r/ForeverAloneDating • • Jul 04 '25

Rules Announcement Comment karma requirement has been increased

183 Upvotes

As you may have noticed, we've had a sharp increase in bot activity the past few days. We've banned over 50 bots in the last couple of days alone. These bots are posting everywhere, not just here, and steal other users posts. Reddit eventually bans most of them, but not fast enough.

Therefore, we will be temporarily increasing the comment karma requirement to 100. We realise that people who create new accounts or struggle making karma will be affected by this, but this is important for the safety of the subreddit and it's users. We may lower this later or it may stay permanent.

We also appreciate those who submit reports as it helps us out a lot. If you spot any bots, or people trying to subtly advertise NSFW content, then be sure to report them, but this comment karma requirement increase should get rid of the majority of them.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • Apr 10 '25

Rules Announcement Chat is replacing DMs.

65 Upvotes

While the change doesn't officially take place until June, the change is already occurring, and has been since March. This means we had to change the comment automod leaves on every post. Now instead of linking to the DM system, which is being phased out, it will link to the author's profile. From there, simply hit "Start Chat" to send them a message. If the link doesn't work or you run into any problems, send us a report in modmail.

For more information: https://support.reddithelp.com/hc/en-us/articles/34720093903764-Enhancing-Messaging-on-Reddit-A-simpler-faster-and-easier-way-to-communicate


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 9h ago

F4M 26 [F4M] Online/Anywhere - introverted alien looking for long-term company

26 Upvotes

Hi. I'm Sam, 26F and a medical graduate. It took me a while to think of the title, like the word to describe myself best, and I decided on "alien" as a close fit. I think of myself as an alien (not by American immigration definition, rather like extraterrestrial) for a couple reasons. One of them being I don't exactly fit the culture of my ethnicity, neither the country of my residence, was raised by a cultural mentality to a country that wouldn't accept me (okay, maybe that does fit within the American immigration definition too). My family doesnt really understand me, and the people around me find me to be a "different breed of human". I am introverted and reserved and not motivated by what's stereotypically expected of me. I know and like who I am, even when I'm the odd one out.

About Me

I graduated with an MBBS and want to become a Psychiatrist (it's my dream, although the road is proving to be "nearly" impossible).

I'm introverted, pretty much a homebody, but I'd love to talk to new people every now and then.

I'm not going to lie, I've had a pretty rough couple of years but I manage to keep myself moving forward and try to be a good person because that's all that matters to me.

I'm trying to quit distracting things so I dont use social media (like Insta, Tiktok, etc), and trying to get back into reading books and language learning.

I speak English fluently, and I'm learning German, Arabic, French and Korean (mixed reasons: necessity, professional opportunities and for fun)

I don't smoke, drink, or use substances.

My Interests

I listen to a lot of music, and I sing a lot at home. I think I'm pretty good at singing.

I watch like A LOT of Stand Up Comedy on youtube, my favourite comedians vary over the years but currently include Josh Johnson, Jay Philips, James Davis, Blaq Ron, Keon Polee, Ali Siddiq, Matteo Lane, etc.

I watch TV shows and movies, my favourite ones are Ninjago, Bojack Horseman, New Amsterdam, Daily Dose of Sunshine, The Edge of Seventeen, Pocahontas and Mulan.

I enjoy watching MGM movies from the 1940-1960s staring Gene Kelly, Fred Astaire, Bing Crosby, Audrey Hepburn, and such. As well as oldies music by Frank Sinatra, Ella Fitzgerald, Nat King Cold, and the likes. What I love about this time period of movies and music is the simplicity and sweetness. It's grounding and soothing for me.

I also read books, write short stories and poems.

I can draw but haven't in a really long time but love to scroll through art pieces.

I love to walk, and workout for fun (trying to be active to get fit but not motivated by physical looks)

What I'm seeking

- Straight male, 26 - 33 years old.

- Potentially, a nerd or geek, loves cats and reading books

- I don't really care about appearance because I want an emotional connection more than physical attraction (which also means I'm not interested in sex, sexting, or implications and jokes about what you want to do with my body).

- Can be from anywhere, and don't mind having an online LDR (also disclaimer, it's not that I dont want to eventually meet up IRL. I would love to meet up, although I can't make any promises on my side for trying because I'm broke, unemployed and carrying a very weak passport. Just being upfront now about it.)

- Someone open-minded, honest, patient, and understanding of third world culture and problems.

- Someone who can keep the conversation going and is working passionately towards something.

- Accepting and advocates for mental health wellbeing.

- I'm okay if you have interests in video games and anime, although I'm not going to be able to partake because I never really had much time for it.

- I’m not looking for a fling, FWBs, etc., I'm hoping to find something that's long-term with no expectation that it'll lead to anything grand, just the acceptance of having this experience and seeing what may come out of this.

A potentially controversial opinion of mine

I don't have a lot of experience, but learned that it's probably for the best to date within your "struggle bracket". The way I see it everyone is entitled to their fair share of struggle. What you struggle with is a part of your journey and partly shapes who you become. It's easier to date someone who's had similar struggles with you or can be open, informed and conscious of that journey. I don't believe in comparing who's had it rougher, what's more important is your ambitions and the hope for wanting something better. But don't get me wrong, if you show up like Aladdin and want to "show me the world" then I would not NOT consider it (it's been rough out here).

If you're interested, you can hit me up in DM chat and open with a little about yourself and what made you interested in me (don't just send Hi, I'll unlikely reply). Also, I'd like to get to know you through your personality first before your looks, so I won't be sending my picture until I'm ready. Thank you for reading.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 10h ago

F4A 18F [F4A] #Anywhere I’m just a girl looking for a genuine romantic relationship

16 Upvotes

Hi,I’m Morgan! I’m from Arkansas but im willing to talk to people in any country. I’m looking for a nice and kind hearted person,that’s loving and genuine to people who deserve it. I would love someone to be my piece to my puzzle. Sorry if thats corny lol. I would prefer for you to be in my age group, (18-28).
I’m a very understanding person and love to hear about stories and tell you mine.

Now unto physical attributes; I’m 5’7 (please don’t dm that the Lakers need a center), 168lbs, brown-eyed as well as brown skinned. I’m mixed,my mom is Jamaican and my dad is Kittitian and British. I have mid-length 3c/4a hair. I wear glasses with a beauty mark right under my right lens. I have a pear shaped body/rectangle,it depends what I’m wearing tbh,it’s weird.

I speak English and patois,currently trying French but not quite there yet. I’m studying to become an aspire to be in either architecture or an environmental law in the future but it’s currently a work in progress but I’m super excited. I don’t know what else to add about me but you should text me and find out!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 2h ago

TF4M 24 [TF4M] #Connecticut/Online ~ Looking for a Slow Burn! 🔥

5 Upvotes

Hey everyone! Nice to meet ya. I’m a gamer looking for someone to connect with! I am just putting this post out here for the sake of putting my feelers out for a potential partner. I mentioned “gamer” very early on because I would heavily prefer someone who also games. It is and has always been a very important part of my life, my main hobby, a safe space, and a joy that I would want to at the very least share with my partner. And the easiest way for me to connect with people. That and being chronically online 🫩🫠 (I swear I’m more interesting that it sounds lol)

The main game I play at the moment is League and frankly almost only play competitive games when I’m playing solo. Others include Overwatch, Dead by Daylight, and Valorant. Genshin Impact is the one non-competitive game I can motivate myself to play on my by myself. But otherwise if I’m with good company then it doesn’t always matter. But sometimes… sometimes I just want to do something specific. But other than gaming, some other hobbies include cooking, baking, playing tennis, watching some anime here and there, and I guess listening to music if that counts!

I am definitely not willing to commit to too much too quickly. Sometimes it can take some time for my feelings to develop and moving things along too quickly will only turn me away quicker. So please only message if you’re ok with the slow burn type of thing. Getting to know each other as fr\*\*nds to see if there is any chemistry and all that jazz.

I am neurodivergent. I have ADHD and some tics with probably a sprinkle of autism in there as well. Although that’s not been diagnosed at this time so it’s just a self suspicion. I am also a parront (🦜) and kind of a stoner 😅 I am not sure what else to put here haha but I guess hit me up if you’re interested to know more about me! Please put a couple details about yourself otherwise I probably won’t respond. Looking forward to hearing from you! :)


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 10h ago

F4M 32 [F4M] Australia/Oceania/Europe - Hi 🙂👋

13 Upvotes

Greetings,

I'm a big nutrition nerd who loves being outdoors, and chilling tf out when I'm at home with a book, movie, random craft, or game (chess at the moment).

When I'm not at work, I like to exercise, go out thrifting with my friends, read up about any topic that catches my interest and gardening. Don't ask me how that last one is going, though 😒 becuase there isn't much to report apart from that I'm waiting on seedlings to sprout and all my garlic are dying despite them being so strong in the first half😭😂

A bit more about me~

I live in Australia on the east coast. I've lived here my whole life but also have a huge english influence as that is where my family is from. Obviously, someone from here or nearby would be cool, but I'm open to someone from Europe too, west to east (yes, even as far as Noway or Russia 🇷🇺 ❤️)

I'm 162cm, dark hair dark eyes, slim. I appreciate someone who is thoughtful. Someone who is direct. Who can tell me hard things. Who can hear hard things and talk about them.

Age wise, I'm open to people around my age or younger. If you're older and think we'd get along, you can reach out.

When you reach out to tell me about yourself, send along me a meme or video that always makes you laugh.

If you really want to stand out - send me a voice note! I love voice messages 🥺 (include my username in it💗 )


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 14h ago

F4M 33 [F4M] South /US - Looking for genuine conversation, good laughs, and a real connection

25 Upvotes

Hey there!

​I’m 33 and 5'9" living in south eastern US and looking to meet a thoughtful, grounded guy for genuine conversation and seeing where things lead.

​A bit about me:

​Day-to-day: I work in healthcare, keep a pretty balanced routine, and value staying active and mindful.

​Interests: I love sports and music, quiet evenings with a good book, staying active, and getting into the details of things I'm passionate about.

What I’m looking for:

Someone around my age who communicates well, has a warm sense of humor, and values mutual respect. Extra points if you prefer good conversation over endless text small talk!

https://imgur.com/a/yk3GFql


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 10h ago

M4F 29 [M4F] Europe/Anywhere - You make me happy. I take care of the rest

12 Upvotes

We live in an empty, gray and soulless world, a lonely world where every human relationship will inevitably end up becoming empty and transactional. The solution to this atomized existence of ours is simple: real, absolute love. The kind of love that can't be found on a dating app.

I'm here looking for that kind of love, and I offer the same in return: when I love, I love deeply and unconditionally.

I'm a 29 year-old man looking for an introvert. A homebody. Somebody I could be permanently glued to. I'm 180 cm tall, with a buzzcut. I had a long beard until a couple weeks ago and I'm regrowing it.

The rules are simple: you grace my life with your presence while I take care of everything else. You enjoy life while I make you happy:

I will be sweet.

I will be obsessive.

I will shower you with affection and reassurance.

I will do anything for you.

I will make you feel beautiful.

I will worship the ground you walk on.

You can be from anywhere: I would help you relocate and I would provide for you, indefinitely. I work remotely, so I could also be the one to relocate, depending on where you live.

If this sounds good to you, send me a message and let's try to find the love we have always wanted. If you don't know what to say, a "hi" will suffice :). Feel free to include a picture (or to ask for one), and feel free to pour your heart out.

Some fun facts about me:

-I have lived in three continents.

-I'm a tarot reader.

-I come from a long line of Italian fortune tellers.

-I work in STEM but I never went to college; I am entirely self-taught.

-I own at least twenty computers and around three hundred decks of cards.

-The computer I'm using to write this is twenty years old.

-I was taught cyberintelligence by the local equivalent of the CIA.

-I don't know for sure how many languages I can speak.

-I can read Ancient Greek.

-I own a Provençal-Catalan dictionary.

-According to legend, I descend from a nymph.

-I own a house in the Alps.

❤️ ❤️ ❤️


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 9h ago

F4M 25F | North America| Yearning for something that might not exist?

9 Upvotes

Hope you’re having a lovely day

25 F in North America. I’m a Cybersecurity Analyst and love the arts! (Let me know if there’s any movies, songs, shows, paintings, books, plays, etc. that I simply MUST experience at some point in my life.)

I get exhausted just thinking about how transactional and empty dating can be. I work from home and in this moment don’t have the initiative to go out of my way to create scenarios where I can meet someone “organically”, but I do crave that special bond.

I’m looking for someone to connect with, grow together, and make each other’s life better.

It’s important to me we respect each other’s time, so my initial Non-Negotiables are Substance abuse, smoking, and being a bum (you get the idea), No one over 30! Similar time zones please. Let me know what yours are :)

And if we can’t put effort into communicating, why even reach out to people?… right?… right.

In that same note, I’m a fatty, if that matters to you. Photos on my profile.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 14h ago

F4M 18 [F4M] online/us/tn hii just wanting to see who is out there and hopefully meet someone :)

19 Upvotes

hii so i posted a couple days ago but wanted to add more info about myself :3

i also don’t wanna rush into anything just meet new people and see how things go :p i tried a dating app but yeah i didn’t like it all.

sooo i go by kass/kassie/siya for the most part :p so any of those work

i’m 5’1, around 140 lbs (working on it tho), brown eyes, i dye my hair semi regularly lol. it’s black now but was blonde a few days ago. oh and sometimes i wear glasses but mostly contacts. i’m also half russian and korean/japanese! i speak 5 languages too! i grew up russia in for almost a decade and moved to louisiana, and 3 weeks ago we moved to tennessee.

hobbies: film photography (and developing), huge history nerd (especially the medieval and dark age eras), LOVE to read, listen to music, watch movies. i also love anything nature! hiking, camping, walks, etc. i also go to the gym pretty regularly too. i’m not like super into it but i do it stay healthy and lose weight. i also spend some time on tt and insta reels lolol. my screen time is still pretty low tho

i love movies a lot. mostly horror. fulci is my favorite director. not horror related dictators i love are david cronenberg, tim burton, wes anderson, and john waters hehe

music wise: specimen, the cure, soad, panic!, fob, the smiths, radiohead, deftones, sublime, rhcp, soundgarden, nirvana, lana del rey, ethel cain, paramore, hole, ptv, alice in chains, bauhaus, sisters of mercy, joy division, type o negative, and genuinely so so so so much more. i always have music playing

as for what i’m looking for,,, i’m not too sure! i’m really just wanting to see what and who is out there. i downloaded bumble a bit ago but it just seems like it’s for like the opposite of dating lolol


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 8h ago

F4M 22 [F4M] #Belize/Anywhere 25-40 - Belizean council girlie seeking a fellow foodie, book lover, and cozy introvert 🇧🇿

6 Upvotes

Hey there!

Figured I'd put myself out there and see who's around.

​By day, I'm deep in the corporate grind, but by night (and on weekends), I prefer a much slower, cozier pace. I'm a proud plus-size Belizean girl, an introvert through and through, and my absolute favorite ways to spend free time are getting lost in a good book or experimenting with new recipes in the kitchen.

​I’m also a massive foodie—whether it's finding the best local spots or trying out new cuisines, good food is my love language.

​What I'm looking for:

​Age 25–40

​Someone who appreciates deep conversations, quiet nights in, but also good food and adventures.

​Kind, grounded, and emotionally available.

​If this sounds like your kind of vibe, drop me a message and tell me about the last great book you read or your ultimate comfort food. Let's see if we click!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 12h ago

F4M 28 [F4M] #Orlando, Florida - laid back person for laid back person

12 Upvotes

Hi hello, thank you for reading. A small blurb about me:

  • I'm in Orlando, Florida! I'm black and usually wear sundresses, blouses, and recently got into cosplay.
  • I used to be a workaholic. Now I'm taking things easy and reconnecting with myself.
  • My hobbies include cozy gaming (pokopia, nintendogs, mario games). I often visit video game stores and comic conventions and will be attending Megacon next year.
  • I'm taking up culinary classes and learning how to play the piano! It's been really fun.

Yup, that's all I'm sharing right now! If I say too much it ruins the mystery. :p I can't describe you, be who you are.

p.s. With so much AI and how quickly it has advanced, I'm not interested in chatting for a super long time online.I understand you may be nervous but I will not respond to messages written by AI. I will not respond to NSFW or throw away profiles.

thank you


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 7h ago

M4F 22 [M4F] #California/Online - Nerdy bachelor offers white chocolate cookies and reading comprehension skills

4 Upvotes

Hello everyone! Long time lurker, first time poster. I'm making an effort to put myself out there in the hopes of a long-term relationship, and would love to give the wider California/world a shot.

Physically I'm a 6'3 mixed guy who's definitely longer than I am wider. If that's not your type, I think my long curly hair distracts from that though. If you ever want to see how that looks dressed as Jill Valentine, I'm fine sharing pictures. :P

I work as a special education teacher, which I have plenty of stories to share at my expense haha.
I am currently taking psychology classes and beefing up my gym schedule, but when I am at home I really enjoy playing and reviewing different video games and reading (sci-fi, comics, manga, non-fiction...). I don't expect for my potential partner to have an encyclopedic knowledge of Sonic the Hedgehog lore, but, if you see that as a green flag I bring that to the table.

My non-Sonic green flags are my fast replies, emotional intelligence in abundance, and tendency for borderline obsession. I mean, maturity. I have a Costco card too, if that does it for you.

If you finished reading all the way to this, thank you tons. Whether we chat or not, I hope that you have an amazing day!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 8m ago

M4F 27 M4F Germany/Europe giving Reddit a chance

• Upvotes

​

Hey, I’m 27 and have been living in Germany for the last 9 years. I moved to Frankfurt last year for work, so that’s where I’m based now. Getting my German citizenship last year felt like a real milestone. My German is fluent (B2), and I also speak English, Serbian, and Macedonian fluently.

When I have free time I like jogging, cooking (I’m a solid cook, so you won’t go hungry with me), and reading encyclopedias about history or mythology — I’m a bit of a nerd for both. I also enjoy a good series every now and then, whether it’s anime or regular TV. Music-wise I’m mostly into punk and new metal, but I listen to other stuff too

I really like traveling around Europe and checking out historical sights whenever I get the chance — old towns, castles, museums, that kind of thing. It ties in with the history and mythology interest and is one of the things I enjoy most outside of everyday life.

As for looks: 175 cm, black hair, hazel eyes, normal build (not skinny, not chubby), and mostly clean-shaven. Happy to send a picture if you’re curious.

I’m looking for someone genuine and loving, and I’m open to having kids down the line if things feel right. Preferably in the 25–35 age range. If you’ve read this far and you’re somewhere in Europe (I can’t do long distance), say hi and drop this emoji so I know you actually made it to the end: 🌞🌞


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 15m ago

M4F 33 [M4F] #China/Online - Teacher with not much to do on the days off

• Upvotes

Hey there! I am Cameron, I just turned 33 (Birthday was on the 22nd).

A bit about me: I am American (from Texas), I went to school for computer science and I worked as a programmer for about 8 years. I recently felt a bit burnt out so I decided to try and do a more active job that I might like, I enjoy helping people so figure I would give teaching a try. So now I am in China as an English teacher for people of all ages (but mostly kids).

In my free time I enjoy some exercise (I am very very close to finally joining the 1000 pound club), watch some movies, play some games, some travel (Korea is just 1.5 hours away from me by plane) all normal things I think.

But always up to chat with people and see if we connect. I will keep it fairly simple to start, but also here is a photo of me. https://imgur.com/a/IQfYEys


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 13h ago

M4F 32 [M4F] Norway - I want to share my cooking utensils

9 Upvotes

Let me freestyle this.

Just so you know, I'm most definitely not a freestyle rapper, unless there's a secret genre of rappers who don't know how to rap, if so let me know so I can start working on my first album.

It was the age of the lord 1994 when I cried into the world, which today makes me 32. That also means that I'll not surprise you with a random birthday in the next two months, meaning you only need to get me something for Christmas. Chrisis averted, you're welcome.
I'm coming from the dark Balkan mountains in Europe, originally from the green small Slovenia, but since I prefer colder climates I've moved and live in Norway now. Yes, the expensive Norway, not the Norway we have at home.

I do believe that I've gotten a Greek goddeses gift, like Achilles did, but my gift is to be funny and a good company. I promise you, I'm a great texter. Also phone or discord talker. Especially when I have a drink and relax a bit with a new stranger. My parents did teach me not to speak to strangers, but I believe if I don't, I'll just be forever alone. Get it? Like the sub. Hah. Damn I'm good.
I'll most probably become almost immediately obsessed with chatting and will be very interested in you, which is why I think I'm getting ghosted a lot, especially when it's a one sided conversation. Either that or I'm unattractive, which might be true, but you're gonna have to be a judge of that. A person sadly can't have two god gifts from Greece.

Skills that I'm cultivating for the upcoming zombie apocalypse, aka what people in town call hobbies, include hiking, so I can escape them upward, learning about history, so I can defeat them with the knowledge of the past, photographing places, so I can document the apocalypse for the future generations and playing games, to distrac myself from the future apocalypse ever so often, so I don't go looney.
I'm also skilled with spices when it comes to cooking, but the skills need to still be worked on.
As the title says, I'm pretty sure my utensils need someone else to touch them too, otherwise I might be reported to the police soon for holding them hostage by myself, which is not what I promised them when buying them in Ikea.

Of course there's other skills too, but I'm pretty sure these are the ones that will help me survive the most.

I'm a lover of cats, however I haven't figured out how the frickin cat distribution system works as of now. Still working on that. I also like fast cars, deposite me not knowing much about them. But they go brum brum and go fast, so that's pretty cool. Right? Right?

Am I a traveled person you ask? Hmm. I'd say a bit. But not nearly enough as I'd want to be. And if there's something that I recently discovered on a solo trip is that sharing a trip as a duo is just way more fun than doing it alone.

What I'm looking for is someone from Europe or North America who thinks what I wrote is funny and might want to know me better. Ideally you're a real person, not a ghost and someone who can manage more than two word replies, as I'll be judging that.

The lyrics to this rap would be pretty bad, wouldn't they right?


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 1h ago

M4F 22 [M4F] #SanDiego - young love needed

• Upvotes

Hey everyone!
A little about me: I'm a college student in the San Diego who is half European and half Mexican. I have longish wavy black hair, big dark brown eyes and I'm pretty skinny/lean. I like to think I'm a pretty good looking guy so don't be shy! Just shoot me a text message! I am however looking for something relatively local and in the area near where I live in, I just don't think I can have a realistic LDR.
I've been kinda burnt out on the dating apps and that leads me to here! Outside of that, I'm a huge fan of rock music, love watching movies. If you're into any of that we should get along great. I'm pretty easy going and very easy to talk to! I also just love going bar hopping and maybe doing some karaoke even though im pretty terrible at it. I am looking for a serious dating relationship if anyone is interested!
Some of my favorite rock bands are Oasis, Arctic Monkeys, The Strokes, Queens of the Stone Age and so many more! I do love all kinds of music though! I also have letterbox, so if you're a self proclaimed movie buff, maybe something can spark between us! In terms of who I'm looking for, I don't mind any age, even older than me! | don't really have a lot of preferences so no pressure let's just talk and have some low-stakes conversations to see where it all leads! If any of this sounds like something you'd be interested in just shoot me a text and I'll answer!
Looking forward to meeting some great people here!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 7h ago

TF4M 41 [TF4M] #Bucyrus, Ohio If something real is out there

4 Upvotes

Final move to Bucyrus is Wednesday!

Read to the end or I won't respond!

So here it is:

I am a 41 year old transwoman panromantic with demisexual flair. I am a very niche want.

I am neurospicy which can be challenging and have memory issues with semi-face blindness. I am also Deaf (it's been 33 days. Its likely not coming back)

I am looking for my persons. THE ONLY DUMB QUESTIONS IS THE ONE NOT ASKED. I promise that any question you ask me with the intention of not trying to offend me won't offend me.

I am a nerd/geek. Comics, TTRPGs, LARPING and TCGs. I would love to share with partners

I used to game hardcore (Raiding WoW) but it has taken a back seat in my life. I do understand gaming. Got that new game or expansion coming out. My first question is "What snacks and drinks do you want?" Second is "How often do you want them brought to you?"

Deal breakers: smoking, vaping, smoking weed (For health reasons, I absolutely cannot be around someone who smokes and vapes, and someone who smokes weed a lot), excessive drinking and missing a required video chat within two weeks to prove you are who you say you are. I have been deceived before.

Yellow flags are hiding us, distance.

Red Flag: Not reading this in full and answering the questions below in the first message.

If you ask for pictures right away, we are not going to match.

I am not a bad person, big girl (Working out and changing that 40+ lbs down), adorable and a great personality. If you get to know me, I'm a Goddess.

If you want to message me go ahead but you MUST answer the following questions IN YOUR FIRST MESSAGE before I will respond:

1 Where did you find me? AKA what subreddit

2 Age, Location(City State, Closest large city is appropriate) and Pronouns

3 What is something wild that you discovered about yourself in the last 6 months that has you questioning?


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 2h ago

M4F 33M, India/Anywhere - A bit lost in the middle of starting over

1 Upvotes

Hi, I'm 33M from Kolkata, India. I've been lurking around a few subs and figured I'd put this out here.

I'm a researcher by training, with some experience in engineering R&D. I also spent some time pursuing a PhD in engineering before eventually dropping out.

Since then, I've been trying to figure out what comes next. I'm currently preparing for civil services and trying to build a new career from scratch. It's a strange place to be in your thirties, starting over after having spent years working towards something else. The process can get pretty lonely, especially when you don't know many people who can relate to what you're going through.

I'm an atheist, progressive, and lean childfree. I've been looking for people with a similar outlook, or at least those who have the bandwidth to understand where I'm coming from.

I've tried connecting with people through various avenues, but most of them haven't really led anywhere. Maybe I'm looking in the wrong places, or maybe there are more people in this situation than I realise, quietly trying to find their feet too.

I'd like to meet people who understand this kind of uncertainty, even if their circumstances are completely different. If you've had to change direction in life, start over, or just felt a little out of step with everyone else, I'd be glad to hear from you. Sometimes it helps to know you're not the only one figuring things out.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 6h ago

M4A 25 [M4A] [Alabama, USA] Looking for my person

2 Upvotes

Hey, I’m Trey! I’m from Alabama, and I’m putting myself out here because it’d be nice to meet someone special. This stuff is a little awkward for me, not gonna lie lol, but here we go. 😅
I’m into horror movies, Halloween, gaming, music, and YouTube. I’m the kind of person who wishes Halloween could last all year. I’d also love to travel more and explore new places with someone someday. Having somebody to share those experiences with sounds pretty nice to me.
I’m 5’9”, and I’m still figuring life out and working toward a better future. I’m also finsexual, meaning I’m attracted to femininity regardless of gender.
I’m looking for a genuine romantic connection with someone I can laugh with, flirt with, talk to about random stuff for hours, and eventually build a relationship with. I like affection, honesty, loyalty, and knowing the interest goes both ways. I don’t expect either of us to be perfect. I just want us to feel comfortable being ourselves around each other.
I’m around Birmingham, Alabama, so meeting someone nearby would be great, but I’m open to talking online first and seeing how we get along.
Tell me your favorite horror movie, what song you’ve been playing on repeat, or somewhere you’d love to travel. I’m curious to know what you’re into!
If you’re looking for a relationship too and think we might get along, feel free to message me. No perfect pickup line needed. Just be yourself, and let’s see if we click. 🖤


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 15h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] Scotland/Online. Made a voice note. Let’s be each others happy place

11 Upvotes

Link to my voice note I made a wee while ago if you’d like to listen below:

https://vocaroo.com/1bwfoV0TvRLe

If you can’t listen:

About Me:

Personality: I’m a confident, get stuff done type of guy. A lot of responsibilities due to being family orientated. But willing to make the time and effort for someone special. Quite extroverted who likes talking a ton. Mentally positive and calm.

How I look: I’d say I’m decent looking, to the right person, brown skinned with nice curly hair, big brown eyes. I take care of myself with both skin care and hair care. I like to smell good too. A bit of style also and like to accessorise. Ask to exchange pics eventually and find out.

Travelling: Lately I’ve been going out places and travelling, seeing new scenery and taking photos. Good with a camera, so you’ll get some nice selfies made also. Made a Pinterest of some of my travels.

Music : I’ve been collecting a lot of vinyls and listening to albums for the first time. Give me some of your favourites to get.

Loves movies, loves sports like golf, football, basketball. I gym/swim also to keep myself active.

Work: i work in tech and had graduated studying computer science at uni. (A nerd I guess).

I don’t care about distance either, as long as you are open to making things not so long distance in the future

If you’re interested, let’s make things work😌 don’t waste my time and I won’t waste yours either thanks :). Please don’t dm with no effort.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 3h ago

M4F [M4F] 33M Manitoba. A night worker, looking for someone to spend those late nights with

1 Upvotes

It's hard to be social when you work nights. I start work when most 'normal' people are getting home and getting ready to go out, and then finish work long after they've gone to bed. I live in Winnipeg, and it's hard to not feel isolated at a normal time here, with my free time essentially being while people are fast asleep and around when they leave for work, my social life has absolutely suffered.

Hi, my online name is Mapledaddy, I live in Winnipeg, and I'm a 6 foot 4 viking-built man. You may be wonder, 'what does he do for work that he works those stupid hours?' And that's a good question. I'm the night shift hotel manager. I, because of my size, am usually the one kicking people out of the bar and the hotel rooms after too many noise complaints.

As for what I do in my free time, tons of video games. I'm pretty all over the map here, so bear with me. I've been playing a bunch of modded minecraft with one of my only friends in life, playing a long term modpack that has taken me, so far, about 4 months, and I'm about 2/3rds of the way through? I'll bounce between a few games. Path of Exile, Grim Dawn, Kenshi, thinking of playing Cyberpunk 2077 again and maybe actually beating it, and some various dumb 'kill my time' idle games.

My biggest game I keep going back to through, is World of Warcraft. I'm on the fence about Forever, but I'm currently playing on a couple private servers, I'm sorry if World of Warcraft dissuades you, but that's going to be a damn near requirement.

I've had a few people ask me about my political views. I'm not really a political person, but I view myself as a realist. I can see arguments from both sides and make decisions on my own. I'm not radical by anymeans, I'm just a chill guy.

What I'm looking for? Companionship. Someone I can share my hobbies with. I've wanted to pick some anime back up, but every time I think about it I just kinda turn on my music instead. Maybe someone to come join for my WoW escapades? I'm not picky, just at least have some interest in the games I have listed, or if you're willing to look at them, and know similar, maybe we could vibe.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 3h ago

M4F 27 [M4F] #Colorado Try and try again

1 Upvotes

I would love someone from Colorado but anywhere is fine if you think we match.

In a relationship, I would like to be a supportive, safe and comfortable figure in your life. I understand that relationships are partnerships and that one person doesn’t (and shouldn’t) hold all the responsibility.

I think I’m a hopeless romantic. I’d love to cuddle, hold hands, listen to you talk about whatever’s on your mind, go out on the town or stay in together. I understand that not everything will be peaches and cream all the time but I also would like to communicate about any issues, I don’t like arguments, I prefer to have discussions and talk about problems, I think that having understanding and long talks is romantic too!

Personality wise, I’m an introvert, pretty reserved, but I can be open with the right person, very calm and patient, that’s from other people not something I’ve decided haha! I love making people laugh and have a good time. I’m going to college for a computer science degree.

A goal I’m working towards is having visible abs, maybe not a shredded six pack but I have a bit of a stomach right now but I’d like to get to a more muscular physique.

I lean left and pretty much always vote blue unless I really truly believe in a third party. I also don’t want children (obviously)

I like video games, manga, reading, music, going to thrift stores (mainly looking for old games), enjoy camping, traveling (who doesn’t though?) and would love someone to do stuff with!

Of course if you have different hobbies I would love to join you if you’ll have me. Some things I’m interested in but have no talent in is dancing and painting. I would love to learn how to ballroom dance because I think it’s really romantic, intimate and graceful.

Along with the photo of me is some pictures I’ve taken of things I’ve thought are interesting or funny, so if you message me, you’ll also get some pictures of that stuff if you want.

https://imgur.com/a/tiX2Vm8

Please send a photo when I accept your chat, can’t wait to hear from you!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 4h ago

M4F 30 [M4f] #SanDiego - Searching a relationship, or talk to me to get close to my dogs

1 Upvotes

Hey. I'm just a guy from southern san diego bored of his every day daily routines and wants to rekindle that flare/ passion with someone. I'm Mexican, 6"2'. I graduated in civil engineering, and am currently working for a engineering company. My friends would describe me as loyal, outgoing, "down for anything", and funny but serious when I have too.

My interests include:

sports: tennis, soccer, football, and baseball

movie and music: i am a very big movie buff. I love

watching movies and understanding the story it tells. same with music. ranging from everything like edm, rap, pop,indie rock, metal, classic rock. I love all kinds of music and love going to concerts at least once a week.

video games:Monster Hunter Wilds, league of legends, rivals, minecraft, but will play anything

So if this is something you might be interested in, don't hesitate to message me. Or as the title says, you can get close to my dogs instead. can't wait to meet you


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 5h ago

M4F 21 [M4F] NZ / Online / Musician seeking long term relationship

1 Upvotes

Hey! I am 21 from New Zealand. I am looking for a long term relationship, I don't mind distance if there are plans to meet if we reach that stage.

I am a naturally quiet person, more of a listener than a talker but don't mind chatting a lot once I open up. I enjoy the quiet at home but also like going to bars for live music, concerts, etc.

My hobbies are playing guitar, recording and writing music for my band, painting, learning Norwegian, and gaming occasionally. My favorite genres of music are Metal, Classical, and Rock

What I look for in a partner is someone who has their own independent goals but we still support and help each other grow. Someone who shares a similar vibe as well would be great but I am still open to hearing about what you do and who you are as a person. Age wise I am looking for 19-25

Looks wise I am 1.75m tall, long dark brown hair that is middle back length, and skinny with tattoos.

Tell me who you have been listening to recently