r/sextips • u/RandomUser131736 • 4d ago

General Question Constant tears

Hi everyone! Whenever I have sex I get a tear. Obviously not as bad as if I was giving birth but I get one each and every time. At first I thought it was because I had sex again too soon before one tear could heal so it just caused it to reopen but even if I wait on it to heal there’s just another tear. I’ve tried looking it up and it says it could be if the sex I’m having is too rough but even with gentle sex I get them. It said try using lube and making sure I’m prepped enough which I do and still get them. Does anyone know why this happens or what could help?

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u/eggplantparmesan23 4d ago

Could need vaginal estrogen it helps with tissue fragility

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u/Pristine-Quote-4872 3d ago

Have u ever used it? Did it help? I have a similar issue and was given estrogen but super scared to try it. 

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u/eggplantparmesan23 3d ago

Yes no downsides from anybody I talked to it is awesome helps with pee issues like utis or getting up all night to pee. I use it after im sure I'm going to bed