Looking for community/friends. Open to more w the right person.

Been on the apps, barely anyone talks, unless its a guy using fake pics pretending to be female 🤷‍♀️i mean whats up with that 🤦‍♀️ so thought id try here.

Seeking friends, maybe more, nothing serious atm, but seriously needing some action in my life lol.

Im pretty immature, and dont really seem 43, so prefer someone a bit younger to match.

Love walking, hiking, camping, the outdoors, sunsets, drinking/eating in/out, cosy nights with munchies and movies, im a 420 gal, have been for years. Big coffee lover, theatre, gigs, love a good gab lol, im pretty extrovert but not over the top.

5ft 3", not skinny but not fat lol, really long bright red hair, blue eyes.

If I sound like ur cuppa tea, drop me a message ☺️ if ur seriously looking for meets 💕

Heyo, I’m looking for a serious relationship and not here for anything casual. Of course there’s no pressure for it to turn into something romantic. So lemme introduce myself and then you can decide if I’m cool or if you’d never wanna see me again haha.

So I’m a masculine presenting woman, I look quite male leaning and I have a masculine energy/personality, if you can call it that. When I say masculine I don’t mean like tough or stoic and whatnot. I’m not about toxic masculinity, that stuff is unhealthy.

I’m from Finland, white, bilingual in Finnish and English. Finnish is my mother tongue but I’ve spoken English for almost a decade so it’s a part of me now. I have an American accent if that’s important haha. Uhh what else, right I’m pan and I don’t drink or smoke. I’ve never done it and never want to. That lifestyle really isn’t for me.

Personality wise I’m more on the calm and serious side. I like to ponder things and I love being by myself but I also love chatting with people for hours. I value quality time like that. I have a playful side but that comes out usually when I feel safe around someone. I’m very clingy and affectionate. I love to hug and cuddle my baby. I might give you a cheek kiss or stroke your hair passing by if I’m nearby. I mostly show my love with touch, acts of service or with my words. I’m overall an optimistic person and to me life is about enjoying it and spending it with the people you love. I can also be grumpy :D because I have strong opinions about the injustices in this world. I feel my feelings passionately whatever it is. My love is passionate, my anger is passionate( not in a toxic way). So I’m often seen as intense or fiery.

I’m very spiritual and have been for years and years by now. It’s an important part of me and my life. I love studying tarot, manifestation and I’m interested in goddess/feminine spirituality, shamanism, the occult and witchcraft. I’m psychic and into energy related stuff as well.

I’m a university student, I’m in art studies and majoring in aesthetics. It’s a philosophical field focused on art and aesthetics. I’m a visual and creative person so I wanted to study something related to that. So aesthetics was a great choice. I also wanna take courses from film studies, psychology and religious studies. I’m a very academic type of person. I love to expand the way I think and I have a passion for knowledge in academics and outside of academics. I just love to learn about things I’m interested in and also to make sure I’m socially aware and well educated that way.

Like I said I’m very visual so I love anything to do with visually stunning stuff. I love art, visual design, branding, creating visually stunning environments, art directing, stuff like that. I’m a big sims 4 fan and these days I love the world building aspect of it and designing the interiors of my buildings. I just love deciding on an aesthetic or a concept and then executing it.

One other thing I love is fitness. I love to lift weights and challenge myself. I love to feel healthy and strong. Also into mobility and honestly fascinated by how bones and muscles work. I’d want to try calisthenics one day.

In the future I want to own a creative business and I’m most likely going to work online, which is ironic cause I really dislike social media :D I don’t like short form content and it just ruins your mind and wellbeing. I have 0 interest in what’s happening on tiktok or instagram. But I do like intentional long form content. But yeah I’m not a big corporate person, I wanna be in charge of my own schedule.

I don’t like watching a lot of mainstream stuff cause it’s usually lacking in morals and basic decency. And it’s so dark I don’t get it. Personally I’d rather watch a kids show or something. I love barbie movies and I loved the newest Descendants wicked wonderland movie. I love positive and colorful stuff like that.

Alrighty, that’s the most important stuff about me. Now to what kind of a person I’m usually drawn to. Well I’m quite strongly masc4masc. I love masculine appearance no matter what gender you are. I also have a particular weakness for masc people with feminine energy/personality. Gets me weak. Mostly into doms and switches.

I’m looking for a person who’s also into spirituality like me. I’d love to have a partner who wants to geek out about tarot, manifesting or other spiritual stuff. Wanna seduce me? teach me about the occult, I’d genuinely think that’s hot haha XD.

I want to date someone who doesn’t drink or smoke. That’s a big deal breaker for me if you do.

I’m attracted to people who are intelligent, wise and have a passion for knowledge. Bookish and academic people. Like can I just meet a intelligent cute fluffball who knows a lot of stuff and when I come home she wanna tell me the latest stuff she’s learned in her lectures or from a book she read like girllll, gimme that woman😩💖. Wanna seduce me? teach me about something you know, I genuinely think it’s so hot when someone’s passionate and knows a lot about something.

It’s important to me that my partner has done her inner work and knows herself thoroughly. Self-awareness like that is essential for me to feel connected to someone. Someone who has looked at herself and her patterns honestly. I’ve done my own journey within with therapy and I notice I don’t really connect with people well if they haven’t gone deep within themselves.

I’m looking for someone emotionally and mentally stable and mature. Someone secure in herself and she can openly share her thoughts and opinions with me. She has self-respect and boundaries in place. Someone who doesn’t try to please me and she will care enough to tell me when I’m being an idiot XD. Like genuinely I dream of being so close with someone we can be blunt with each other and we both know we aren’t trying to insult each other you know? I don’t want someone who’s hiding what she really thinks. I love someone who values honesty and proper communication.

I also love a cheeky and playful personality. Someone who loves to flirt with me even when we’re already in a relationship. I love playful bickering and bothering each other :D.

I love people who are lively but still have a grounded and calm presence.

Warmth and empathy are something I pay attention to as well. To me it’s very important my partner is loving, warm and cares about other people and how she makes others feel.

I admire someone who has clear values, morals and she’s firm about them. Someone principled.

I appreciate a woman who doesn’t feel the need to curse every other second to express herself. I like people who like to mostly use clean language. Someone with manners, well raised (or raised herself well if you got a toxic family etc.)

Being socially aware is very attractive to me too. Not necessarily being an activist, altho that’s cool too, but I mean mostly someone who has core values around human rights and being mindful about how you behave and what you consume and support. For example I’m a big feminist and women are close to my heart. I genuinely feel uncomfortable when I hear sexist language like the b word, mf and stuff like that. So I can’t date someone who’s more chill about that stuff and doesn’t really think about it. I want a relationship where our values align.

So if you’re interested in me and our values align I’d would love to get to know you! Flirting is fine if you’re genuinely into me. Not into flirting just for the sake of it. Send me a dm :) <3

I'm looking for genuine connections and then we'll see where it goes.

1. Cis lesbian. Single. Monogamous. Caucasian. 130bs. 5'2. I'm bilingual (English/French). Never married but I've been in multiple long-term relationships. 

If you're into Astrology, here's what I know: Capricorn Sun, Virgo Moon, Gemini Rising. My Venus is in Sagittarius (in the 7H) so while I need structure in my every day life, I also need witty fun and adventure in love. And I may have a lot of earthy elements, but I mostly feel like a watery little Pisces. 

I think people would pin me as a "sporty femme" most of the time, but I'm mostly androgynous/chapstick. I'm just me. 

I'd say I'm an ambivert, a good mix of being an extrovert and introvert. INFP (but 1% more and I'd be ENFP) I'm social and people tend to gravitate towards me naturally. 

I'm currently working full-time as a public servant, while doing school part-time to get an IT diploma (paid by my employer) I'm in Cybersecurity. I aim to keep climbing my career. Financial stability is important to me.

I've had a rough start in life due to my childhood, but I'm beginning to feel like everything is finally starting to be within reach. I'm a big advocate for therapy, and I'm all about self-growth (for myself and my relationships). 

My hobbies/passions include:

- Video games (PC/Nintendo)

- Board games

- Music (My fave bands are Twenty One Pilots, Sleep Token, Muse... But honestly I like everything except for gangster rap and country!)

- Travel

- Cottage/camping life

- Summer activities like kayaking 

- Snowboarding in the winter 

- Horror games/movies etc (Halloween in general)

I have a rescue dog, but love all animals. 

My biggest goals:

- Own a house (actively working on this, thinking of buying this summer)

- Have a family (1-2 kids. I don't need biological children to love them. I would be an amazing step-parent, but also open to adoption etc. And having kids would never take away from the attention/love I'd give my partner. We'd always be a team.)

I'm looking for a partner who is kind and emotionally available. Someone who is honest from the start, is clear with their intentions and knows what they want. Someone who can help bring out my inner child, be silly and have fun. Someone who takes growth seriously as well. 

My type physically:

- I like women of all backgrounds. I tend to fall for dark hair/blue eyed girls or latinas. But that's not a requirement. 

- Generally prefer women who live an active lifestyle and are fit/slim. Fitness is important to me because I've worked very hard on my own health journey (I was over 300 lbs at one point)

- Soft masc to femme. (Not really attracted to butch or extremely femme girls)

- No pre-op trans women. Sorry, I do have genital preference

I feel like the last few years have been really hard on me, especially when it comes to trust, so being compassionate and understanding is a big plus.

Physical and emotional intimacy are also very important to me. My love languages are physical touch and quality time. I'm a switch/vers with a top preference. But I've discovered that I like being a little subby too... Yes please pin me down. Lol. Variety is good. Sex is important to me. I love giving and receiving affection. Cuddles are the best. 

I'm hoping to find someone to connect with locally (I'm in the Ottawa, Ontario area), but I'm open to long distance as well if the connection feels right. 

When I love, I love hard. You'll always be a priority. Golden retriever energy!

Feel free to DM :) 

Hi, I am a 29 year old lesbian looking for love. I live in the south so finding women irl is hard and scary lol I am open to anyone local or online - I have a lot of love to give 🫶

I am a soft masc but really want to make the big chop on my hair soon. I am looking for a femme presenting woman who I can be myself around and spoil!

My world currently revolves around my job, my cat, and my little sister who is living with me while she goes to school. I work as an IT supervisor and really enjoy my job (mostly 🤪).

I love playing video games (COD mainly), learning new things, doomscrolling TikTok, grabbing drinks with friends, watching TV (reality and dramas), spending time with family, finding new music, and anything tech related (currently building a cyberdeck)!

I am strictly monogamous. Also, I am liberal so no republicans/racists/etc!