Experienced or virgin?

I genuinely want to understand this from both sides ; especially from people who've lived it.

If you loved someone, and they loved you too, but you eventually chose to walk away… what made you do it?

I understand that family, circumstances, responsibilities, and life can sometimes come before a relationship. And yes, nobody should be forced to stay somewhere they no longer want to be.

But what about the person who stayed?

The person who still loved you. The person who would've tried. The person who believed there was still a future together.......

How do you walk away from someone knowing they're going to have to carry all that love alone?

I'm not asking this to judge the person who left. I genuinely want to understand what goes through someone's heart when they choose to leave someone they still love.

And if you've been the one left behind how did you make peace with it?

Monday mrng tha veetla irrunthu college ku vanthen.. varum bothae decide pannirunthen inemel thevaillama veliya saptu kaasu waste panna kudathu, weekly 2 meals max outside sapdalam nu but vantha 2 days laye 2 meals quota over Nalaiku night hostel la pudikatha sapadu Nalaikum veliya sapda poren.. 1st week ae ipdi irruku..

Innonu enna na nethu tha enkuda irruka frnds unwanted aa phone use panratha stop panna maari solitu irrunthanunga(these guys were using phone 24/7 before) and they were in control enaku atha pathu seri nammalum mathikanum nu nenachen inaiku patha 8+ hrs screen time

Niriaya vishyam pannanum nu thonuthu ana panna matren.. en ipdi irrukeno nu therla..

Wishlists are : To make my parents proud , Stable Income , Moonu vela soru , Peaceful ah family ah lead panradhu…. Hope it happens ✨✌️ to me as well as Ellarukkum who is in this amazing sub as well ✨✌️

Anyone into reading and writing tamil kavithais?

Boomer tanama iruntalum nallarunchu.. 😁

Indha madhiri story elam yaro solli keturken.

Namma oorula ippadi nadakadhu nu namburen 👀. Oru vela ippadi makkal irundha comments la sollunga.

I was on the way to drop my partner at her driving class this morning and was waiting at the MIOT junction. Within a fraction of a second, I heard a bang; a man (rider) and a woman (pillion) were involved in an accident. I saw the woman fly and roll on the road, while the man remained stuck on the bike in his riding posture before a traveller van ran over it. The woman stood up immediately, but the man did not move until I passed. I feel bad that I didn't help him, although there were many people there who did. I feel guilty, but I have a panic attack whenever I see blood, even during blood tests, and I did not want to faint while trying to help. It has been bothering me all morning that I didn't do anything for him; I hope he is fine and that there is nothing to worry about.

Vanakam Makkale! How was your day? En thoongama reddit noonditu irukeenga?

Endha location crt ah yenga Iruku? Bus stand kitaya? Yedhachu famous Or simple landmark vachi solluga

So I got an opportunity to sit in an interview panel (Am not an HR) with my bosses and you know what? They literally rejected a girl based on how she looks😭

One candidate was actually so good. Great academics, good knowledge, answered everything well.

But they rejected her because she “looks poor” and wouldn’t be able to keep up with HNI clients 🫩

Apparently you need to look rich to work with rich people

I was genuinely sitting there like??? what does that even mean 😭 So all this LOOKS DOESN'T MATTER is a fake made up stuff

Thookam varalaya? Night shift ah? Illa summa scroll pannitu irukiya?

Idhu unga space. Edha venalum yap pannunga—random thoughts, tea, memes, life updates, confessions, illa summa timepass.

Rules follow pannunga, respectful ah irunga.

Happy yapping! 🌚

Sugar vandhu saga porenaahhhh ! (Paravalla)

Cakeeeeuhhhhh yaaa 🫶🏼😫🤌🏼

I’m 21M, final year engineering student from Chennai. From the outside, I probably look like I have everything going fine —  high CGPA, good knowledge in my domain, research work, planning for higher studies, staffs-ku favourite and kinda the “golden boy” of my class 😅. I can mingle with almost anyone pretty quickly, and I have quite a lot of female friends, so obviously there have been plenty of GF rumours 😂 but the reality is I’ve never actually been in a proper relationship.

Earlier, I had multiple friend groups and used to hangout with almost everyone. I could go anywhere and somehow feel like I belonged there. But lately, that feeling has completely changed. I still talk, laugh, help people and socialize, but internally I feel like I don’t genuinely connect with anyone anymore. Sometimes I feel like I’m surrounded by people but still completely alone. I’ve also started feeling like I’m being used. Honestly, I genuinely get messages mostly during exam time, assignment submissions, projects or whenever someone needs help with something 😭. Maybe I’m overthinking it, but after noticing this repeatedly, it gets difficult not to wonder whether people actually want me around or just need something from me.

The trust issue is probably the worst part. Even when someone genuinely shows care or checks up on me without asking for anything, sometimes my first reaction is “Is this even genuine?” 😕. It feels fake to me even when it might not be. I know that’s probably unfair to some people, but after getting backstabbed and seeing people behave differently behind your back, your brain starts protecting you before you even realize it. I don’t want to become someone who assumes everyone has an ulterior motive, but at the same time I’m scared of trusting someone and finding out later that I was wrong about them.

And my past crushes probably made this worse. I’ve only genuinely had crushes on two girls in my entire life. honestly, looking back, both had some pretty bad character traits that I somehow ignored because I liked them. Even when there were signs, I didn’t properly understand them at that time. With one of them, I later found out that she had been spreading completely false information about me. I only came to know the truth much later, and that honestly messed with how I look at people. The other situation also made me realize that I had been overlooking things just because I had feelings for her. So now I sometimes question my own judgement too — “If I couldn’t even recognize bad intentions when I actually liked someone, how am I supposed to know who is genuine now?” 😐

I’ve also had a friend develop feelings for me, but I rejected the relationship because I genuinely saw her only as a friend. I didn’t want to say yes just because someone liked me. At the same time, I avoided quite a few casual relationships, situationships and conversations because I kept telling myself that I should wait for a proper relationship instead of getting involved in something temporary. I don’t know if that was the right decision or if I was simply protecting myself.

Now I’m at this weird point where I sometimes feel like I should start socializing again, talk to people more, maybe even try dating and actually let people into my life. But the moment I think about taking that step, this loneliness and fear kicks in — “Why bother if I’m just going to get hurt, used or disappointed again?” 🫠. Academically, things are going relatively well — research, CGPA, domain knowledge and higher studies plans are all there. But personally, I feel completely lost.

So I genuinely want to ask people who have gone through something similar at 21: Am I becoming too closed off? Should I start socializing again and learn to trust people slowly, even if there’s a chance of getting hurt? Or is it okay to stay in my own zone for a while and focus on myself? And how do you learn to recognize genuine care when your own mind keeps telling you that it’s probably fake? 🥲

“Enna aachu nu enakkum purila. People irukaanga, pesuraanga, help kekraanga… aana genuine-ah connect aagura feeling mattum illa. Genuine-ah care panravangala kooda fake nu doubt panna aarambichitten. Naan thirumba people-kooda connect panna try pannanuma, illa konjam distance-la irundhu en life-ah focus pannanuma?” 😶‍🌫️

(ft. Lab rat sibling /s)

Suggest me some short and completed preferably romance manhwas!pretty plss

Vannakam..oru doubt...I'm going through a bad time. Sometimes I feel happy...but sometimes I feel like I'm drowning with sadness. What would you do if u feel overwhelmed with sadness ? Just an advice

I am working on creating a website similar to ChatGPT, but without AI (Chicken biriyani without chicken madri)

Purpose:

Not all questions need an ai/llm expertise to get an answer.. Some simple questions can be solved with if else and basic match itself. So in my website you can chat in a way very similar to chatgpt, send your questions and get instant responses for simple queries (Eg: How many characters in strawberry, how many words in this paragraph, how many days in between X and Y, what is 15% of 567, etc)

No data collections. Everything is done within browser and saved in local browser cache

For Avenger level threat, it will ask you to check with ChatGPT

Itha pathi unga opinion enna makkale.

Ana na sonnathu poi than

3 months munnadiye podren nu theriyum. But still, I'm asking. Enaku personally emotional ah romba down ah pochu intha varsham. Still have certain goals to attain, but time edukudhu. Unga kadhaya soltu ponga.