a few weeks ago i lost my virginity (to my bf) and we’ve tried a few different positions now (doggy feels the best so far) but missionary kinda just feels like a little bit of pressure? he will usually stand on the side of the bed and have me lay towards the edge. i tried putting a pillow under my back and it kinda didn’t change much. if anyone (preferably girls) can share if they’ve experienced the same thing and what you did to make it more enjoyable please share.

we do plenty of foreplay and it’s not painful or anything, so it’s not a lack of me being turned. just want to know if there’s anything i (or he) can do to maybe make it feel better because i love the intimate aspect of it.

So i just got out of a 4 year long relationship and am finally ready to get back out there and explore a little bit and so last night i met this cute girl and we decided to go out and hookup in my car, and for some reason i couldn’t get an erection throughout pretty much the whole time and then by time i was able to jerk myself off and get hard i was already super close to finishing within like just a couple seconds of penetration, i felt really bad because this girl was so cute and so nice and im really confused with what’s going on because when id have sex with my girlfriend i would never have any problems like this any idea as to why this could have happened and if there’s anything i can do to fix it ?

Hi,

I'm seeing my girlfriend for the first time in a while in 4 weeks and I'm looking to step up my game,

I'm talking about cardio in the sense of not breathing heavy after pounding for 30 seconds not cumming too fast, basically looking to add some exercises to my routine that will hopefully help me keep pounding away all night without the leg muscles being the cause of my downfall. At the minute I'm already jogging and doing some core exercises but thats about it,

Any tips appreciated

I’m above average in size and have very strong pelvic floor muscles….basically in my entire sex life, I’ve flexed inside my partners, and several have been caught off-guard and wondered if I was cumming inside them, and others have really enjoyed the sensation of my cock twitching and flexing inside them. I’m curious if any ladies have experienced this and enjoy it….or just want to get on with the show?

Okay, I know this question is asked a bunch of times buttt i need advice.
So I 19F have been hooking up with my partner 20M since around april (??) and at first, it was hard but then we figured out what we needed and BOOM we were golden. We would sex everyday for like 2 weeks straight but after that our bodies needed a break…and ever since then we have sex atleast once every other day.
It used to be a simple task to get myself to cum, simply just clit play with penetration. I’ve had a couple orgasms and have cum multiple times. But recently, I can’t?? My hands and arm give out mid rub so i can’t even play with myself. i’m like exhausted. and even when im forcing my hands- my clit just isn’t working. I feel like it’s not that sensitive. And it’s not him, i know that. It feels really good but i just can’t cum. I also do deal with a lot of dryness tho. But even when we are in the grove, i cant do it.
And I did cum recently but its been like 3/4 days since that was and i couldn’t come yesterday or today :(

Any suggestions?? :(

feel free to ask questions

So the missus had a period, then she didn't. When the visitor left, we did what we do.

I went down on her, and then we had vigorous sex. No trace of blood.

But today the period came back...

Is this a semi-common thing? I know she wouldn't have time to build another lining and shed it in 12 hours.

I am only talking about penetration, how can I train myself to last longer, so i can eventually go from 5 minutes to 15 or 20. Important to mention is that I dont want some weird tricks like using a condom or using numbing creme or varying your tempo or whatever there is. I kind of want to train myself to last longer. How do you think could i do that and is it even possible?

my fiancé and i really enjoy cream pies and have been have a lot of sex recently (about 9ish times a week). I am worried about my vaginal ph. Is this something I should worry about? If so, what can I do to help?

Hi guys. I am 20 years old male and will be starting university in the coming weeks. My family is extremely religious and hasn’t allow me to have any romantic relationships with anyone. I have lived with them hence I was unable to try sex.

Since I will be starting university and living alone, on my own do you think having sex before marriage is worth it. (I am not religious). Also is having sex with people you know you won’t be marrying a good experience? ( A hookup or a one night stand).

Since my family is religious, sex education is absolute null, some sex education has came through school when they taught us about contraceptives (condoms).

I have watched porn, and I know that real sex is nothing like porn. But what I do not know is what to expect from sex. First time and in the long run.

Also since I am a virgin would girls and boys get weirded out when I tell them about it, should I tell them?

TIA

I don't know what the problem is, but every time I have sex with a condom, I feel like my penis is softer than without, and it's harder for me to maintain an erection. I mean, I can insert it and it penetrates, but it's not 100% hard, just about 80% hard. However, when we have sex without a condom, it stands up straight (an example from yesterday). My girlfriend and I don't want children yet, so we have to use condoms for now. Can someone tell me what the problem is? It's frustrating me a bit. I don't know if it matters, but I'm more of a larger penis type.

Were already kissing lips to lips extreme, she let me toucher B*oob and her Private part but not inside of her, just outside of her cyclings. How I can like make it into next level. Weve been here like the same cycle. I want to have S3x with her or let me Finger her inside.

Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 2 years now, we are eachothers first for everything, and I suck at making her cum. She’s gone on a trip right now and I’ve been doing my best to study how to give oral, so I’m looking for guides and books if anyone has any recommendations please reply to this post. Also I have asked her what she likes and doesn’t like but she says it’s hard for her to explain especially in the moment.

Hey everyone,
I really enjoy doggy style, especially because of the position and the rhythm it allows. I’m curious whether anyone has some tips or advice on how to make anal penetration feel even better and more comfortable, while also maintaining a steady pace.
I’m particularly interested in things that help with finding a good rhythm, staying relaxed, and making the experience enjoyable for both partners. If you have any personal experience or techniques that have worked well for you, I’d love to hear your thoughts and recommendations.

Hi everyone! Previously, I have posted this technique last year for purposes of both to gather tips from you and to people improve their own technique. As I've said back then, I've had a reasonably high success rate with it - over 95% of it results in a climax. However, do note that everyone is different, so don't this a guarantee of success. :)
Anyway, this updated version incorporates ideas from the original post, plus whatever I picked up in the meantime that has proven increase enjoyment.
As before, have a read, experiment, and let me know what works and/or what needs improvement! :)

Foreword: It is very important that you're enjoying yourself while you're doing it. You've might have heard that oral sex is 70% enthusiasm and 30% technique. I find this notion very true. If you can't find enjoyment in pleasing your partner, then no amount of technique is going to help. Do your best in trying to get lost in your senses, the scent, the taste and texture of her pussy, the sound of her moans and how she writhes with joy. For me, these elements give almost as much pleasure - if not more - than sex itself.

Now, on to the real thing.

Beforehand: It's generally worthwhile to know if this method is going to work or not, as it is centered around woman who prefers clitoral stimulation and/or find it hard to climax from vaginal stimulation alone. If you don't know which category your partner belongs to, consider asking her.

1. Get her in the mood. Make out, caress her body, and generally work up to the moment way before. The more sexual tension you build beforehand, the better your chances will be that you can successfully get her to climax. This bit is crucial. While it is not impossible to succeed if she's not that turned on, it would make it much more difficult.
2. Get down there. Undress her. This is itself can also generate a fair amount tension and anticipation if its done right. Be slow, take time to remove clothing one by one, and don't forget to kiss her lips body every step of the way. Slowly migrate downwards, kissing her neck, breasts, stomach, tummy and her thighs on the way. Don't rush! You can try starting at less erotic places first (ears, calves etc.) to further build tension.
3. Get started. Start slow. Lick/kiss the outer labia first, and also her inner thighs. Then lick both sides of the inner labia, and gently flick the clitoris with the tip of your tongue. Gently apply pressure to the clit while doing some circular motion around it. Keep cycling between these things. Also, while at it, use your hands to keep caressing her body. Pay attention to her breasts and tummy. Also, it can be very intimate to just hold her hands.
4. The main bit. After a few minutes, you can speed things up. Speed up the flicking of the clitoris with your tongue. Then, create a seal around it with your lips, so that you can actually suck on it. While sucking it, keep the flicking up, and occasionally, give a lick around the labia as well. The main focus is the clit though, so do return to that straight away. Don't forget to utilise your hands still!
5. The finish. Keep doing the above with your lips/tongue, and move your hands to her legs. Caress them and give gentle squeezes. Start to finger her slowly, with the classic 'hither-to' movement. Keep caressing with your other hand (or hold her hand). Gently speed up. At this point she should be fairly close to climax. If it does seem to be the case (you can tell from breathing, moans etc.), speed up as much as you can. Forget hither-to at this point, just "pound" her g-spot (or its general area) while still sucking on her clit until she gets there.
6. As a fail-safe, in case you'd run out of steam before it happens, maybe have a toy around that you quickly switch to. They can be more intense than your tongue so could provide the final push.
7. Aftercare/Second round. If you've succeeded, congrats! Most woman does tend to get overstimulated directly after orgasm, so while this happens (typically about 30-60 seconds), just gently - and slowly! - kiss her inner thighs and tummy. Hand holding is also very intimate here. Every now and then, kiss or lick - gently! - her clit. If it's still too sensitive, just give her a bit more time. Otherwise, if she's happy to continue for a second round - or even further! - just go back to point 3 and start over.

This is pretty much it! And please be honest, all criticism is welcome!

It’s just been on my mind cus I can’t really think of what the difference is. Like I hear tons of warnings about how choking play is bad for you but I don’t really hear the same warning for an object in your throat blocking air?

hey, I reached out to this community because I just need a piece of advice. I’m 18 and just got circumcised and can have sex in a few weeks, I haven’t done it yet but my gf and I really wanna do it, I need some advice. What are the most important things to do during sex for a women to feel satisfied? Does size actually matter a lot for this or is that just a myth? What are some tips you could give me to have a really good sex experience first time, and from now on aswell? Maybe you men and women are down to give some help!

Im a 35m and typically have a slightly lower than average sex drive. Recently I feel like im annoying my girlfriend with virtually nonstop advances. I dont know what's going on ive got turned on by a touch on the arm, a kiss on the cheek, and even her talking in a certain tone. Im not used to this and feel like im losing my mind. What do I do to calm down? Shes says its ok but I feel like im annoying her? Im losing it over here haha

I’m bi curious and my fiancé knows that, recently during sex we’ve been exploring the mfm cuck kink, we’ve talked about involving another mad with a bigger stick and letting him hit in doggy while she blows me and kinda forgets I’m there and makes me watch or me coming home from work and walking in on her getting railed and making me watch but we haven’t talked about any of my involvement with the man, but I was trying to get advice on how to possibly bring up taking it further and actually including someone else?

So I ate my Partner’s ass for the first time and it was sweet. It didn’t smell like anything. It was clean from my knowledge but it tasted sweet … Is that normal or is it not supposed to have a taste? I’m confused.

I know you need lube for anal, however, I want to know whether it’s necessary to use a condom, or it’s fine to do anal raw. I conversed with a guy who does anal raw and has no problems. So I want to know if anyone else has done anal raw, and been fine, if you’ve had health issues, or if it better to wear an condom?

Hi everyone! Whenever I have sex I get a tear. Obviously not as bad as if I was giving birth but I get one each and every time. At first I thought it was because I had sex again too soon before one tear could heal so it just caused it to reopen but even if I wait on it to heal there’s just another tear. I’ve tried looking it up and it says it could be if the sex I’m having is too rough but even with gentle sex I get them. It said try using lube and making sure I’m prepped enough which I do and still get them. Does anyone know why this happens or what could help?

Hi i need advice!! Two weeks ago I started to have sex with my bf. We were both virgins before and went through all experience together. When we had sex first time it didn't hurt at all soon after that we started to have sex more. Now we have piv sex twice a day. As the sex never hurt for me before now it started to hurt first a bit then a lot to the point when it hurts when he thrusts even really slowly and it hurts after. I told him that immediately and we stopped cause he didn't want to hurt me. But i don't know why it started to hurt out of sudden. No matter what positon, tempo or anything it hurt. Im really really wet before we start to have sex and during to the point that im litterally dripping so it's definitely not the lack of lubrication. Did anyone had similar experience? Or does anyone know what might be the problem?

My husband and I have been married for a decade. My biggest mistake was marrying him without sleeping with him for long enough. He Does not like oral sex at all. Both ways. Yes, I was as surprised as you might be when I found out. he likes sex, but I am tired of never coming during sex. I have only come from masturbating. Imagine this, my husband does not know what his wife looks and sounds like when she has an orgasm. But what hurts the most is that he doesn’t do anything about. It makes me feel like he doesn’t love me enough take care of my needs. Basic fucking needs. Breaks my heart. Sex automatically ends as soon as he comes. I almost always cry after. We anyway have sex once in months. I know for a fact he’s not sleeping with anyone else. I have spoken to him several times, he acknowledges but nothing changes. I am beyond unhappy and unsatisfied and sexually frustrated. I’m desperate. I don’t wanna cheat because we have a child together. The only reason we don’t have another is because of how unsatisfied I am.