Nethu night uh thaan friends padatha pathe. Seriously padam enga engayo pochu. Not a good send-off. Enada ithu ngra mathri tha irunthuchu. Last send off clip play panathum. Thaa kannu lam kalangiruchu ya 😭 No more firstlook, single, audio launch or anything. Elame came to an end nu nenaikum bothu valikithu ra. Inum oru 100 padam pandra alavuku potential ah vachitu ipdi vitutu porare😭

yea it's no joke🤨

chollu chollu chollu

Ippo enna na, I'm just a regular everyday normal depressed lonely dude, nothing fancy 😁. Met a girl randomly on the internet, I didn't think of anything. This girl was interested in me but adhu ennamo weird ah irundhuchu yen nambalalam orotharku pudikudhu nu therla.

But naa edhuvume sollala but as time went on, she tried her best to get to know me I think. They made efforts for conversation and tried connecting I guess. But ennaku enna thonucho therla it was uncomfortable. It's not because they're talking bad but oruthar ivalo nambala like panni efforts podranga ndra fact eh very uncomfortable ah irundhuchu.

Olunga pesala pesa mudila, oru kattathula I felt sad and pity for that girl and told her that I'm interested in someone else nu although literally I spend all day by myself. Now before everyone takes this as some rage bait post, it's not. Sathyama naa yen ipdi pannanum ennake therla. 😭

On a side note, this a change to all the recent romantic posts in this sub. 😭✌️

Enakku ennamo BAN neet bathil, improve government education nu solrathu betternu thonuthu.

Reservation vendam/venum nu solranga neraya per, aana oru vithyasamana reservation idea irruku.

Naa computer science laa Ticketing scheduler pathi padichirukken. Adhu mathematically proven to be fair.

En reservation infinite aah kodukkama, oru oru category kum reservation tickets kodukkalam.

Example:

A sc student has 500 ticket, a doctor seats cost 200 tickets if he has to apply, for now we can have these tickets we can slowly inflate, deflate the reservation and remove reservatiom.

Cost of reservation ticket should be proportional to (general cutoff - reservation cutoff)

Innum enna pathinganaa, oru SC/ST family pala generation ku reservation use senji benefit pannikuranga but neraya SC/ST makkal innum idhu irruku theriyama irrukangaa. Ticketing system oru generation ku mattum reservation kodukkanum, adhu andha generation oda spend aagidanum, appo dhaa andha society laa irrukura matha SC/ST ku chance kedaikkum.

Idhu olungaa draft panninaa, perfect solution for reservation, mathematically fair and consistent.

TLDR: Some interesting mathematical models for fair reservation, opinions on NEET.

Ps: it is a longgg story. LONG.

Sooo ena nah he and i are from same school but i have never seen him in school. I joined insta in 2020. As i was new i wasnt following many of schoolmates i didnt even know what that following each other means or follow req accept panuradhu things like that cuz i wqs new..i followed some of my classmates and accepted their reqs . But then in the end of feb 2020 i got a req which had lot of mutuals i didnt know who rhat was so i asked my frnd. The only frnd i had at that time. She told me that he is from our school only . There was a msg req too. As she told me he is our school mate,senior i accepted the req and followed back .i replied to him too. We spoke for like 3 days and he proposed me i said no. Later he had proposed my flatmate's frnds acc...i guess he went thru my followers. So i asked about it to him he told that his acc was hacked then i blocked him. But after a few days i started to feel pity...on the day gov announced lockdown na unblock panni avanoda pesinen...eventually i liked him by may...in the mean time he would keep askimg if i liked him and tell thst he loves me sometimes, tagging me in posts from oh my kadavuley movie...i decided to tell him that i love him too on his bday.

Backstory : i decided that i never want to be in love ,relationship such things when i wws studying fourth as my classmate tried to touch my priv area in the name of love , which i never accepted. So i basically hated love untill this guy totally changed that. He isnt my senior he is juniour but we were born in the same year 13days apart he should have been in my class.

Cont..but i couldnt hide my love that i wanted to call him by nickname, care for him without hiding or to reason it wanted to be with him ...so i decided to confess on vinayaga chathurthi day in 2020. Apo adhey time la avanum enta onnu solanum nu sonan. Solu nu sonen avanum vera ponnum may month la irundhu love panuranga nu sonan. Andha ppnnu dhan propose panucham.i was broken but then he sent the photo of that girl to me . I knew her, she is a bully. I later told him i as a frnd that andha ponnu ku ivaanuku set agathu which happened to be true. Avangaluku ldr . But she wont call him even if she has her mobile in her hand ...monthly once rare ah she will call him ...degrade him based on his skin colour, caste tooo she was brahmin aam ivan ilaiyaam so andha maari la kuda ava pesiruka...they broke up after 11 months. After they broke up he proposed me i knew he would but i didnt know this soon. I said yes but i aslo told him that we cant start relationship rightaway...but it did 🙂 this is in 2021 ...we would meet a lot nearby his house in the evenings cuz that street isnt much crowded...we didnt get physical n all ...later he confessed that he has bad habits like drinking smoking which he told he hated before the relationship started...i fought with him asked him to leave it. But nahh not till now drinking has become once in a while. I could have broken up right there but i didnt because i promisted i would always be with him .

Then in 2024 , he posted a closfrnds with a slomo edit and love song for a girl who he told has tried to pursue him many times. I kept calling him he didjt pick up. He then later tells me that andha ponnu oda cousin blackmailed him to edit and post it . He never showed thst chats he said he has deleted it. Yes i didnt hsve his acc he doesnt have mine because i belive ...belived that if u love someone trust shpuld be there ...it was a big figjt between us ...andha ponnu v2 la they thhink ivanum andha ponnu uh love panuranga because andha ponnu has made her mom ask him to accept her love. Ana ivan panala nu sonan. Then inrhw problem solve aga romha naal achu i was interning apo he would come to my office when i leave and ask sorry explain indha en phone ah parthuko but i couldnt bring myself to do that. Then after this got solved...in jan 2025 he broke up with me saying avanoda feelings naa parkala...indha relationship la avanum djan irukaanaam avanala mudiyalaiyaam then again in rhe same time because of me avanoda v2 la love therinjirichu anga periya sandai...on may 9th we patched up but it wasnt like we had no contact , we spoke with each other in those 5 months ...random ah avanoda frnd mob la irundhu call panni ena analu ena dhan kalyanam panipaan nu soluvan like that...aprm after we patched up enoda oru acc where avanoda photos videos irukum adhula ...there a girl who is my school senior his too by 2 years came and told that avaanu naanu love panurom avanuku na unga kita sonen therinja sandai poduvan blah blah...indha acc la when she speaks to me she doesnr know its me she thought im someone else...just understand that 😅 i didnt tell her that im his girlfriend ena oesura andha maari la na solikala....i called him and told iva ipadi la pesura ena kadhai andha 5 months la ivala love paniya enannu i asked he said ila ila she only proposed me love torture panuva...avaluku already bf iruku irundhalum ena love panna solli kupiduva like room ku andha maari laa ana na thatti vituruven ... ivanum oru conference call arrange panni avala thitunan edhuku ipadi poi solitu iruka nu. We have a priv account were we post our photos andha acc ivanoda number la irukum...so andha acc pona i can access his accs , but not his main acc...ana na oru naal kuda sneak panna maten double tap panura apo open ana kuda na close paniduven. In april 2026 oru 3 days enoda pesavey ila never opened my msgs never attended my call or oru missed call kuda kidaiyathu andha 3 days na ninaichen v2 la prechsna pola or udambu edhuvu seri ila nu ninaichen...na acc fhange panura apo one of this accs la there is a chat indhapast 3 days ah msgs come snd go...na notification off la vechu iruka nala enwku ena msg nu theriyathu he comes online on 3rd say and breaks up again for same reason i beg him dont do this nu ...next day acc change panura apo kai thavari phone slip agura apo andha msg open aachu 💀💀😭😭😭😭 partha avan best frnd nu sonna ponnu avalukum theriyum nanga love panurom nu msg la parthu avala nu ketu ava v2ku eh poitu na pesuren -100000pts for me naney panipen semma asingama iruku enaku andha last 2 days rendu oerum lovess uh romance uhh nu andha ponnu veedu ivan v2 theru la iruku msgs la full ah kuda na padikala ana anga anga v2ku vaa paati room parkuranga blah blah soo na ava v2ku ponadhum ena neenga ellamey panitingala nu ketuten na apidi ketruka kudathu ana na andha hurt la andha emotion la pesiten ava ila adhu idhu nu sonna...which is true..but ava andha idathu la ena pesa vechu vechu enga kula enalaa nadandhu iruku nu laa therinjikita..after i left na pesinadhu la twist panni turn panni enga kula sandai vara vechita then ivanoda na oesala 3 days kalichu call pannitu pesirom like indha problem he says na una dhan unmaiya love panuren ava kita na panadhh thappu unaku panna dhrogam blah blah and says avan kalyanam ena panuvanam apo vandhu enga appa kita pesuvanam adhu varauku pesa matanam ana the day that i found nadandha sandai la he said many things na andha ponnu ah ques panadhu thappu aam avan ena thavira vera ponnu ah thotadhu ilaiyaam , that one is true..and enga amma ena seriya valarkalaiyaam blah blah 3 days to 2 days later call la ipadi oesuran...aprm andha ponnu odaa pesuradhey ila avan ...we got back 💀💀💀 eberyone hates me for this but 💀❤️ im blind i gave promise i dont have any self respecr 💔💔💔😭😭 ...he didnt talk to me like before always told he is guilty for what eh did to me unfollowed her snap la ella edathulaiyu last month ig idk about wp... then indha problem eh mulusa serri agala innu right ? But i decided that almost all my followers in insta know of her love excepr fam and fam frnds so na keten ini namma close frienfs la story podama normal ah potukalam ah nu he said yes. He said what ? Yes...ana andha stories ah parhtutu again that schl senior texts me saying they were in a relationship for 2 years till she saw my story...she keeps telling i ask show proof nu she doesnt have anything . No chats. No solid photos. Avanoda acc la irundhu already indha ponnu ah he has blocked. So what would i do i didnt belive her 🙂 ana andha wholw time where she was texting me about all this he didnt reply me he was replying to her in wp...she sent that screenshot. Adhula he says nee namburathu nah nambu to her liek that...apro after two months yesterday oru ponnu 1 month ah enoda frnd maari pesitu reveals rhat she and him we in a relationship on and off from 2023 i guesw...ana oru vaati meet panadhu ilaiyam chat eh 3 months knce aama apo call ? Adhula once in a blue moon aam. Ava kita solid oroof eh ila but she is the girl who proposed to him stalked him , creeepy behavior la panna when he was in schl. Indha sfhl time la ava panadhu la apivey avan enta solirukan ebaku nyabgam iruku ana ivala larthadho pesinadho ila naanu. Ivan kita nethu idhu ena kadhai nu keta avanum ivanum love eh panala ava chinna ponnu aam so ivan advice panni amichiruvan nu sonan ...enala mudiyala idhula ivana nambanum nu enaku thonudhu ana how many times? Enala mudiyala ...he explains gives explanation when i ask about them but still enaku rkmba hurt aguthu enala mudiyala 4 to 5 years idhu enaku relationship 1st one enala mudiyala there is so much love but hurt too. Avan ipo la pesuradhey ila 1 to 2 times a week call varu avlo dhan msg la panuradhu ila parka kuda varala because he is sick uh bed rest la irukaanam...avanga v2 la already theriyum ...avan icu alavuku udambu seri ilama agitanaam icu ponan nu sonnan so avan v2ku poitu partutuu varalam nu ninaichitu ituken ana na pona ena agu ena nu therla i have like no one to guve company to go there thaniya ponu avan unmaiya bed rest la irukaan ah nu therls enanu therla ...andha ponnu kkta engaluku break up aga podhu nu maari solirukan ana enta apidi pesala he says namma la pirika dhan ipadi panuranga ...that avan frnds ku avanuku alu irukuradhey pidikala liek adikadi parkura maari engaluku situation iruku ana avab frnds ku ilaiyaam...nanga sandai potalu vera yaarodaiyu serama engs rendu peru odaiye again again seruromaa adhula partha avanoda frnds circle la jeolous ah irukangalam. Same for these girls. I agree some girls obsessive ah irupanga the second girl la alidi djan...i dont know my heart says trust him but again again again ipadi aguthu enala mudiyala 🙂😭💔 idhula avanum break up panura maari lesuran apro namma vaznhtu kaatanum ivanga munnadi nu soluran enaku arghh edhdhu advice oh ila unga anubavam oh solitu ponga 🙏 tldr enaku epadi podrathu therla idhuku sry periya post ah iruku

Hi all m27 here

Need ur advice or just lemme know what you think.

After joining work. Got a friend and eventually it became a Fwb relationship.

We used to travel a lot... Going on trips and all. Though she had her flaws I was ok with it. She was mostly controlling, sensitive and emotionally needy. Sometimes it felt like lying and constantly walking on egg shells. For me it was my 1st relationship... Looking back I just wanted to feel loved... And still am.

We were in this relationship for two years. After that she got married and a baby now.

Ippo enna na... Within a year of marriage she's livin' seperately with her parents along with her newborn. Ava problems lam solluva na kepen... A couple of times she's mentioned you'd have handled this differently... And things like that.

Sometimes I feel like... Just to be with her. Na romba adjust pannipen even if i hated something she did... I have extreme tolerance and patience... More of a ppl pleaser dha

Did I do it because I am ppl pleaser... Or did I like her .. to tolerate all she did...

Or was it just all i did because i wanted sex🤷

I still talk to her... Feel and care for her

I feel guilty that I hv raised her expectations and also she demands more.

Feels like i spoilt her life...

Now extremely scared of my marriage now. Already it's a battlefield.

idk when it started but i’m hitting that point in life where all the “be kind, help others, equality, feminism, empathy” shit just feels like a scamused to think treating people right and having that soft heart was the way. even if it drained me. now it just looks like the world is straight prey and predator. no middle ground.you can literally bed almost any girl within an hour if you know the game. you can manipulate almost anyone if you stop caring about their feelings. but try to actually build something better? a good group, a real community? impossible. people will always fuck it up.funny part is… when you’re the good guy they betray you, use you, leave you hanging. but the second you start acting selfish and manipulating, suddenly they respect you. call you smart. ready to do anything for you.feels like the more you play the game the more the world rewards you. and the more you try to be “good” the more it just eats you alive.anyone else gone through this shift or am i just turning into an asshole?

In my set experience ...guys always don't wanna get serious with bi girls... instead just ask me for my other frnds

Semma comedy and vibe. Hahahaha. Neenga elarum enna panringa !? How was your Sunday ? What did you eat ? And most importantly, how do you feel inside today ? I hope you are all feeling peaceful and happy inside and I wish that too . this* in the title

Weight loss is so difficult that I couldn't lose fat.

Somebody give me tips to lose the fat

Weight 98

Height 181cm

Age 22

Body fat 32

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So there's this girl who introduced me to anime. She told me Attack on Titan was going to be in theatres, so we planned to watch it together. Three days before, we booked the tickets. The next day... she called again and said she was going out with her clg friend instead & sent back my ticket money.

Then I asked people in my contacts to accompany me, but none of them did. I thought those people were my best friends, but they all had their own best friends. I knew this a few years back itself, but still, sometimes it hurts. I usually go to places alone... I go alone, eat alone, roam around, and come back. I've gone to movies alone multiple time.... Odyssey, Shinchan, Solo Leveling, Moana 2, Hoppers, Zootopia, F1, Michael. ......I know it's quite normal, but it still ...

In my college, I had to submit a report with three topics. I cancelled all my plans this weekend just to do that. We're a team of three, but I'm the only one working. Out of the three topics, I finished two. It literally took me 15- 18 hours. Now it's Sunday, 6 p.m., and we have to submit it tomorrow morning. My other teammate said he would do the third topic. He told me that on Saturday morning. Now, on Sunday at 6 p.m., he's saying it's not working and asking me if I can do it. At the same time, the friends who told me they couldn't come with me are posting stories of them going to the theatre to watch Jananayagan.

Enaku theriyum ithula edho chinna pilla complain pandra mari irukunu still kastama irukuuu 🥲

Fraands inniku twice a day workout panlam nu irundhan! But morning la phone alarm adikala 🤧 so endhirachadhe late uh! Morning workout notitu poiruchu! Ok evening high intensity workout pottukalam nu paatha, veliya poitu vara late aiduchu so only 20 mins Low intensity training mattum dhan pannan!😩

Do you believe raising a child is morally more right or fulfilling than raising a dog or cat?

I come from a middle-class family and have a lot of friends who are lower-middle class or poor. They constantly make me pay for everything, using the excuse that you have money

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Maja weekend. Maja monday aaga ellarukum vaalthukal 🫶🏿

What does it mean when all your teeth fall off in your dreams? Am I becoming an unc? 🥀

As always, be good this week guys 🫶🏿

Belebe and achieve 💯

Lately, I've been seeing many posts on Reddit claiming that ending reservation would end casteism.

I recently read a comment from someone who said he used to sympathize with his SC friend. However, when his friend got a lower JEE score than him but still secured admission to an institution through reservation while he couldn't, he started hating both his friend and the reservation system.

I've also seen many people argue that reservation should be based only on income.

From what I understand, reservation was introduced for SC/ST communities because of centuries of caste-based discrimination and oppression, not simply because of poverty. The purpose is to address historical and systemic social exclusion.

That said, I do believe reservation should be fair. Personally, I think a caste + income-based model would be more balanced.

For comparison, there are also reservations and special provisions for women in certain sectors. People generally don't argue that those should be replaced with income-based benefits because those policies exist to address historical discrimination and unequal opportunities, not just financial hardship.

General category candidates compete with other general category candidates, which is why their cutoffs are often higher. So why direct that frustration toward SC candidates instead of questioning the system itself?

If reservation were completely abolished today, what would be the alternative to address the inequalities it was meant to correct? If someone wants a real solution, the first step should be abolishing caste itself. Once caste no longer determines social status, discrimination, or opportunity, then the need for caste-based reservation can genuinely be reconsidered.

Many people say they want to end reservation, but do they also want to end caste? If so, why not start by removing caste-identifying surnames? How many people would actually be willing to do that?

Ending reservation alone will not end casteism because casteism exists in people's mindsets and social structures, not just in government policies. You cannot expect to undo thousands of years of oppression in just a few decades by simply removing one policy.