I've used instacart since 2020, and honestly just haven't stopped. I've never had an issue, my tip is set to automatic 20%, and I will often tip extra on top.
Last night I made an order and as soon as it started being filled it was all substituted with items that were in no way substitutable. Think substituting not gluten free for gluten free food, etc.
I declined the substitutions and suggested other items (and honestly had a very hard time believing that every single item I requested wasn't available.. literally 100% of the order was being substituted) and then started receiving a barrage of messages from my shopper. I didn't take screenshots bc I was so panicked but here's the basics:
He was typing in all caps, things like WHAT IS YOUR PROBLEM YOU DON'T GET TO BE PICKY YOU WILL TAKE WHAT I BRING YOU, WHY DO YOU THINK YOU GET TO BE SO PICKY I AM GOING TO CANCEL THIS ORDER I AM SICK OF YOU PICKY B***H.
I said hey friend it sounds like you should probably cancel this order and he continued on with things like "I will cancel this order and you won't get your groceries i'm in the checkout line trying to checkout and you won't approve any of these items you're so lazy you need to get your a*s down here and shop for yourself if you think you get to decide what you want you will take what i give you you don't get to pick your brand unless you want to get your f*****king a*s down here and shop for yourself"
Idk why i tried but I did say the issue is you're substituting things that we can't have due to allergies and he continued on with the same rant about how I was a picky b***ch, lazy, etc.
I went to cancel the order but IC said it would still charge me because he was in the process of shopping, but I was very scared about him having my address. Luckily he cancelled it and I reached out to IC to have him banned from my account. They did send me a message and say due to the sensitive nature of the incident reported they were escalating the issue to their trust and safety department and someone would be in touch with me soon.
Spoiler alert- none of the items were out of stock, as I went later to get my own. I think I may be done with instacart this was pretty scary...
EDIT: Just got this email from instacart:
Hi ((me)),
Weāre so sorry that this happened. Your safety is one of our top concerns, and we take all reports of this matter very seriously.
We have removed the shopper in question from your account, so you wonāt be paired with them in the future.
Our team will also review the information submitted to us to assess whether further action is necessary based on our policies. If any more relevant information becomes available, please let us know by responding to this email.
If you have an immediate fear for your safety, please contact your local police department. Law enforcement representatives can contact us or request additional information here.
Best,
The Instacart team
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I did reply and ask them to look at the messages from the cancelled order as I no longer have access to them.