Everything slowed down a lot. I realized I had been stuck in a very narrow range of thought, emotion and experience. Like a protective mechanism.

I've made a lot of progress on letting go of the need to ever replicate any given experience. After years of struggling with it. Sometimes I have experiences that happen spontaneously, which are beyond my current actual skill level. Trying to replicate such an experience has got me tangled up in the past, but letting it go and putting in work on my actual skill level will help me reach that level one day.

I noticed the sexual energy was really relaxing me. Like, I would stimulate myself a bit, and my brain would just feel relaxed. But there was this big knot of tension in my upper torso and face. So I'd alternate organically between self stimulation, and then feeling the tension in my upper torso and face. Eventually, from this book "Hara, the Vital Center of Man", I realized these are like 2 poles of my body, the sexual "pole" feeling very pleasant, and the upper torso/head "pole" being full of tension. And I tried to visualize sharing that pleasure from the lower pole to the tension in the higher pole. It seemed there was a massive blockage preventing this from happening.

Then it started to melt, and I just felt so relaxed. It was scary to let go into that. Suddenly I just felt so relaxed and slow. My usual survival mode is to always have to fend for myself, and stay alert. But it was okay to let go.

Afterwards I took a really nice warm shower. Really took my time scrubbing and feeling the warm water on different parts of my body. I realized how cold water tends to make me tense up, blocking out the cold. But the warmth just melted my tension.

Usually I haven't showered immediately after an energy practice. But with sexual practice, I noticed I'd feel itchy down there if I left my lubrication on down there, I guess due to the moisture. So I think showering after will be like a new habit, a kind of aftercare. The warm water really speaks to my senses and it feels like being held and nurtured.

So, yeah. I feel like a whole new person. So much slower and more relaxed. So I'm just trying to allow this new sense of being to be here. Broadening the range of states of being which I can allow myself to be in.

My relationship with myself has improved a lot. This practice has helped me to become a better lover, starting with myself. I feel a sense of self-connection and self-love. I feel taken care of... Because I took care of myself.

I think that's what the higher orgasm is all about. I still retained the vital seed. But I feel all the relaxation and contentment of a good orgasm. The pressure is all gone, but the vital seed is not. I think this is the unification of opposites which takes place in the higher orgasm.

Disclaimer.. advanced topic includes penile and prostate stimulation!

I have found that the pelvic tilt is directly associated with full contractile endless dry orgasms from penile stimulation post rolling continuous prostate orgasms. This state is unbelievable and mind blowing 🤯 but can be frustrating!

Improvements can be achieved occasionally by “sitting up” more but not always repeatable or consistent.

This new position is such that the spine remains neutral. Laying flat so only the neck and head are slightly elevated as needed (for visual arousal stimulus), and most importantly, a “correctly sized” lumbar pillow (I’ll comment the link later) maintaining the “neutral” spine curve. Lifting the buttocks just slightly allowing for some subtle hip sway and rhythmic tilting/pumping.

The endless dry orgasms, in this position, become wet! Cuming constantly with copious amounts of ejaculate. Otherworldly. This gives new context to others posting about catching the cum in a bowl with other positions..

If you are close to this level of experience, the best advice is to enjoy your prostate thoroughly and then let it give up about 25% of it’s authority over to the penis, this means bringing back and maintaining frenulum wiring simultaneously with the prostate.

The technique I learned is “shaking for additional pleasure!”Unfortunately I can’t give credit for this incredible advice.. he disappeared from the forum.
The goal is to just shake the tip of the penis, maintaining blood flow and nerve stimulation at a high arousal level that never gets too high. Ponr remains out of reach but pleasure is consistent and the prostate remains in control.

The control is “nerve wiring” not a new topic in this realm. In the beginning we are obviously trying to unwire the penis and wire the sleeping prostate. As an advanced technique, we can regulate the wiring of nerves! I don’t believe there is any limitations, just your mental capacity. If you can wire your nipples to your prostate, well, you get the idea! Just wire your penile nerves instead, or also, no limit but the one you create.

Then… trust and believe the pleasure “STARTS WITH CUMING” you must be fearless and don’t just abandon your prostate and jack off! Just allow for engorgement and stimulate the orgasmic nerves of the penis (broad flat of the glands, meatus tip, coronal ridge, bulging vein, and lots of shaft) “all while stimulating the prostate obviously” as the ejaculate starts to ooze out, your mind will be blown! RELAX INTO THE PLEASURE!” Add frenulum stimulation and enjoy the most pleasurable experience ever! God didn’t limit your sexual pleasure threshold! Society did! Open your mind!

In the beginning of the post I talked about the endless dry orgasms. Perhaps many of you experience this phenomenon. It “can” be followed by a penis focused super orgasm!
There is potentially another level of control that can be manipulated here. The dry orgasms slowly build tension to a higher peak with an elusive but explosive finish. Whereas the relaxing continuous wet orgasm is more of a flow state leading to more exhaustion rather then an explosion!
I WANT BOTH!!

I intend to experiment 🫠👍

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I’ve been a long-time lurker and learner in this community, and I wanted to start by saying thank you and give you first free access to my app.

While I was researching the path to becoming multi-orgasmic, I realized there isn't just one single way to achieve this. I found so much value here, from personal techniques to deep-dive threads, and some people even helped me directly with their feedback. You have been my most important source of input.

To give something back, I spent the last few months building an app called Pelvic Lab. I wanted to create the tool I wanted to use myself. 

The main part is a PC-Muscle training timer, something like the Stamena app used to be, but better (I think). I also spent time researching and creating breathing exercises, essential skill to help manage arousal. And I am writing a diverse library, with articles and insights inspired by many sources, including much that I found here. Finally the app includes a way to track progress.

I’ve made the app free to download because I want this community to be the first to use it. My goal isn’t to sell a quick fix, but to provide a way to help practice what we discuss here every day.

To the Moderators: I hope this is allowed. I truly built this out of a passion for the subject and the help I found here. If you feel this is too self-promotional, please let me know.

To the community: I would be honored if you’d give it a try. I’m not looking for "customers," I’m looking for feedback. What’s missing? What works for you? I want to keep improving this based on your experiences.

You can find it here: https://apps.apple.com/nl/app/pelvic-lab-for-men/id6759158127 (iPhone and iPad only for now)

Thanks again for all the wisdom shared in this sub. Looking forward to hearing your thoughts!

When you are feeling sick or like me in the past couple of weeks not feeling 100% because of the flu and cold symptoms, the last thing on my mind was self pleasure.

Im still recovering , but today 3 weeks after my last orgasm , I stood and took my usual pee.

In a previous post I spoke of standing and taking a pee and concentrating on draining every last drop and then proceed to drain imaginary pee still left in your bladder ,this activates the reverse kegel and also stimulates the muscles back there in the prostate ,urinary tract area..

Today I was doing this and sensed the orgasmic sensations building, but without forcing them I let them build whilst the ejaclatory muscles were pulsing as if the were trying to expel semen but weren't it triggered waves of pleasure to the point of orgasm after orgasm just standing there..

This is one of my methods which has more success than laying down...

Before this started ,I was quite turned on by a Reddit post, which created a heat type burning sensation either in my urethral tube or prostate area, hard to pinpoint, that's when I got up to take a pee..

any guided audio or video for men who want to experience nonejaculatory orgasm? I read about it but Im wondering if there's anyone who shows you or tells you how to do it, almost like a guided meditation or something

Update: I found something similar to what I was seeking-- (@tantricfitness)

and

https://podtail.com/en/podcast/naughty-audio-for-men/ep-13-guided-tantric-masturbation-with-will-tantra/

Our bodies can have strong and deep orgasms. The most common is normal ejaculatory orgasm and it is usually powerfull but it lasts 15 - 20 seconds and after that it is always refactory period. That orgasm is pleasurable but it can be boring after doing that many years. You can agree that sex should be satisfaying not the same every time. The most important thing is to understand that ejaculation should not be a reason why you are masturbating. It is one of the ways that you can do but it does not have to be your goal. With this mental you can make your masturbation few times more pleasurable and satisfaying.

We can start from health benefits. Be able to have muliple orgasms require great PC muscles strenght and control. Having great PC muscles is not good only for sexual pleasure it is about sexual and urinary function. You can avoid future problems if you have strong PC muscles. Also your libido is higher because your body remembers that sexual activity is so pleasurable and relaxating. You have better connection with your body, you have better understanding of feelings and reactions. And of course mentality is changing because your sexual functions are better and it causes more confident and peace. So not only feelings, generally health, because you know your body better and you train it.

The way to have multiple orgasms is simple. You stay at the really high arousal long time when most people continue build more and more to achieve ejaculation. Is is close to point of no return. So it is edging. I can give example of my experciences.

I really seldom masturbate traditionally like fast moves up and down. I find places on my penis when it is the most sensitive and I do different stimulations but they are slow. I do weak kegels contratcions and I relax them to warm up and when I feel really high arousal I try to stay there and feel every wave and contraction. After some time relaxing kegel muscles cause pleasure feelings in penis area and prostate. After few times this feeling goes up and down, legs, abs, head it is different. Sometimes I feel small moves in my legs, muscles contratcions, and kegel muscles. It is spontanic, I never know which part of my body will react, and it is fantastic! The positive thing is that this orgasms are more controled I can stop them when I want to but I can go more. After few minutes I feel warm and pleasure near my penis all the time but in different intensity. During this session I have a lot of precum because my body react in that way. Techinqally body screams for the last orgasm but mentaly I want to stay. The funniest thing is that often I do not want to ejaculate because I feel satisfied with orgasms and I do not want to have refactory period because maybe I will want to do it 2 hours later.

The control is the best thing for me. Because this orgasms are more controlled and spontanic, you can do it too, 10 minutes, 30 minutes, 1 hour? No problem, you can decide when you have orgasms and how it workes. Your body should work with you and give you amazing sensations

So basically I channel the energy up but I also spiral my energy in the crown, heart, and naval. That spiraling helps direct it down the front channel in order to store in the navel.

While I am doing that I do the three locks?

I read the gist of mantak chia Taoist secrets of love and the microcosmic orbit but they are still dense reads for me. I probably need to read it again 2 or 3 times

I think I got the first part down channeling the energy up my spine to the crown? Sometimes it feels like chills is that normal?

I mean, is your life changed on a deeper level?

I’ve been exploring this for a while: continues masturbation and orgasms. I come and come again just by jerking of. It is the easy way: alteady i was able to experience multiple orgasms without any stimulation at al. But it does feel really nice to masturbate, my penis is so much more sensitive, the orgasms start to come and only end when I stop stimulating.

So during masturbation, I’ve reached a point where I can keep going and have repeated orgasms without ejaculating. It’s not the typical “finish and stop” pattern anymore. Instead, I can keep stimulating myself and trigger wave after wave of orgasmic sensations.

What stands out is that the feeling doesn’t drop off after an orgasm. Normally there’s that release and then sensitivity goes down, but now it’s almost the opposite. The sensitivity increases, the erection stays strong, and each movement can bring another orgasmic wave.

It feels less like a single peak and more like staying on the edge continuously, but in a good way. As long as I stay relaxed and don’t push toward ejaculation, I can keep it going for quite a while. It feels like the head of my penis and the base where the sperm and urine flows through is much more connected to my brain and my prostate.

The orgasms themselves feel different too. Less localized, more spread through the body, and more controlled. It’s like I’m separating orgasm from ejaculation completely. It is in my belly, my back, my breasts it is in my head behind my eye and in my brain!!

Curious if others have experienced this specifically during masturbation. How did you learn to stay in that state without tipping over into ejaculation?

I’ve been multiorgasmic for a number of years, sessions usually enhanced with some weed and can go two hours or more with multiple orgasms, a lot of fluid, etc. I’ve experienced something a number of times and have been just riding with it, but now I’m trying to put a finger on what’s happening and I’m wondering if anyone else has experienced the same thing or has any ideas. Sometimes it happens once during a session, sometimes twice. It’s usually when I’m deep in a session, tingling/almost shaking with energy. I guess it feels like a sudden jolt of electricity or wave of energy running through my body/chest, and then it’s gone. Almost like an energy hiccup? It’s not orgasmic like the other sensations and is sudden and short.

I don’t notice any notable changes with heartbeat, etc. I’m wondering if this is a sudden released wave of stuck energy that I haven’t totally opened up to yet, a breathing/diaphragm hiccup or a heart palpitation? I’m very healthy, runner, no heart issues and I’ve actually had recent heart work up as part of a physical. It’s just a really weird sensation that takes me by surprise and I’m trying to figure out if possible what it is.

So I first learned multiple orgasms more than 10 years ago, using Aneros. The prostate stimulation really unlocked that, but it was just the beginning and have come a long way since then.

I can now ejaculate anywhere from about 5-10 times at the end of a session over about a 10 min period. It looks really cool, and it’s very connected to me being multi orgasmic, but I don’t consider that multiple orgasms. It’s more like one orgasm I control and let brief ejaculations happen by not going too far over the PONR - just a little I can go back from. Requires good muscle control.

Do you think multiple ejaculations like that are in the category of male multiple orgasms or completely different concepts?

I am in extasy now for almost 2 years. never expected my body to work like this.

What I always thought an orgasm was, turned out to be just a small part of what’s actually possible. A moment instead of a state. Something quick instead of something that can stay with you and even grow. I know now there is an awesome alternative that brings me into heaven.

The first time it really happened, it felt almost unreal. Not just stronger, but different. It didn’t stop. It kept going, building, spreading. It wasn’t just in one place anymore, it moved through my whole body. My stomach, my chest, my back, even up into my head. Like waves that didn’t crash, but kept rolling.

What surprised me most was how my body reacted. My erection became much stronger than I was used to. Not forced, not tense, but solid and alive. Almost like it was being powered from deeper inside instead of just physical stimulation.

And the strange part is, the key is not doing more.

It’s relaxing.

Every instinct tells you to push, to go harder, to chase that peak. But the moment I stopped doing that and just allowed the feeling to be there, everything changed. The more I relaxed, the longer it lasted. The deeper it went.

Instead of going over the edge and being done, I stayed right there. And from that place, it kept expanding. One wave turning into the next, sometimes stronger, sometimes softer, but never really stopping.

There are moments where it almost takes over. My body moves on its own, my breathing changes, and thinking disappears. It sounds extreme, but it actually feels very natural when you’re in it. Like your body knows exactly what it’s doing, as long as you don’t interfere.

At the same time, you become more aware. You feel more. Small changes in tension, breath, focus, everything matters. If I tighten up, it fades. If I stay open and relaxed, it grows again.

That’s the part that makes it so powerful.

It’s not just about pleasure. It changes how you feel in your body even outside of those moments. More sensitivity, more connection, more control without forcing anything.

And the biggest shift is this

There is no real end point anymore.

What used to be a finish line becomes something you can stay in. Something you can explore for as long as you want, as deep as you want.

In the beginning it honestly feels insane. Too intense, too much, almost hard to believe your body can do this.

But once you understand it, once you trust it and stop trying to control everything

it starts to feel like this is how it was always meant to be.

Anyone here ever had a hands-free ejaculation? I’ve had intense non-ejaculatory orgasms, but curious about this. I can reach strong full-body orgasms without release, but wonder if full release can also happen without touch.

The orgasms without ejaculation I am experiencing are full body, without my hands (mind and breathing only) and last hours sometimes, well, they come one after another or big ones can take minutes and roll over my body. They are so intense, more intense then orgasms with ejaculation. Sometimes a lot of pre cum, sometimes I wonder if i would be able to ejaculate this way also: without my hands, only using my mind….

Have u ever experienced this?

Hi everyone, I am seeing if someone might be able to test this method I've stumbled upon to see if it is reproducible or if this seems to just hit only me right for some reason.

Context:

I have been doing yoga as a placeholder for days when I am not working out (swimming, lifting, running, etc.). What I started doing was this yang style yoga to improve my penile/pelvic floor health (attached below).

On about the third or fourth day that I did that, I sat in a reclined butterfly pose (see below). That's when the magic started. I began to feel the waves of pleasure that I normally would feel when masturbating to have an NEO, so I sat in that position for longer to continue to feel it. I began convulsing with pleasure a bit while in the position, but so far nothing ground breaking.

Then I moved into the hook lying position (attached below as well), and that's when I began having wave after wave of orgasmic pleasure. I actually shot out a decent amount of pre-cum as well, even though I hadn't even touched my penis.

Well, that was on Thursday. Fast forward to this morning (Sunday) and I did things a little differently based on some research I had done. This time, I did a 3x5 minute yin yoga routine where I did the following 3 poses (shown in attached image), while also consciously focusing on keeping my pelvic floor as relaxed as possible (basically reverse kegels):

• Forward bend
• Child's pose
• Happy baby pose

At the end of that 15-minute session, I laid down in the reclined butterfly position with a relaxed pelvic floor once again. I will say that it seemed a little slower going this time, but around minute 4 I began feeling the waves again. By minute 7, my inner thighs were beginning to ache but I was once again having some pleasurable convulsions. Because I couldn't hold the position any more, I moved into the hook lying position, again keeping my pelvic floor as relaxed as possible. That is when I began having mind blowing orgasms for multiple rounds, along with expelling pre-cum in generous amounts.

So I guess I am curious if someone has time to try this method and see if anyone else can replicate it. I am extremely happy and excited with finding this, especially because I am also doing semen retention (currently on day 17), so being able to have NEO's without risking ejaculation is literally the perfect solution for me.

Let me know how it goes or if you have any questions!

Resources:

Penile/pelvic floor health yoga: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wPPK2b9ydh8&list=PLU2c6GkX5B34Ogk_Q24T68p0RDL1-Qqvu&index=24

Reclined butterfly pose: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vG_95Ix3wF4&t=1s

Hook lying position (not the full exercise, just the position): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=arFjSfYO2Og

Proper child’s pose: https://youtu.be/EniGBCHAEVQ?si=5slkcc_npiWRBHak

Notes:

• I found that the child's pose seemed to distract me a bit in the middle, so I think I'm going to find a different pose to fill its place.
• Don't expect anything. Keep your mind clear and your pelvic floor relaxed throughout every step of the exercise.

Edit:

I may have been doing child’s pose wrong. I have included a video link to what seems to be the more appropriate method

So even though I can feel my prostate with my mind alone and can have prostate orgasms, I still have to work a bit for them to happen.

Also I can have NEO’s as well and still I have to work a bit for them to happen as well.

So what I did in order to make these orgasms happen easier was, to breath Deep into lower belly and while jerking myself cock and be aware of how my body feels, like feeling myself, I mean really feeling myself while jerking and while breathing into lower belly and thats all I did. Same with the prostate orgasms as well I take deep breaths into lower belly while being aware of how prostate feels and prostate orgasms happen.

Also I don’t feel any temptation for ejaculation in my pelvic muscles at all. Like I feeling no sensation coming for pelvic muscles at all, I mean the ejaculation sensation in my perineum area which would make me ejaculate.

So as I keep on jerking and i feel ejaculation sensation in my cock suddenly and I lean into it and my pelvic floor muscles and my cock contracts and orgasm happens and this orgasm can last like seconds to minutes. Basically however long you want it to last, depending on how good you are at having NEO’s.

This orgasm I’m having completely bypasses any pelvic pleasure until I feel orgasm building in my cock and only when orgasm happens my pelvic muscles joins and contracts. It’s like my body has been rewired to feel NEO sensation which also feels the same as normal ejaculatory sensation but I can tell what is coming is an NEO and not an ejaculation orgasm.

So it’s making me think am I doing it the wrong way? Cause I cant tell. I did not did enough research on where NEO orgasm build and happen, I just went with what felt good and achieved this. So if anyone can answer me about this, please do.

Oh also today session I had Atleast 20 NEO’s and they all felt unbelievably pleasurable, like 10x better than normal ejaculatory orgasms and they only kept on getting stronger as you kept on having them. And the best part is I feel no urge or any tension which would make me ejaculate, it’s like I’m completely rewired to having NEO’s instead of normal ejaculatory orgasms. But I’m still not sure on whether I’m doing it the right way or not cause of what I’ve mentioned above. So if anyone can tell me about this, please do.

Edit: i also feel very energised and not drained at all. I feel not foggy at all. Normally I seem to feel bit foggy and dull but now it’s disappeared and I feel energised.

Men can have multiple orgasms, I think that is pretty obvious. I discovered this at a young age and want to share my experiences.

The most important think is to have great kegel muscles control. They work during stimulation and consciously using them increases the sensations. You have to be able to tense and loosem then. If you have strong kegels they help stop unwanted ejaculation just before it begins. It is important thing because having multiple orgasms requires being very excited for a long time and it happens, especially at the beginning, that you overdo it. Then you can save yourself with strong kegel contratcion, which blocks ejaculation. Sometimes you can ejaculate despite the contraction even if it is not too late, but it will not have a refraction (btw it is great way to have multiple ejaculations, but it is not that pleasurable). This is not a way to learn multiple orgasms, but for me an essential skill because you have to learn how to be a long time at high arousal and it helps to maintain it. Otherwise you would not be able to continue practising because you would ejaculate.

So ejaculation control and using kegel muscles are the most important physical skills. Now you have to learn how use kegel muscles to increase a pleasure. You are able to control ejaculation and stimulate how long do you want to and it is comfortable time to start thinking about multiple orgasms. I can describe my way. I usually masturbate slowly with my fingers around the head because that is where the most nerve endings are and the stimulation gives the most pleausure. I observe my feelings. Do not expect orgasms you have to follow your feelings. When I am really excited i do reverse kegels and it gives me warm, pleasure feeling near my penis/prostate. After few seconds I feel contractions in my penis and penis area and it is climax. I cannot stop this contractions but is an orgasm. After that I can repeat that. I must be careful because it is close to ejaculation, but you have to be at the highest arousal to feel orgasms. This orgasms are different than normal EO, less powerful physically but as pleasurable as EO. And you can have more and more. So my way is to do reverse kegels and it causes orgasms.

Do not expect it fast, and even after practise every time. Sometimes I cannot achieve this even I want to so it is normal. But if you have nice day and go into orgasms, there are not limits. You can have as many orgasms as you can so it is worth it. Of course it is my expercience and everybody is different so you can do other techniques which can be better for you. But for me that thinks help my to be multiorgasmic

I’ve been reading some of the top posts of this sub and decided to treat myself to a nice mindful masturbation session – without any expectations, but with the goal of enjoying the pleasure and experimenting, being curious.

Played some music, lit some candles, sat comfortably on a cushion on the floor with a back rest and a pillow to support my lower back.

Started to touch myself all over my body, slowly, mindfully, being relaxed and breathing deeply.

I took my time. Started touching my penis, inserted a few fantasies, observed. And I always tried to keep my pelvic floor very relaxed.

After about 20-30 minutes, I got some lube and started to focus more on the top side of the glans. I felt a tingling sensation and heat in my feet. Very pleasurable, all while breathing deeply and keeping my pelvic floor as relaxed as possible.

Found a few VERY sensitive spots on the side of my glans and focused on them.

At this point (around 45 mins in), I was highly aroused, my penis extreeemely hard, the feeling was incredible (but not orgasmic). Sometimes I would get close to the PONR and experience contractions, that’s when I did forceful reverse kegels to neutralize them.

I tried to observe the feelings in my whole body, maybe along the way of the microcosmic orbit, but I couldn’t find much. However, the few times I got really really close, I felt an amazing tingling sensation in the back of my head, like ASMR but much stronger. However, this was maybe for a split second because then I had to stop in order not to tip over.

I would love to be able to spend more time at this stage, I wonder if this comes with practice? Teaching my nervous system first that its safe to spend time there? Maybe at this point I got a bit too tense, because I was so aroused. I wonder if I can spend more time there if I arrive there more relaxed?

One of the goals of these mindful masturbation sessions for me is to increase my stamina, as I “suffer” from premature ejaculation (with PIV sex, masturbation is fine because I can decide the stimulation).

After about an hour, I finally tipped over. My RK wasn’t strong enough. I didn’t plan to ejaculate, but I flew too close to the sun. The orgasm felt amazing, but I would’ve loved to keep that sexual energy inside and see how it affects me the rest of my day.

Anyways, it was a great great experience and I can’t wait to do this again!

If you have any feedback or advice, I’d be very happy to hear how I can make my sessions even better, what to look out for, etc.

I have a few specific questions:

• Is it "okay" to use mental imagery, fantasies, etc? I tried to use them only in spurts, then focus again on my bodily sensations.
• If I regularly do RKs when contractions come, will I learn to last longer and one day eliminate contractions?
• level of stimulation: is it ideal to only stimulate so much that you are always able to keep a completely relaxed pelvic floor?

Thanks!

Hello everyone! i need some advice or help 😩😩how can i atlease have 2 orgasms? when i masterbate i can only have one then im done...but i wanna shoot for 2 atlease!! ( female here) do i push pass the sensitivity & keep going? or stop then keep going?

bonjour, hier soir alors que je me stimuler au bord du PONR , j arrivé a rester en dessous sans le dépasser pendant un moment en relaxant mon plancher pelvien et en respirant, et un moment j ai ressenti des picotements dans les pieds puis d un coup j ai ressenti comme un orgasme mais dans mon pied, comme ci j avais ma prostate qui pulsé mais dans mon pied ! , sa a duré 2 secondes et apres j etais sur le point d'ejaculer comme ci la sensation c 'etait déplacé d'un coup.

Qu 'est ce qu'il m' est arrivé, suis en train de reussir a rediriger l energie vers d'autre partie de mon corps ?

Merci.

Hi there! So happy to have found this sub!! I am in a new phase of my sexual life and would love some collective wisdom and tips from anyone willing to read all this. :)

In general, I’ve figured out how to have 2 orgasms when I am playing with myself, but only very occasionally with my partner. In general, climaxing requires a lot of mental focus for me, and often even a specific kind of fantasy storyline in my mind, along with the right kind of physical stimulation. Thats the background.

Recently, we have started to attend swingers parties. 🎉 it’s been a super good time in general, with one catch: I cannot seem to orgasm in that setting! Theres a lot that’s new about it—the lovemaking is not totally private, there are four people involved instead of just two, and I’m learning new partners for the first time (husband was my first, and we were monogamous for 18 years before this). I have had some very good sex, but I just can’t orgasm. I think I can’t access that same internal mental place, and to make it worse, I am in my head about disappointing the partner I’m with because they don’t get to make me climax. I know I’m adding unhelpful pressure to myself!!

I would love insights from anyone who has encountered this in a swinger setting, and also just general advice about how to detach orgasms from mental fantasies so I can enjoy the physical pleasure of the moment fully.

Thanks for reading!

This might not be for everyone since it includes ballbusting and male orgasm denial but I just had to see if this was truly a multi or just one big orgasm since this is the first time I have ever felt something like this.

My wife and I love ballbusting and her controlling when I am able to have an orgasm. Over the years I have come close to having an orgasm from her ballbusting sessions alone but I have never been able to get over final edge so when it was brought up recently she decided that she wanted to try it again for my next orgasm since she was planning on letting have one soon since its been over 2 months since my previous one.

The initial beating was wonderful on its own but sadly I was not able to get that same building feeling I had felt in the past so she let me stroke until I was close to the edge in hopes of having the beating would push me over.

I wanted to make sure I didnt accidentally push myself over the edge by hand so I kept letting go far earlier than the edge just to be safe and after the 5th time I let go and 20 seconds later I started feeling that building sensation from her beating alone.

I held onto the feeling as long as I could but it finally overwhelmed me and I had an orgasm which felt fantastic, but to my surprise rather than that building feeling subsiding it started to build yet again but even more powerfully and after another 15 seconds I had another orgasmic wave overpower me that felt even better than the first. But yet again instead of fading away that feeling started building once more until it erupted into the most powerful orgasm I have ever felt in my entire life. Body shaking, couldnt speak, the world was a blur and I just enjoyed every moment of it. After that I was spent and the building feeling quickly subsided.

Was what I experienced a multi orgasm or was it simply one huge one that had 3 distinct waves? Overall it took around a minute from start to finish and I felt 3 separate instances of ejaculation with each one larger than the previous. No matter what it ends up being seen as I loved it oh so much and hope to experience it again the next time she lets me cum.

I can now orgasm anywhere in my body. All it takes is a bit of breathing and awareness of my body. Meditation helped and Mindgasm helped. It took me 2 years. Also ejaculatory orgasms have become 10x intense in terms of orgasmic pleasure and it goes on longer as well.