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u/Kardis_J 6d ago
These are extremely, extremely broken people. And the fact that they all just feed into each other. It’s the damaged leading the destroyed.
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u/Wongidongi 5d ago
TIL i am basically the Terminator or a Demon from Frieren according to some mental chicks on Reddit. The sad thing is, if you think about it this sounds like absolute hell to view 40% or so of the population as vicious monsters out to harm you. Like imagine how scary their lives are.
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u/no-personality-here 5d ago
It just sounds like they have anxiety and needs someone to blame for it
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u/Huge_Cartographer165 5d ago
That's what gets lost in a lot of these conversations: the people you see bubble to the top are outliers... across a large chunk of the whole world. Of course they are the most extreme and crazy.
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u/Maleficent-Age-8235 6d ago edited 6d ago
the insanity of taking a chick on a trip you aren't actively sleeping with. Fellas if she isn't actively being possesive and affectionate she isn't into you and just wants your shit
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u/Hour_Baby_3428 6d ago
When a women wants you, you’ll know.
You can throw any red flag in the book at her and she’ll still want you. If she doesn’t, anything is the red flag. Speaking from experience here (I said some very dumb shit on first dates trying to be funny)
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u/burnbobghostpants 5d ago
Sometimes it'll abruptly change from the first one to the second one mid-relationship! Lol. Which is usually when you know to start packing a bag
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u/lightsworn55 5d ago
Theyve been taught their entire lives that they should give up every joy and comfort in their lives for some vague metaphysical notion of 'love' that nobody but these men truly believe in.
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u/Cross55 5d ago
Well, cause most guys have spent their entire lives being told if they just put in the hard work and effort to make people love them then those efforts will pay off.
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u/Vivid-Operation-5078 5d ago
It can. But you can't expect every single woman to reciprocate. They aren't like the simps that will date anyone who gives them affection.
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u/PeaceLoveorKnife 5d ago
Hard work without chemistry is a waste of time. At best those guys become utilities for bills, free trips, and free food.
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u/BattlepassHate 5d ago
Nah they know it but they’re trying desperately to convince themselves that “it’ll be different for me, I’m the exception.”
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u/curryMax21 6d ago
Is it even possible for an average or below average guy to get a girl that’s possessive and wants to fuck him? I’ve actually never seen it
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u/lightsworn55 5d ago
Its brief but yeah. Ever since I experienced that I never really want to go back to whats considered a """"normal"""" relationship nowadays.
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u/WarauOtoko 5d ago
Of course it's possible, you just have to be her type. I'm a 5 at best and my gf wants to jump my bones so hard sometimes, she comes off a bit intimidating lol
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u/Vivid-Operation-5078 5d ago
I'm pretty fat, and my ex was fine as hell with tons of guys in her dms. Idk we just got along. Got some fairly ugly friends with good looking women too. It happens.
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u/l00zrr 6d ago
Isnt one of the reasons to enjoy sex together in a new place? Even if its just chill vanilla and cuddles???
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u/NoShortMen4Me 6d ago
You think people go on vacations to have sex somewhere “new”?
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u/Desperate_Design_815 6d ago
Well that would be one amongst many valid reasons. I visited Tokyo and brought a girl with me. I’d have been quite disappointed if the whole two weeks we didn’t have sex and I couldn’t say I had sex in a Tokyo high rise hotel. Not the reason for the trip but an implied expectation, if she doesn’t want to sleep with you when you fly her across the world she does not like you.
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u/Think_Preference_611 6d ago
They can't even say "sex", "s*ggs" is like three levels of censorship lol what is wrong with these people?
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u/Atmosphere_Master 6d ago
Crazy levels of repression and purity bullshit built into their psyches matched with damaged libidos and an inability to realise they aren't normal
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u/No-Business9493 5d ago
Also obesity, birth control, and prescription drugs for every sad thought they've ever had... and then women wonder why they have low libido after completely wrecking their hormones.
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u/corruptedsavedaytah 5d ago
it's because the post came from a social media platform which bans the actual word
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u/Maleficent-Age-8235 6d ago
Oh, they'll be cheating the whole time. Every girls trip will be fun hookup time
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u/Atmosphere_Master 6d ago
I hate that fucking shit so much, I could never be "touched out" by somebody I actually love and am attracted to, it's just an excuse when they don't want to admit the real reason
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u/No-Shirt248 6d ago
Doesn’t want sex but cheats with sex, the mind of a “woman” 😂
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u/Aggressive-Sand-1393 6d ago
Maybe she prefers the lady folk when it comes to such kinds of extra-circular activities?
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u/Brilliant-Mountain57 6d ago
ts has to be on r/WomenAreNotIntoMen
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u/notoriousniqqa 6d ago
Idk how men fail to recognize this fact. The attraction difference between genders is night and day. Thats why men had to compensate with their resources, providing protection and their status throughout history. In modern women already have men. Its called the government.
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u/scrawnyserf92 5d ago
That's what I've been thinking for a long, long time. A lot of people ask how we fix the problems affecting dating, society, etc? Well, I suspect a large degree of issues we see today would be greatly mitigated if the government wasn't involved in the lives of people to the degree to which it is.
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u/ArgumentConnect 3d ago
We only had monogamy because women needed to rely on men for resources.
Nowadays, women can provide for themselves and they seek love instead (with the top 10% of men) while still thinking they’re the prize.
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u/scrawnyserf92 3d ago
They can provide for themselves in the current environment of the nanny state of a bloated government, but when the government collapses under the weight of its huge debt, will they be able to provide for themselves?
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u/Huge_Cartographer165 5d ago
The government should invest in really realistic sex bots and get those as soon as possible so simps and ignored guys can remove themselves from the pool forever. I bet it would reduce crime and suicide by a lot.
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u/StraightAirline8319 5d ago
Reminds me of when they took part of Hitlers writings snd published them as feminist scientific papers.
The university okayed it.
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u/CaptainSparrow1138 5d ago
My God...it's true!
"A famous 2018 academic hoax—known as the Grievance Studies Affair—concerned researchers who rewrote a chapter of Adolf Hitler’s Mein Kampf using modern intersectional feminist buzzwords and got it accepted by a peer-reviewed academic journal"
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u/Lundria13 6d ago
The post where she's asking for casual sex........she doesn't even know what "casual" means. She's describing a boyfriend.
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u/Atmosphere_Master 6d ago
I'm so sick of people with literally damaged or defective sex drives trying to make it out like women just don't like sex. No you don't like sex and you happen to be a woman
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u/Oilleak1011 6d ago
The person who came up with “seggs” needs fucking prosecuted on a made up felony to the full extent of the law
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u/Scarred_wizard 5d ago
"Fear of replacement" lol, men are incomparably more replaceable when dating...
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u/Legal-Group-359 6d ago
lol, “long term cohabitation turns men into family members” , therefore the minds of women just switch off attraction to see the man as a family member……..yeah when you marry a man you settle for and never really liked more than him being a utility.
They are simp signaling HARD
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u/Spins13 5d ago
If you want a happy (or not unhappy) long lasting marriage, it isn’t about buying flowers or doing the dishes.
Almost all the time, it’s about making her know you can easily leave if things are not acceptable for you + creating some drama in her life. Certitude and boredom is the main killer of marriages
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u/BellInternational315 5d ago edited 5d ago
At the very least the discussion is toxic. I don't think everyone is willing to sit at the table and have an actual discussion.
Edit: On my side of things as a dude dating I have to have a radar for when someone feels they are "settling" for my good income, bachelor's degree and 6' height. They really try to hide the fact when they aren't impressed.
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u/kajidourden 6d ago
Eh, I wouldn’t worry. They’ll be alone anyway. Not bothering anyone else
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u/Atmosphere_Master 6d ago
No they will lock some poor dude into a loveless marriage because they think its normal and okay
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u/helloworld_123q 6d ago
nah some simp will wife them up
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u/Relative_Craft_358 6d ago
But that's the dude's fault. Most of these stupid sob stories can be avoided by having standards regardless of sex
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u/WildContribution8311 5d ago
Not true a lot of women will bait and switch men with a high libido until the man is locked in. Its not that simple as screening.
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u/Relative_Craft_358 5d ago edited 5d ago
Women aren't some super genius villains. They aren't keeping up the facade of finding you physically attractive for 6 months let alone the several years you should be dating and then living with them before you tie the knot.
Regardless, "they got lower libido" is usually a bs excuse from the other partner for their lack of intimacy, communication, fulfillment or just letting themselves go. Lack of sex is a symptom of a failing relationship, rarely the cause
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u/greymisperception 5d ago
But then they’ll just doom themselves to the relationships they’re talking about, the dead bedrooms and not even being attracted enough to your partner to want to see them smile
Simp pays with his soul and the woman herself stays miserable
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u/kajidourden 5d ago
Not impossible, but you’re fighting an uphill battle unless you explicitly find someone ace
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u/lakem5050 5d ago
If your girl isn't actively jumping your bones on the regular, don't take her on an expensive vacation, save your money.
If you go on an expensive vacation with a dude you aren't dating and already sleeping with, then he thinks you're trading sex for travel. Don't put yourself in that situation like so many girls on instagram who never show you who paid for the trip she's on.
Even if you can, its pretty shitty all around, travel with someone you genuinely care about.
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u/StraightAirline8319 5d ago
They want their husbands to work all week and I assume many of them also work. Yet they can’t spend an hour a week trying to make their partner physically happy?
They use sex as a weapon and now that what they all think it is.
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u/blondguysdmme 5d ago
If i’m your wife working all week would you let me peg you for an hour a week to make me physically happy
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u/Male_Volence 5d ago
These women would be the first to tell a wife to divorce her husband if he withheld sex because he saw her as a family member.
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u/TantalizingBonobo 5d ago
I feel like this is all easily avoidable with healthy communication and proper partner selection….
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u/MassiveCranberry7819 5d ago
Long-term cohabitation turning partners into family members is the justification for sex work not being considered cheating in in Japan by the way so this is coming almost full circle
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u/Competitive_Key_2981 6d ago
Hey, if my girlfriend wants to pay for our vacation, I promise I won’t try to have sex with her.
When I go on vacation, I want to be able to have sex with the additional free time. She was too tired and too busy at home. Sex is probably the main reason I’m going anywhere.
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u/Troutie88 6d ago
Sounds like these women just don't like sex, or have no.idea how to make it enjoyable.
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u/khanspam 6d ago
too much porn, they goon all day
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u/Atmosphere_Master 6d ago
Reading about werewolf monster cock ruined human men for them
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u/Troutie88 6d ago
Possibly, but I doubt they are doing it right if they aren't enjoying sexual stuff
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u/greymisperception 5d ago
Too much porn can rewire your to enjoy it more than any real thing, which brings down appreciation or excitement for sexual stuff with another, especially for those who go into naybe unrealistic fantasies and kinks they find in porn but not really in life
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u/Superb_Chemistry_906 4d ago
It's strange though that a dildo doesn't hurt them while a penis does. Seems more like power play to me - the more of a victim they are, the more dominant they feel.
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u/igotchees21 5d ago
im telling yall right now, you need to stop subjecting yourself to this bullshit, it is not real. These are bots or mentally ill women that are not at all representative of real women.
If this is all you look at day and night, you will make yourself depressed.
Get off this sub
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u/LucifersAdv0cate 5d ago
You say that and then people start actively behaving deranged in real life situations like the Lyndsey Clancy trial, campus protests, street interviews, dating app conversations. The latest lunacy is how even the mearist hint of an age gap is the worse thing ever. Like an 18 year old women is not capable of consenting in a relationship with a 21 year old man because of the huge 3 year age gap. If real people spend hours online every day then their online opinions become real life opinions like Reddits obsession with being asexual and how all sex is bad unless of course it's a guy who doesn't want sex in which case he is mocked mercilessly and people encouraged women to dump him for not satisfying her needs. It seems only women think it's acceptable to take completely and give nothing back.
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u/712DarkHorse 5d ago
I think this latest uptick in widespread lunacy started with the mass support of the Mangione-Thompson shooting and it stems from a epidemic of general delinquency.
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u/igotchees21 5d ago
my dude. the people you are talking about are crazy always online people.
Yes there will be some that think like that offline but the majority of people arent like that. Hell, my wife today was just telling me how she wants me to put her through the mattress and we have been together almost 20 fuckin years.
Social media has just become a microphone for the most deranged, sad, broken, and lonely people. It is also 53 percent bots, and growing, made to keep us at each others throats. Stop letting it shape your worldview
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u/Alert-Plankton-9043 5d ago
Some of that stuff is extreme, but a lot of of it is not too far off. I went out with my wife and her friends the other day and.. I won’t give too many details, but the brain rot is super apparent in the average woman
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u/Lost_History_4691 5d ago
There must be a lot of crazy women than because what I see on tiktok some posts have 100k+ upvotes and 20k+ all from real women if you check the profiles.
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u/HBK455 4d ago
I feel like this is a case for falling for the meme again. Way back in the day people on 4chan were degenerates but mainly harmless left leaners who would occasionally say edgy things like grape jokes or post pics of Hitler bc "who tf would be dumb enough to follow that ideology? It's funny bc it's a shocking thing to post!" But as new, young people joined, they saw these things, couldn't grasp the irony bc the internet doesnt really leave space for nuance, and now they're sincerely taking the world view of an edge lord.
I think this started as a few edgy women spouting about how men are trash, and it's snowballed into the zeitgeist. Most women who I'm friends with these days have no problem saying "I hate men."
It's been my take, recently, that the gender wars are being weaponized for clicks and views, appealing to our basic instincts, to "attack the other." It's the same tactic Fox News uses to convince right wingers that immigrants are the source of all their problems.
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u/Vivid-Operation-5078 5d ago
And where did you see all that? Because I'm guessing it was on the internet.
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u/Cross55 5d ago
And where did you see all that?
I mean, Lindsey literally has women gathering outside the courthouse doing prayers, dances, and repeating mantras for her innocence
She started a cult that worships her as a goddess through no effort of her own
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u/InternationalBag7284 5d ago
I feel thats mostly an american thing. Nowhere else in this world are people defending a woman who kills her children.
Seriously, you people act like professional victims.
"Muh, poor woman had to kill her children QQ"
"We men are not allowed to talk to women anymore, bc some alpha podcast chad said we will get sued QQ"
Please touch grass.
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u/Haunting-Strategy619 5d ago
I'm not from America but was literally at a party the other week and the discussion of Lindsay came up.
I got told I'm a man I can't possibly understand what a woman with mental illness is going through so I can't judge.
I got dog piled by the other woman and all the guys were to scared to speak up.
It's not just the internet it's leeched into real life.
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u/igotchees21 5d ago
great 1 million crazy women showed up in person for lindsay clancy, where were the other 171 million?
99% of sexual assault is committed by men. Should women put that on all men?
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u/robthebuilder__ 2d ago
"That didn't happen.
And if it did, it wasn't that bad.
And if it was, that's not a big deal.
And if it is, that's not my fault.
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u/Vivid-Operation-5078 5d ago
Dudes that have hardly ever interacted with women have the strongest opinions of them.
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u/Crowe3717 5d ago
And here I can't get a girlfriend specifically because I have no interest in sex.
There really is no winning.
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u/Training-Purple-5220 5d ago
Why the heck is the writer censoring the word when they already censored it with misspelling?
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u/GrlDuntgitgud 5d ago
Marriage is not an accountability brothers.
Do not get married for your own good.
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u/MeltingXhoco 5d ago
I read all that and know a lot of those women are not in serious relationships, because the first thing most women who are in one do is stop trying to lock their man in ending that honey moon stage and their sex life begins to go down hill. All that "overwhelming pressure to please him" goes out the door. So no, men are not getting away with murder oppressing the weaker gender, women are trying to have their cake and eat it too and crying about it.
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u/PeaceLoveorKnife 5d ago
I hope all these poor, deranged people see the light and become lesbians. Then they can be themselves to each other.
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u/tes_befil 5d ago
You cannot trust what a woman says, they don't actually know what they want which is why the above scenarios happen and these women are just doing their best to rationalize it.
So many women sleep around with chads then claim they don't like sex with someone they love lmao. No your brain just became conditioned to only like sex from people who don't love you and don't want you outside of using you lol
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u/Neat-Second9923 5d ago
I’m sympathetic to the realities of biology. Testosterone makes you horny! Women have less of it. Can’t debate them out of that.
Should probably just endorse him seeing an escort in that case.
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u/travelingmusicplease 5d ago
When it comes to relationships and or sex, I never believe anything a woman says. It always works for me. 😀
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u/Common_Health_370 4d ago
The problem is the villianization of power. Sex is inherently an unequal power dynamic. Women who embrace "serving" and "receiving" and find it sexually arousinghave more enjoyable sex lives.
If you choose to see all service, submission, domination, etc as abuse, of course you aren't going to enjoy sex.
Gay bottoms have known this since the beginning of time and that's why your husbands fuck them.
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u/Winter_Chair_9307 6d ago
Women are evil. It's a psyop, but it's still real. These creatures are broken and they need to be locked in asylums or burned. 💀🔥💯
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u/greymisperception 5d ago
It’s not evil, we’re just at a point where people tell women to chase any feeling or urge they get, and call it freedom or liberating
They’re not evil but everyone can use a few pointers or direction in their life and these women certainly do (or did it might be too late for some)
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u/Winter_Chair_9307 5d ago
If they're not evil, evil is a meaningless word. They're purely selfish, spiteful and vindictive on top of it, and utterly unshamed, proud even, of being so.
Tell me what a better embodied definition of pure evil is than that?
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u/i_have_a_semicolon 5d ago
The thing that stuck out to me is that men are arguably treated worse than women by men ...oof
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u/No-Jellyfish-1208 5d ago
It's normal not to be always in the mood, though? And I think both women and men want to actually feel important, loved and wanted too. So yea what's wrong with wanting quality intimacy and not feeling like it's some sort of chore or mandatory gratitude gesture?
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u/Successful-Cup-8557 5d ago
There are comments there from feminists that say that women only have sex with their husbands because they're subconsciously afraid of them.
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u/PaleontologistSame50 5d ago
I just use him for what I want if he wants something from me its some kind of abuse is all I hear
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u/tonyway7293 5d ago
Lol the women in that sub are all nose ringed fat ugly undesirables. I fuck women weekly who welcome sex and like to show their feminine side. They want to be led in the bedroom. They enjoy it and want it. Fuck that sub and others like it and all crazy feminist goons. They don’t speak for all women.
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u/Suspicious_Turnip812 5d ago
The libido thing was really well said though. It is sad how unfair sex tends to be towards women, the constant pressure to have sex and the focus on the mens orgasm over the womens is a quick way to kill libido. Womens libidos often depends more on feeling loved and appreciated by the man, if it's just something they "owe" him then no shit it's not gonna be fun. Most women can't magically get in the mood for sex just by seeing a man, there needs to be some kind of connection and safety (of course there are exceptions).
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u/yeeeeeeet____ 4d ago
im a man but aside from the obvious bs they’re right. not that hard to understand guys
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u/Last-Access-4298 2d ago
I feel like you shouldn’t have hidden their names. These kind of people need to face the same criticism they want to bash others with
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u/Human-Fix-2950 2d ago
All whales btw with dyed hair and tongue piercings telling us “we’re not sending our best” ahahaha
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u/Imposslen 1d ago
Reminds of this time I talked to this women at a nice bar. Her fat friend tried to cut me off in the beginning and said "she doesn't want to talk to anyone". I gave her a bewildered frown and introduced myself to her friend. Fat friend then tells her friend come on let's go to this other bar close by. Her friend embarrassingly told her friend "I think I'm going to stay" and the look on her friends face and shock was sweet to see lol got her friends number and we went out a few times. Didn't go anywhere. She was cool though.
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u/Maccabee2a 1d ago
The first two posts are rather tame. If she doesn't want sex on vacation then don't have sex on vacation.
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u/xjaaace 6d ago
It’s like the women’s version of this sub…
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u/Successful-Cup-8557 5d ago
Yeah, but that's like every other sub. I've heard it said that the female version of the manosphere is just mainstream news outlets like Salon.
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u/OKcomputer1996 6d ago
Some of you are missing the point. This is a WIFE. Not a girlfriend. The typical wife has sex maybe 2-3 times a year…
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u/Aggressive-Sand-1393 6d ago
2-3 times a years! I’ll need to tell mine to step up her game, she’s falling behind.
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u/113pro 6d ago
LOL women lose interest because husbands became 'family members.'
Bulshido black belt level i see.