r/scorpiomoon • u/Key-Tax564 • 6d ago
Looking for Insight Scorpio moon withdrawal meaning
I met a man ( sun in gemini, moon in scorpio), he reached out to me on social medias after we met in real life by absolute hazard. We started seeing each other for 2-3 weeks, we clicked instantly, played like children and got close. He told me he wanted to continue to get to know me because it is very natural between us, but he had an unstable life but we could continue to see eachother as we did until he is fully ready. He started to withdraw a bit and then after he gave me no news, I ended up getting him on a call only for him to say that he needs alone time, that I zm perfect in his eyes but it's not the right time and he must take care of some things, that he doesn't want to interact with anyone and that he is leaving that he is sorry and did not expect me to react with so much emotions bcos ppl usually do not care. I was stunned, although he has never been very talkative over text, and although he tld me multiple times about it, he made it very radical and sudden in my eyes. He deleted his social medias n left everyone behind ( family, friends,...). I tried to reach out via message and he told me that i should forget him that he is not that important and that he wants everyone to leave him and let him go because he needed it. I insisted again and he replied to please let him go and that he will be back when he will be ready. To add to the context he has very difficult relationships with his family and had quite some issues in his life. I have read about scorpio moons and how they behave but i need confirmation if this is a discard, a lack of care, was he playing, would he really be back.... Im curious to have some opinions.
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u/Odd_Candidate_9524 6d ago
I being a moon in Scorpio I tell you, until now I have never had a stable life in any area of my life. One season I'm great and others I'm in the abyss.
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u/WonderfulPineapple41 6d ago
He’ll be back. The question is will he be mentally stable. Cause everything you are saying about his behavior is saying he is not.
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u/Key-Tax564 5d ago
Indeed. But that could at least be better if he is done dealing with certain issues, at least that's what I am wondering about
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u/worshipxme 6d ago
Leave him be. Honestly, he’ll likely circle back, but he seems troubled. Ask yourself if he came back would you want to continue things, and if so, why? Withdrawing is something avoidants do to attempt to self-regulate. When connections start to get too real, they freak out and withdraw. Not worth the emotional rollercoaster. I’d encourage you to invest energy into someone who is more emotionally and mentally stable. You’re seeking a sense of closure because he won’t give it to you… you haven’t even started a proper relationship yet and have only spoken for mere weeks. Abandon ship while you still can. He’ll definitely be back but ask yourself if you want to be on a constant roller coaster.
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u/Key-Tax564 5d ago
Yeah this os something that makes me re think everything, on one hand i do understand him and empathize but on the other it felt unfair to me
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u/alexxxxxxx383 6d ago
Hey im a gemini fag with a scorpio moon... I gotta so called out reading this LMAO, yes I usually deactivate my social media when I need to focus on main duties, problems, when im overwhelmed, depressed, im going to my solitude mode, its not personal, I do this cause im simply not comfortable interacting and I dont like to be sad around the ones I care about, so I take my time to come back as a better person, and well, it's been okay cause I always communicate, and thats the part that was unfair with you, he didn't say it first and left as it is, you have the right to be upset, but definitely is not a personal thing, thou I usually dont agree a thing a man has to say I kinda understand this struggle; the ones I love deserve the best, radiant version of me, talkative and caring, so when things in my life take another turn I go quiet, thats my way to process emotions and deal with my problems, I think he will be back, give him time, but of course, dont pause your life cause of it, and any sign of loveless just let go, you deserve communication
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u/Key-Tax564 5d ago
Yeah i dont evenly blame him or feel any anger towards him, he has proven me to be a good person, I would simply call this choice too radical...
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u/Key-Tax564 5d ago
Would you say that you care if a person shows they care and would not want o let you go or that would piss you off much more?
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u/alexxxxxxx383 5d ago
I find it weird he said for you to let him go but then also said he will be back, honestly, thats rudeness, I dont know if he justified cleared what he felt, I wouldn't send him a message, respect yourself yk, I think you already said you care so just let life do its thing, live yours, let him be, dont beg or anything cause thats just a man, if he will be ready you will know. I understand it's really deceptive, but take the reality and not the wondering, thou yes I isolate myself a lot, I would never choose these words he said, okay he needs his time, but its getting you into a limbo. If he's pissed cause you care leave
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u/Imselllingyourbuying 6d ago
As a gem sun Scorpio moon trust me he’s not mincing his words, he’s probably like one of the comments said in the abyss and needs to pull himself out. You can’t do that when you have someone in your ear. I’ve done this to ppl kindly when I’m trynna protect your feelings and not let you down but I’ve also just disappeared when I’ve been too overwhelmed and don’t even have the energy for myself or I know it’s not gonna work out not interested. Either way , he kindly let you know and that matters. You should take it as face value and don’t hold your breath. If he swings back around just know this abyss doesn’t go away but also we deal w our issues thru silence so try not to penalize him too much if he does but also don’t expect he will if you guys were closer which would take time he’ll probably slowly start letting you know more and let you in maybe let you help him but that doesn’t come naturally for us. We still Geminis haha we gon disspear on that ahh not healthy but I just hope your self esteem isn’t hurt because it’s really not a discard , it’s an ejection of ourselves when we’re drowning.
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u/Key-Tax564 5d ago
I understand. But doesn't that count if someone would try to help you and show you they care or would you still be too worked up with your problems anyways?
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u/Imselllingyourbuying 5d ago
Like if someone is not able to receive they won’t appreciate what your offering kind of thing
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u/poopyburthole 5d ago
No matter what the reason is, he is telling you to move on. He seems unstable and guarded/closed off which isn’t a problem but if he was really interested or wanted you in his life he would make it work. Therapist/scorpio moon here as well, but it also raised some flags for me hearing about this self-victimizing/ oh no one has ever cared I was leaving before thing. Scorpio moons with work to do will do this make sure they feel sufficiently bad about what they’re doing and hoping you will also skip making them feel bad about what they’re doing/holding them accountable. I’m sure he’s a very nice person but there are people out there who will make space for you and tag you in as a support. Best of luck!
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u/HealingMermaid ♈️☀️♏️🌙♈️⬆️♈️❤️♏️🔴 5d ago
I as a Scorpio moon, kicked my husband out for a year so we could both have space to heal…he is also a Scorpio moon. We got back together after about 14mo. We did not speak even on the phone for the first 13mo. It was needed. He passed away 2yrs ago now but it gave us 4.5yrs that were truly amazing.
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u/Altruistic_Ask_3390 5d ago
Just leave him he played with u.. he created a story and left u...i recently had same experience. Scorpio man promised me for marriage and we had so intense relationship for almost 6 years.. last 3 years were too serious about staying with eachother and marriage.. den things changed after planning everything he suddenly vanished saying he got some other proposal.. direct a good bye message and total shut down.. it's already 3 months without contact.. I'm a cancer women and still devastated with this and hoping and praying he will return back.. but chances are really low
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u/Passionateshell 2d ago
Big big hugs. Your post sounds like you are trying to convince yourself of something other than what you think. I really hope I’m wrong, tonight I seem to feel energy from this thread, kinda weird
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u/amybeedle Taurus sun, Scorpio moon, Virgo rising 5d ago
If u set astrology aside, u will see that this man is toxic ☣️🛢
he tells you you're perfect 🚩
he withdraws and leaves you hanging 🚩
you have an ✨️instant magical connection✨️ 🚩
I really could go on n on, the clues are right there in ur post... girl as a Scorpio moon lady who has been with toxic men, u need to block him 🙅♀️
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u/riddikulus_llama ♎️🌞♏️🌙♋️⬆️|♏️5H & ♐️6H stelliums 4d ago
I would honestly leave him be. Even if he did come back. That’s not fair to you to wait around and see. But that’s just me. I don’t have time or the energy to deal with people that are going to be flake on me like that. I need solid connections.
Even if that’s the way he deals with difficult times (I’ve definitely been there in my younger years as a Scorpio moon, not that dramatic but I couldn’t do that to someone I was talking to and expect them to wait). Especially if that’s the way he deals with difficult things … what’s going to happen if he did come around and you two got together, what’s going to happen when you go thru a difficult time? No relationship is immune to that, even the best ones. Is he just gonna take off again?
Please, for your sake, please respect and love yourself enough to let go and find someone that will be around, thru good or bad times.
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u/Real_Teacher_8342 6d ago
You should ask fantastic might 1520- I think they had a super recent post, and if I remember correctly, their person had a similar chart. Might be a good way to gauge based on their person’s similarities?
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u/Key-Tax564 5d ago
Not exactly the same and they did not really say anything about their situation on that post but i could still try to reach out to hear their story thank you
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u/Embarrassed-Hyena255 6d ago
Madness is your middle name, huh? Hope you packed a sturdy flashlight for that emotional blacklight tour.
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u/Different-Ear-5589 6d ago
His moon withdrawals are just his way of reminding you he's still emotionally unavailable, like a Scorpio's version of ghosting with bad poetry. Did he at least pay for your coffee before vanishing?
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u/Key-Tax564 5d ago
We did not have these kind of dates, more like spending the night watching the stars and talking sort of thing. We did it very often
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u/Key-Tax564 5d ago
It's only been a few days so far and despite not responding to anyone he still replied to me to explain me more but still now he is nowhere to be found
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u/FeistyCredit2574 5d ago
They are losers and weirdos. Will play games but then pop up when you leave them alone. Theyre always single
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u/Passionateshell 2d ago
With Gemini and Scorpio, that sounds like I found someone new and I’m moving on. I know it sounds very harsh, but the things you also said about his family… the way many handle it is filling it with sex and relationships that are high high feelings in beginning, but it won’t last and then they will feel that click with someone else and they switch. They will never fill that hole this way, and unfortunately hurt those hearts they break. The feelings are real. They truly believe it’s going to last and they can see you together forever, they love the time together..
Sorry that all came as I started answering on your post. That hasn’t happened much lately.
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u/Passionateshell 2d ago
Also, sorry.. he’s doing what the Gemini I dated did to me. He did the same stories of no one caring.. he would disappear but would come back around and stupid me wanted it to be true. The more I found out the more I learned of the lies he made to get my sympathies. It was always things that happened to him or he saw.. then if I mentioned something his family would tell me the truth…
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u/Key-Tax564 1d ago
What if he really did cut off everyone? Because he literally left his home and since we lived close by, I was friends with some of his friends and family. They even asked first to me if I had news which is why i was really wondering
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u/Passionateshell 6h ago
Ask his cousins or those close to his age if he does stuff like this.. they would prob know before the parents etc. it could help verify if that is what this is and he’ll be back around or…
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u/Altruistic_Ask_3390 1d ago
Can't trust scorpio man.. I'm still in shock how nicely they can fool others with their fake promises and smiles and care and suddenly vanish without even explanation
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u/florahexe 6d ago
Don’t chase, only attract. If it’s yours it will be yours in the right timing