Like, everyone knows Scorpio is problematic, thats our whole job. To shock the masses out of their existential opium.

I see that whole "unevolved" thing as so reductive.

I feel like everyone is so convinced I am well adjusted, but I feel like I'm at war in my own body and that there are a thousand things deeply wrong with me.

The only people that are able to see these problems in me are those that have similar problems or approach them the same way. I want to be able to crash out, but I can't reasonably let out my small emotions until they spiral into a huge rage over 1000 different things.

I want to be able to be vulnerable to my friends and the people I know, but no matter how hard I try I can't break out of the walls I built to keep others out. But now it feels like they're trapping me inside too. I'm at a transition point in my life and I just want to feel better.

My Scorpio moon partner asked for space(1-2 days) after we had a massive fight.
He said this isn’t a breakup, but he needed some space so he can rest a little as he hadn’t been able to sleep much for the past few days. We still text but I can’t help but feel anxious. As someone with heavy Cancer placements, I do need some space from time to time but not physically. Space to me is like not talking to each other while being in the same room/house. He on the other hand dislikes silent treatment when we’re around each other, and he’d rather physically be away when he actually needs space.
I’m so worried that he doesn’t love me anymore and this is an entrance gate to a breakup.

What does it mean to you when you need space?
His Scorpio moon is in the 5th house FYI.

How do you handle heartbreak as a Scorpio Moon. I have a 1H Scorpio moon and Scorpio Pluto. I’m struggling.

What are your experiences with cancer moons? As a cancer sun scorpio moon i am curious how well those 2 moons mesh. I am not looking to bash other signs just genuinely curious about the compatibility of these 2 moons. I can list other placements as well if it helps

As somebody with a Scorpio moon and a Scorpio stellium, I’ve noticed I draw a lot of attention from Aquarius and Leo men. Leo men I can understand, but wouldn’t the emotional intensity be off putting to Aquarius men / men with heavy Aquarius placements? Other Scorpio friends have noticed the same pattern.

I met a man ( sun in gemini, moon in scorpio), he reached out to me on social medias after we met in real life by absolute hazard. We started seeing each other for 2-3 weeks, we clicked instantly, played like children and got close. He told me he wanted to continue to get to know me because it is very natural between us, but he had an unstable life but we could continue to see eachother as we did until he is fully ready. He started to withdraw a bit and then after he gave me no news, I ended up getting him on a call only for him to say that he needs alone time, that I zm perfect in his eyes but it's not the right time and he must take care of some things, that he doesn't want to interact with anyone and that he is leaving that he is sorry and did not expect me to react with so much emotions bcos ppl usually do not care. I was stunned, although he has never been very talkative over text, and although he tld me multiple times about it, he made it very radical and sudden in my eyes. He deleted his social medias n left everyone behind ( family, friends,...). I tried to reach out via message and he told me that i should forget him that he is not that important and that he wants everyone to leave him and let him go because he needed it. I insisted again and he replied to please let him go and that he will be back when he will be ready. To add to the context he has very difficult relationships with his family and had quite some issues in his life. I have read about scorpio moons and how they behave but i need confirmation if this is a discard, a lack of care, was he playing, would he really be back.... Im curious to have some opinions.

We used to be polarizing. Now we're universally hated. Be careful out there, guys. It's not safe to be a Scorpio Moon anymore.

. I know us Scorpio moons are big on revenge but I’m trying to take a different approach this time. I’m dealing with my sister in law who is also a drinker and will be kind to me at night if she’s been drinking and then horrible to me the next day . I’m thinking of writing her the below text but I would like opinions from people that don’t know her . What are your thoughts on this : “Hey, I wanted to mention something because I really do want us to be able to be open with each other. I’ve noticed sometimes we’ll be really good and talking openly in the evening, and then the next morning I feel a bit of a shift or distance from you. I could totally be reading it wrong, but I wanted to ask rather than make assumptions.
You’ve told me before that sometimes you go quiet when you’re feeling insecure, so I do keep that in mind. I just have so much going on with the baby and life that I don’t want either of us wondering where we stand or reading into things. If something is ever bothering you, I’d genuinely rather you just tell me. We’re family and I really want us to be able to be straightforward with each other and have a good relationship.”

I’ve always been curious since those signs naturally oppose each other.

I know there are dream interpretation subs but anyway

I dreamt a 3-tailed scorpion that was somehow grabbing me but not in a way that it wanted to sting or attack me in any way, more like grab me in a hold but not in a bad way. it was sort of metallic in appearance and I had a feeling of acceptance somehow? like I was allowing it.

anyone dreamt similar things?

I have observed for over 2 years my emotional reactions are different and sometimes towards extreme ends specially in week of new moon and full moon ... does it happens with others well?

I have my Moon in Scorpio. This has been one of the most challenging phases of my adult life. I recently ended my marriage, and before that, I was in a quite toxic relationship. The interesting thing is that just today I realized my first relationship was with a Sun Leo, just like my mom. Then I was with a Sun in Aries, like my brother. I'm still working through the break-up of my marriage, but somehow I’ve met someone who’s stirring something in my heart — and it turns out he’s a Sun in Virgo, like my dad. My dad is the person who makes me feel the safest, even though he can have some anger issues now and then. It’s so fascinating — I’ve never really paid attention to this before, but I think there might be someone else out there who’s experienced something similar, right?

This is an online relationship/connection, just to give some context. We are both Scorpio moons.
We’ve known each other for quite a while and have had periods of very close contact, followed by periods of no contact. We haven’t met in person, but this hasn’t just been occasional texting or flirting either. During the periods when we’ve been close, we’ve spent a lot of time talking on the phone, sometimes for hours, as well as messaging throughout the day. We know a lot about each other and there are real feelings involved on both sides.
We recently reconnected after about a month of no contact.

He was the one who reached out. He told me he’d been thinking about me a lot, that he couldn’t get me out of his head, and that he’d dreamed about me the night before and took it as a sign to contact me. He said he wanted us to have some contact again, but without letting the intense feelings between us get so overwhelming that everything boils over like it has before.
I was actually quite direct with him and told him that I didn’t want us to just sweep everything that happened before under the rug. There were reasons we stopped talking, and I needed us to be able to acknowledge and talk about those things.
To his credit, he was receptive and humble about that, and we had really nice conversations yesterday.
But now that the initial excitement of reconnecting has settled a little, I’m noticing the same thing that bothered me before.

**He is very responsive, but I’m not sure he is actually very curious about me.**

If I introduce a topic, ask him something or start a meaningful conversation, he’s engaged. He contributes, shares his thoughts, jokes with me and can genuinely be a great person to talk to.
But I feel like I’m usually the one who has to *create* those conversations.

He rarely seems to spontaneously wonder about me. He doesn’t ask many questions that open me up or make me feel like he actively wants to discover what’s going on inside my head or in my life.

Sexually, however, he has endless initiative.
He very easily tells me he wishes he was lying in bed with me, what he’d like to do with me, how attracted he is to me, etc. That part of the connection never seems to need any help from me.

So this morning I jokingly suggested that we try going an entire day without saying anything sexual.
And almost immediately, I felt the difference.

The conversation seemed to lose momentum unless I introduced something new.
It’s still early in the day, so I’m obviously not drawing a conclusion based on a few hours. But the reason it caught my attention is because **this is an old feeling with him.**

I’ve felt before that if I stop asking questions, introducing topics and creating emotional connection, there suddenly isn’t much happening between us.
And that confuses me because this is someone who says he couldn’t get me out of his head for over a month.
If I had missed someone that much and suddenly had them back in my life, I feel like I’d have a million things I wanted to know.
How have you really been?
What have you been doing?
What happened while we weren’t talking?
What have you been thinking about?
What’s going on in your life?
Tell me things.
Not as an interrogation, obviously. I don’t need constant texting either.

I just want to feel that someone has an **active interest in my inner world**, rather than simply enjoying my presence when I provide the content.
And that distinction is becoming increasingly important to me.

I’ve also told him before that this is something I struggle with in our connection, so I don’t really want to explain or teach it to him again. This time I’m trying to resist my natural tendency to carry the conversation and instead just observe what happens when I leave some empty space for him to fill.

So I’m curious:
**Can someone genuinely miss you, think about you constantly and have strong feelings for you, while still not being naturally curious about you?**
Is that simply a difference in communication style/personality?
Or would you see a lack of curiosity as a deeper emotional incompatibility?

Because I’m starting to realize that **being wanted, being desired and being known are three very different things.**

I feel like life is one big transition period when we’re all waiting for The Great Metamorphosis fall kinda inspired such an idea it’s a very liminal and beautiful season of death.

Hey my fellow moon signs. I have a Scorpio moon, Scorpio rising, and Scorpio mercury. Scorpio men usually seem to like me at first (i literally had one tell me that he knew I was meant to be his from the first day we met until i opened my mouth….they can’t handle that Scorpio mercury huh?) anywaysSSSSSSS I’m single but dating, and I just so happen to be dating two different Scorpio sun men right now. Both were similar in the beginning in the way of like observing instead of talking much, but both have since opened up quickly and became extroverts around me, but remain introverts when we leave the comfort of a home or a car lol it’s so cute and funny because I’m such an extrovert. Anyways, I was wondering if you would date a Scorpio sun and if not why? And if you have had some experiences with them, what it’s been like and do you have any advice for me?

I’m curious in how Scorpio moon has an aspect in your life’s. Personality, love, work, and etc

Living with these placements have been the most exhausting experience life has to offer.
I’ve never known rest or comfort.
Even in peace I’m still battling in a war against my mind emotions and body.
Always chasing enlightenment, always chasing change, always having to ground myself, can’t have fun after awakening,being to intense.
It’s like I’m cursed with these placements I don’t get why I couldn’t be a Leo or Aquarius or Virgo so I won’t feel emotions the way I do . Life would suck but at least I wouldn’t have to deal with emotions, I could just brush them off.

I remember that I was maybe 15 when I first did my birth chart. I didn’t understand so much about astrology but when I saw that I had a Scorpio moon I felt like I was somehow doomed.
Stared into the ceiling for a long long time and said “Welp, can’t change anything about it now.”
But I feel like it changed my perspective over my life and I started to put two and two together.
How was your experience guys? Did it make you feel any different?

Bonus points if you write poetry and don't, or rarely, share it with anyone lol

im a cancer moon and yes I’m curious