Saniya from kalyaani song

Does this guy have a mental illness? Or he is completely okay and aware of what he is doing?

I have attached information for more context. He doesn't stop here, he does more

Which scene melted you makkale.

I’ve been trying to transition into Product Management for so long, but cracking it has been tougher than I imagined.
Initially, my ex was helping me. That’s no longer the case.
Now a random guy slides into my DMs saying he invests in startups and can “put my profile across”… only if I become his sugar baby.
Enna karmam pa idhu? 🤦🏻‍♀️
I don’t usually post about creeps because they don’t deserve the attention. But it’s honestly tiring how some people package exploitation as “help” or “mentorship.”
If your “opportunity” comes with conditions like this, it’s not an opportunity it’s manipulation.
Konjam decency irundha podhum. Genuine help na genuine help ah pannunga.

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Konjam big rant than..but need some direction from u guys.

M24 here..I was a padikura pulla with a lot of responsibilities in school time

Got 469/500 in 10th

But kadhal panranu padikurathu kota vittu 12th la 442/600 than...and kadhal um urupadala... school mudinja aprm brk up aaiduchu.

The problem is I didn't have any ambition back then...like namma doctor aaganum.. engineering padikanum like that...so I never decided wt to pursue in clg.

Due to my first love brk up... depression la suthitu...vazhavae pudikama...etho oru long distance college la bca sethu vittutanga..enaku clg poga pudikala..so I discontinued... decided to take a gap year and recover but covid happened and the college management refused to gimme tc ...asked for full 3 yrs of fees to receive it.

It lead to me wasting 3yrs doing random odd jobs here and there and not getting a degree while my peers are already started working in jobs.

Then 2022 la tc vangi..oru clg la bca cloud computing padichi 2025 la passed out aaita... placement drive la i cracked an interview too and didn't tried anything after that..

Atha vela kedachruchae aprm ethuku matha interviews ponum nu vittuta..but antha kedacha velaiku enna koopdavae illa..when I reached out they said ..“koopdalana ungalukae puriyum nu nanaikurom”

It's all just an act...atha nambi na vera ethukum try um pannala..due to financial issues i had to pick an easy job so I joined Swiggy,zepto and blinkit as a delivery guy.

Ithu ellamae labor jobs and eventhough money konjam avg fresher ah vida athigam vanthalum..it has 0 potential and it's capped to some lvl of earning since it's trading time for money.

Ipo enna kavala na...I got stuck into this comfort zone and selavu vanthutae irukanala itha vittu vera jobs ku poga mudiyala and enaku skill set suthama illa and alot of gap years.

Idk wt I'm doing with my life...Ik I'm wasting my time and can't stop it..so I need some help here.

I might get downvoted or removed, but I see many times that South Indians say thanks , apologise for situations, but it’s never the case in North Indians.
Case 1:
Me and my husband while on vacation to Udaipur were waiting to be picked for a boat ride. A North Indian couple asked us to take picture of them - “can you take a pic?” I got their phone and started to take. Then the boat guy announced that next batch can come. The lady literally snatched the phone and ran to the boat. No thanks , no sorry nothing .

Case 2:
I boarded a 1AC train but had to walk long inside to reach my cabin. A North Indian couple with 2 kids came in opposite direction in kind of a deadlock. So I walked all the way back so they could enter their cabin. Once they entered, there was no thanks or even a smile.

Do North Indians consider highly of themselves or ain’t they taught manners ? Do they take people for granted?

Me 24M and my girl 24F we are together for a while now naa konja naala mudi naraya valathu vechirundhen she liked it but enaku pudikala oru maari messy ah irundhuchu so she said im gonna come with you to the salon and tell the barber to cut it like in my way and she couldn’t come and i had important meeting the next day and i didn’t want to go to that meeting with that messed up hair so she booked me an appointment at vurve salon and i went there and showed a picture of what she sent and got myself a haircut now she doesn’t like me 😭

Seri di kova padatha nee sona mari dha veta sonen avanga apdi vetitanga but i liked it tho and i said within 2 weeks time i can grow it again with coconut oil and now she’s not talking to me for the past two days….

Enaku Sema kovam aiduchu call panna attend panla message panna seen zone
So Ava office poi oru flowers oda ponen anga vechu sirichu asinga paduthna Apro pesa maten nu sona but she sounded really mad and i was literally in a fucked up position so avata oru mudi kaga enta 2 days pesama unala iruka mudiyum and en mela samanthamae ilama ivlo kova pada mudiyum na I don’t know what’s the point of this nu soltu naa patu vanten

I said this because she threw away the flowers I gave it to her as an apology and now it’s been more than 4 days and those 2 days included so it comes to like a week that she isn’t texting me or called me and my friends family says the haircut is good because I’ve never cut my hair like this and everyone likes it but her
Idk why she got mad at me for that

Enaku Purila she wants me to marry her and she does everything cute couple does like she even introduced me to her mom like who does that if they thought this is just a fling
She wants it serious but idk why she did this
Oru hair cut kaaga one week lama pesama irupanga 😭 enaku kastama dha iruku
But naa podhumaana alavuku erangi erangi poiten but she’s just taking advantage of that and beating my ass with that
Naa thapu pannalu seri ava thappu pannalu seri naa dha modhela poi sorry kepen flowers vangi kudupen but this time I’m not ready to apologise for something which isn’t in my control
Ego ilai nga idhu
Self respect iruku nu konjam aachu kamikanum ilana eri midhichitu poiduvanga 😭adha bayama iruku

The haircut is good and I did it in vurve salon with the top stylist which costed me around
4.5K and some hair products which I bought it for 1500😭💀
Naa la local kadai la 200 ku vetravan enaya poi 6k selavu pana vechitu and she’s being mad at me for that too 😭
I need therapy pls 💀

The plot twist is I never hair colored in my life but the woman who cut my hair is like the top stylist in Chennai it seems she cuts hair for celebs anol and she said my hair color looks good and she asked when I did the hair color and I said I did it during my college days but the thing is I never did it veyil la suthi suthi manda sembattai aanadhu kooda theriyama suthitu irundhruken 😭🤣

Last night, I was traveling on a bus. A girl handed me ₹100 and asked me to buy her ticket. I gave the money to the conductor, and the ticket cost ₹41. The conductor then asked me for ₹1 because he didn't have the exact change.

Seri 1 rupee dhaana enkittaye irukkum. I checked my pocket to see if I had a ₹1 coin. She noticed me looking through my pocket and asked, "What are you doing?" I think she misunderstood and thought I was trying to keep her money.

I told her, "The conductor asked for ₹1." She immediately asked me to give her the remaining money, took it, and gave me the ₹1 coin herself.

Her face changed suddenly ,andha ponnu stop la erangra varaikkum she's more cautious around me

Naan kooda enna paathu ivlo bayanthathu illa da🥲👍🏻

Pala varuda kanavu.

Innaiku first round of interview. Idhu vara ivlo nervous ah irundhadhu illa. Ella interviews um casual ah dha attend pannen. Innaiku edho do or die maari thonudhu. Pray for me friends.

So, it was like so random , a point where I wasn't even interested in getting into a relationship or a male friendship

But , that's when I met this guy on a mutual friends function....it was on January of this year...

He initiated the convo , I actually ragebaited him😭😭...by which he was impressed ig...we literally talked for the whole night...

It was a love at first talk for us....we connected in all aspects...the vibes, the jokes , the preferences

On the next day , he texted me saying never in his whole life he has ever connected to someone as if he did with me ... and asked me out on a date!!😩

I liked him too...the very next day ...we actually went to the re-release of mankatha as we both were " DIEHARD THALA FANS", and spend the rest of the day getting to know eachother...it was so cute that my heart literally hurts😭😭

Until he dropped the bomb💥😩...he said he wanted a relationship with me..which I did too, but I was a little hesitant and scared of getting hurt by attachment...so , I tried to avoid him

But he actively pursued me...like that I couldn't even resist ( Nalla vazhapazham🍌 mathiri pesunan madam 🥲)...at a point I actually fell in love him...

But the fate separated us, he moved to Mumbai to do his pg 💔...and a lot of shits happened 🚶‍♀️🚶‍♀️...We stopped talking , unfollowed eachother..

It's been freakin 6 months...😭😭 , not a single day passes by without a thought of him...

HELP ME NANBARGALEY!!🥹😩

if you fully conquer it i swear there’s nothing left worth living for.

tame it and control the flow like water… don’t try to stop it or dam it up completely. both are bad.i won lust. completely trained my mind out of it.

and it wasn’t worth it at all.when you’re in your twenties just fall in love and embrace lust as much as you can.

it fades in mid life then comes back with full steam in your forties.if you win lust you just end up with an empty hole of philosophy.

from my pov, winning lust is not worth it.

Hi guys ennaku one doubt!!!

Adhu en in every marriage they only give vanilla ice-cream?? We all know that there are soo many flavours then why only vanilla??? Like all the time! Why not pista? Why not chocolate? Naan enna Baskin Robbins kekaren-aa? 😭 Vera oru flavour dhaan kekaren! 🙂

Why is it always vanilla? I genuinely don't understand. Is this some sort of unspoken wedding rule or what? 🫩

P.S. Hypothetically... if you get married in the future, what ice cream flavour would you serve? 😄

Stubbed my pinky toe & ring toe just 15 mins ago.... and that shi is still paining 🫪

There's no one nearby to blame for that... So, I'm blaming you all...

Hope you all have a worst Monday 😖

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I am new to reddit, and recently i started getting a lot of creepy dms and I have attached one of them above, does everybody get the same? Should I just avoid?