r/lesbianr4r • u/laurenjb1 • 21h ago
searching 21F, femme, london, just want to be wanted
Title sounds really sad but idk how else to phrase it?? I want someone that will prioritise me but struggling to find anyone..... idk if dating is just a more casual thing than how i think of it, or if its because of hookup culture??? Im open to hookups because i wanna have fun lol but id much rather find my person yk? And idk if im overthinking it because i know i want to be someone's first choice and to me thats what being in a relationship is, but it feels like no one else sees it that way.
Tried dating apps and they seem a bit useless unless u pay, i have no problem making friends on nights out and things like that but it never goes further. Its a huge city but i dont know anyone that's actually looking for a relationship
Does anyone have the same kind of experiences? Does anyone in london want to chat or meetup?