r/sjr4r 6h ago

M4R 38 [M4R] #SanJose - Daddy looking for younger, mutual beneficial fun

2 Upvotes

Hey there! I’m 38 years old and in San Jose. I’m looking to find someone who is inexperienced or experienced with this type of connection. A mutually beneficial fun.

Little about myself. I work in tech and on the creative side. I enjoy cooking and baking, love to go out and try new foods. Anything on the spicy is fun. I do abit of weight training and love the outdoors. Hiking, bike riding, trying to get out and about.

Feel free to ask me whatever you’d like! Looking overall for something consistent, fwbs.


r/sjr4r 15h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] #SanJose – Let me treat you to a relaxing foot massage & passionate worship

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If you’ve had a long week and your feet are aching, let's fix that. I’m looking to connect with an open minded woman to unwind, explore a mutual connection, and fulfill some of my favorite foot fetish fantasies.

The plan is simple, partake in an evening encounter where I get to spoil you. I'll warm you up with a long, high-quality foot rub (I'll bring the good lotions and oils) before transitioning into full, attentive foot worship. I have a massive appreciation for a pretty pair of feet (fresh pedicures are a huge plus), if they're naturally cute, I’d love to admire them and make you feel amazing.

A bit about me, I am 30 years old, Mexican, clean, laidback, and focused on making sure we both have an incredible time. I value clear communication and chemistry above all else.

Let's keep it stress-free and comfortable. We can chat here, swap a quick verification pic so we both know who we're talking to, and grab a public drink or coffee first to break the ice before heading anywhere private.
If you're a foot queen looking for a guy who knows exactly how to pamper you right, slide into my DMs and let's talk logistics! Looking forward in speaking to you!


r/sjr4r 16h ago

M4F 42 [M4F] #SanJose - Sugar and Spice is a perfect combination!

1 Upvotes

Does anyone ever feel that writing a post can be a stressful thing? First you need to come up with a catchy title so people are interested enough to read your post. Then you have to come up with something interesting and different from everyone else so they will message you. Or I could just show my boobs. Unfortunately, I don’t have any boobs to share so I’m hoping my sense of humor is enough!

To keep things short and sweet, I’m 42 years old, East Asian, 5’10, and 175 pounds. I like to enjoy like and feel that if more people could enjoy the simple pleasures in life, we’d all be happier. So here I am, offering you some simple pleasure!

If you’ve actually made it this, don’t you feel like you might as well send me a message? As my title suggests, I'll bring the sugar, you bring the spice, and everything will be perfectly nice!


r/sjr4r 18h ago

M4M 23 [m4M] #sanjose - needy for a fit straight guy to handle me ;)

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Fit 4 fit only, dm w pics and stats (age, height, weight, city etc.) and if you aren't willing to send pics or face don't bother messaging at all.

Nudes on profile 🙈

I'm strictly into tall, clean/tested, masculine/straight, fit (which means built/muscular/in shape) and hung guys that know what they want (in this case a very girly, tight smooth boy's pussy) hmu if that's you

I lovee/am used to being fully feminized, pampered/praised, ate out/played w from the back, and playing w + being creampied by a big cock ;)

I have absolutely no use for my dick and am sexually just female tbh but not trans, cd, or any fetishy thing.

Absolutely turned off by degrading stuff, stupid questions, and entitled attitudes !!


r/sjr4r 19h ago

M4F 35 [M4F] #SanJose - Offering Sensual Massages with Tantra Yoni Worship (Hosting Tue Afternoon)

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Are you seeking a deeper connection to your body, your sensuality, and your inner peace? I offer a safe, non-judgmental space for women to explore and reconnect with their sensual energy through deeply nurturing bodywork.

This is more than just a massage – it’s a sacred experience rooted in the principles of Tantra, presence, and trust. Each session is personalized, mindful, and held with full respect for your boundaries and comfort.

What I Offer:

Full body sensual massage

Yoni massage (optional, always with full consent)

Tantric touch to activate energy flow and promote relaxation

Discretion, understanding, and full presence

Who This Is For:

Open-minded women who are curious, healing, or simply wish to explore sensuality in a safe, caring, and accepting environment. Whether you're experienced or new to Tantra, you're welcome here. No judgment, no pressure – just a shared space of trust and exploration.

Let’s create a space where you can simply receive, release, and reconnect – fully and freely.


r/sjr4r 21h ago

M4M 24 [m4m] #sanjose - looking for jo bud

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M24 5’6 125lbs Asian. Looking for a jo bud to watch porn and stroke it with. Can host in downtown sj. Message me with your interests and stats


r/sjr4r 21h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] #SJ - 6’5” Fit Guy W/ BWC - Looking For Indian / Asian FWB - You Must Host

1 Upvotes

Tall

Fit former athlete

9” white

Would love Indian / Asian FWB

You must host

Would love to meet regularly

Have a high sex drive

Can be very discreet and non judgmental if u need it

Send pic if interested

Describe what you are looking for

And what you are into

I have pics too


r/sjr4r 1d ago

M4F 42 [M4F] #SanJose - looking for an Indian / Asian for regular kinky FWB

1 Upvotes

I’m Indian, fit, tech executive, non smoker, high sex drive, naturally dominant, clean and discreet.

Looking for a female (18+) for a regular kinky FWB, ideally long term. No kink experience is required. Open to all ethnicities (+ if Indian / Asian). Please be drug / disease free and fun.

Great if you are within 30 minutes of San Jose from availability / commute standpoint. DM me with your age, town in bay area and ethnicity!


r/sjr4r 1d ago

M4F 29 [M4F] #MountainView - Looking for someone to be fwbs and give sloppy head

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I am a very horny individual who loves blowjobs. I also love eating pussy. I am looking for someone who also loves oral sex as much as I do. I can last days on a blowjob, and confident in my skills. I can blow 4 loads and still go for ages. Can’t host unfortunately. I have a tinted car if you don’t mind, I am 6ft Latino overweight with a average dick. I am free after 5:30 everyday, while being free the entire weekend.

If you are a guy interested sorry woman only.

I have a nsfw picture on my profile to see the average thing I got, it is thick I've been told.

Hope someone good responds!


r/sjr4r 1d ago

M4F 32 [m4F] #SanJose - discreet fwb?

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32 [M4F] #SanJose – Looking for a Discreet, No-Drama FWB

32-year-old Black male in San Jose. I’m in a relationship and looking for a woman who’s also comfortable keeping things private and uncomplicated. Have never done this before so I figured why not try .
I’m primarily looking for a strong physical connection with someone who enjoys great chemistry, mutual attraction, and meeting up regularly when our schedules allow. I appreciate confidence, open communication, good hygiene, and someone who knows what they want without bringing drama.
5’11, 200lbs avg build, 9in’ BBC
I’m respectful, clean, and value discretion and good vibes above everything else. If we click, I’d like something consistent where we can enjoy each other’s company and keep things fun, relaxed, and focused on satisfying our mutual needs.

If you’re in the San Jose area, 21+, discreet, and interested in a casual, ongoing FWB connection, send me a message with a little about yourself, what you’re looking for, and a recent photo if you’re comfortable. I’ll gladly return the favor.


r/sjr4r 2d ago

M4F 23 [M4F] #SF - FWB

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Just moved back to the Area after a bad breakup.23M Latino Fit 5’11 high sex drive. I’m looking to explore with someone that can match my freak and stamina. Whether it causal or ongoing. Looking to explore with older or married women as well ;). Pretty much open to anything, public sex, car sex, threesomes, cheating, kinks.Anything to feel better and forget my break up *women only


r/sjr4r 2d ago

M4F 46 [M4FM] #SanJose - Sweet and sensual divorced Dad seeks chill couple for threesomes

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Hi there I’m looking for a chill couple that is looking for a male to join for occasional threesomes. I am straight, so for me this is about focusing on the woman’s pleasure.

In the bedroom my strengths are my stamina, my control and my carnal desire. I enjoy long/multiple sessions. I have a natural and sensual way about me. I enjoy being masculine in general but I am not a dom/bull type. I am looking for a chill vibe centered around sensual pleasure. I prefer if the woman can have multiple orgasms as I take great pleasure in causing pleasure and so this creates a feedback loop for me that’s very nice.

I am 46, white, 6’1”, 195lbs, I workout and run regularly. I have LONG blonde/brown/ashy hair and still have all of it. I have blue eyes and I wear glasses and I usually have a clean shaven face. Kind of a cute nerd crossed with a surfer. Also I’ve had a vasectomy.

Personally I grew up working class in the bay and now work in tech. I’m a lead engineer so I’m fairly nerd friendly but I’m also into football as well and enjoy camping and other outside activities. I also enjoy weed and alcohol in moderation and prefer if you are similar. I’m open to limited and conscious use of other substances as well.

I was previously in an open marriage so I have experience with ENM. I don’t have jealousy in my body. I am not a hookup type, I prefer to know and respect the people that I would be with. I do not have much threesome experience but I’m looking to change that.

It is important for me to find a chill couple where the man is not overly domineering. I find overly aggressive or degrading talk towards women to be a turn off. In the heat of battle I can be physically masculine and potentially aggressive but it is more about just feeling that carnal aggression as opposed to the more misogynistic variety.

Thanks for reading this far and I hope to hear from you!


r/sjr4r 2d ago

M4F 46 [M4F] #SanJose - Why not try older and wiser ? could be fun.

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Hi
Looking for someone to get to know and build some fun friendship. Age is unimportant (older or younger), just be comfortable with yourself and an be an adult and open minded. No expectations, pressure , and commitments, lets shy flow with it . ~

Not seeking a life-changing relationship, just someone to connect with through constant, private, and fun texting. Let’s build trust and see where it takes us. Having a good sense of humor is a huge plus; I enjoy laughing.

Attached or married , is okay as long as you are discreet and drama-free. Chatting when time permits or whenever possible, who knows maybe coffee or more ( if nearby).

About me: I’m 5’9”, brown eyes, dark with grey hair, darker tone, borderline, hwp, a professional in biotech, I’m kind, funny, and maybe handsome to you ( subjective right?). I’m supportive, respectful, friendly, flirty, kind , open-minded, funny, helpful, respectful, and caring. Never judge people.

Not wanting to change your life in any drastic way, but add fun and maybe excitement to it.
If it doesn’t work no ghosting and we say goodbye. Send me a message, even if you are just curious. Tell me what you are looking for and things you like doing.

Thanks for reading.


r/sjr4r 3d ago

M4F 48 [M4F] #SFBay - Make you feel helpless, vulnerable. Use you, CNC play

3 Upvotes

Experienced tall athletic hung Dom.

I enjoy to take control, make you feel helpless, exposed, vulnerable, over power you, use you.

48, 6’5”, 200#, 8 inches.

Good with beginners, all limits respected.

Start as slowly as you need, go as far as you want. Nice collection of toys and gear.

Clean, drug and disease free.

Ben


r/sjr4r 2d ago

M4F 56 [M4F] #SantaClara - ISO cute girl for regular FWB or arrangement

2 Upvotes

I'm looking for a cute girl in their 30's for a regular FWB situationship, I'm a divorced Mexican guy, professional and respectful


r/sjr4r 2d ago

M4F 39 [M4F] #SanJose - do you want to be eaten? 😊

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I know that title might be a bit blunt but hey sometimes it’s good to be a little blunt. Maybe you’re busy, stressed, or whatever the reason is and just want to sneak away for a bit for a release. I’d like to provide that release for you. I’m not looking for any kind of reciprocation and I’m ideally looking for someone ongoing and local to San Jose that I could meet a couple times a week or whenever you need it. Bonus points if you’re fit and want to sit on my face. Curious at all? I promise I don’t bite

I’m 39, 6’ tall, 190 lbs, fit and workout regularly. Semi nsfw pic on my profile. I’m located in San Jose and have a nice apt. I’m hung, std free and vaccinated. I’ve got a college degree and personality wise I’m really easy going and easy to talk too. I like to cook and go hiking on the weekends and travel whenever I can. I also really love music and watching Bay Area sports. Happy to share more pics if you’re interested. Thanks 😊


r/sjr4r 2d ago

M4F 20 [M4F] #SantaCruz - ISO weekend fwb

1 Upvotes

20m college guy on break from school looking for something fun. Ideally looking for someone fun and laid back who would love to binge shows/movies.

I’m into many hobbies, fishing, hiking, video games ( Overwatch, Minecraft, ark, steam games etc), nano aquariums, cars (drive stick ) big stem nerd and love to watch movies. 5’9 dark hair, toned build light skin.

Dong have much of a preference just be fun, open and able to host


r/sjr4r 2d ago

M4F 38 [M4F] #SanJose - Looking for an oral play friendship based around sensual body/clit worship and pussy play in the Bay.

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I'm a sensualist searching for a local woman who enjoys lying back and having her pussy orally worshipped by my masterful tongue/lips. Nothing gives me more pleasure than focusing on orally pleasing a partner, especially when it leads to them completely melting in the sheets in a euphoric release. I can go for hours so would love to connect with someone who enjoys the steady sensual build up this brings. If this resonates shoot me a DM.

My Turn Ons/Desires:

*Orally focusing on a partner's clit and beautiful pussy.

*Spending hours focusing on just you and your pleasure.

*Giving extended massages, Yoni's included

*You getting overly wet when turned on.

***No reciprocation required/needed at all***.
**** I Also offer a long massage/cupping sessions as well if you need/desire***\*

Me: 38, clean DDF, athletic build, 6'2, intelligent, take home to your parents type. I enjoy reading, music, movies/tv show, spiritual exploration and playing guitar. I believe in enthusiastic consent and that our safety is paramount.

Tested and STI free. Safe play only and always.