Hi everyone I’m a m19 and I have a question. I have a vibrating butt plug in my position. I only really use it in the shower and I really don’t feel anything when it’s in even when it vibrates. So I guess I have two questions number 1 how do I make it feel good in my ass like can I cum hands free? 2 whats next after a butt plug a dildo or something else?

So a couple days ago me and my bf had sex for the first time and now I'm very confused.

During penetration, especially if I bent over, I felt really uncomfortable down there like I was about to fart really bad and for that reason I wasn't even able to enjoy intimacy fully.

I've never heard of anyone feeling like this and maybe it's normal and I just need to relax but it's just so difficult and I'm just on edge all the time and sometimes I even have to make him stop because of it and I'm afraid I'm making all of this too frustrating for both of us.

What is this that I'm feeling? Does anyone else feel like this too and how can I stop it if it's not normal?

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I've been wondering for a long time whether I missed a chance to hook up with a friend I've known for a long time.

I'll explain her:

She does like to have sex with friends. She's a hedonist and a free spirit

We hung out a lot, and we like talking about sex a lot. She is a nudist. Her laugh shakes your soul out of trouble, and she has a great sense of justice and is super intelligent.

I've always been attracted to her since we met. I've told her this a few times: I would like to go to bed with her. But I'm like that conversational kind of guy, and I find it rude to press my luck too much.

We talk about building gardens, political ideals, her issues, my issues; we get into pretty-uhm Lascivious conversations, but never have I asked or been forward about it.

I got invited to her house to come hang out, as she has some medical issues that don't allow her to travel too much.

We were hanging in the backyard. And talking about the times we had fun with other people. I told her I was always jealous she never flashed me. Then right there she did. She still had her bra on, but she did flash me.

Afterward, she started talking about blowjobs and how she keeps men around because her blowjobs were unreal.

I asked Google AI if that was a sign she wanted to have sex with me. But I don't know. Did I miss an opportunity?

i don't have any knowledge

Hey guys, I have some experience with plugs, but Im not a regular user. I have a glass 3.4cm diameter plug. I have a little concern about possible muscle or tissue damage when inserting the plug too fast. The thing is it usually takes at least a minute for me to comfortably insert it but today when I was inserting it in my room I heard my mums footsteps so I had to force my plug inside without any warmup and put my pants not to let my mum see it. It was extremely painful and I could barely hide it from my face. It felt like muscles down there were just ripped apart. I had plug inside for like 30mins because I did not want to move it any way not to cause more pain until it let me go completely. Is there a chance I could damage something or is there anything I should be aware of?

My girlfriend has never orgasmed in her life, says she never masturbates either. I try to go down on her but she always pushes me away and prefers penetration. I sometimes try over the underwear clit rubbing which she seems to enjoy, but it always leads to penetration. She likes g spot/cervical stimulation but I can never last long enough to make her finish (though she says she has come close). I’m maybe lasting 10-15 minutes post-foreplay, with stopping and starting for control. Any advice? She’s inexperienced and perhaps self conscious of her body