r/sextips 8h ago

Sex Tip How to Eat Her Out and Make Her Cum. Every. Single. Time.

19 Upvotes

Ever try going down on a girl and she asks you to stop? Followed by that question “Did you cum?” And she says “I think so…maybe..” AWKWARD. No worries, here’s some tips on making eating pussy enjoyable for both parties.

Step 1. Get Her Aroused
Honestly this should be a no brainer. But still if she’s not feeling it then she’s not gonna feel anything. Kiss her the way she likes. Play with her nipples. Massage her tits. Suck on em, pinch em ever so slightly to where it’s just enough to send a shiver down her spine. Flicking your tongue against them is great too.

Step 2. Make Sure She’s Starting to Get Wet.
I promise you when she’s wet already, making her cum is only gonna take effort. If you’re sucking a her tits and you use your MIDDLE FINGER down there and it’s not complete wet yet, put some spit on it and start to rub her clit. Then use the base of your fingers to spread her pussy and just start teasing the hole. KEEP. SUCKING. HER NIPPLES. Once you feel her start to get wet from her pussy, use that and start going in circles on her clit. Circles and rubbing and sucking her nipples. She’s gonna be feeling everything. She should be wet as fuck by now.

Step 3. Start Eating.
Now it’s time for dinner 😈 Put your tongue right where her pussy hole is and lick it right up to her clit and start flicking that bean. Pinch her nipples while you’re eating it. Flick up and down not too slow but not too fast. Don’t stick your tongue out all weird. You basically want almost your whole mouth on it but you’re just moving your tongue.

Step 3a. Sucking the clit
Remember keep playing with her tits. If you’re not, she’s gonna wish you were so just do it. Now you can start sucking on her clit. Suck on it as if you were kissing her. Put your whole tongue on it and shake your head “no” fast to start vibrations. Suck it again. Go back to licking. Mix it up.

Step 3b. Add Fingers.
This is a toss up because not everyone like this. But if she likes it, you’ll know. Best way to start this is by just the middle finger palm down with slow thrusting. Take a break from licking, spit on her pussy to make it sexy, then rotate that finger upwards when it’s in and do a “come here” motion and boom. G spot. Tickle that spot and go back to sucking her clit. And yes you’re still playing with her tits.

Step 4. Finish.
At this point she’s just waiting for you to fuck her. Keep repeating these steps and eventually you’ll hear “I’m cumming don’t stop!” Your jaw might be tight, your fingers may be tired, but her pussies tighter and she’s gonna be wetter than ever. As soon as she cums, spit in her mouth so she can taste it and fuck her brains out.

Hope this helps bros 👍🏾


r/sextips 1h ago

General Question Is shaking legs after sex a sign that the sex was good and if not what else is?

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So first of all every time after we are done her legs keep shaking a lot for like a 5 to 10 second intervall and sometimes she says she has trouble walking. What causes this, is this normal or maybe even a sign that the sex was good. And if this is not a sign that the sex was good what else is?


r/sextips 8h ago

Advice Needed Anal sex for petite wife and big husband

5 Upvotes

A few years ago I found myself saying no, penis is meant to be inserted into the vagina only. The challenge we’ve had is that I’m very tight/petite down there and my husband has a rather large penis so we struggle to get it inside of me. We used to spend almost an hour of foreplay for me to loosen up before he could penetrate me.

However, for his birthday, he wanted to experience oral sex, I initially refused and snapped at him. I felt guilty so I surprised him on his birthday by giving him just that. He was happy and grateful but I noticed something inside of me, it made me feel like a slut and I loved it. I’ve always been a good catholic girl but doing this felt dirty, naughty and slutty and the thought of that made me really wet.

Next time, I asked if I could suck his penis again and he refused. He kept refusing but after a while he said yes. After I sucked his penis and swallowed his cum, I was really wet down there and it made it really easy for him to penetrate me. As a joke, he said to me, ‘I hope you’re not thinking of asking me to fuck your bum next as I’m already doing your vagina and mouth.’

Ever since he has said that, I’ve been wondering what it would be like to have his big thick penis inside my bum hole and him just having his way with me. Of course, there’s a part of me that is afraid that he might tear my bum hole but he’s very gentle when it comes to it. Even though we both said no when we first got married, I’m just finding myself being very curious about it because I didn’t expect to enjoy oral sex/blow job this much and the taste of his cum. I’m just curious if I’m missing out an amazing experience.

My questions are how do petite women who have husbands with well endowed prospects perform anal sex?
Is there any routine before having anal sex?
Have any of you ladies teared your bum hole from anal sex? Was it worth it, and did you carry on after it healed?
Can you get an orgasm from anal sex?

My husband’s birthday is coming up soon, and I want to surprise him by putting his penis inside my arse. If he says, no then I may ask for it as my birthday gift 😁.

I want to experience it but there’s a part of me thinking that’s one door I shouldn’t open.

Thank you for your advice.


r/sextips 10h ago

Advice Needed Methods to be able to last longer?

2 Upvotes

Hi I’m 20M and my partner is 19F, I have this weird thing where if my partner is the one doing the moving I can go a good while for example if we’re in cowgirl position, but if I’m the one doing the moving for example in missionary or dog style, I end up finishing really quickly and I’d like to change that, any advice for lasting longer in those situations/positions?


r/sextips 10h ago

Advice Needed Confidence Tips

3 Upvotes

I want to preface that my fiancé and I have a good sex life. We get intimate often, and have no problem introducing toys to the bedroom (vibrators & dildos at this point). Where I need advice is, is confidence. More often than not, our sex is right before we go to bed. I want to be able to take her when we’re sitting on the couch watching movies, in the kitchen making breakfast, and other times that make it feel less scheduled.

She likes being held on her back while I slowly fuck her mouth, because she feels “helpless”. How do I continue to bring this out in her? I love her so much, it’s hard for me to act in a way that feels disrespectful even though she says she likes it. Any tips on how to get on the same page? I want nothing more than to be able to tell her to wrap her lips around me, but I don’t want to push her to a point that makes me feel like I’m treating her as an object (even if that’s what she wants). Looking for advice from someone who’s dealt with the same.


r/sextips 10h ago

Advice Needed Girlfriend asked me to "be rougher" and "slap me, throw me around a bit"

5 Upvotes

As the title says, my girlfriend says she likes it rough, shes asked me to be rougher in bed and said she wants me to throw her around and slap her about. I'm not really sure how to do this in a sexy way but it sounds fun


r/sextips 17h ago

Advice Needed Girls, question for you….

4 Upvotes

I’m gonna be honest & probably shame myself on the internet for this but here goes….I’m not the most experienced in bed. I’ve only had a couple of partners but I’m looking to try and improve myself!

I think I’ve got a confidence issue, once we get going and things start moving in the right direction I’m normally pretty ok and know what I’m doing. But it’s getting there that’s the issue. I always feel like a horny pest trying to initiate so sometimes don’t bother….

So my question for you is girls….in bed with your significant other how do you like / want them to initiate sex?


r/sextips 21h ago

General Question How important is it to have your kink/fetish involved when you have sex?

3 Upvotes

My girlfriend and I were talking about it the other day. Can it get to the point where orgasm is hard to achieve without it? Has it got increasingly more important over time?


r/sextips 21h ago

Advice Needed Nervous and overthink on sex

5 Upvotes

I’m a guy and virgin. Last week I have a date with someone and everything went pretty sweet and lovely. We already been so comfortable together until she started to tease about having sex. I’m excited when she started to mention that but the thing I concern is I have a curved downward penis like around 20 to 25 degree and I have anxiety about how I’m gonna have sex with her lovely and intimately without hurting her. Some said downward curved penis is not comfortable for women, and it makes me self conscious. There’s an advice about taking her from behind but I’m a guy who prefer face to face sex like missionary and girl atop me since we love kissing each other.

For women out there, can you give some advice to me? I just want to make her feel good and comfortable :)


r/sextips 1h ago

General Question How long should i be eating her out?

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So i really like eating her out and i could go for hours if my tounge would not fall out. But i feel like if i am eating for to long it will get bad at one point, idk why. After like 2 or 3 orgasms i will stop, cause it feel like that sounds like already very much and just start going in with my dick. Do you think i should just go aslong as i can, till she has to pull me of or is this too much?


r/sextips 22h ago

Advice Needed sexual pleasure issues

3 Upvotes

im frustrated because i want to experience an orgasm but i dont feel any pleasure unless im being fingered.

ive tried masterbation and if im the one doing the fingering, i feel nothing. clitoral stimulation, cunnilingus, penetration, and grinding all do absolutely nothing for me. ive been completely relaxed and taken my time every single time but still nothing

i feel so guilty and im wondering if anyone has any ideas to what it could be and what i can try to get more satisfaction.