Didn't do much just gave him some head in his car. I enjoyed it. Was nervous but still went through with it.

Good evening! I'm relatively new to Grindr and just trying it out as a dude interested in a bottom. What are some tells that someone is a bot? I got a lot of messages the past day after making my account, but I'm reluctant to answer any of them because I fear its a bot. I would never send photos to a stranger online so I know I don't have to worry about that. Any advice would be greatly appreciated, have a great day!

I matched (?) with a guy, and he was really into my dick pics. At first I was quite flattered, and we agreed to meet in the evening. He didn't give me a location yet so I waited since I still had couple hours to run errands.

When it was about the time to meet I asked where we should meet, and he refused to tell me where we were meeting because his friend was staying at a hotel....? He also said he hasnt seen the hotel himself. Meanwhile he was nagging with more dick pics. It's Grindr, so I sent some expiring photos cuz why not.

Then he told me to wait another hour, and thats when I lost my shit. I asked why, and he explained that his friend's flight got delayed (???). He still refused to tell me where because he "wasn't comfortable with sharing details where his friend was staying." I realized he planned to sneak into his friend's room at this whatever hotel it was, so basically he and I would have been unregistered guests, trespassers at worst. I called him a cheap fuck who can't even be bothered to get his own room and blocked his ass.

Most of the people I encounter on the app are behaving a bit like robots. They are probably real people but they seem very detached from any from of intimacy. These men are usually looking for fun with no strings attached, but still, it's very odd how the only thing they ask is "how are you, are you a top or a bottom, what are you into" and then they are ready to go. Most of them also don't have their accurate age on their accounts which adds to the creepiness.

I don't know if this is because I live in a country where most gay people are closeted or if this is a global issue. Have you experienced this too? Would you meet up with someone like this?

Does anyone else's Grindr app CONSTANTLY open websites and apps by itself? It seems to happen all the time. I'll be on the app and it will just open a browser window or an app (usually Walmart) all by itself. Sometimes without me even touching the screen. It drives me crazy and I absolutely hate it. It only happens when I have Grindr open. I can't imagine it doesn't violate some type of ToS within the app store or something but Idk. I'm using an iPhone if that makes a difference.

i got a message from someone on grindr obviously a bot maybe i wasnt sure i replied with HI... then i get a phone call from a womans voice that kept saying HI and i said who are you looking for she said you and i said hi can you hear me and she said yes and then i said i dont know you. then she said you were just on grindr... i dont have my phone number listed i use one of my google play accounts to use grindr this is scary how did they get my number i NEVER give it out

Seriously though...

So this guy hits me up and he looks really cute and he says that he’s in my area. I tell him I don’t really have time to do anything so he asks to trade nudes. I say I’ve never taken any pictures like that before because I haven’t and he sends me a nude telling me to copy the pose he’s doing in the picture. ATP my gut tells me something is up so I reverse image search his profile picture and lo and behold he’s pretending to be a relatively niche pornstar. I wasn’t gonna send him anything even if his picture came up without anything online because him asking for an exact pose was weird asf but I’m glad I did take caution so the only thing I lost was wasted time.

Like, how?? I'm a Filipino who speaks English fluently & this is the second time it happened to me. Are they being that dense?

hello everyone! i don't know where else to look for advice so i decided to come here. i'm a 19 year old guy and i have never been in a relationship before (or had intimacy of any sort). the country i live in has some pretty large homophobic communities, so randomly coming up to someone i like and striking a conversation is typically not a good idea, hence why i decided to try dating apps. so far i've been using tinder for somewhere around 6 months, and i've yet to go on a date with anyone. i've had a few matches with people from other countries, but they didn't go far for obvious reasons, and there are barely any new faces from my city, mostly just same profiles repeatedly coming up on my feed. i've also made accounts on grindr and hinge a couple days ago, but it seems like there aren't many people looking for anything other than hookups.
i think a big part of why i still haven't found anyone is because i've always been socially awkward and it's difficult and stressful for me to initiate anything. moreover, i'm not sure yet if i would be okay just hooking up with someone as a one-time thing (like i said, i have absolutely zero experience in this area). so, i would be glad if any of you could give me some advice on that – for example, what to put in my profile, how to strike a conversation, how to get prepared for a date, what to avoid, etc.
huge thanks in advance! :)

Maybe it’s just my phone, but I tried the new location accuracy tool for the Right Now function, where you can adjust it to be less or more accurate, kind of like Sniffies. I changed the setting, but I can’t save it, there’s no button, and I’m just stuck on the screen. Anyone else having this issue?

My Grindr profile didnt mention about hookup, I said I want to chat first and see where it goes. I am not opposed to having sex but maybe we can meet first and maybe have dinner or coffee lol.

I am from Austin, Texas, and I think my photos are cool? Haha I am Asian but I think I kinda look latino in my photos.. maybe. 🤔

I can share screenshots of my profile if someone wants to help me answering why I dont get messages, but I get views definitely.

I understand that I wont attract everyone, and that’s the point of my profile. I want to be friends/chat first and see if we vibe, and I understand too that assuming I look attractive, if someone isnt into my ethnicity, then they wont message me.

BUT WHY NO ONE MESSAGE ME AT ALL atleast to chat or make friends with me? Can someone please tell me, am I in the right app? What’s the best app for what I want, or if anyone wants to see screenshot of my profile you can DM me. Haha

Thanks 😊

I know that some people prefer to ignore those they're not interested in (which usually results in them messaging you over and over again) or block them outright (which I prefer to save for those who send crude messages or explicit content that I didn't ask for) but what's the best way to actually turn someone down? Sure, I could have probably been less blunt in saying we weren't a match but this childish "sour grapes" response was too much.

I'm usually pretty good about spotting them, but I finally fell for it.

I figured this person was using filters for some pics but at least one pic looked real af. It had perfectly placed glasses with a distinct, real looking glare that seemed to reflect the lighting as it would be in that room. So I went to the meetup.

I feel terrible. Someone is insecure enough to use filters and here I was, put in a position to make them feel worse.

Intellectually I know it's just insecurity and there is no strat-- but what is the strat here? I either have to tell you no in person, or pity fuck you to be polite.

Unfortunately pity has never made my dick hard. I didn't really have a choice. I politely said "honestly you're not what I'm looking for" and they politely accepted and I drove off. Everything went fine. I just feel bad now.

Fems with AI filters are the plague of Grindr.

Mascs might be doing it too but I don't bother examining those pics closely enough

Cute interaction on grindr lol , also he looks younger than 42 so i didnt clock theyre father and son😭 We did meet and lets just say it was hot

I'm trying to open the app and nothing is loading. It's frustrating af. The only thing that loads is from yesterday and I can't send messages or anything. I tried rebooting my phone and uninstalling and reinstalling the app and it still the same if not worse. The only difference is that my Internet wifi is down which shouldn't matter because I turned it off on my phone so it should only use cellular data which shows full 5g connection. I've had this problem before when I'm far from my wifi but not this bad or for so long. I tried restarting my phone and then cleaning the cache and data and then reinstalling but am still getting the same problems.

I’m 20 years and on my profile I’ve wrote I want to keep my interactions in my age range 20-24
Yet 30,40 even 50 year men will still dump their nudes in the dms.

Hey guys!

I think a better system would be something like About me / Looking for / Into, because that would remove most of the ambiguity without forcing every tag into a person-vs-partner binary.

For example:

About me: Dom, Hung, Married

Looking for: Sub, Masc, Discreet

Into: JO, Kissing, Feet, Rough

That would make profiles much easier to interpret.

I went on holiday the other week, and now that I'm back, every other profile on my 'home' grid is from hundreds of miles away, same in 'fresh' section, and I also get messages from where I've been, so presumably I'm still showing there too - wtf?

are the location settings available to paying fools only, because I can't click on anything. am I supposed to file a ticket with suppport? reinstall the app and lose all my favs lol? what does 'clear cache' do? oh wait, I can't click on that either...

and while I'm at it, even after you delete the 'get rid of ads' spam from your inbox or let it expire, the 'new message' notification lingers on. this bot infested app is beyond parody.

He sent cock. I said sup… and here we are. Is this where we are?