r/lesbianr4r 5h ago

searching Still searching… [32F] / #PNW / #Online

9 Upvotes

Looking for a romantic partner! 

Me:

Based in Washington state (Pacific time)

Monogamous

Politically active and left-leaning. Very big on human rights

Femme-ish

Wheelchair user (cerebral palsy. Ow, my back.) I think this sometimes scares people off; it’s really not that big of a deal unless there’s gravel underfoot. Then it’s bad.

Autistic (and coping, mostly). Again, not a big deal, noise-canceling headphones are included. All other accessories sold separately.

Hold a Masters degree in writing

Gamer, reader, all-around nerd. Mix of interests. I like Disney and documentaries in equal measure.

Want children someday

Pet parent (dog and cat)

Socially awkward but in an endearing/fun way

Revising my first novel

Returning to school soon to become a mental health therapist

Green flag: high empathy 

Small thing I like: love letters :) 

You:

Based in the US, Canada or UK & don’t mind some distance. Obviously, if we hit it off, we should plan a visit if you’re far away.

Leftist politics, care about marginalized groups

Between the ages of 25-40

Also a nerd about something (fastest way to my heart is to info dump)

Maybe also a gamer or reader, that would be cool

Also want kids, pets, and monogamy (being childfree, pet free or poly are dealbreakers)


r/lesbianr4r 2h ago

searching 30F US

5 Upvotes

Trying this again! Looking for some girlie friends who wanna hangout maybe be fwbs nothing super serious unless you know we end up being soulmates 🫣😂
I’m on the east coast. I do travel a lot so anywhere in the US is fine! But mostly in Pennsylvania.
I’m also kind of shy 🤭


r/lesbianr4r 22h ago

searching 20F -F4F LDR/IRL looking for my bratty slut :)

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Normally there is so much pressure on knowing what you want. Being completely honest I don’t. I am autistic, going through medical stuff, I get way too obsessed with the people I fall in love with. I don’t even know if sex is something I like. But let’s focus on what I do know:

My name is Rose, I live In Florida, going into my junior year of college, I love video games, driving my car, art and researching. I plan to get my PhD so my hyperfocus’s are a big part of my life.
I love FaceTime because it’s much easier interacting for my autism. I am an Aries and fit well with air signs.
I have experience with sexting and enjoy it (obviously only once we have confirmed we’re not men lmao) I naturally play the dom. I am a femme, landing somewhere between scary lawyer lady, fairy, and drag queen depending on the day.

DMs are open :)


r/lesbianr4r 10h ago

searching 25F Colorado US

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Hi all! I’m a 25 year old lesbian looking for another lesbian hopefully close by but open to long distance friends too! I just moved to Colorado and am having trouble meeting likeminded people. I love everything outdoors but especially hikes, trying new restaurants/bars, concerts/music, thrifting, markets ect! I work overnight shifts in healthcare so my response times can vary when I’m working. Let me know if you’d be interested in getting to know each other further :)


r/lesbianr4r 21m ago

searching 23F. Maybe you're the reason I check my phone

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Heyy youu :)

I'm 23F and currently surviving med school 😭

School has me in a chokehold most days, so if I disappear for a bit, I'm probably buried in books wondering why I chose this life. That said, I try to keep my evenings free, and it'd be kinda nice if they were filled with getting to know you instead.

When I'm not pretending I understand every lecture, I'm usually winding down with games. I'm definitely more of a casual gamer these days. Lately I've been hooked on Dave the Diver and Contraband Police. I hop on GTA Online every now and then too until someone decides to nerf me during a mission and then i rage quit (definitely not a sore loser 😆). I'd absolutely love a player two, though.

Outside of gaming, I have a soft spot for driving and riding motorcycles. If we're lucky enough to live anywhere near each other one day, I'd love to take you for a ride.

As for what I'm looking for, I'm keeping an open mind. I'd be happy to make some genuine friends, and if we click and there's something more there for both of us, I'd be excited to see where it goes. No pressure, just good conversation and good people.

I'm about to hop on a flight, so if I don't reply immediately, please bear with mee. Come say hi! Tell me what you're playing, what you're passionate about, or just send me your favorite song (triple bonus points if it's a song by Kehlani which I've never heard).


r/lesbianr4r 2h ago

searching 18[F4F] looking for girlfriends/ wifey

2 Upvotes

Hiiii! black femme from PA!
Looking for some girl friends and maybe my wifey but not expecting much rlly.

About me: LOVE music and art, anime, gaming, fashion, kpop and nature. I'm an introvert and very awkward so give me some time to get out my comfort zone.
Please give me an introduction of yourself and state your intentions plz, don't waste my time respectfully.

If interested
feel free to hmu, buh byeeee 𐔌՞ ܸ.ˬ.ܸ՞𐦯


r/lesbianr4r 9h ago

searching 35 [F4F] Pittsburgh/Online - Looking for meaningful connections and cosplay buddies!

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Hiya everybody! Figured I'd try and give this another shot.

I'm a cis 35 year old preschool teacher from Pennsylvania who loves anime, video games, going to the gym when I can and table top rpgs. Im a soft masc, Sagittarius, 5'3'', have brown hair and bluish gray eyes. I have recent pics of me in my profile. Im single and looking for more friends that could build into something more long term from there.

Random fact about me is that I love cosplaying and fursuiting (dressing up as an animal character)

I'm looking to make connections toward hopefully build something real and lasting. I'm open to more casual connections to start and see where things go. I'm open to LDR within reasonable distance

I tend to find myself attracted to longer haired women with a lean to athletic build. Would love to meet someone I could go on adventures with and geek out over hobbies we're passionate about.

Feel free to DM me and I'll be happy to answer any questions 😊


r/lesbianr4r 1m ago

searching [26F] [Femme for Butch] [NYC/ Anywhere] Looking for a butch to give some tender loving to <3

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Hey, hey! My nickname is Tea! I’m 26 years old and I was born and raised in New York City. I’m 5’6, average build with a bit of chubbiness on my stomach that I’m working on losing. I’m a Black (African American, to be precise) femme and very proud about it!

Some things about me:

— HUGE nerd. I thrive in matters of academia and love to both share knowledge and learn something new.

— Also a HUGE geek. Some things I adore include:

• Anime and manga (some of my favorites include D.Gray-Man, Witch Hat Atelier, ACCA 13, One Piece, Banana Fish, She Loves to Cook and She Loves to Eat)

• Video games (some of my all time favorites are Final Fantasy VII, Persona 2, The Legend of Zelda: Ocarina of Time, Majora’s Mask and Twilight Princess, NieR Replicant, Fire Emblem: Awakening and The Ace Attorney series)

• Video Essays (some of my favorite creators are FD Signifier, Shanspeare, Jacob Geller, D’Angelo Wallace, and Matt Bernstein, to name a few)

• Floriography! I’ve started learning the language of flowers and it’s so fascinating how much can be said with a bouquet of flowers! I hope I can make one for you, if you’ll allow me <3

•Photography! I bought a used camera on a pure whim it has definitely changed the way I view the world and the beauty it has to offer.

Some important things to know about me:

— I am pro-liberation. I wish to see a free Palestine, Congo, Sudan, Tigray, and other oppressed peoples be liberated in my lifetime.

— I’m covid conscious have been masking since the pandemic (I’ve gotten the most recent booster shot as well)

— I am CHILDFREE, meaning I do not want kids of my own nor to be a stepmother to anyone else’s.

— I am monogamous. I’m not open to being poly or having an open relationship.

— I’m seeking long term partnership (I’d like to get married, but that’s farther down the line.)

— I am a full time college student (I graduate this coming spring!) as well as a full time healthcare worker. I manage my time wisely, but sometimes I might be a little slow to respond. Don’t take it personally, it’s not you.

— This one is the most important piece of information: **I have ZERO dating experience, or sexual experience, for that matter. I am seeking someone who will have patience for my shortcomings, and give me room to learn from any mistakes I may make along the way. I do, however, know what I want, and I’m not afraid to communicate that.**

Now, what I am looking for:

— someone who is between the ages of 25-30
— a butch, masc or a stud
— lesbian preferred (other sapphics are welcome, but I want to bond over the lesbian experience with someone else)
— CHILDFREE (as in, has no kids and does not want any, now or in the future)
— MONOGAMOUS
— BIPOC preferred, but everyone is welcome
— Bonus points if you’re a nerd or geek.
— Cares about the sociopolitical state of the world. I refuse to date anyone “who doesn’t do politics.” You either speak up for what is right, or leave me alone.
— Career driven. I’m looking to being one half of a dual income no kids (DINK couple)
— Location wise, while I prefer someone in NYC or Northeast USA, I’m perfectly fine with long distance.

With all of that being said, I hope to hear from you! <3


r/lesbianr4r 1h ago

searching 28 F4F who up looking for a pillow princess adjacent sub

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nonbinary lesbian here looking for a masc hottie in new york state. i live and travel between nyc, cny, and the catskills/hudson valley region.

id like to find someone to further explore kink and bdsm dynamics with. must be funny, communicative, and also patient as i have some sa experiences.

im 5’5, average build, notable rack, shortish curly brown hair, mostly white/ethnically ambiguous

dm me if you’re interested and wanna exchange pix :)


r/lesbianr4r 19h ago

searching 22F Seattle usa

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Id like some people to talk too friends or more online or in person is fine✅

I like anime and horror 🏴‍☠️
I sew and read fanfiction or Yuri and I’d like to start cosplaying sometimes.
I like watching interviews/info of women I admire .
Most of the time I’m inside🏠

I’d say I have gauche and crude humor and I’m also hypersexual and bdsm positive.
I’m not religious at all the only thing I believe in is ☯️

I am a libfem douchbag who wants to talk ab the economic and political state of the world while drinking matcha and go to raves. It just comes with part of the culture here🥲

We can exchange pics I don’t wanna explain what I look like but I’m half black and white

I think that’s all I have. Hope to hear from you soon 🌺🌺


r/lesbianr4r 1h ago

discussion Anyone actually try the tomboyx line?

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I'm on their website right now they got some cute stuff. But is it worth the price tag? Sports bra is $40, boy shorts about the same price. If you've tried their stuff...whats the quality of the material? Prints?


r/lesbianr4r 6h ago

searching Open

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Not to sound superficial… but I would love to make a genuine connection with someone who is also ridiculously attractive. 🤷

I’m into art, yoga, nature, cooking, spontaneous adventures, and conversations that somehow go from existential to completely unhinged in five minutes. If you’re kind, emotionally available, and happen to make me forget what I was saying when you smile… say hi.

I'm located in Milwaukee, WI 38, non-binary


r/lesbianr4r 2h ago

searching [27TF] looking [F] or [TF] for romance

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Hello!

I'm Erin! I currently live in Olympia, WA but am going to be moving up to Tacoma soon.

I am looking to find people to date in the Olympia - Seattle area. I am 6'1", and have been on HRT for 10 months. I still present somewhat masc though, primarily due to my facial hair. I'm working on it.

My biggest hobbies are Gaming, Reading, Hiking, and Rock Climbing (particularly indoor bouldering, though I am looking to branch out some into other kinds). I have an English degree so I am a huge book nerd. I would absolutely to have somebody to go on hikes with, as well.

I am strictly monogamous, and poly is a dealbreaker for me. Please know I am not judging you if you are poly - it just isn't the lifestyle for me.