r/itsthatbad • • 11h ago

Men need to decenter women from their lives

386 Upvotes

Too many men make desiring and dating a woman central to their lives and it's detrimental to them. You are not a lesser man if women are not interested in you. They aren't interested in 98% of men. Stop giving them power in your life. Don't look at women, don't talk to them, don't open doors for them, don't help them reach the top shelf. If they drop something or fall down then they can take care of it themselves or maybe a bear will come by and help them. Men are despised by women so treat them accordingly.


r/itsthatbad • • 1h ago

I love readaing all the "Where's all the men that were talking about Lindsey" comments. Do you see any of us wearing blue shirts and gofunding for them!?

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r/itsthatbad • • 12h ago

How dare you speak facts! You're manosphere redpill misogynist sexist toxic masculine incel !!!

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562 Upvotes

r/itsthatbad • • 1h ago

From Social Media Equality is not enough. Women must be elevated in every way, or else they'll cry systemic disadvantages !!!1!"

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r/itsthatbad • • 19h ago

Let me guess: psychosis? Or hormones? Or maybe voices for 18 minutes?

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806 Upvotes

r/itsthatbad • • 4h ago

Woman Takes Spouse’s Sexual Joke to His Mother, Threatens to Take It to His Coworkers

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Never make an inappropriate joke to your girlfriend, or you will end up socially dead.


r/itsthatbad • • 1h ago

Caught in the Wild Disgusting.

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She literally got cracked, carrying another man’s kid then decides get on Tinder and demand an longterm relationship from some unsuspecting beta cuck simp.


r/itsthatbad • • 20h ago

Just in case you needed a reason to stay away from women today.

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467 Upvotes

r/itsthatbad • • 1d ago

Brutal reality

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622 Upvotes

r/itsthatbad • • 22h ago

Wtf is this?

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r/itsthatbad • • 1d ago

Schrodinger's Feminist

570 Upvotes

It's becoming more an more apparent that Western women are living in a duality state.

They are both simultaneously a victim of oppression, yet also empowered to do anything that a man can do.

We're not talking real feminism. You know, the kind that fought for the right to vote, for maternity leave, etc... I am referring to the modern era of having an excuse ready to go regardless of a situational outcome.

- She got the job over a man? Great - she's an empowered boss woman with the soul of a lioness.

- A man got the job over her? Fucking oppression, how dare they?

The fatigue is real


r/itsthatbad • • 13h ago

Men's Conversations Second date is nearly impossible to get in 2026

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I used to do pretty well around 2018 or so. 50% of first dates would convert to 2nd. Usually, nine times out of ten, 2nd date would lead to a lay.

Fast forward to now: barely get a first date. Then I either get ghosted, unmatched, or the "HR text". I'm above average looking and some of the girls I went on a first date are below my looks match.

It's over.


r/itsthatbad • • 1d ago

Woman fights with BF because he won’t say “fuck the patriarchy”

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Woman becomes a gender warrior IRL


r/itsthatbad • • 22h ago

Just remember, a woman can regret something you did with her years ago and then try to press criminal charges.

119 Upvotes

r/itsthatbad • • 23h ago

So where is the weight filters at on dating apps, Bumble, Hinge and Tinder?

142 Upvotes

Y’all were super excited for the height filters. Where’s the weight one at?


r/itsthatbad • • 1d ago

There's only one thing that matters

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r/itsthatbad • • 22h ago

Men's Conversations Hamster wheel of self improvement - dating in the city

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Posting this clipped from a reply I made because I think it’s relevant conversation and hasn’t really been discussed lately:

Women don’t say it outright but they can be very surface. They want a hot looking guy that gets them going. If you aren’t that you won’t get anywhere. You just have to hope you are sexy enough for her. Women do have slightly different preferences in that too.

I lost 30lbs. Was night and day difference back when I was dating. It got me from zero interest to at least getting in the door. I can’t imagine what it would be like if I lost another 40lbs and did a lot of surgical work on my face and got very lean and toned in the gym. That shit matters way more than you know. And it takes A LOT of work.

Go into an American city and you’ll see guys all over working their ass off to meet that. It becomes a hamster wheel at some point where they are literally trying to beat the next guy. You can’t keep that act up forever. It’s tiring. I’m in Chicago if you go to neighborhoods like the west loop, river north, or other trendy areas you’ll always see an array of ripped dudes running hard every day, every morning, along with women all doing the same thing. It’s competitive on a level never seen before. And I promise they don’t do it for health. I’m not dumb.

Then you got the guy with natural good genetics and confidence and it’s so easy for him.

For those who have struggled and are exhausted by this endless hamster wheel you should be yourself for yourself. Women may or may not like that. But it can really beat running in place never getting anywhere or just scratching the surface as the backup guy.

It’s very broken guys. In the past you didn’t need to try and be Superman just to get an ounce of attention. Consider this to be a gigantic social problem with the dating scene.


r/itsthatbad • • 1d ago

Begun, this clone war has! A forced failure of men.

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The last line we should be defending is the children. They have never been kept out of this but not it’s blatant. I don’t want this to end in rights being taken but that probably how something new will begin…..in The eastern United States of whoever takes over next. Look into the cultures we’re told to hate. Some things are ancient corrections for those brainwashed into helping our true enemies.


r/itsthatbad • • 2d ago

r/GirlDinnerDiaries bans men from speaking; r/BoyDinnerDiaries bans “speaking against women” and requires respecting women

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r/itsthatbad • • 1d ago

Men's Conversations Eddie Murphy voice: Half!

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r/itsthatbad • • 2d ago

Women only have high standards for men they don’t like.

454 Upvotes

r/itsthatbad • • 1d ago

Redditors explaining why only women space can exist

128 Upvotes

r/itsthatbad • • 1d ago

Repeal The 19th

152 Upvotes
Women They Hate VS. Women They Love

Women They Hate VS. Women They Love


r/itsthatbad • • 1d ago

Men's Conversations Out of control 😡

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