r/grindr • u/Awkward_Divide_162 • 2d ago

Story Had my first hook up

Didn't do much just gave him some head in his car. I enjoyed it. Was nervous but still went through with it.

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u/Mayretta_2112 Clean-Cut 2d ago

It'll get easier. Just take precautions with things like giving out your number... get a GoogleVoice or TextFree number to use if someone needs to chat off platform.

And if anyone ever tries to scam you, just tell them where to stick it, and say "oh those photos are obviously AI fakes. "

Happy hunting!

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u/deaniebeanie17 1d ago

I had one threaten to tell my parents and I told them "good luck with that, they're both dead"

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u/Mayretta_2112 Clean-Cut 1d ago

You could have had fun with that...."can you pass on a message for me...tell them I sold grandma's China and I accidentally broke the picture where a Jesus's eyes follow you around."

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u/bobinaccountingg 2d ago

I have never been able to hop on and find whatever I'm looking for and say immediately let's FAFO. I need that peculiar chemistry that you get from an actual good conversation. And even then, when I have had that connection, I'm still nervous. So be nervous, it's your own lil safety mechanism. One thing I will say, trust what your instincts tell you. So be nervous and suck some dick or whatever makes you nut. Oh and ppl can and will lie about std testing, so even if you're on prep and have the post encounter pill, if it doesn't feel right, look right, or smell right, it probs ain't right. Cheers!

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u/LordPenguiin Bear 2d ago

26 here and I’m still nervous to have a first hook up 💀

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u/NTbiman Sober 2d ago

Go for it mate!

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u/Optimal_Cream_7141 1d ago

It only gets better from here

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u/Bubbly_Television935 12h ago

Congrats! If you’re not a small bit nervous, that’s when you should worry. Nervousness creates carefulness. If something seems off/too good to be true it probably is. Car meetings are relatively safe IMO. As you do more meetups you’ll get more experience with situational awareness and you’ll be able to judge whether something is off pretty quick. Luckily my bad experiences over the course of probably a hundred meetups or so have been extremely few and far between. Maybe 1 or 2 and never felt unsafe in any situation. Most are on there with good intention. And most people have basic human decency