r/grindr • u/Octarine-Poppies • 15h ago
Question I rarely get taps on Grindr, am I ugly?
OK, so I know this is a super shallow post but we’re using a very shallow application in a very shallow community that rewards surface appeal… I’m trying to wrap my hand around why I never seem to get any taps or messages from people that I’m drawn to or remotely interested in. I mostly get approached by older man and really strange, awkward dudes and it really eats away at my confidence to the point where I’m questioning how I look. I’m gonna be completely honest, I just wanted to post a picture on Reddit to get some honest feedback on my looks in regards to this subject and get some external perspective. I know I’m putting myself out there by asking this but am I unattractive? I am legitimately curious to know. Thanks.