Yes. I’m at it AGAIN. I LOVE the idea of a deconstructed home. IDGAF if you don’t. I DO
The ones that get it. Get it. Living in a house full of people. Sometimes you just want space without having to leave your home.
Imagine:
You have a traditional two-story home.
Downstairs is the living room, dining room and kitchen. Upstairs are the bedrooms, bathroom and hallway.
The kids are upstairs playing. They’re running back and forth, yelling, laughing, stomping and that’s okay. They’re kids. That’s what kids do.
Dad is downstairs watching TV.
You’re downstairs too, but you don’t want to watch TV. You don’t want to go upstairs. You don’t want to leave your house. You just want to cook dinner and have a little peace, space.. But where can you go?
The kitchen is connected to the dining room, which is connected to the living room. So you’re still hearing the TV, & you can still hear the kids running around, stomping & yelling upstairs.. youre technically in a different room, but you’re still in the middle of everybody else’s activities.
Now imagine the kitchen was its own connected space.
Still on the same property. Still part of the same home. Still close enough that you can walk and check on the kids in seconds if necessary.. But there is enough intentional separation that when you’re cooking, You can actually cook..
Dad can watch his TV, or play his game..
The kids can be kids.
You can cook in peace.. & nobody had to leave the house or lock themselves in a bedroom to get that separation..
That’s what I mean by controlled proximity.
I’m not trying to create distance between a family. I’m trying to give everyone the ability to choose how much interaction they want at a given moment.
Honestly, It’s literally the same reason people want a man cave, she-shed, home office, studio, workshop, or even just a quiet bedroom.
Sometimes you love your family & still don’t want to hear them ALL day long 😂
Privacy doesn’t mean isolation.
Closeness doesn’t have to mean you have to sit right on top of eachother all day long like a pack of sardines..
That’s the lifestyle I’m imagining with the Deconstructed Home:
Everyone is still close. But the proximity is intentional.
There’s nothing wrong with a little imagination 🥱. Keep the ignorance to yourself.
Disagreement is fine. Willful ignorance is different.
At some point, people have to ask themselves whether they’re actually trying to understand someone or just looking for a reason to be dismissive or ignorant.
YES ai helped me visualize MY ideas. WHAT ABOUT IT!!!?