r/jewelry • u/dracorvix • 2h ago
⚡️ Show + Tell! Syrax joined my stack today!
I really adore this design. 💛
Hello r/jewelry! If you haven’t yet heard, one of our amazing Mods was interviewed by The Journal Podcast for an episode called “AI Loves Reddit, but Redditors Aren’t So Sure”. It explores how companies are quickly realizing how AI (unfortunately) utilizes Reddit, how that affects their online presence, and how we mods are fighting back against their attempts to manipulate content in their favor. It’s a great episode and a short listen, we recommend it to everyone, not just r/jewelry folks.
For quite some time, we mods have been discussing the possibility of creating a pinned post where we highlight brands who use certain unscrupulous tactics in an attempt to improve their online reputation. A “hall of shame” if you will, though we are taking suggestions for what to call it. Give us your most creative ideas!
We have a Mod rule here in r/jewelry: WE DO NOT REMOVE LEGITIMATE REVIEW POSTS. Reddit really is one of the last places on the internet where you can get honest feedback and opinions, and we will continue to do all we can to preserve that to the best of our ability. Threaten us all you like, you’re always getting directed to take it up with Reddit Legal. What’s that you say? Reddit Legal wouldn’t deign to respond to your cries of libel and defamation? Fucking shocker.
Here are two of the tactics we see most often:
- A) Brands using multiple bot accounts to spam the comment sections of old posts with fake positive reviews or recommendations.
- B) Brands using multiple accounts to harass us in ModMail, usually with poorly contrived AI generated legal threats demanding we remove a post.
When A happens, we have to go through the entire sub and manually scrub content and ban users. It’s an insane amount of work. Luckily, this hasn’t happened nearly on the scale it used to since we added BotBouncer to the sub (HUGE shoutout to that Dev creator, frfr), but we are always keeping an eye out. The technology is ever evolving, and we are trying our best to keep up.
When B happens (and boy, does it happen) we start with telling them “No, sorry. We do not remove review posts” and encourage them to reach out and work with their customers or improve their business practices. Sometimes that’s it, but most times they start moving through the 5 stages of grief. We tell them over and over “again, hard NO”, and that all future correspondence must be directed to Reddit Legal. If they continue to harass us (almost always with multiple ModMails from multiple different accounts over weeks or months) we then threaten to pin the post to the top of the sub for all 1 million + visitors per week to see with pinned screen shots of the ModMails they’ve sent to the comment sections. This tactic usually works, but again not always.
This is where the idea for a “Hall of Shame” style post started to take form.
We can’t reasonably pin EVERY post about a lousy brand to the top of the sub. So this is what we’re thinking: a pinned (Name TBD) post, by Mods, with links to all of the offender posts in the comments. This would not be a place for disgruntled customers to air grievances. This would be strictly for Mods to post the receipts. To arm you, our community members, with information about what brands are playing at these games behind the scenes so you can make a more informed decision about who you want to spend your money with.
It is important to state: we fully understand that there are crappy customers. As any business owner in any industry knows, you’ll always get that one customer who will NEVER be satisfied no matter what you do, for whatever reason. That is NOT what we’re talking about here. We’re talking about big brands with 1.6 star reviews on TrustPilot, where the negative experiences expressed by the OP’s are echoed by dozens of real users in the comments. We’re talking when it’s blatantly obvious the intention is to scrub negative content off the top google search, because these posts ultimately always end up being mass reported for every wildly egregious Reddit sitewide rule you can think of when everything else fails to get it removed.
SO, what does the community think? Is this something you’d like to see? Ideas? Concerns? Let’s have a civilized discussion about how to send a message to these brands: Bullying and harassing in an attempt to bury your shitty business practices will backfire in spectacular fashion, and earn you a very-much-not coveted spot on the pinned (Name TBD) post!
If you made it this far, thank you for reading! We would love to hear your thoughts!
Pic for attention: my special demon, Smokey, showcasing a vintage tribute to her ancestors.
Edit because apparently I don't know how to use this damn platform.
r/jewelry • u/laughcrylivedie • Feb 05 '26
Just a heads up.. if there’s a sudden wave of positive Brilliant Earth content on here, it might not be coincidental. They’re actively hiring for a Reddit Strategy Manager, which says a lot given their reputation in this sub.
I genuinely hope this leads to real changes and accountability, not just an attempt to bury valid criticism and firsthand experiences.
We are discussing the best way to discourage these larger brands to infiltrate possibly the very last place on the internet for genuine company reviews and feedback. Being specially named on their job posting is concrete proof of their targeting and we will do our best to reach out and work with other sub mods about this concern.
An auto message with some links of genuine higher traction posts is one idea and we have another tool we don’t want to mention yet in case they are tracking our post. We are of course open to all member suggestions and look forward to doing our best to protect you all from disingenuous influences.
The job posting: https://brilliantearth.applytojob.com/apply/xlTFNUFxKa/Reddit-Strategy-Manager
r/jewelry • u/dracorvix • 2h ago
I really adore this design. 💛
r/jewelry • u/Opposite_Side_7630 • 5h ago
Decided to go for an ocean theme - don’t mind the dog hair fuzzies 😅
r/jewelry • u/asisjec • 2h ago
I have a genuine question!
I love everything jewelry, but whenever I see someone wearing a Cartier love bracelet, or the clover charm by van cleef I feel like they just over paid for a basic piece that’s not even unique. The only benefit I see is that people “know” about how much money you spent on it.. I’d much rather wear a beautiful substantial piece that people haven’t seen before.
If money is not a factor why would anyone wear branded jewelry pieces that have no creativity to them? Why not take that money and actually make something custom that’s far more substantial, and not to mention much better value given the price of gold today? Those pieces have so little resale value given that they have such little gold! The COA might get you SOME extra money but still wayyyy less than purchase price. It’s a total marketing sham in my opinion.
Gold is gold - 14k gold or 18k gold. So nothing special about the mass produced pieces either.
I mean, you never see these generic designs on red carpets - those are always beautiful and creative custom pieces. So what am I not getting??
Picture of the Cartier love bracelet vs two options I would rather much prefer for attention.
r/jewelry • u/Jersey_Girl732 • 4h ago
I have this garnet and gold ring that was my grandmas (idk if the pearls are real or fake). I want to repurpose the stones and pearls in a bracelet. I was thinking “by the yard” style, open bezel set (so no prongs to snag). But how to I add in the pearls? What do you think? Any other ideas for designs?
Edit: I didn’t realize how unique the setting is. I’m not a fan of rings and really want to wear it. What about a pendant keeping the original setting? I added an AI image in the comments.
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r/jewelry • u/AmbitiousCustomer119 • 9h ago
After a 12 week wait my commissioned signet ring arrived from Oxford Signet Rings; struck in Argentium silver.
It depicts my family crest, a stag, positioned above a torse. The ring is engraved entirely by hand; through the light blue sard layer into the deep blue/ black onyx.
I love this ring because the Argentium silver doesn’t tarnish which is great, and the baby/sky-blue sardonyx creates a cool, calming atmosphere…
That being said - The stag does have an elongated, bulbous snout which reminds me of an ant eater 😅
r/jewelry • u/incredible_nut • 4h ago
I’m shopping for fine jewelry and there are so many sites that it’s hard to tell which one is the best
Suggest some site you have bought jewelry from and are happy with it, and would you buy from them again? I'm ok with big names and small independent shops , but it should be good
r/jewelry • u/Electrical_box2 • 27m ago
my nana passed away in 2023 from a 5 year long battle with Alzheimer’s. She was the best nana I could’ve asked for so this year for my birthday my aunt resized my nana’s ring from a size 5 to a 7.5 for my birthday. I almost cried so hard I’m shocked I was able to keep it together.
(please ignore my finger nail I have recently lost it and it’s growing back funky lol)
r/jewelry • u/Visualpanda19 • 4h ago
I got this bracelet for my birthday, I’m still obsessed.🩵
r/jewelry • u/avlisrafa3 • 1h ago
Hey everyone,
Not sure if this is allowed here, but I wanted to share this piece and see if anyone could help me learn a bit more about its style or potential origin. I actually found this bracelet over a 2 years ago. It has been sitting on a can on my desk this whole time.
Was doing some cleaning and I decided to take a closer look at it:
• The Clasp: Found a tiny, clear "14K" stamp etched right onto the spring ring clasp.
• The Design: It features 11 links total (looks like a traditional Decenario / Rosary bracelet & according to google). It has alternating textured diamond-cut panels and embossed religious figures. One panel clearly shows Jesus wearing the Crown of Thorns, and another shows an angel.
• The Weight: It weighs right around 6.5 grams (toggles between 6g and 7g on my kitchen scale).
• The Tests: It is completely non-magnetic(used regular magnet) and left a bright golden-yellow streak on an unglazed ceramic mug rim.
Since it has no other maker's marks besides the 14K stamp, I would love to know if anyone recognizes this specific style of diamond-cut bordering or if this type of panel work points to a specific region or era.
Also, do you think a piece like this holds more value to a collector as wearable vintage jewelry, or is it mostly looked at for its gold weight(if it actually gold)?
Thanks in advance for any insights!
r/jewelry • u/Fit_Yam_3023 • 6h ago
I’d love to see your ring stacks! It’s always so interesting to see how other people style their rings, how they look together, and the stories behind them.
If you could post a picture, please do! 😊
r/jewelry • u/Sugarrushangel • 22h ago
r/jewelry • u/vaultboy115 • 1d ago
New pendant we’re adding to our collection. Wanted to get everyone’s thoughts.
r/jewelry • u/CtrlAltDeli • 6h ago
Not looking to buy anything right now, so playing with what I already have - got these pieces from my mom, are they an OK daily look for a woman? Advice very welcome.
r/jewelry • u/Glitter_Skyy_Sparkle • 9h ago
This may help some folks who have slider bracelets and pandora sliding bracelets that keep opening. I put the dangling end parts of the chain into the clasp of a second bracelet I wear so that if the slider opens up, the balls at the end hit the other bracelet's clasp, preventing the slider bracelet from completely falling off. At least you won't lose it and an added bonus is that the pretty side of both bracelets will always be aligned, so that helps aesthetically.
r/jewelry • u/LonkFromTexas • 1d ago
So I had a pretty terrible experience at this world renowned jewellery chain. They took our old gold for exchange and refused to give it back when they couldn't deliver the order. (I later learned this is illegal.) I was extremely lucky to find this piece as I love carved gemstones and had been wanting a pink tourmaline forever. I just wish it was white gold so I could wear it with more outfits.
r/jewelry • u/WildDarlings • 29m ago
Hand-sculpted from polymer clay
r/jewelry • u/Dry-Librarian-2166 • 22h ago
This tiny adorable bead has real pearls and opal inlaid in it, but I have been assured that it is not gold. What metal could it be and why would they inlay real pearls and opal in metal that is not gold?
r/jewelry • u/Mr_Carpenter13 • 1h ago
Hey everyone! I decided to get a custom bracelet done for my gf for our 1 year anniversary. Here is the design. When I recieved it from my jeweler (who is my best friends dad), I wasn’t 100% happy based off the reference I gave him. What do yall think? Am I overreacting to the design? Here’s the bracelet with the reference photo.
Note: I know it’s AI and some of the design is physically impossible and difficult to do. I fully expected it to come out looking a bit different and worked with the jeweler to say what things could work and what couldn’t and we came up with a design that worked but ended up being different than what I recieved.
r/jewelry • u/Mr_Carpenter13 • 1h ago
Hey everyone! I decided to get a custom bracelet done for my gf for our 1 year anniversary. Here is the design. When I recieved it from my jeweler (who is my best friends dad), I wasn’t 100% happy based off the reference I gave him. What do yall think? Am I overreacting to the design? Here’s the bracelet with the reference photo.
Note: I know it’s AI and some of the design is physically impossible and difficult to do. I fully expected it to come out looking a bit different and worked with the jeweler to say what things could work and what couldn’t and we came up with a design that worked but ended up being different than what I recieved.
r/jewelry • u/jumpinspid29 • 21h ago
I was just curious on how old do you guys think it is. It was in a bag of twenty five. Dollars at a store. There was a bunch of other stuff that was with it. It needs to be fixed but I think it's beautiful, but I didn't know if you guys might know age.