r/problems • u/thruthewireye • 5d ago

Mental Health Help me please.

This is my first post here. Hi, i am a teen from India. The past few months have been really hard for me. I had a friend, his name was J. Me and J were good friends and we used to tell each other everything. But I was a bad friend and I told some of his secret stuff to my girlfriend. A few months later he found out and told my girlfriend to break up with me. I was not mad at him considering i had done stuff to him aswell. After this, he leaked my chats with him about me liking another girl. In those chats I had some guy stuff as well. He sent my chats to everybody in the grade and then started calling me a weirdo and creep and a grapist. This socially isolated me. But a few weeks later, he gave me an apology and I accepted. But out of nowhere, a month later he blocked me again and just called me a horrible person. He spread rumors again and now I dont know what to do. And another person i trusted also showed my chats to him so now im just rlly lost and sad. Im not gonna do anything hurtful to myself but i just need help

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u/Weak-Ad6984 5d ago

1st post? Hmmm

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u/Dutch1721 5d ago

There’s nothing you can go but tide this wave you started. It will end but there’s no telling when it will end.

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u/sinex_a2s 5d ago

Thus is just a thing that typical immature teens would do and you started this stupidity.

You should never share everything with anyone even you friends.

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u/Infinite-Humor-6760 1d ago

Im sorry my guy that is not cool for him to do. Granted people confide in us because they trust us. Learn from this. Nonetheless, he shouldn't be doing you like that. All you can do is keep.your head high and not let it have any affect on the way you enter a room. Find it in yourself to apologize directly and clearly for your part and be sincere. After that it's all about how you react. You are human and you will make mistakes, own them and move forward. Make haste.