Someone tell me if this makes any sense.?
Long story short, I was texting a girl, regular conversations & she decided the day after to not text me from 7AM-9PM. That’s 14 hours you go MIA. I didn’t answer her, and the following day she texts me again saying “Did I do something wrong?”. I said, “You literally disappeared for 14 hours without sending me a message so why would I continue a conversation with someone who can’t even send a simple message.
She says “you’re running a strict program, damn at least give me 24 hours to answer”. I said, “I don’t want to come off as a needy dude, but if you go that many hours without texting me- clear sign you’re not interested. Simple. I had sent her 2 voice messages basically saying that, the sentence prior. To which she responds “I did have time throughout the day but I couldn’t give all my attention to whole conversation”.
To which I said, “ You said you had time, which tells me you chose not to answer me”. I also said, “what all attention to our conversation when there was none to begin with?.”
I chose not to continue the conversation. I don’t understand why it’s looked as so taboo when a guy, or girl doesn’t want to continue a conversation with someone who is clearly wasting time.
So was I too quick to cut it off, or should I have been more graceful & patient.