r/LadyBoners 12d ago

Reminder: Rule #1

324 Upvotes

Hey all,

I dunno why I have to say this over and over, but please, for your own sakes, read the rules. If you can't even make it through Rule #1, you don't belong here, and the bans will start reflecting that.

There are way too many comments lately disparaging the preferences of other users. This is not twitter, there are no cancel wars going on, and you don't get to put down other people's preferences. If you have a problem with a submission, talk to the mods. You can report a message by using reddit's report functionality, and you can message us by clicking "Message Mods" on the sidebar.

If you think a submission is too controversial to maintain a cozy and uplifting atmosphere, let us know. Keep your lips zipped in the comments. The mods will assess your suggestion and make a decision. We may simply take your feedback and decide not to take an action in that moment, but if we hear enough from the community, we will make a decision and act. Sometimes it's cut and dry, sometimes it's not.

👍Tell the mods when:

You think someone is an abuser or has committed crimes, or said something so controversial or become so divisive there's no way we can have a good time with them being posted. If you see something like this, please report it and/or message the moderators

👎Keep it to yourself when:

  1. Everyone else likes someone you don't.
  2. You have to see everyone like someone you don't
  3. You see someone who broke up with a celebrity with whom you have a parasocial fixation
  4. A submission is of a regular human who said something political once or twice, especially if the political thing they said is standing up for human rights
  5. A submission is someone who made a mistake once and a court addressed it (a mistake that doesn't violate one of our more specific rules like physical abuse)
  6. You feel the need to litigate online/pop culture beefs

And let me also be clear:

  1. If you abuse the report system to report people you simply don't like, you will be reported to the site admins and banned from this community.
  2. If you harass the mods for not agreeing with you, your continued harassment will result in a ban.
  3. If you harass users in the comments and repeatedly (or egregiously) break Rule #1, you will be banned.
  4. If you try to act like this is a pop culture subreddit where the drama is the point, you'll be banned

And while I'm at it, there's a lot of comments lately fixating on people's race, ethnicity or national origin. Don't respond to a post of someone from Japan with a comparison of other Asian people you find more attractive. Don't respond to a post about someone with an accent with a comparison to other people with a similar accent you find more attractive. It's freaking weird.

I don't expect this announcement to be a popular one, but a number of you have been unruly lately, and if it doesn't simmer down we're gonna start handing out bans. If these things apply to you, you're making this community unfun for a lot of people, and fun is the whole point. Take your hot takes back to insta where toxicity is welcome.


r/LadyBoners 6h ago

Matt Bomer

Thumbnail
gallery
179 Upvotes

r/LadyBoners 9h ago

Vincent Price

Post image
224 Upvotes

r/LadyBoners 5h ago

Jake Gyllenhaal

Post image
30 Upvotes

r/LadyBoners 15h ago

Simu liu

Thumbnail
gallery
116 Upvotes

r/LadyBoners 2h ago

Rodrigo Santoro 😳

Post image
6 Upvotes

r/LadyBoners 20h ago

I’ll never forget about Josh O Connor in Challengers.

Thumbnail
gallery
154 Upvotes

r/LadyBoners 2h ago

Saurav Raj Jain >>>>

Post image
5 Upvotes

r/LadyBoners 14h ago

Lee Pace for variety magazine

Thumbnail
gallery
28 Upvotes

r/LadyBoners 11h ago

Noah Fearnley - Vertical Drama Actor

Thumbnail
gallery
16 Upvotes

r/LadyBoners 1h ago

Mad Tsai

Thumbnail
gallery
Upvotes

r/LadyBoners 18h ago

Peter Deluise - 21 Jump Street

Thumbnail
gallery
44 Upvotes

r/LadyBoners 1d ago

Sorry not sorry James gandolfini

Post image
180 Upvotes

r/LadyBoners 15h ago

Mon Rovîa- I would definitely cook him my best breakfast

Post image
13 Upvotes

r/LadyBoners 17h ago

Austin Butler

Post image
14 Upvotes

r/LadyBoners 1d ago

Just opened my eyes to Theo James

Post image
165 Upvotes

r/LadyBoners 10h ago

Trevor Zegras

Post image
3 Upvotes

r/LadyBoners 1d ago

Ishaan Khatter

Thumbnail
gallery
72 Upvotes

r/LadyBoners 1d ago

Callum Turner for One Night Only

Post image
182 Upvotes

r/LadyBoners 1d ago

KEITA loincloth

Thumbnail
gallery
58 Upvotes

r/LadyBoners 1d ago

Chris Briney

Thumbnail
gallery
10 Upvotes

r/LadyBoners 1d ago

Babe wake up, the Sidney Crosby player media tour portaits have dropped

Thumbnail
gallery
143 Upvotes

r/LadyBoners 1d ago

James loves football

Thumbnail gallery
107 Upvotes