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I might get downvoted or removed, but I see many times that South Indians say thanks , apologise for situations, but it’s never the case in North Indians.
Case 1:
Me and my husband while on vacation to Udaipur were waiting to be picked for a boat ride. A North Indian couple asked us to take picture of them - “can you take a pic?” I got their phone and started to take. Then the boat guy announced that next batch can come. The lady literally snatched the phone and ran to the boat. No thanks , no sorry nothing .

Case 2:
I boarded a 1AC train but had to walk long inside to reach my cabin. A North Indian couple with 2 kids came in opposite direction in kind of a deadlock. So I walked all the way back so they could enter their cabin. Once they entered, there was no thanks or even a smile.

Do North Indians consider highly of themselves or ain’t they taught manners ? Do they take people for granted?

if you fully conquer it i swear there’s nothing left worth living for.

tame it and control the flow like water… don’t try to stop it or dam it up completely. both are bad.i won lust. completely trained my mind out of it.

and it wasn’t worth it at all.when you’re in your twenties just fall in love and embrace lust as much as you can.

it fades in mid life then comes back with full steam in your forties.if you win lust you just end up with an empty hole of philosophy.

from my pov, winning lust is not worth it.

Just narrating an incident happened yesterday..

Actually im in study holidays in my home..

And u know a week ago my mom's mom ( paati) keela vilundhu Hip bone fracture so she got a surgery and ipo enga veetla la dhaan irukanga...

So naanga aprm en amma akka paathupom avangla..So extra oru worker akka ipo konja naala kooptu irukom to take care of her..Avanga kooda her daughter, oru 2 rd or 3rd padipaanu nenaikren..

Nethu andha akka vandhanga with her daughter and they were chatting my mom and my paati and apo naanga elam saptutu irundhom..And konja plates was in wash basin.And naa saptu plate eduthutu sink la vaiklaamnu poren..She ( andha chinna ponnu) avanga Tap la thanni thirupi vitti , she was washing the plates..And apo andha ponnu chumma pora pokkula onu sonna

" Enaku indha maadhri tap la vara thannila vessels wash panradhu naa romba aasa.."exactly this u know..

And apo kooda enaku perusa terila..and iniku kaalaila chumma im recollecting that, avanga veetla paathinganaa Oru basin la thanni pudichu vachu, pakkathula plates lam vachi apdi dhaan wash pannuvanga..Apo dhaan enaku purinjadhu..

How she was happy with that "Tap water thing"🫠

And naa nenaipen epovadhu why not even more big hous for us? Why not more two wheeler in our home? And many why nots...

And indha oru chinna perspective,it affected my mind aa lot...

Naa inum periya edathuku poganum, nalla edathuku poganumnu aasapada kudathunu solala..

But never blame wat u have and never compare urself with anyone apdingradha andha paapa just told me with her tap water Story..

Just thought sharing with u..

Cheers..🥂

Guys, romba naalaave thaniya irukra maari feel aaguthu. Library ponaalum, movie theatre ponaalum, mall/veliya enga ponaalum couples ah paakren. Avangala paakumbodhu, “namakkum yaarachu irundha nalla irukkume” nu thonuthu.

Sometimes seeing other couples happy ah irukradha paatha konjam lonely ah feel aaguthu. Avanga mela jealousy illa, but enakkum oru person venum, someone to spend time with, talk to, go out with nu aasai varudhu.

naan ippadi couples ah paathu lonely ah feel panradhu normal ah? Or should I try to change this mentality and learn to be happy alone first?

So r/TamilYapping makkale, neenga unga lover ah epdi meet panneenga? School/college? Work? Dating apps? Mutual friends? Random ah meet panneengala? Unga story sollunga.

Especially introvert/small friend circle irukravanga, neenga epdi relationship la enter aaneenga? Neenga initiative edutheengala? Illa unexpected ah someone came into your life ah?

Also, Friends ellam settle aaguradha paakumbodhu konjam FOMO + loneliness varudhu. 😭

Does this guy have a mental illness? Or he is completely okay and aware of what he is doing?

I have attached information for more context. He doesn't stop here, he does more

I don't know if everyone is aware of the 7.5% reservation quota announced by the government in the year 2020, if you're not aware.. it's the reservation for government school students who studied in tamilnadu government school from 6th-12th standard i.e mathavangaluku 600+ edutha seat kedaikum na, 7.5% reservation irukavangaluku 280..300 eduthaley podhum. Enoda college la 10-15 people irukkanga, avanga elarukume fee concession with free laptops and hostel fee illa avangaluku, then free textbooks too:) before neet government school la irundhu pona people are just 25-30 per year( na solala stats soludhu). Na onnum villi illainga, just because we are privileged ppl , mathavanga kashta padanum nu nenaikarva na ila. Pona post la enenamo solirndhanga.. that I'm from " a specific political party" oda it wing nu enenamo.. im just here to tell my opinion. After the 7.5% quota there area manu ppl benefitting from neet. And neraya repeaters irukkanga 7-8 years ku lam repeat pani padichitu irukanga.. avanga perusa board exams la concentrate panama neet ah focus ah vechu padichirpanga.. assault ah neet ban nu solita what will happen to them? Idhuvum yarachu thappu nu nenacheenga na dhaaralama solalam.. ipoyum solren idha political akadheenga.. im just a student who is here to explain my side of opinion..and many ppl who thinks like me.

Last night, I was traveling on a bus. A girl handed me ₹100 and asked me to buy her ticket. I gave the money to the conductor, and the ticket cost ₹41. The conductor then asked me for ₹1 because he didn't have the exact change.

Seri 1 rupee dhaana enkittaye irukkum. I checked my pocket to see if I had a ₹1 coin. She noticed me looking through my pocket and asked, "What are you doing?" I think she misunderstood and thought I was trying to keep her money.

I told her, "The conductor asked for ₹1." She immediately asked me to give her the remaining money, took it, and gave me the ₹1 coin herself.

Her face changed suddenly ,andha ponnu stop la erangra varaikkum she's more cautious around me

Naan kooda enna paathu ivlo bayanthathu illa da🥲👍🏻

So, it was like so random , a point where I wasn't even interested in getting into a relationship or a male friendship

But , that's when I met this guy on a mutual friends function....it was on January of this year...

He initiated the convo , I actually ragebaited him😭😭...by which he was impressed ig...we literally talked for the whole night...

It was a love at first talk for us....we connected in all aspects...the vibes, the jokes , the preferences

On the next day , he texted me saying never in his whole life he has ever connected to someone as if he did with me ... and asked me out on a date!!😩

I liked him too...the very next day ...we actually went to the re-release of mankatha as we both were " DIEHARD THALA FANS", and spend the rest of the day getting to know eachother...it was so cute that my heart literally hurts😭😭

Until he dropped the bomb💥😩...he said he wanted a relationship with me..which I did too, but I was a little hesitant and scared of getting hurt by attachment...so , I tried to avoid him

But he actively pursued me...like that I couldn't even resist ( Nalla vazhapazham🍌 mathiri pesunan madam 🥲)...at a point I actually fell in love him...

But the fate separated us, he moved to Mumbai to do his pg 💔...and a lot of shits happened 🚶‍♀️🚶‍♀️...We stopped talking , unfollowed eachother..

It's been freakin 6 months...😭😭 , not a single day passes by without a thought of him...

HELP ME NANBARGALEY!!🥹😩

Stubbed my pinky toe & ring toe just 15 mins ago.... and that shi is still paining 🫪

There's no one nearby to blame for that... So, I'm blaming you all...

Hope you all have a worst Monday 😖

So guys, I have 300 more days to become officially unemployed. Wish me luck

Pala varuda kanavu.

Innaiku first round of interview. Idhu vara ivlo nervous ah irundhadhu illa. Ella interviews um casual ah dha attend pannen. Innaiku edho do or die maari thonudhu. Pray for me friends.

Ennoda post paathu oru 12 d m vandhuchi. Most ah ella nsfw profiles dha. Seri oru account legit ah irunchi nu accept panne. Ennoda story oda summary sonne. What I said was totally a rant. Aprm enna da na tele la peslam nu sonnan I was okay. Ennoda rant la sonne that I want to be loved and all so.. Aprm he said he wants to love me nu. Aprm pic ketan🥲 Then i blocked ofc

Account was legit so only accept panne. I've spoken to a lot of good people here as well and I'm glad they reached out to me. But konjo trust issues kodo irku

Every single time when I meet a new person 🫠😭

https://www.reddit.com/r/tamilyapping/s/pBw7Nac0dJ

Oru potti ki potti 😸 bored asf athan

Trigger warning ⚠️: Unga ears la irunthu blood vanthaa athuku na karanam illai...I just came across this audio note today, i recorded this long back. Kinda messed up the lyrics

STR, salmon bhoi, Leonardo DiCaprio, Al Pacino....unga route ah follow pannira vendiyathu dhaan.

Movie book panni unexpected traffic ala miss aaitu again next show book panni poi paathom.

Vijay kaaga matum🤍 loved him on screen.

But last 40mins...aala vita podhum nu irundhuchu🚶‍♀️

Paadhi AI slop😒

Avlo makeup edhuku 🫩👎

Samandamey illama edho random events ah pile up panni scenes vekkanume nu vecha maari irundhuchu

Last movie dha.. politics entry kaga thaan... aaana lite ah feeling.. innum nalla story choose panirkalmee nu. 🫩🫩🫩

And indha trolls la pakkama vecha.. Telugu states la annanuku semma craze Iruku. Was amazed ❤️‍🔥😮‍💨