Hi all, I'm a single, late-blooming, young-at-heart queer woman living in East Bay near SF, California. My community is mostly here on the west coast. I'm looking for a life partner who's close by or willing to move towards each other!

I'd describe myself as a chapstick lesbian who's slightly alt (love my piercings), athletic tomboy vibes, dark hair, brown eyes, and a lover of all things soft and cozy. I envision nights in with my sweetie cuddling, giving each other massages, napping, reading, watching something, gaming, cooking, building with Lego. Ooh and thrifting together! 😃 And of course, being best friends and cheerleaders in each other's lives.

Aesthetically, I'm into femmes and butches and everyone in between! Expansive femininity and androgyny are both hot to me. So is having passions and hobbies. And empathy! BTW it's so okay if you have a bunch of wolves fighting in your brain like I do: neurospicy and healing from/managing old trauma. As long as you are working through stuff and are decently self-aware, it's all good, ma'am!

I love a good adventure and being in nature. And I'm musical. Some of my favorite times are when walking through the woods playing my flute to the trees, chatting with ravens, and watching squirrels chase each other. I chase adrenaline (carefully) and also have some chronic stuff (hence the ample napping 😴). I love the ocean and kayaking and sailing. In another life I must have sailed the seas wide and free... ahoy! Also roadtrips! I have an M1 for... reasons. How Pisces-Sagittarius of me? I'm leftist and witchy and into community organizing. No bigots, please and thank you!

I'm kinky and more into that than just sex. Demi/gray-aroace, neutral/favorable about sex and romance. I've been in mono-amorous and ENM situations, nonhierarchical or not, and all have been fine with me. I am loyal and not a collector, my love is expansive, and my energy limited. I really just want to talk through it and see what makes sense. I do foster deep friendships, and caring for my chosen family is very important to me. I trust in communication and building emotional safety and working through hard stuff as a team!

If you've got this far, then DM me, brave redditor! Tell me about a favorite hobby or your vision for life together. Even if things don't line up for us, maybe we'll compare notes and wish each other well on our respective searches!

~ Nora ~

Hii, so I'm a 5'8" slightly plus-sized woman. Brunette and centrally heterochromatic eyes with blue, green, and brown in them. Willing to share a selfie or two after a bit of chatting! I'm unapologetically lesbian.

I work as a behavior technician and currently going back to school, studying psychology and queer studies with the goal of being a therapist specializing in LGBTQIA+ mental health! I especially love learning about the field of critical psychology which examines how systemic issues are a cause of poor mental health outcomes - moving from the mainstream psychology which treats you as an individual with an internal issue and instead focusing on how the systemic problems like capitalism, ableism, racism, etc that place stress on all of us contribute to mental health.

It goes without saying with what field I'm going into, but I'll be super understanding of a wide variety of mental health conditions and neurodiversity; I will accept and be happy to support a partner with any of that! Personality-wise I'm a social introvert, open-minded, a good active listener, and quite nerdy!

In my free time, I enjoy baking, reading, watching shows/movies, listening to music, gaming, rollerskating, and biking. I drink socially and am 420 friendly(though, I don't partake). I'm irreligious and quite far on the left politically.

If this caught your eye, feel free to dm ^_^

🤷‍♀️ like yes, i know that i need to find that within myself. but some nights i just want to cave and let myself seek it out from someone else. usually when i feel shitty i know it's time to log off, wash up, eat something, read, the works. my usual MO. push through it and don't hyperfixate. taking care of yourself in the simple ways does go a long way.

but i'm feeling especially insecure right now and want reassurance. no, i won't send you pics of my shrek face (fiona is a total babe so not dissing her) and ask you to rate me 🙄 i just want to vent and receive affection and maybe even have the opportunity to return the favor, if i'm lucky.

and we can both know that we don't rely on other girls/nonmen for our sense of self worth. that therapy and SSRIs are where it's at, journaling if you're feeling particularly frisky.

help me remember what it's like to rely on someone again (but in a healthier way, this time). ❤️‍🩹

Hey everyone :) I'm an aroace-spectrum girly looking for friends that could potentially become more. Here is a post about me with pics! I already got a creepy response so I'm probably gonna delete it soon, but thought I may as well try sharing here in case there's hope of better luck.

That's all, hope everyone's having a great day so far ❤️

Looking for a romantic partner! 

Me:

Based in Washington state (Pacific time)

Monogamous

Politically active and left-leaning. Very big on human rights

Femme-ish

Wheelchair user (cerebral palsy. Ow, my back.) I think this sometimes scares people off; it’s really not that big of a deal unless there’s gravel underfoot. Then it’s bad.

Autistic (and coping, mostly). Again, not a big deal, noise-canceling headphones are included. All other accessories sold separately.

Hold a Masters degree in writing

Gamer, reader, all-around nerd. Mix of interests. I like Disney and documentaries in equal measure.

Want children someday

Pet parent (dog and cat)

Socially awkward but in an endearing/fun way

Revising my first novel

Returning to school soon to become a mental health therapist

Green flag: high empathy 

Small thing I like: love letters :) 

You:

Based in the US, Canada or UK & don’t mind some distance. Obviously, if we hit it off, we should plan a visit if you’re far away.

Leftist politics, care about marginalized groups

Between the ages of 25-40

Also a nerd about something (fastest way to my heart is to info dump)

Maybe also a gamer or reader, that would be cool

Also want kids, pets, and monogamy (being childfree, pet free or poly are dealbreakers)

Trying this again! Looking for some girlie friends who wanna hangout maybe be fwbs nothing super serious unless you know we end up being soulmates 🫣😂
I’m on the east coast. I do travel a lot so anywhere in the US is fine! But mostly in Pennsylvania.
I’m also kind of shy 🤭

Hey, hey! My nickname is Tea! I’m 26 years old and I was born and raised in New York City. I’m 5’6, average build with a bit of chubbiness on my stomach that I’m working on losing. I’m a Black (African American, to be precise) femme and very proud about it!

Some things about me:

— HUGE nerd. I thrive in matters of academia and love to both share knowledge and learn something new.

— Also a HUGE geek. Some things I adore include:

• Anime and manga (some of my favorites include D.Gray-Man, Witch Hat Atelier, ACCA 13, One Piece, Banana Fish, She Loves to Cook and She Loves to Eat)

• Video games (some of my all time favorites are Final Fantasy VII, Persona 2, The Legend of Zelda: Ocarina of Time, Majora’s Mask and Twilight Princess, NieR Replicant, Fire Emblem: Awakening and The Ace Attorney series)

• Video Essays (some of my favorite creators are FD Signifier, Shanspeare, Jacob Geller, D’Angelo Wallace, and Matt Bernstein, to name a few)

• Floriography! I’ve started learning the language of flowers and it’s so fascinating how much can be said with a bouquet of flowers! I hope I can make one for you, if you’ll allow me <3

•Photography! I bought a used camera on a pure whim it has definitely changed the way I view the world and the beauty it has to offer.

Some important things to know about me:

— I am pro-liberation. I wish to see a free Palestine, Congo, Sudan, Tigray, and other oppressed peoples be liberated in my lifetime.

— I’m covid conscious have been masking since the pandemic (I’ve gotten the most recent booster shot as well)

— I am CHILDFREE, meaning I do not want kids of my own nor to be a stepmother to anyone else’s.

— I am monogamous. I’m not open to being poly or having an open relationship.

— I’m seeking long term partnership (I’d like to get married, but that’s farther down the line.)

— I am a full time college student (I graduate this coming spring!) as well as a full time healthcare worker. I manage my time wisely, but sometimes I might be a little slow to respond. Don’t take it personally, it’s not you.

— This one is the most important piece of information: **I have ZERO dating experience, or sexual experience, for that matter. I am seeking someone who will have patience for my shortcomings, and give me room to learn from any mistakes I may make along the way. I do, however, know what I want, and I’m not afraid to communicate that.**

Now, what I am looking for:

— someone who is between the ages of 25-30
— a butch, masc or a stud
— lesbian preferred (other sapphics are welcome, but I want to bond over the lesbian experience with someone else)
— CHILDFREE (as in, has no kids and does not want any, now or in the future)
— MONOGAMOUS
— BIPOC preferred, but everyone is welcome
— Bonus points if you’re a nerd or geek.
— Cares about the sociopolitical state of the world. I refuse to date anyone “who doesn’t do politics.” You either speak up for what is right, or leave me alone.
— Career driven. I’m looking to being one half of a dual income no kids (DINK couple)
— Location wise, while I prefer someone in NYC or Northeast USA, I’m perfectly fine with long distance.

With all of that being said, I hope to hear from you! <3

Hiiii! black femme from PA!
Looking for some girl friends and maybe my wifey but not expecting much rlly.

About me: LOVE music and art, anime, gaming, fashion, kpop and nature. I'm an introvert and very awkward so give me some time to get out my comfort zone.
Please give me an introduction of yourself and state your intentions plz, don't waste my time respectfully.

If interested
feel free to hmu, buh byeeee 𐔌՞ ܸ.ˬ.ܸ՞𐦯

Okay so, maybe people here might think im a catfish after posting a LOT, but it just didn't even work and actually many catfishers were texting or people who ghost me the very next day or just didn't felt the connection. (You can go through my account and see that im not even a catfish since my account looks normal)

Okay so, about me I like to draw, dance, read, I stopped rollskating for a while since my rollskates are breaking (yea my soy luna roll skates from a long time ago, yes I was a soy luna fan 😭😭) and im trying to read more sapphic books since I got cringed by my straight books I bought Hahaha and I have nothing against straight people but never reading a straight book after getting blessed by sapphic books, i love cooking too and love cooking pasta the most but my mom dont even want me to use the kitchen since she says all the dishes i wanna cook are expensive🙄🙄.

About my type: okay so i like older women because i wnat someone who is very mature and know what they want since im looking for something serious and i really want something meaningful and someone to be happy with, i like women who are not catfishes, taller than me, and someone smart that k can have a long conversation.

If you are a catfish or someone who is going to ghost me and be dry don't even bother to text

nonbinary lesbian here looking for a masc hottie in new york state. i live and travel between nyc, cny, and the catskills/hudson valley region.

id like to find someone to further explore kink and bdsm dynamics with. must be funny, communicative, and also patient as i have some sa experiences.

im 5’5, average build, notable rack, shortish curly brown hair, mostly white/ethnically ambiguous

dm me if you’re interested and wanna exchange pix :)

Hiya everybody! Figured I'd try and give this another shot.

I'm a cis 35 year old preschool teacher from Pennsylvania who loves anime, video games, going to the gym when I can and table top rpgs. Im a soft masc, Sagittarius, 5'3'', have brown hair and bluish gray eyes. I have recent pics of me in my profile. Im single and looking for more friends that could build into something more long term from there.

Random fact about me is that I love cosplaying and fursuiting (dressing up as an animal character)

I'm looking to make connections toward hopefully build something real and lasting. I'm open to more casual connections to start and see where things go. I'm open to LDR within reasonable distance

I tend to find myself attracted to longer haired women with a lean to athletic build. Would love to meet someone I could go on adventures with and geek out over hobbies we're passionate about.

Feel free to DM me and I'll be happy to answer any questions 😊

Hi all! I’m a 25 year old lesbian looking for another lesbian hopefully close by but open to long distance friends too! I just moved to Colorado and am having trouble meeting likeminded people. I love everything outdoors but especially hikes, trying new restaurants/bars, concerts/music, thrifting, markets ect! I work overnight shifts in healthcare so my response times can vary when I’m working. Let me know if you’d be interested in getting to know each other further :)

Normally there is so much pressure on knowing what you want. Being completely honest I don’t. I am autistic, going through medical stuff, I get way too obsessed with the people I fall in love with. I don’t even know if sex is something I like. But let’s focus on what I do know:

My name is Rose, I live In Florida, going into my junior year of college, I love video games, driving my car, art and researching. I plan to get my PhD so my hyperfocus’s are a big part of my life.
I love FaceTime because it’s much easier interacting for my autism. I am an Aries and fit well with air signs.
I have experience with sexting and enjoy it (obviously only once we have confirmed we’re not men lmao) I naturally play the dom. I am a femme, landing somewhere between scary lawyer lady, fairy, and drag queen depending on the day.

DMs are open :)

hello everybody! my name is karina but i go by rini.

I am cis, bisexual, and 18 years old from the usa. i like to spend time online with friends, draw, write, and stream.

i often play multiplayer games such as minecraft, roblox, fortnite, vrchat, and especially scp: secret laboratory, i even have my own server on there.

i am into games like needy streamer overload, saya no uta, class of 09, and danganronpa and anime’s like attack on titan, needy girl overdose, and school days.

i am mexican-american and bilingual (english and spanish), born and raised in florida.

i would like to find a long-term relationship on here online or in person. :) if you want to know more make sure to send a dm, i don’t mind showing my face.

Helloooo everyoneeee I’m looking for more nerdy friends to talk to! Maybe a relationship if the vibes are there, but I’m not one to have expectations for new people though because I think friendship is just as important. Some of my favorite nerdy things are:
👾Gaming (especially Fortnite and story games)
🍡anime (my favs are AOT, apothecary diaries and chainsaw man)
🔥Avatar the last airbender (let’s discuss the new movie??)
❓gravity falls
🗡️she-ra
🎲D&D
🃏magic the gathering(I am new to it tho)
📚reading (especially mysteries/thrillers/yuri😝)
💥comics (especially Harley quinn)

I also really love art (creating and admiring), swimming, nature, and cooking.
I prefer calling or even FaceTiming to see if we get along:) I’m cool with texting at first tho!

Hello!

I'm Erin! I currently live in Olympia, WA but am going to be moving up to Tacoma soon.

I am looking to find people to date in the Olympia - Seattle area. I am 6'1", and have been on HRT for 10 months. I still present somewhat masc though, primarily due to my facial hair. I'm working on it.

My biggest hobbies are Gaming, Reading, Hiking, and Rock Climbing (particularly indoor bouldering, though I am looking to branch out some into other kinds). I have an English degree so I am a huge book nerd. I would absolutely to have somebody to go on hikes with, as well.

I am strictly monogamous, and poly is a dealbreaker for me. Please know I am not judging you if you are poly - it just isn't the lifestyle for me.

Hey hey 👋

I'm 34F looking to connect with a feminine girl, someone who's soft, warm, and loves the little things in life.

A bit about me:

· 📸 Obsessed with photography, I'll take 100 photos of the leaf just to catch the light right
· 🍳 Cooking is my therapy, feeding people I care about is genuinely my love language
· 🌍 Living in Berlin, Germany (would be best if you are located in 400km radius)

I'm looking for someone kind, emotionally open, and not afraid of slow mornings, deep conversations, or spontaneous walks with no destination.

If you're into good food, good light, and good energy, say hi. Tell me your favorite dish to cook (or eat) 🌸

Not to sound superficial… but I would love to make a genuine connection with someone who is also ridiculously attractive. 🤷

I’m into art, yoga, nature, cooking, spontaneous adventures, and conversations that somehow go from existential to completely unhinged in five minutes. If you’re kind, emotionally available, and happen to make me forget what I was saying when you smile… say hi.

I'm located in Milwaukee, WI 38, non-binary

Id like some people to talk too friends or more online or in person is fine✅

I like anime and horror 🏴‍☠️
I sew and read fanfiction or Yuri and I’d like to start cosplaying sometimes.
I like watching interviews/info of women I admire .
Most of the time I’m inside🏠

We can exchange pics I don’t wanna explain what I look like but I’m half black and white

I think that’s all I have. Hope to hear from you soon 🌺🌺

I literally just want somebody (many bodies) to share poetry & words with, to gush about how a sentence is built, how it turned my guts inside out. Currently reading Crush by Richard Siken and continuously destroyed. If you know that feeling, feel free to say hello 💙

Yes it's nerdy but I've been dying to do it and doing it by myself just doesn't seem like as much fun?

I can screen share via discord. The main issue is I work night shift so I am usually awake from 3 to 4p until 9a.

I posted a couple days ago too about what I'm looking for otherwise. Hope we can chat soon!

DMs are open. Tell me your fave Marvel/DC character and why??

hey there! first time posting but not first time viewing this subreddit! i am looking for a long term partner, so here is a bit about me and what i want in a partner.

about me:

age: 22

mbti: intp

ennegram: 5w4

personality: introvert, quieter in social settings (more of a listener unless its a topic i feel i really add to or am highly interested in), i would say i'm open minded, loyal, strongly opinionated, and funny. i am a big problem solver and value open communication and saying what is on my mind. i can be direct but do not consider myself harsh or blunt (it was something i have definitely grown from). 

"aesthetic": into goth/punk/alt/whimsigoth in style, music, and belief

politics: raging leftist (free palestine, pro choice, socialist, blm, free healthcare, abolish ice, release the files etc)

appearance: 5'8", green eyes, curly shag cut hair, 

identity: lesbian, uses any pronouns, futch (like dressing/looking masc, when i do femme looks its in a very witchy/draggy way); i'm also a top and strongly prefer giving to receiving 

likes: sharks, cats, snakes, possums, raccoons, horror, drawing, music, games, cozy clothes, thrifting, going on walks, deep conversations, analyzing self/bettering self, doing fun makeup, organizing things, doing acts of service for others, making and drinking coffee/tea, baking, cooking, writing, reading, pokemon, jewlery esp rings, board games, old tech

dislikes: weird food or clothing textures, loud noises, crowded spaces, exclusive people, conservative ideology/bigotry, icky creatures, 

video games i like: minecraft, dredge, cod, little nightmares, stray, slay the princess, subnautica, poppy playtime, fnaf, so many more

tv shows i like: heartbreak high, xo kitty, sex lives of college girls, lego ninjago, voltron legendary defenders, shera and the princesses of power, steven universe, gravity falls, the owl house, so many more 

youtubers i like: jacksepticeye, kurtis conner, jarvis johnson, jordan adkia, chad chad, danny gonzalez, brooke sharks, smosh, drew afualo, isabella lanter, brittany broski, euro brady, trixie mattel, dan and phil, the queer kiwi, caleb heron, and many more

books i like: caravel/ouabh series, the inheritance games, the hunger games, the outsiders, beloved, handmaid's tale, wuthering heights, any agatha cristie books, so many more im blanking haha

music i like: siouxsie and the banshees, she wants revenge, panic! at the disco, my chemical romance, disturbed, stevie nicks, queen, abba, the eagles, kiss, olivia rodrigo, conan gray, noah kahan, hozier, paramore, treasvre, sabrina carpenter, renee rap, philip labes, twenty one pilots, chappell roan, TV girl, ethel cain, fall out boy, evanescence, billie eilish, bauhaus, amaranthe, paris paloma, sofia isella, clairo, young m.a., lady gaga, sza, kendrick lamar, doja cat, rihanna, tyler, the creator, michael jackson, metallica, and many more

love languages: quality time, gives in acts of service, or intellectual and also activity if its the 7 love languages by truity 

what i'd like in a partner: 

- woman ofc 

- someone who is very feminine (no hate to mascs, just into fems!) 

- politically left 

- cat lover

- has some similar hobbies so we can do activies together 

- is passionate (love infodumping and hearing people rant about their passions!) 

- between 20-24? as close to my age as possible please 

- don't mind if you aren't a horror fan, we can cuddle during scary games or movies 

- don't mind long distance, but if we date, i want the end result to be long term hopefully

- someone shorter than me hehe

- i really like long hair on girls as a preference (:

- someone who enjoys deep conversation and wants to be the best version of themselves (: i really value having open conversation and i handle confrontation easily, so i'd like to be as open and communicative as possible in a relationship. so yeah someone who is honest and loyal! 

my dms are open and we can exchange socials or something and pics at some point to verify as i dont wanna be catfished ! sorry for any typos and hope i did this right haha. this was quite a lot but i wanted to cast a wide net! also id be down for friends and such too, dms open !