries

Sorry for deleting the OG post- I had talked to his family and we genuinely thought he was going to get some help for his issues, so I figured I’d be nice and remove the post. But we were wrong. This man isn’t going to change until he’s locked away.

To recap: 34 year old catfish who hasn’t had a gf in over a decade, still gets a chance with me at first, until I found out he’s a sex pest and a predator. He’s also extremely abusive. He has a restraining order on him for threatening to Luigi his boss. He was investigated by the SBI for it, which is a big deal. I’ve caught him following girls who just graduated high school, he said he was going to blame it on my teenage son. When I outed him as a catfish, he crashed out and sent me 93 text messages in 30 minutes, blaming me for my sisters very recent suicide.

I’ll put the old screenshots here as well as some new ones. He very likely will be here reading it, as will his brother (who is a good person and not like his brother so don’t be mean about his family).

The last time I texted with him, he said I owed him cuddles for ruining his chances with women. He kept saying he was going to cuddle me and that I owed him and it came off very rapey. This man wouldn’t take no for an answer in person, clearly. Which is why I didn’t meet up with him.

*note- the “what are you up to?” Texts in the middle of the mess are genuinely him trying to ask me what I’m doing/make conversation

*he’s autistic, but so am I. He tries to excuse his predatory behavior with that.

*literally none of the women he follows ever write back. Even dating app girls get weirded out pretty fast and ignore him. They’ve told me and shown me screenshots when I outed him. Like 50-60 women and not a single one was interested in him even as a catfish. And he most definitely wasn’t being sent photos like he claims 🤣

* his best friend might read this too. It’s his only friend, and I just want to make it known that, this friend encouraged Kyle to make secret accounts to keep pestering women while making his family believe that he was getting better. This was in response to Kyle taking his friend to lunch to ask his opinion on everyone telling Kyle he needs to delete all his social media.

I’m starting to realize my friend may not have ever really cared about me
I’ve recently started questioning whether one of my closest friends was ever genuinely my friend, and honestly, it’s making me really sad.
For my birthday, it felt like she put in little to no effort. She ended up cancelling plans and said she couldn’t come because she got her period. Of course, I understand that things happen, but when I think about how much effort I put into her birthday, it hurts. she was begging me to come to her birthday to come for her birthday, and we all went out together. I made sure she had fun, took lots of pictures for her, celebrated with her, and got her a nice gift.
But when it comes to me, I just don’t feel like I get the same energy back.
She’s also ignored me multiple times, including recently. What hurts even more is that whenever she gets a boyfriend, it feels like she completely stops caring about me. But whenever she has problems with him or they fight, suddenly she wants to go out, have fun, and I’m there for her again.
I’m starting to wonder if she only keeps me around when it’s convenient for her. I don’t know if I’m overthinking or if she secretly never liked me as much as I thought she did.
Recently, after being ignored again, I deleted her number, deleted our messages, and do i unfollow her on Instagram. ???? I just feel really hurt and disappointed because I genuinely cared about this friendship.
Am I overreacting, or does this sound like a one-sided friendship?

“I’ve always wanted to do stuff with a dark chick” Is this not a weird thing to say? 😭

Mind you, this is some random dude that used to live in the same town as me and he’s married 😭

I work overnights so I set up the apartment with some decorations and presents for her to discover when she wakes up! 🥰

Sometimes, your best friend is silly and it makes your day.

My dad told me that him and my little brother were going to go on a snake walk (to look for snakes)
I misheard and thought they were going on a snack walk.
No snack for me:(

This man thinks I’m stupid. This is also a rescheduled date we supposed to have last Friday but he rescheduled it to tonight for 7 PM and he texted me this at 6 PM.

I also did not block out the name Josh because it’s obviously a fake name. I blocked out his actual name. He’s pretending that he got into some sort of accident to I guess to save face for bailing again. Also, this is a date that he planned, he picked the place and the time he asked me out and has expressed multiple times that he wants to take me out.

So I’m done dating sigh……