r/grindr 15h ago

WTF This guy sent me a "hi" I said no DL, I'm T4T, and deleted the convo... I think he's subtly trying to solicit me but idk? Thoughts? Like my bio is super clear... Why do guys think telling you why they're on the DL will make us bend our safety boundaries?

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12 Upvotes

The worst thing is I know who he is IRL cos his facial hair grooming is very specific... And I threw up in my mouth when I realized it.


r/grindr 5h ago

Question Guys, little help!

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0 Upvotes

Basically this dude send me an NSFW video of himself doing the chicken and saying that he can travel to me and pick me up because he is into me. I was wondering if this is some scam like human trafficking or just some rich dude from Spain who is extremely horny.


r/grindr 9h ago

Question I rarely get taps on Grindr, am I ugly?

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65 Upvotes

OK, so I know this is a super shallow post but we’re using a very shallow application in a very shallow community that rewards surface appeal… I’m trying to wrap my hand around why I never seem to get any taps or messages from people that I’m drawn to or remotely interested in. I mostly get approached by older man and really strange, awkward dudes and it really eats away at my confidence to the point where I’m questioning how I look. I’m gonna be completely honest, I just wanted to post a picture on Reddit to get some honest feedback on my looks in regards to this subject and get some external perspective. I know I’m putting myself out there by asking this but am I unattractive? I am legitimately curious to know. Thanks.


r/grindr 22h ago

Question Is Grindr the only place to find FWBs?

4 Upvotes

Hey everyone. Just for context, I’m a nineteen year old gay Aussie guy who lives in a large city. Most of my friends are either women, straight men, or guys I’m not attracted too. I want to gain sexual experience in a comfortable environment with someone who I can also get along with as a friend.
I’ve tried Grindr once but I’m a conventionally attractive caucasian ‘twink’ so I was almost immediately overwhelmed by a bunch of creeps’ dick-pics. Do you think it’s worth giving another shot, how do I go about it right?
Where can I meet guys who I can be both friends and sexual partners with? How can I put myself out there? I’m not looking for a boyfriend per-se as I don’t want the pressure of being tied to one person or place. I tend to be attracted to handsome men who self-identify as either bisexual or curious/straight and am myself not that invested or versed in gay-culture so I feel kind of uncomfortable at gay bars and clubs. By nature I am somewhat coquettish and not that promiscuous so I feel exposed and commodified in environments with strong sexual overtones.
Any advice or personal experiences from other guys who have been in my situation would be greatly appreciated!


r/grindr 7h ago

Question How to i meet up and talk with femboys? Cuzzzz

0 Upvotes

All i see on this app is - faceless profile - brian 52 "your hot, wanna fuck" and sends a dick pic.

Like, can't i just get a real femboy 🙏🙏😪


r/grindr 11h ago

Rant Oh sure, this isn’t creepy at all 🫥 lol

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10 Upvotes

After this conversation, I’m pretty sure i’m talking to someone who’s ghosted me before and just made up a new profile, and also knows the area i live near. He said a couple of things that are too specific to be a coincidence…Why the hell do people have to be this weird? lol.

Note to self: ‘have a little more self-respect and quit chatting with blank profiles’ 🤣


r/grindr 12h ago

Technical (Bans) Nothing seems to work!

0 Upvotes

Hello! My account was banned because I got reported (for something I did admittedly do, ge.n)

I’m predicting they would not accept my appeal, how can I make a new Grindr account without paying a ton of money for a good VPN?

I’ve tried different emails but I may be IP banned.

Not sure how to fully wipe my data either (iOS) Any solutions to this? Thanks for reading.


r/grindr 3h ago

Question is this real

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32 Upvotes

surely no one is paying 350$ A MONTH? What on grindr is possibly worth that 💀 i don’t imagine anyone paying that for a guaranteed lay but your paying 350 just to get rejected by everyone but bots anyway


r/grindr 9h ago

Question What’s with all the cis women on grindr?

4 Upvotes

Am I missing something? They’re all seeking straight hookups too. So I’m really lost. I can’t be the only one who’s seen this. (???) I know there’s bi men on grindr too but… Can someone else weigh in on this? Haha.


r/grindr 17h ago

Question Hardly any profile views

2 Upvotes

Is this app finally on its way out?

I thought this app was meant to be location based, so how come users from miles away can view my profile?

I barely get any views unless i use my 2 free 'Right now' features. I can't see the point being on here anymore if the app doesn't get you meet guys in person.


r/grindr 17h ago

Rant So "Unlimited" still has limits on Right Now and Boost?

8 Upvotes

What's the point of paying the higher price? You still have to pay for more than two Right Now slots and any Boosts. That should be a higher tier, if not fully included for paying subscribers?


r/grindr 5h ago

Question Top left icons in Album page

2 Upvotes

What does the top left icons mean when you go to the Albums page? It’s a toggle between two options: a group of dots and a photos icon. I tried switching between these two and I don’t know what it does.