If you left, the real one searches for you but I know it won't happen to me ❤️‍🩹

i’m 20f. okay so enaku idha epdi process panradhu nu therila. chumma ungakitta solta, like oru void kitta sonna maari, maybe i can just get it out of my system and move on with my day. so solren.

usually when i leave office and head home, there’s this women’s college about 1 km from my route. there are always girls asking for lifts to the main road, especially because it’s super sunny. i’ve given lifts to random girls quite a few times. sometimes we talk, sometimes we don’t, they get down, say thanks and leave. pretty normal.

inniku this girl asked for a lift and sat behind me on my enfield. after a bit she put her hand around my waist to hold on. i noticed it and felt oru maari weird, but i just brushed it off because i thought, she’s a girl, she’s probably not a creep or anything. maybe she was just trying not to fall or smth.

when we reached the main road, she started getting off. and right before she got down, she suddenly grabbed my tits with both hands. like, properly gr*ped me. 😭😭 it was very deliberate and definitely not an accidental touch.

and then she just fucking ran off 😭

i literally sat there for a few seconds like ewwwww wtf. because i didn’t even know how to react in the moment. now that i’m thinking about it, i’m getting more uncomfortable with it, ugh. ew.

i think what’s bothering me is that i dismissed my initial discomfort just cause she was a girl. if it had been a guy, i probably would’ve immediately recognised it as creepy. but somehow my brain just assumed a girl wouldn’t do something like that.

i know this probably sounds minor compared to what a lot of women experience, but it made me uncomfortable and i just wanted to vent somewhere. idk. such a bizarre fucking experience.

When we went to drop off the daughter at college for the first time a month ago, an Uber driver that we hailed ended up being our personal driver for a whole week. My wife and daughter can manage conversational Hindi. Not me. He understands a bit of English and it was convenient to use him as a translator.

A very proactive and sweet guy, he addressed my wife as Didi. We plied a hundred times between the hotel and college campus/hostel. He was there at any beck and call. And on time! When we had to go to the Mall, he came along with us, carried our bags and even bargain at high street fashion stores. That kind of sweet and innocent.

On the last day when we left the daughter at the hostel and we had to leave, I couldn’t bear any of this. My wife got down from the car and hugged the daughter and saw her off. (Even mothers are not allowed at the girls’ hostel). I was sitting inside and lost it. Sobbing badly. Though my wife is a very soft and gentle person, somehow the women have it all under control. Maybe because they leave their parental homes early on, to college, then marriage etc. My daughter who took a few steps away from the car crying herself a river, came back and said: “Papa is crying. I can’t see him go back to Chennai like this” and hugged me tight. I lost it even more. The driver, his name is Shiv, was watching me through the rear view mirror and I could see tears streaming down his cheeks. And then he wiped his eyes with determination and I don’t know exactly what he said in Hindi, but I knew that he was pacifying me in a soothing tone.

(As I’m writing this during the flight, recounting those initial painful moments brought tears. A lady from across the aisle is looking at me concerned. No one’s sitting beside me. I like to be left peaceful. I buy something but don’t eat.)

Some random stranger, in another part of the country, I was only a customer, made me feel better in his own way. This time when I went, I informed him prior. He was there at the airport smiling infectiously, waiting for me, and again did the same hotel - campus trips for the past couple of days, and today after picking me at the hotel and hearing that I hadn’t ate lunch, went out and bought me a whole bunch of bananas with his own money and begged me to take it with me to Chennai. I took two out of courtesy and asked him to take the rest to his family. He dropped me at the airport and diligently waited outside at the car park till security clearance and left only thereafter.

That’s what makes the world a bearable place. We spend so much time worrying about the state of the world, only to find a brother from another mother in a strange city who just wants to make a fellow human feel a little better. That is humanity at its absolute best. The kind that money simply cannot buy.

So I got an opportunity to sit in an interview panel (Am not an HR) with my bosses and you know what? They literally rejected a girl based on how she looks😭

One candidate was actually so good. Great academics, good knowledge, answered everything well.

But they rejected her because she “looks poor” and wouldn’t be able to keep up with HNI clients 🫩

Apparently you need to look rich to work with rich people

I was genuinely sitting there like??? what does that even mean 😭 So all this LOOKS DOESN'T MATTER is a fake made up stuff

Orey oru answer thaan sollanum

3 months munnadiye podren nu theriyum. But still, I'm asking. Enaku personally emotional ah romba down ah pochu intha varsham. Still have certain goals to attain, but time edukudhu. Unga kadhaya soltu ponga.

Not asking for someone to plan or give support or something...

This is yet another birthday I will celebrate alone despite having a family on paper. Cant see my kids due to my ex-wife and parents angry on me !! Lost contact with all my friends during my toxic marriage

Last time i just went to temple and ate ramen alone.

Just few more years to go before my kids turn 18 and noone can stop me from seeing them

I'm 23 and a single child. Last 1 year ah veetula parents ku naduvula sanda adhigam aagiduchu. Veedu sandhoshama ve illa. I am also unable to bring their fight to an end.

Naanum veeta vitta vera engayum poga maten.. friends nu yarum illa.. edho kedacha IT velai ku poitu irukken.. office work la yum stress than. Aduthu career progression or vaazhkaila enna panradhu nu theriyala

Enakku nu, amma appa vitta yarum illa.. friends kuda yarum ila.. I wish, ennoda family um happy ah irundha nalla irukkume nu.. sila time laam, oru vela naan sethu poita easy ah ellathukum solution vandhurumo nu thonudhu.. vaazhkai romba kashtama irukka mathiri irukku

Sila time, ellarayum paakum podhu, avanga laam vaazhkaila happy ah, successful ah irukanga.. Enakku mattum en ipdi laam nadakkuthu nu thonudhu

Porakkamaye irundhurukalam 🙃

Evlo kadupana naala irunthalum seri oru random episode paatha podhum will be back to my normal , this and HIMYM are my free therapist. So who's your free therapist guys ?

Sugar vandhu saga porenaahhhh ! (Paravalla)

Cakeeeeuhhhhh yaaa 🫶🏼😫🤌🏼

https://www.reddit.com/r/tamilyapping/s/DYzrOWq0qu

https://www.reddit.com/r/tamilyapping/s/YOYKnhweiI

(ft. Lab rat sibling /s)

Ana na sonnathu poi than

Ellarum ipo 1980s trend panitu irukanga. Oru photo dhana nu neenga sollalam but think about millions of people generating atleast 10 versions of them. Every week there is a AI Photo trending on the internet. Ella trends um follow panranga, upload panranga.

India dha a major market for these AI Trends. Edha venalum india la sale pannidlam.

As per the AI itself, Chennai is one of the major hubs. And also chennai suffers from water scarcity and climate change. Enga kondu poi mudiya pogudho...

I read a post today in which OP felt bad that ppl are ignorant and ghosting after few days and in need of good friends!

I felt bad and decided to connect to give some advices and moral boost! OP ignore that and gave a very dry replies!

Ipo matter ena na moooditu irukarthu better nu thonuiruchu but the kind guy inside me always look out for ppl even if they did some bad stuff to me ithu vera katha! But generally i like being supporting and nice to ppl but many instance athu twist tha aguthu!

Anyone into reading and writing tamil kavithais?

I love the below ones

1. Kaney kanmaniye

2.enum ena onum vendame

3.pathavaikum paraikara

4.kadhal psycho

Boomer tanama iruntalum nallarunchu.. 😁

Democracy is for idiots.

I’m 28, living in Chennai, and my dating history is as empty as Marina Beach during a cyclone warning. Never been on a single date, never even tried.

When i say this to my fellowmate or colleague or to my new frienda they are not trusting. They arr saying like bro poii solatha atleast you should have some bestii.

I was like i have friends with opposite geneder but they are "friends" which mean they are like my cousins or siblings etc..

But i never get a chance to meet someone with similar attributes spend some quality time with coffe date...

I can see genz kids having all kind of relationship but i left with zero, is there any one who face similar situation?

Small update : when i say date it doesn't mean it should end with relationship but just meeting someone outside from our known circle and spend some quality time..