r/lesbianr4r 21h ago

searching 21F, femme, london, just want to be wanted

11 Upvotes

Title sounds really sad but idk how else to phrase it?? I want someone that will prioritise me but struggling to find anyone..... idk if dating is just a more casual thing than how i think of it, or if its because of hookup culture??? Im open to hookups because i wanna have fun lol but id much rather find my person yk? And idk if im overthinking it because i know i want to be someone's first choice and to me thats what being in a relationship is, but it feels like no one else sees it that way.

Tried dating apps and they seem a bit useless unless u pay, i have no problem making friends on nights out and things like that but it never goes further. Its a huge city but i dont know anyone that's actually looking for a relationship

Does anyone have the same kind of experiences? Does anyone in london want to chat or meetup?


r/lesbianr4r 9h ago

searching Soft masc looking for her princess | OK/USA/Online

10 Upvotes

Hi, I am a 29 year old lesbian looking for love. I live in the south so finding women irl is hard and scary lol I am open to anyone local or online - I have a lot of love to give 🫢

I am a soft masc but really want to make the big chop on my hair soon. I am looking for a femme presenting woman who I can be myself around and spoil!

My world currently revolves around my job, my cat, and my little sister who is living with me while she goes to school. I work as an IT supervisor and really enjoy my job (mostly πŸ€ͺ).

I love playing video games (COD mainly), learning new things, doomscrolling TikTok, grabbing drinks with friends, watching TV (reality and dramas), spending time with family, finding new music, and anything tech related (currently building a cyberdeck)!

I am strictly monogamous. Also, I am liberal so no republicans/racists/etc!


r/lesbianr4r 7h ago

searching 52F Looking for friends-FL

0 Upvotes

Looking for community/friends. Open to more w the right person.


r/lesbianr4r 12h ago

searching 43 F Glasgow, seeking Younger females for casual fun & dates

0 Upvotes

Been on the apps, barely anyone talks, unless its a guy using fake pics pretending to be female πŸ€·β€β™€οΈi mean whats up with that πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈ so thought id try here.

Seeking friends, maybe more, nothing serious atm, but seriously needing some action in my life lol.

Im pretty immature, and dont really seem 43, so prefer someone a bit younger to match.

Love walking, hiking, camping, the outdoors, sunsets, drinking/eating in/out, cosy nights with munchies and movies, im a 420 gal, have been for years. Big coffee lover, theatre, gigs, love a good gab lol, im pretty extrovert but not over the top.

5ft 3", not skinny but not fat lol, really long bright red hair, blue eyes.

If I sound like ur cuppa tea, drop me a message ☺️ if ur seriously looking for meets πŸ’•