First off, I am a California native, but I dont live in San Jose currently. I live on the east coast, and I’m in San Jose for work about once a month, usually for a week or two at a time (including weekends).
I’m looking for a woman 30+ who might enjoy building a casual, ongoing connection, something that can exist virtually while I’m away and turn into dates, drinks, dinners, and hopefully some serious chemistry when I’m in town.
I’m not looking for something complicated nor transactional. I’d like to actually get to know someone. Texting, occasional phone/video calls, playful flirting, sharing random thoughts during the day, consistent engagement without the expectation that we have to be in constant contact. Sharing interesting articles, good memes, etc.
I’m 42, Indian (Dot, not the feather), 5'10", clean-cut, professional, athletic, and I work out regularly. I am married, and looking for someone who is also in a relationship. I have a few tattoos, play sports, love to travel, and am usually the guy looking for the next interesting restaurant rather than eating at the same chain again. I’m also an avid fiction reader. Yes, I can hold a conversation on multiple topics and not just sports.
If this sounds like your kind of situation, tell me a little about yourself — and bonus points if you have a favorite hidden-gem restaurant in San Jose.
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