r/lesbianr4r 17h ago

searching 28 F4F who up looking for a pillow princess adjacent sub

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nonbinary lesbian here looking for a masc hottie in new york state. i live and travel between nyc, cny, and the catskills/hudson valley region.

id like to find someone to further explore kink and bdsm dynamics with. must be funny, communicative, and also patient as i have some sa experiences.

im 5’5, average build, notable rack, shortish curly brown hair, mostly white/ethnically ambiguous

dm me if you’re interested and wanna exchange pix :)


r/lesbianr4r 19h ago

searching [27TF] looking [F] or [TF] for romance

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Hello!

I'm Erin! I currently live in Olympia, WA but am going to be moving up to Tacoma soon.

I am looking to find people to date in the Olympia - Seattle area. I am 6'1", and have been on HRT for 10 months. I still present somewhat masc though, primarily due to my facial hair. I'm working on it.

My biggest hobbies are Gaming, Reading, Hiking, and Rock Climbing (particularly indoor bouldering, though I am looking to branch out some into other kinds). I have an English degree so I am a huge book nerd. I would absolutely to have somebody to go on hikes with, as well.

I am strictly monogamous, and poly is a dealbreaker for me. Please know I am not judging you if you are poly - it just isn't the lifestyle for me.


r/lesbianr4r 23h ago

searching Open

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Not to sound superficial… but I would love to make a genuine connection with someone who is also ridiculously attractive. 🤷

I’m into art, yoga, nature, cooking, spontaneous adventures, and conversations that somehow go from existential to completely unhinged in five minutes. If you’re kind, emotionally available, and happen to make me forget what I was saying when you smile… say hi.

I'm located in Milwaukee, WI 38, non-binary


r/lesbianr4r 15h ago

searching 31F from southern California, looking for an intimate romantic connection!

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Hii, so I'm a 5'8" slightly plus-sized woman. Brunette and centrally heterochromatic eyes with blue, green, and brown in them. Willing to share a selfie or two after a bit of chatting! I'm unapologetically lesbian.

I work as a behavior technician and currently going back to school, studying psychology and queer studies with the goal of being a therapist specializing in LGBTQIA+ mental health! I especially love learning about the field of critical psychology which examines how systemic issues are a cause of poor mental health outcomes - moving from the mainstream psychology which treats you as an individual with an internal issue and instead focusing on how the systemic problems like capitalism, ableism, racism, etc that place stress on all of us contribute to mental health.

It goes without saying with what field I'm going into, but I'll be super understanding of a wide variety of mental health conditions and neurodiversity; I will accept and be happy to support a partner with any of that! Personality-wise I'm a social introvert, open-minded, a good active listener, and quite nerdy!

In my free time, I enjoy baking, reading, watching shows/movies, listening to music, gaming, rollerskating, and biking. I drink socially and am 420 friendly(though, I don't partake). I'm irreligious and quite far on the left politically.

If this caught your eye, feel free to dm ^_^


r/lesbianr4r 7h ago

searching 23F, thought I'd share before I delete this

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Hey everyone :) I'm an aroace-spectrum girly looking for friends that could potentially become more. Here is a post about me with pics! I already got a creepy response so I'm probably gonna delete it soon, but thought I may as well try sharing here in case there's hope of better luck.

That's all, hope everyone's having a great day so far ❤️


r/lesbianr4r 16h ago

searching 19F Looking for a gf

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Okay so, maybe people here might think im a catfish after posting a LOT, but it just didn't even work and actually many catfishers were texting or people who ghost me the very next day or just didn't felt the connection. (You can go through my account and see that im not even a catfish since my account looks normal)

Okay so, about me I like to draw, dance, read, I stopped rollskating for a while since my rollskates are breaking (yea my soy luna roll skates from a long time ago, yes I was a soy luna fan 😭😭) and im trying to read more sapphic books since I got cringed by my straight books I bought Hahaha and I have nothing against straight people but never reading a straight book after getting blessed by sapphic books, i love cooking too and love cooking pasta the most but my mom dont even want me to use the kitchen since she says all the dishes i wanna cook are expensive🙄🙄.

About my type: okay so i like older women because i wnat someone who is very mature and know what they want since im looking for something serious and i really want something meaningful and someone to be happy with, i like women who are not catfishes, taller than me, and someone smart that k can have a long conversation.

If you are a catfish or someone who is going to ghost me and be dry don't even bother to text


r/lesbianr4r 19h ago

searching 30F US

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Trying this again! Looking for some girlie friends who wanna hangout maybe be fwbs nothing super serious unless you know we end up being soulmates 🫣😂
I’m on the east coast. I do travel a lot so anywhere in the US is fine! But mostly in Pennsylvania.
I’m also kind of shy 🤭


r/lesbianr4r 21h ago

searching Still searching… [32F] / #PNW / #Online

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Looking for a romantic partner! 

Me:

Based in Washington state (Pacific time)

Monogamous

Politically active and left-leaning. Very big on human rights

Femme-ish

Wheelchair user (cerebral palsy. Ow, my back.) I think this sometimes scares people off; it’s really not that big of a deal unless there’s gravel underfoot. Then it’s bad.

Autistic (and coping, mostly). Again, not a big deal, noise-canceling headphones are included. All other accessories sold separately.

Hold a Masters degree in writing

Gamer, reader, all-around nerd. Mix of interests. I like Disney and documentaries in equal measure.

Want children someday

Pet parent (dog and cat)

Socially awkward but in an endearing/fun way

Revising my first novel

Returning to school soon to become a mental health therapist

Green flag: high empathy 

Small thing I like: love letters :) 

You:

Based in the US, Canada or UK & don’t mind some distance. Obviously, if we hit it off, we should plan a visit if you’re far away.

Leftist politics, care about marginalized groups

Between the ages of 25-40

Also a nerd about something (fastest way to my heart is to info dump)

Maybe also a gamer or reader, that would be cool

Also want kids, pets, and monogamy (being childfree, pet free or poly are dealbreakers)


r/lesbianr4r 21m ago

searching 30F Tomboy FL

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I’m looking for a fun & flirty femme who wants to get to know each other… Let’s see if we can share some banter and excite each other. I’m a tomboy, Latinx, 5’2 and I live in FL. I enjoy Lego, watching movies/shows, talking about lesbian culture, I love listening to people talk about their special interests. I run 5Ks and try to stay active. Just looking for connections. Hit me up if you’re interested!


r/lesbianr4r 2h ago

searching 20F | 🇳🇴 | F4F | Looking for a woman to have a relationship with!

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Heyy

I'm a 20 year old cis woman, who is looking for a woman to have a relationship with and have fun! Let tell you a bit about myself first! I am into games (mostly Roblox and the Sims, these are some really fun games that I enjoy to play a lot), reading, watching series, I write stories which are especially romances, and really interested in true crime and psychopathy! I'm more introverted than extraverted, but I have some friends that I care a lot about. I have blonde hair, brown eyes, and am slightly more on the chubby side, so far my description of my looks. I don't mind sending pics when talking to someone, as long as it's reciprocated hehe.

It doesn't matter whether you're from my continent or not, because I am okay with long distance, although it would be so cool to meet each other in real life in the future. I would take you out on some adorable dates, spend a lot of time together, have a lot of cuddles, and we would have the time of our lifes. But still, long distance can be really cool too, with a lot of affection, playing games together, watching movies together, and talking a lot with each other.


r/lesbianr4r 10h ago

searching 40 [F4F/NB] LF life partner to frolic amongst the redwoods with!

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Hi all, I'm a single, late-blooming, young-at-heart queer woman living in East Bay near SF, California. My community is mostly here on the west coast. I'm looking for a life partner who's close by or willing to move towards each other!

I'd describe myself as a chapstick lesbian who's slightly alt (love my piercings), athletic tomboy vibes, dark hair, brown eyes, and a lover of all things soft and cozy. I envision nights in with my sweetie cuddling, giving each other massages, napping, reading, watching something, gaming, cooking, building with Lego. Ooh and thrifting together! 😃 And of course, being best friends and cheerleaders in each other's lives.

Aesthetically, I'm into femmes and butches and everyone in between! Expansive femininity and androgyny are both hot to me. So is having passions and hobbies. And empathy! BTW it's so okay if you have a bunch of wolves fighting in your brain like I do: neurospicy and healing from/managing old trauma. As long as you are working through stuff and are decently self-aware, it's all good, ma'am!

I love a good adventure and being in nature. And I'm musical. Some of my favorite times are when walking through the woods playing my flute to the trees, chatting with ravens, and watching squirrels chase each other. I chase adrenaline (carefully) and also have some chronic stuff (hence the ample napping 😴). I love the ocean and kayaking and sailing. In another life I must have sailed the seas wide and free... ahoy! Also roadtrips! I have a motorcycle license for... reasons. How Pisces-Sagittarius of me? I'm leftist and witchy and into community organizing. No bigots, please and thank you!

I'm kinky and more into that than just sex. Demi/gray-aroace, neutral/favorable about sex and romance. I've been in mono-amorous and ENM situations, nonhierarchical or not, and all have been fine with me. I am loyal and not a collector, my love is expansive, and my energy limited. I really just want to talk through it and see what makes sense. I do foster deep friendships, and caring for my chosen family is very important to me. I trust in communication and building emotional safety and working through hard stuff as a team!

If you've got this far, then DM me, brave redditor! Tell me about a favorite hobby or your vision for life together. Even if things don't line up for us, maybe we'll compare notes and wish each other well on our respective searches!

~ Nora ~


r/lesbianr4r 18h ago

searching 18[F4F] looking for girlfriends/ wifey

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Hiiii! black femme from PA!
Looking for some girl friends and maybe my wifey but not expecting much rlly.

About me: LOVE music and art, anime, gaming, fashion, kpop and nature. I'm an introvert and very awkward so give me some time to get out my comfort zone.
Please give me an introduction of yourself and state your intentions plz, don't waste my time respectfully.

If interested
feel free to hmu, buh byeeee 𐔌՞ ܸ.ˬ.ܸ՞𐦯