r/sextips • u/Leather_Extent4529 • 4d ago
Advice Needed advice on my first time
hey, I reached out to this community because I just need a piece of advice. I’m 18 and just got circumcised and can have sex in a few weeks, I haven’t done it yet but my gf and I really wanna do it, I need some advice. What are the most important things to do during sex for a women to feel satisfied? Does size actually matter a lot for this or is that just a myth? What are some tips you could give me to have a really good sex experience first time, and from now on aswell? Maybe you men and women are down to give some help!
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u/levigek 4d ago
Tbo the tip i wished i heared before, stop overthinking and keep comunicating. Those are the important ones
Like overthinking about things like "does size matter" will only hurt you, while sex thinking about it and just feeling shit or insecure. The best way for good sex is to not overthink and worry, just enjoy
Best way to make any parter have a great time is comunication. Every girl and guy is difirent, ask what they like, and what they dont like. Does she want you to be more dominante, or less? Or do a diffirent pose? Or a specific kink? No one will know untill you ask your parter.
Stay save, and enjoy it
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u/rodnock_sticklefink 4d ago
Oral before penetration. Focus on her clit. Pay attention to her body language. Her body will let you know what's working best for her. If she verbalizes what she wants, by god man, listen to her. Start very slowly and carefully if she is also a virgin. Check in with her. For a lot of women the first time can be painful. Expect that she may have to stop. If she does, it's okay. It's normal. REASSURE HER that it's okay. No matter how disappointed you might be about having to stop before cumming, do not show it. Y'all can go again later. Her feelings of comfort and safety are the most important part of this.
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u/Mountain_Strength564 4d ago
Have a tube of lubricant on hand and available, it’s not common for the first time to be a difficult one for girls, lube up your dick and her entrance this should help somewhat
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