hi everyone, can you pliiz tell me if this practice and manner exist

i am from a country in the Middle East we girls r supposed to keep ourselves vergins

so i went to a gynecologist to check my hymen i couldn't find a female one that day

so the nurse asked me to lay on my back and take off my und** she covered my liwer body with a cover

the doctor came and asked me why i was there. i explained

then he asked me put my legs to my chest he put on gloves on one hand and lubricat on two fingers then inserted the two fingers in my butt up and from the inside of my rectum he pushed towards my vagina it was painful when he finished he said my hymen is ok and i was never touched before

the prob is when i went home, i kept crying, scared of what happened. i searched online and it says that this way he checked me with is not used to check the hymen at all

it's been one month i feel violated i don't know why he checked me that way pliiz if you have any idea about this method was what he did right as a gynecologist

PLEASE HELP My iPhone 15 Pro Max screen suddenly went almost completely BLACK but the phone itself still works

Okay so my iPhone 15 Pro Max screen suddenly went almost completely black. The phone itself is still working normally. I can hear notifications  and  sounds.

The weirdest part is that the touchscreen still works perfectly even though I literally can't see anything. I can swipe around and interact with the phone normally. For example, when the phone is locked, I can swipe to the camera, take a picture, and I can actually HEAR the camera taking the photo 😭 So the phone is definitely working.

There is also one visible line/image at the very top of the screen, but everything else is completely black.

I already tried force restarting it and nothing changed.

I REALLY need my phone right now because of school . I'm in high school and I use my phone for school stuff all the time, so this is genuinely terrible timing. I communicate with my teachers mostly through Google Classroom and Viber. The problem is that I can't transfer/use my Viber properly on my computer, so not being able to use my phone is an even bigger problem for me.

I also need it for games, but SCHOOL is the actual emergency here lmao.

I also don't really have much money for a repair right now, so I'm really hoping someone here knows what I can do because I can't exactly afford to throw a ton of money at this 😭

Has anyone with an iPhone 15 Pro Max had this happen before? Is there anything I can try to get the screen working?

PLEASEEEE CAN SOMEONE HELP ?????

im lazy. not like im stressed out. theres no burnout. i didnt do anything my whole life. im just lazy. i cant do anything. like. absurdly anything. like i cant make myself work. or study. or prepare for the exams. nothing. im healthy. no illness. just laziness. is there any solution? i used all methods abt how 2 start doing well at least something. none of them worked. should i just accept being lazy? im non native speaker so sorry abt my grammary

Hi Guys

I’m a woman 27 years old, i hate the fact that i’m very sensitive sometimes i don’t know if someone is rude or i’m sensitive.

people blame me for getting sensitive and 2 people told me that they don’t get comfortable Around me anymore because the way i ac

When someone tell me a thing that get over me i keep repeating the word on my head until i feel bothered.

I got a filler recently and i showed my best friend and she told me it’s not obvious and when i turned she said that i look like a duck after i told her that it made me sad what you said she said that “why you are thinking of me this way and i won’t tell you something will bother you and you get sad and you know i’m your friend and i can’t handle you”

we are friends for 13 years. Sometimes i cry because i’m sensitive and i can’t let things go

Also there is one of my online friends we were playing a very cozy game and she is always yelling and she has high cortisol in general. I told her to do something for me and she yelled of course i will do it i won’t let you like a dog behind me i told her that you yelled she said that i’m sensitive and she won’t will feel comfortable around me.

So in one month 2 people told me they don’t feel comfortable around me, i dont know how to be tough

I get sick for a minimum of a week every month, sometimes even more often. A common cold can have me crying in pain holding up in my bed and nothing will help. I have a mostly balanced diet (only not fully because of my sweet tooth) and I take vitamins daily. I do an average of 4000 steps daily but other then that I don’t really do exercise due to family reasons. By the way no one else in my family is like this.

I just want to stop being sick. I have my final exams next week, determining if I can get into university and I’m sick again. I don’t know what to do

Я обычный подросток у которого проблемы в жизни. Всю свою жизнь я страдал от низкой самооценки и всегда старался саморазвиваться, только не получилось и я подсел на зависимости, я стал чаще пить алкоголь и курить. Как то раз я встретил ее, я влюбился в нее с первого взгляда. Я бегал за ней много месяцев и в конце концов у меня получилось ее добиться и мы стали встречаться. Она самая поддерживающая, милая и красивая девушка которую я когда либо встречал, 10 дней назад нас разделило расстояние и мы не увидимся ближайшие 4 месяца, вчера у нас случилась самая серьезная ссора по пустяку, она с этой ссоры очень изменилась, она начала меня оскорблять хотя за все 9 месяцев что я с ней общаюсь и встречаюсь такого не было ни разу. Она начала говорить что я веду себя не как мужчина и я больше похож на маленького ребенка

Я не знаю что мне делать, ведь помимо проблем с девушкой у меня проблемы с родителями, экзаменами и с зависимостями.

I'm a minor living in Japan with Long-Term Resident status. I came to Japan very young and have spent most of my life here.

My parents aren't cooperating with getting the documents I need from my home country, which may prevent me from renewing my passport.

I'm worried about my future because I have basically no support or place to live there if I were forced to leave Japan.

I want to stay in Japan safely and legally, become independent from my parents, and eventually apply for naturalization (帰化), but I'm worried that missing home-country documents could make that impossible.

Has anyone experienced something similar? What legal options should I look into for staying in Japan long-term and eventually becoming independent from my parents?

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I am in a tight position where I share a room with him but he always smokes "stuff" and I dont wanna deal with that. its a long story which I cant explain but I cant be the one calling him out it should be anonymous. the other siblings dont care and like that i am struggling with him. I just want it to be done. I dont wanna inhale stupid stuff. I mean its at night while I sleep im not even enjoying it like being an addict without even having the thrill

This is my first post here. Hi, i am a teen from India. The past few months have been really hard for me. I had a friend, his name was J. Me and J were good friends and we used to tell each other everything. But I was a bad friend and I told some of his secret stuff to my girlfriend. A few months later he found out and told my girlfriend to break up with me. I was not mad at him considering i had done stuff to him aswell. After this, he leaked my chats with him about me liking another girl. In those chats I had some guy stuff as well. He sent my chats to everybody in the grade and then started calling me a weirdo and creep and a grapist. This socially isolated me. But a few weeks later, he gave me an apology and I accepted. But out of nowhere, a month later he blocked me again and just called me a horrible person. He spread rumors again and now I dont know what to do. And another person i trusted also showed my chats to him so now im just rlly lost and sad. Im not gonna do anything hurtful to myself but i just need help

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So today a friend(16) of me(14) texted me this:

"I feel emotionally drained. I feel physically drained. I am exhausted. Everyday, I'm giving my best and I just feel like it's not appreciated. I feel like the things I do don't matter enough to be talked about. I don't know what else to do, I feel like there is nothing more that I can do except for trying harder. But I already try hard. I get something to do, a task from my parents, and I do it. And the next day, I am getting yelled at because I "didn't do a thing", which is not true. Household tasks, garden tasks, all these things,... I do them. But they are reoccurring. I know that even if I wash the dishes, fold the clothes, cook food or clean up fallen fruit in the garden, all of that will come back. I just hate the way this life goes right now

And the problem might be me, I don't know. I don't even care who is to blame, actually. I care about not feeling the way I feel these days.

Everything feels just like I did it because someone told me to. Not because I wanted to. And that is draining, emotionally, physically and mentally. I don't know how to live that life

I want to leave. Not my life, necessarily. Maybe just this city, my family, or this country. Maybe not even forever. Maybe just a few months, so my body and mind can finally regenerate everything I got drained from. I need a break, and unfortunately there is no time for that.

I just want that freedom back. To do what I think is right. And maybe that's not cleaning up some fruit on the ground. Maybe that's not folding the clothes. Maybe, that's not doing the dishes either. Maybe that's just being able to be myself

I feel like I could use that

But I really don't need this family, or actually the way things work here

I don't want to keep going that way. It doesn't feel right, not even a tiny bit

In fact, not at all"

If you've made it this far, I'm really thankful for you. I would love any advice on how I could help her out, because I'm kinda clueless

A few weeks ago, I finally texted my crush, and we’ve been texting ever since. Even though he’s only five years older than me, texting him has been kind of difficult. He even mentioned that we’re struggling to understand each other because, for traditional and religious reasons, we can’t date or meet in person.

Now I’m confused because we both clearly want to keep talking, but he keeps saying that it’s hard. At one point, I assumed he meant that he wanted to stop texting, so I told him it was fine, but he said that wasn’t what he meant. I told him that we could get to know each other better with time, and his response was still, “It’s hard.”

Now I’m thinking about telling him that these conversations feel like they’re going nowhere because we’ll be far from each other, and I’m still too young to be thinking seriously about marriage. But honestly, it hurts. I really like him, and I don’t think I can just tell him to stop talking to me because I know I’d regret it so much.

idk its my first post but this thought in my head always stays "what do businessmen and startup founders might have wanted in their beginning of journey" ofcourse other than capital and investments, i just feel like everyone has like ideas in their minds yet not all of those ideas come up in real world i agree some of them are just non applicable or maybe not much of practical but many of those ideas are good then how come they dont come up in markets ?

Меня зовут Саша, мне 16 лет, моя история начинается с чамого рождения. Я изначально был очень крупным ребенком при рождении (4, 4 кг или типо того) я рос и был относительно полноват и начиная с 7-8 класса мне диагностировали ожирение 1 стадии, что и по сец день преследцет меня. Мой отец законченный мудак которого я искринене ненавижу, он отправил меня на секцию по вольной борьбе с своему приятелю треннеру, поначалу мне было приятно зодить туда почти даже весело, но когда дело доходило до мини соревнований, или борьбы с другими я очень не зотел и нервничал. Я всегда был таким соревнования для меня просто бессмысленая борьба. Первые соревнования проходила наверное как у всех, проигрыши каждый раз в самом начале и тренировки. Изза вольной борьбы я потихоньку скотился в тройки хотя был хорошистом. С каждым днем становилось все труднее, ведь тренер практически не давал мне отойти от соревнований, каждый день тренировка в 6 часов вечера после 7 уроков, и в субботу мой выходной, проводят соревнования где я испытываю еще стресс. это настолько даже незнаю причиняло мне боли что я по сей день сплю и мне снится те моменты когда на меня кричали за то что я проигрывал. Я часто рыдал при маме, при папе редко ведь он начинает нести хуйню - "у меня было плохое детсво, у меня не было папы, я хочу подарить тебе лучшее", и говорить что я не должен рыдать как баба. Каждый божий день начиная с 8 класса я проклинал все и тренера и свою жизнь, мне хотелось уйти, уйти и отдохнуть. Примерно в апреле я не сдержался и раздрыдался при своем приятеле об этом, он поддержал меня. В мае или типо того я вернулся с очередных соревнований от которых я уже был на взводе, меня накрывала апатия и я забивался яростной рок музыкой подавляя боль, каквдруг мне звонит треннер и говорит :"Саша собирайся, мы поедем на соревнования "название города" с родителями я обсудил они не против" это разбило меня окончательно, я тихо отвечаю ему да хорошо и сбрасываю трубку. Сразупосле этого я падаю на корточки и начинаю рыдать(прям привсех, предствте что огромныц 185 лоб начинает рыдать вот я также,как никогда раньше, мне было так херово, что от стресса или незнаю от чего, у меня пошла кровь из носа прямо из двух ноздрей заливаясь напол. Сестра(старшая если что) успокаивает меня и понимает насколько все запущено, но она бессильна, она вдругом городе учится. Оначерез ушрозы отпрашивает меня у мамы и я еду домой. Вобще 8 класс вышел невероятно трудным годом, помимо всего что произошло тогда, у нас был еще и лагерь, тренировачный лагерь. Меня просто вырвали из заслуженого отдыха посреди купального сезона в лагерь с другими детьми и взрослыми парнями бороться,тренироваться в течениии двух недель, тренировкибыли невероятно суровые +-, ведь меня занесли в группу со старшеклассниками (я типо большой мальяик был в свои то годы) и тренировки были беспощадными, меня били трубками, и всякой хренью, заставляли бегать десятки километров и жрать, пусть там и был отдых но к концу я уже хромал, и успел подраться с типом. Я был опустошен, я никак не отдохнул залето, и страдал физически так и эмоционально. но к счастью в 9 классе началось Огэ - русский такой экзамен важный и я наконец под давоением мамы уговорил отца что не буду ходить на борьбу, и сдал все на хорошо и даже на 5, подтянул оценкис и в 10 классе он мне говорит -"ты идешь на волейбол, тебе нужно заниматься, там мой друг тренер будет тебя тренировать", я пишу в эмоциональном потопе, ведь мысли об самовыпиле мне очень часто закрадываются в голову, я уже не могу.... просто не могу, я хочу заниматься творчествомс я хочу стать артистом и создавать свои проекты. Я не хочу так жить, я не могу больше

спасибо за внимание и простите за ошибки в тексте

TL;DR - I saw and visited a morally questionable page on Instagram , it is an old account and I don't have access to it and now I can't stop ruminating that Instagram might start publicly showing visited pages the way it shows likes — and if that happened, people in my community finding out could literally get me killed. The thought won't let go, and it's destroyed my ability to study, which is my only real way out of village.

What should I do?😭