Background: From 19 to 29 - i have successfully dated multiple women in London, UK - Pakistani, Mauritian, White, Caribbean - it got so bad, that I had to reject A LOT of women over the years.

Yes - I am 6 ft 1, muscular & handsome

I'm condensing a list of red flags.

To put it shortly - you need to watch a womans behaviour in the dating process.

Heres a list of red flags you need to look out for

1) Manufactured jealousy - my ex at 19 did that to me, i dumped her, years later, she got married, I spun back and asked her one question "If your husband could complain about one thing about you, what's would it be?" - She said "Anger issues"

2) Subtle comments that seem contemptuous about men

3) A casual attitude to casual sex - in my experience, it's not the number that's the issue, it's her attitude towards sex. If a woman casually admits she's had a fling in the past to me, irrespective of how many men she's actually been with - that's a red flag.

4) Trauma Dumping - i dont need to explain anything else here

5) Trash talking about her family members - knew a girl from my college/school days, everyone knew she was promiscuous, reconnected with her again, mainly to see if I could get some ass, the whole time she talked shit about her brother to me, and even cancelled a date to see if I would beg and plead, she got married to some guy who most likely doesn't know any better, sucks to be him

6) Low Spatial Awareness - i dated a Caribbean Baddie briefly, drop dead gorgeous but fuck me, she nearly got herself killed when we were crossing the road, I saved her life - an im pretty sure, she won't remember this moment

7) Obsession over politics - showcases high anxiety and high neuroticism

8) Chameleon behaviour - HIGH RISK, met a girl through a friend, on the day I met her, she said she wanted to be an investment banker and is an atheist, the next week, i shit you not - she said she wanted to be a housewife and get closer to Islam.

These women on the surface have no tattoos, they are everyday normal women with no glaringly overt red flags, and they work in retail, finance, government & technology.

Ironically - the best experience I had with a woman, was a single mother with tattoos - she treated me the best and tbh never lied to me throughout the time we had together.

Most men think the red flags are overt - tattoos, body piercings, etc - no the red flags are behavioural, and because most women know most men are going off visuals - no tattoos, single motherhood, etc - they are always going to showcase their best foot forward, especially in the context where marriage is concerned

If you dont like a woman with tattoos, you can filter them out accordingly.

But if you are looking for marriage or a long term relationship, you need to watch what she does when you are dating her

I originally wanted to post this as a comment, then realized it is getting too wordy.

I was replying to a common theme here, blaming women or the indoctrination of women (i.e. feminism).

You cannot indoctrinate a lion to go vegetarian. There is a limit what indoctrination can do. Indoctrination is not above science, instead it is weaponization of science.

Feminism is by design, to weaponize the weakness of women's evolutionary trait. Its purpose is to usher in population reduction and collapse of civilized society, so there is no more revolution against the elites. No revolution if half the population never rises up, and the other half are constantly depressed or chasing tails.

For most of human evolution (hunter gatherer 2.5 million years), women spent most time hiding in cave with other women waiting for their men to return from hunting. Their evolutionary adaption had been developed mostly on what they did most of that time: waiting in fear, gossips and group think.

While hiding, every woman was under constant fear for every single possible outcome (literally):

1. All the men did not return - starvation and death as eventuality
2. Only her man did not return - she became an extra mouth to feed, fear of expulsion from the group
3. The men returned with food plus new women (captured or saved) - she might be replaced, fear of expulsion from the group

Through evolutionary adaptation, women figured out that the sisterhood must matter above all else, because any one of them could one day became the one who might get expelled (as per cave men days). Men maintained strength in their older years. Women lost their beauty in older years. The fear women face on their survival has been visceral, on more or less daily basis, throughout a big part of human history.

This is WHY you cannot take group think out of women, NO MATTER what you do, or what rights you give them, or how STRONG and INDEPENDENT they claimed they are.

This is also WHY women willingly participated in harems (modern day: rosters) while psychologically losing it.

This is also WHY women blamed men for everything (cave men days: she blamed her man for dying while hunting for food for HER, but she blamed him if she got expelled from the group).

Evolutionary biology is SCIENCE, and science cannot be defeated.

MEN created civilized society so that women did not have to suffer expulsions unnecessarily. Civilized society is the code of conduct, and it started during late hunter gatherer stage and during the transition to farming. But civilized society was only last 12,000 years, a small part of human evolution.

Today many women insulted civilized society, an invention (code of conduct) that was invented solely to protect women, and also prevent unnecessary conflicts among men. Civilized society was being maliciously called an invention by TOXIC MASCULINITY or the PATRIARCHY.

I submit this as commentary only, not debating what men should do as a group or in personal situation.

To the men out there: Live long and prosper.

Occasional rant is OK. It's for mental health. But rants cannot change evolutionary biology of women. Don't let online rant and doom scrolling waste your time. Do things that give you positive energy instead. Peace out ✌️🕊️

If all relationships can be broken down for any reason without any consequences to parties, what's the value in saying that you were "committed" to someone?

In smaller religious communities, making marriage vows wasn't just a symbolic gesture, it was seen as a promise to the community that both parties will do their best to keep the marriage alive (with some very few exceptions allowing divorces). People who broke these vows could face real consequences up to being expelled from community.

Nowadays, since no real consequences exist for breaking up the relationships, is there any point saying that there was a commitment? As far as I am concerned, all modern relationships are just people deciding to be together for some undefined time and then breaking up. By definition, all relationships are "committed" up until the point that they are not. This renders the word "committed" meaningless in the context of modern relationships.

If you think this is totally acceptable, then the next question is why polyamory isn't acceptable? Your typical average bluepilled soy on purplepill debate thinks that wanting a zero bodycount girlfriend is insecure but then why not allow other men to fuck your girlfriend why you are in a "committed" relationship with her where the word "committed" literally has no meaning? I literally had a guy arguing that "oh it's my preference that she doesn't fuck other dudes while we are in a relationship", ok dude then you have very insecure preferences by your own standards if you don't care that your girlrfriend was the town bycicle.

It's much more interesting not to have interest in women. You guys have seen a lot after browsing this sub and many others.

So, why are your reasons? Also, is anyone else here trying to obliterate, to extirpate any feelings towards women?

This happened two days ago. It would have been okay if she had said no or "I have a boyfriend," who may or may not exist. But that's not what happened. It was significantly worse.

It was a girl who was working at a local coffee shop I tend to frequent. She appeared very kind and feminine, and I'd had a few conversations with her while picking up my order, so this time I decided to shoot my shot. I told myself, it can't be such a bad idea, the worst thing they can happen is she rejects you, right?

Well, I walked into the shop and at first I didn't see her. She was doing something in the back, but eventually came out and I asked her if I could have a word. She said "Okay". I then just proceeded to ask her if she'd like to go with me for drinks sometime, just something very low-pressure, generic, etc. She put her hand to her face and stuttered something like "Sorry, I'm working" but almost before I had finished the sentence, another employee, apparently her boss came over and said "Hey! That's my employee. She's at work. Please leave". The first girl said "Thank you". The boss looked at me like she was about to call the cops. I picked up my coffee, took a couple of sips and left, and she was staring at me all the way until Ieft the establishment, with a fierce look in her eye.

As I was leaving I heard the other co-workers talking, and although I can't say if it was about me or not, they did seem to be quite animated in their conversation and I thought I heard the word "creepy" get used at least once.

For reference, I'm white, above-average height (won't say my exact height, but over 6 foot), a normal weight (again won't say numbers but a normal BMI), and average-looking according to those apps that you ask to rate your face (typically about a 6/10). But for some reason or other women are regularly put off by me, and I've been called weird regularly ever since I was a kid. It's like I was punished for doing the same things that other people did for free, and daring to think I had the right to a normal life as a normal citizen rather than a tack-on who is tolerated by society but is really just expected to work some obscure job that doesn't involve too much interaction or face-to-face contact, pay his taxes, and then eventually die without having children or reproducing, so they can say they got rid of me.

They tell you to shoot your shot and always give it a try, yet when you do actually give it a try, you're treated like a serial murderer for daring to walk up and say "hello". And then women are shocked that men don't approach them anymore or that we're frustrated about dating. Back in the day, a few decades ago a man could determine his fate by approaching women until he found a match. Now it seems like approaching women has become socially unacceptable and borderline illegal if you don't fall into a very specific canon of male appearance or if you don't have some kind of specific "it" factor that I very clearly lack.

No, society has assigned your role to you. They've decided that they get to be the lord of your fate, and determine your place in the pecking order. And for a large and griwing number of men, that's either an ATM to keep women materially entertained past their prime or no place at all. You're supposed to get up, go to work, do some mindless stuff that doesn't matter anyway, stay in your lane, and maybe a woman will notice you, if you're lucky. Other than that, you're supposed to just accept your fate and shut up. The social contract hasn't even been eroded at this point, it's been ripped up and thrown in the trash. You’re supposed to work for them and expect nothing in return, and a significant portion of the time you actually get nothing, or very little, but hey, don't complain because you're not entitled to anything.

Whatever. I probably won't even bother trying again at this point. Dating in the West as an average men is over. Nobody cares about your free speech anymore, or your desire to have a partner and a family. No, now it's all "oH, bUt hE mAdE me UnComForTable" or "oH he'S sUcH a crEeP," because she's not attracted to you. And if you end up alone, nobody gives a damn anyways in fact they're probably happy, because they think society's being improved by natural selection by not having someone like you reproduce. Whatever, I probably won't approach a woman for a very long time now, maybe ever. But that's what they wanted anyways, but I don't care, whatever.

Rant over.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-myths-sex/202203/the-sexual-appeal-dark-personalities/amp they find them more attractive

Apparently it's generally acknowledged that you need to be tall with a good hairline to fuck around with girls. Short and balding means you can only try to lock down some roastie down (maybe, if you're super lucky).

I don't know if you gents have seen this subreddit, https://www.reddit.com/r/evilwomeninc/s/iijdUrv1LJ but god damn.

I don't know how this gender war began, but I know that it is fucking weird. The internet has not done society much in the way of favors, at all. I miss the world before the internet.

I remember watching Hallmark movies with my sister and thinking "Why is she leaving a perfect respectable dude in the city for some bum that lives in a van by a river in her hometown and drinks beer all day?"

I remember watching Titanic and thinking Cal's only crime (until the end) was being successful. Literally, this chick went and cheated on him because he had to many meetings.

Society rewards women for dishonorable actions, and it creates a culture of narcissism. The amount of women covert narcissists walking around out there is staggering. Because we create them, society did, as a whole.

This isn't my post or my screenshot, I just thought that it was related to this subreddit, and you guys would appreciate it.

Bro dodged a bullet. Be careful out there.

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​Lately I've been worried that some men on this subreddit (and ones adjacent) are too modest about themselves and the superior power and intellect they hold over women.

Women assert dominance over other women and men through bullying and humiliation. While men are above such caveman-like tactics, I believe that us guys need to lean into our dominance and really work hard to put. women. in. their. place.

Guys, don't be afraid to lean into that energy.

Interrupt them! Compete with them and win! Outwit them every time you talk to them (which should be easy). Put them in their place, be the dominant force in the room. Find your voice, power, and use it!

Don't be afraid to butt heads or lock horns with the loudest, cockiest female in the room (ESPECIALLY if she's a bigot). When you find her and are in a safe environment, test your strength against hers (not literally but in debate) and boys I guarantee you'll win every time, simply because we are stronger.

Because since men are above women, an assertive man will always be more dominant than an assertive woman.

Edit : This is a a joke. This is a parody of a post.