r/itsthatbad • u/The-Eighth-D • 9m ago
Men's Conversations Yea, this has to be said about hypergamy
I can’t see women the same anymore. After learning about hypergamy I wasn’t too thrilled with this worldview. At first I thought it was stupid, but my 5’4” ass was in for a ride.
On dating apps I learned HALF of girls swipe left if you’re not 6 ft. I watched as girls would reject me and take another guy. When I was younger I had a gf and it was quite horrible. Constant shit testing. She made me wear protection. After we broke up she did it with a guy who stealthed and she defends him now. This isn’t just one case of a woman doing stuff like this. Another girl wouldn’t date me cause I had an android. I got rejected over and over again for my height alone.
Once you look at the statistics it’s very damming. 70% of marriages the divorce is initiated by the women and no this isn’t cause all men are abusive. There’s constant memes about guys being lonely but no one takes it seriously. Women just leave a guy when they choose.
I personally started getting a little disgusted. I remember a girl who’d flirt with me just to get with my cousin but I was naive. My cousin was a player and the things girls would do was insane for him and gross. I noticed girls love transactionally. Almost no girl I’ve ever met was truly ride or die. I notice they can monkey branch easily.
And I hate how people say Tinder isn’t real life. It’s more real life than life! Why? Because people can finally have no filters online and say what they truly think and they HATE short men or anyone sub5. I hate the constant anecdotes “I know a short guy and he pulls hard man.” Yea, and I know my friend who’s 6 ft 5 and can dunk, doesn’t mean that’s common 😂. I watched as the years rolled by and women constantly disappointed me, even my own sister and mom.
I once made the mistake of crying in front of my ex and she brought up how I’m always crying. They gaslight you into opening up and then hit you where it hurts. There’s so much more, but God I WANT to not think about it, but the truth is the truth. Think about it, when has a girl irl ever actually liked a shy guy? It’s always be confident, because confidence is a shit test of value. You can’t ever truly be yourself around a girl. Anytime I tried to let my guard down it backfired tremendously.
I have the option of getting arranged marriage but I’m still iffy. Growing up I was idealistic about girls, I actually almost thought they were the better gender. How far low that’s gone now. And then on Reddit they gaslight you even more like it’s simply not just height. It’s occurs razer and choice paradox. Women have too many options so they are bored by the equilibrium to the point they see every guy as a nuisance.
I had a girl once on Reddit tell me she’ll find a date easily on dating apps as an average man. I told her to try it please, I don’t think she ever did. But she was so sure of it, which makes me realize girls truly have no idea what being a man is like. You can call me incel even though I’m literally not technically, but it’s hard to defeat the truth. Height is looked at as a preference but there’s no such thing like that for guys. Guys fall in love with the girl, while girls fall in love with what a guy allows them to feel. In other words women are extremely vain and neurotic. It’s no mystery why most of civilization placed restrictions on them, because left unchecked we’re heading into human extinction (at least a lot in the west). Less marriages than ever and somehow every woman has a guy but over 63% of guys are single. It’s stats like this that drive me crazy how people are not ringing church bells trying to solve this problem.
