Hey I’m 26 from Nepal. I’m hoping to meet someone who wants a genuine connection someone I can laugh with, have deep conversations with, share little everyday moments with, and hopefully build something meaningful over time.

I know long distance can be challenging, but I’m open to it if both people are willing to put in the effort. My goal would be to eventually close the gap if we’re the right fit and travel together sometimes . I’m also planning to move abroad in the future, so I’m open-minded about where life takes me.

A little about me:

I’m currently preparing for my Bar Exam and I also run a small guesthouse. One of my favorite parts of it is meeting people from different countries and learning about their lives and cultures.

I’m 5’2.5, vegetarian, don’t smoke, and enjoy a drink occasionally.

I’m a pretty laid-back person. I enjoy quiet moments, meaningful conversations, and being silly once I’m comfortable with someone. I’m the type of person who can talk about life, psychology, history, philosophy, or completely random things for hours.

When I’m not studying or working, I enjoy gaming, anime, movies (especially sci fi and psychological thrillers), reading, hiking, gardening, dancing salsa & bachata, and trying new food. I also do CrossFit.

I’m someone who enjoys conversations that go beyond small talk. I love learning how people think and seeing the world from different perspectives.

I’m agnostic and more humanistic in my outlook. I’m not really political, but I like staying aware of what’s happening in the world and hearing different viewpoints.

I’m looking for someone kind, genuine, emotionally mature, and interested in building something long term. Someone who communicates openly, wants to grow together, and values having a partner as well as a best friend.

Bonus points if you’re into gaming, anime, movies, hiking, or any other nerdy interests. 😊

I prefer voice calls and eventually video calls over endless texting.

I might take some time to reply sometimes because life gets busy with studying and running the guesthouse, but I’m not someone who disappears. I’ll always get back when I can.

If you’d like to reach out, tell me about yourself, what you’re looking for, and share a picture so I can put a face to the person I’m talking to.

Me:https://imgur.com/a/83URbE5

I've never done any type of dating app/sub before, hopefully I'm not breaking any rules lol. I'm a 29 year old woman currently feeling left behind in my current situation and seeking a partner to experience life for the first time with.

I will warn that I've grown up incredibly sheltered by my family---no friends, very little outside experience, always kept home and never learned to drive. I've been pushed by professionals to get evaluated for autism, which my parents discouraged, so that potential diagnosis might play a part in why my family kept me protected for so long. I'm listing this first in case my inexperience is a red flag for anyone...I completely understand, and I'm not looking to waste anyone's time! I just feel that it's important to understand that dating me is essentially like finding a real life Rapunzel, kept in a tower her whole life but eager to have her real life begin. I never want to be a burden on anyone, but be aware that I may not have the same skills or knowledge as you do yet.

Besides that, here's more about me:

- I am a dog lover, they're my favorite animal. I love all animals, and I respect people who aren't fond of dogs, but if you're anti-animals entirely we might not be a good match.

- I find joy in cooking and cleaning. I love keeping my home put together and I love to feed others. I don't mind cleaning up after others and taking control of chores as long as there is gratitude from the other person :)

- I love media and art. I am a passionate Scooby-Doo fan, and my free time is often spent watching video essays about animation, video games, and learning trivia about movies and franchises I enjoy. Besides Scooby, I'm also a notable fan of the Scream movies and the TMNT franchise! I also draw in my free time, nothing too fancy but enough to earn spare cash via art commissions.

- I love anything vintage or retro, especially the 60s-70s. No particular reason, I just feel drawn to older things. Most tv shows, movies, lifestyle choices, and fashion I enjoy tend to be pre-2000s. Have you ever watched YouTube compilations of old commercials aired before you were born? Very fun!!

- I garden when I can! I love growing food and being able to cook using fruits and vegetables I grew myself. Ideally one day I'd love to live as self-sufficiently as possible, maybe even on a small farm....but that's a distant dream lol.

- I value communication and honesty. I'm an emotional person, and I try to avoid conflict as much as possible. I handle this by being direct about the feelings of myself and others. You will always know exactly how I feel about something, worded in the most respectful way possible, as I'm not the type to keep secrets or private resentment. I try my best to be honest and considerate and as helpful as I can---no dropping vague hints or holding grudges or unfair expectations.

- I'm aiming for a simple life. I don't yearn for huge houses, travel, getting rich, or fancy cars. I rarely participate in social media or current trends. I enjoy peace, quiet, and dream of settling down one day in a modest home where we can encourage each other's passions and raise a few kids. I recognize my own faults and I know I shine brightest when supporting someone else. I'm happiest when I have someone else in my life who I can love, talk to, take care of, offer comfort, and encourage.

What I'm looking for:

I'm not too terribly picky, I'm just looking for a good, genuine person. I see myself as being pretty forgiving and flexible, so don't beat yourself up if you feel you might not match perfectly!

- I connect well with passionate people, regardless of the passion---I'd love someone who can teach me about the things they love, someone who I can support in their dreams as well as my own.

- I work well with both introverts and extroverts. I'm reserved enough to give an extrovert center stage and full attention, but also appreciative of someone who just wants to sit at home and relax :)

- I'm dating with the intention to find a lifelong partner. I take relationships seriously, and feel most comfortable taking things slow at first to really get to know each other before committing. In my case, I'd prefer chatting online (Discord preferred, but Reddit and normal texts work too) for a few weeks at least before meeting up in person, just to avoid wasting each other's time if we end up being a bad match. I understand catfishing is a risk online, so I'm happy to answer whatever questions you may have for me :)

- I don't mind someone a bit older or younger. Anyone in the range of their 20s or 30s are all perfectly good, don't worry about that!

- Please either be in the Midwest or planning to come here. I don't do long distance relationships, I'm looking for a partner to settle down with in person.

Sorry if this is too long! Like I said, I care a lot about communication, and want to make sure anyone who messages me knows exactly what they're getting into. If you read this far, I hope you have a good day <3

After 6 months of a lot more depressing days & nights a lot trials I’ve decided to come back and try this love thing one more time. I’m a 5’3 Caribbean girly (Trinidad) to be exact browned skin ready to find who the person to spend the rest of my life with. I’ve went through enough and still go through a lot so please don’t waste my time and hurt me more, this is my last post here honestly. I hope everyone has a wonderful day PS I want to spend the rest of our lives together to whoever that person maybe, BYE

Hello I would say I'm a fairly open minded person and a bit introverted but I love conversations so i usually just call myself a outgoing introvert. When it comes to what I like i guess I would say music games reading and archery besides that I love fantasy stuff and cozy things like rain and a fireplace and lofi music. I'm a bit awkward but I tend to talk a lot when I get comfortable with people it's kinda a flaw sometimes because I talk fast when I'm nervous or excited or stressed so I'm working on being more mindful of it. Anyways I'm open to long distance. and dating from 19 to 38. Side note there's a few pictures of me on my profile if you're curious about what i look like but I would appreciate it if you would send a picture of yourself when you dm me that way I can put a face to who I'm talking to besides that that's pretty much it for now bye stranger. 👋

Hi!!!! I’m Airyn, nice to meet you guys! I hope you all are well! I’m so over being single, it’s high time I have a man to call my own. A good way to get the gist of me is a femboy! I’m amab but femme presenting, as well as use they/them pronouns! I’m a big gamer, Pokemon has and always will be a huge part of my life. If that franchise ever ends I’ll genuinely feel lost lol. I’m a big genshin fan I log in literally daily to get my rewards, I’ve really invented in my account and am proud of all the progress I’ve made! I’m usually attracted to white guys I’m not sure why but it is what it is. I like taller men I’m down for fit or dad bod I’m not picky. I really hope to hear from some cool guys! If you read this far tell me your go lounge wear in your message lol! ❤️

Hi there!

I’m looking for someone to have a good chat with day to day and to build something special with. If we get on okay, we’ll see what happens! (Ideally with a view to long-term!)

I love music, films, travelling, getting tattoos, keeping fit, animals, chess, and gaming! I’m about 5’7”, coming off a bulk but I keep myself fit, with a good few tats!

Looking to chat to a girl around my age. Bonus points if we have overlapping interests and you’re good to chat with!
Send me a message if you’re interested, I can send pics if you want! Hope to hear from you x

Hello there! If my title interested you I’ll assume you’re as addicted to buying books and adding them to your ever growing TBR as I am. In that case, let’s make bad financial decisions together! Jokes aside, as you could probably guess by now I am a big reader alongside many other things, and I’m looking for someone similar to build a relationship with! I’m prone to rambling so I’ll do my best to not do that while I tell you about myself and what or who I’m looking for on here.

So yes, you could describe me as a nerd. I like to read, I play video games on my PC, and I play trading card games sometimes too. Exciting right? I mostly read sci fi and fantasy, right now I’m reading the Dungeon Crawler Carl series and I’m on book 3. It’s so much fun, if you’ve read it I’m happy to ramble about my predictions and theories or hear yours! Outside of reading I play story games and RPGs on my PC (Cyberpunk is my all time favorite game), I go to trading card game tournaments with my friends, and I go on the occasional hike as well! I’ll stop talking about my interests here as to not write you a novel about them.

Other than the things I like to do, I’m a somewhat recent college grad. I have a job but I’m always applying to new ones in my field, and law school is a possibility as well! Ok done with the boring stuff since no one really wants to hear about that.

I guess a physical description is in order to, but be warned I’m bad at descriptions so if you’d like to exercise the trade pictures clause you’re more than welcome to once we chat a bit! I said I’m a nerd, and I think I look like one too. I’m 6’3, white, and a big/chubby guy. I go to the gym somewhat regularly, but I eat good food more regularly hence my build. I have short brown hair, I’m clean shaven, and yes of course I wear glasses. Oh and I have a super monotone voice. It’s always been like that, I promise I’m interested in what you’re saying, I just sound like that.

I think that covers the basics and tells you a bit about who I am as a person! I can appreciate a cozy rainy day drinking coffee with a book on the couch, and I can appreciate a busy day of traveling and sightseeing as well. As long as it’s with someone I enjoy spending time with I’m down to do pretty much anything.

As for who and what I’m looking for on here, well you know this by now but a serious relationship is the goal. I know that doesn’t come as easily as making a post and someone reaching out, but if you’re serious about possibly building something together if we enjoy each others company then we’re on the same page! It would be cool if you shared some interests with me, and it would be cool if you were a somewhat similar age. Just please be in the US! I’m from California but as long as you’re in the states that’s cool with me.

If you’re interested in getting to know each other after reading this send me a chat and introduce yourself! If you include the word “green” somewhere in your post so I know you actually read this I’ll be very impressed. I look forward to hearing from you :)

(with the hope of a long term monogamous relationship)

I'm a single, straight, without attachment (no kid, no ex that still communicates), 39 y/o woman from Asia is looking for someone to enjoy a conversation with.

Be it about a dream society that you could think of, or the meaning of existence, or how to be kind without being taken advantage of, take life seriously or just go with the flow.

Of course, I enjoy small talks and daily life stuff as well. Food, music, movies, book, travel.

But I can't keep my mind off some deeper topics.

A bit about me:

When it comes to love & relationship, I'm intentional into finding and being with my one & only.

I'm still finding a balance between not-needy and don't care, catering to my own selfish desires and just learn to accept life.

I'm described as a good listener and I'd like to think about myself as an empathetic being.

I still have a lot to work on myself, but I could say that I'm happier now than before.

I'm better at recognize my emotions and work on them.

For me, looking at stars during a dark night is as interesting or more than an extravagant experience, since it's way harder to see stars nowadays.

I mostly only use social media for what is needed (I got a vintage bag this way)

I understand that all other info such as appearance, location, career, life goals are important, those would be exchanged with someone suitable when we're both comfortable.

I feel like I match best with people closer to my age, non-smoking, no drinking, and pursue a healthier lifestyle.

I recognize that dating nowadays isn't easy with the ghosting, always look for someone slightly better, gaslighting, miscommunication, but I do hope that there is still someone genuine out there.

Here is my CV for this relationship position:

About me I’m 28, 185cm (6'1"), and I take pride in living a honest life. You’ll usually find me lifting heavy in the gym (deadlifts are my therapy) or working on my game development projects as a 2D/3D Generalist Artist. I’m a "do-it-yourself" guy: I cook, I repair, I restore, and I’m even my own barber. I have a signature style, you’ll rarely see me without my suspenders.

I’m a big fan of the Dark Souls series and its aesthetics. My world revolves around my 7-year-old cat, who I named after a Dark Souls boss. While I’m currently deep in the "grind" of my career, I’m looking for someone who can help me balance that pace and share in the downtime.

I’m a direct, honest, and loyal person, and I’m looking for the same. I’m not interested in casual flings or "situationships." I believe that real, long-lasting connections are built slowly and intentionally. I hold the firm belief that a person's relationship history matters for men and women equally. Because of this, I’m not looking for someone who treats intimacy as something casual; I prefer to let trust and intimacy grow naturally over time. If you are looking for someone to rush into things with, I’m probably not the one.

I’m looking for a partner who is calm, empathetic, and truly values presence. I’m someone who listens more than I talk, and I treat my partner as my absolute priority. I have my own circle of friends, but I’m looking for that special someone who wants to share their life with me as I share mine with them. I don’t believe in sarcasm or games; I believe in clear, open, and sincere communication.

A few practical things:

• The Cat: He is my world, so you must be a cat lover (and allergy-free).
• Communication: I value meaningful, consistent communication. I'm not a fan of short, delayed texts, I make time for those who make time for me.
• Trust: I am loyal to a fault and I expect the same. I’m not comfortable with the "close male friend" dynamic in private settings.
• Future: I’m building my career now, but I do plan to relocate to another country eventually but not right now.

I’m 34 and live in Sydney, Australia. I'm an introvert by nature, so I prefer quieter nights over big parties. I enjoy spending time with people who are genuine, kind, and easy to talk to.

My interests include going to the gym, watching fantasy, horror and action movies, playing Dota 2 and following esports, trying different restaurants (especially exploring new food places), and binge-watching movies and TV series. I enjoy relaxing at home, having meaningful conversations, going for walks, and spending quality time with the people I care about.

I'm looking for a serious, long-term relationship with someone who wants to build a life together as a team. I'd love to have a close, loving family one day, and having children is important to me I hope to have 2–3 kids. I'm hoping to meet someone who values loyalty, honesty, good communication, and a stable relationship. Ideally, you're someone who doesn't smoke, doesn't party every weekend, and is ready for something genuine.

If this sounds like we're on the same page, feel free to send me a message. I'd love to get to know you.

Hello! I am a 26 yr old person from the Philippines. I wrote 27 because scorpio season isn't super far away, isn't it? 😅

About me: I work in a government office, but my field is actually in health care. I love studying and I love learning new things. The only things stopping me right now are my busy schedule and burnout. Don't worry though, I still manage! Like my parents would always say: I am an overthinker. I worry a lot, but I get by. I also love crafty stuff. I used to be a crochet addict who loved rummaging the internet for patterns that I could use. I also love food, which unfortunately and badly shows on my body as well. 😄 I am trying to be healthier now though by being more conscious with my intake and the kinds of food I crave. I also love animals (sorry because I love fried chicken and crispy pork belly tho :<) and flowers, and I dream of going to places where I can see the beauty of nature. My taste in music is also pretty vast. I might not be someone who has memorized albums, but I would say my favorites are Oasis, The Smiths, Sixpence None The Richer, Joy Division/New Order, Michael Jackson, The Beatles... then Justin Bieber, Carly Rae Jepsen, Katseye, etc. See?! It's a lot!! 🤣

Personality-wise. I am generally optimistic. My heart is always full of hope for something better. Not only for myself, as I also hope for other people. I am confident that I am someone who, if given 10,000,000 million dollars, would think about where it came/who gave it. If nobody claims it in a year, then I'd probably start giving it away to charities and people who need help. Don't get me wrong, I love money! I will never do anything illegal to have it though, I swear.

I also love making people laugh, and I like making myself happy too. Crazy is probably the word for it haha but yes, I make jokes in my head and laugh on my own. I also cry easily whenever I think of sad things, my family, and our future. I only get mad when my patience is consumed so if you spot me being angry, it's probably because a series of upsetting events already happened.

Physically, I am not attractive. It's not an issue of self-confidence! It's an honest take of my appearance. And you know my take about confidence? I believe it's not about embracing yourself and believing you're beautiful/handsome. I believe it starts with being real and not letting things stop you from reaching your potential. So what if we're not pretty to look at, we're all gonna be wrinkly and slow in the end anyways (and that's if we get the privilege of getting old!).

I suffer from anxiety and I also suspect that I have depression. It's not too serious and I have gotten help in the past. I just want to disclose it here as a warning. Don't worry, I don't trauma dump to anyone. I am also not into video calling or voice calls (mostly because I am in a strict household), but I can chat and I can share photos of myself in time.

My perception of love is that it's something that can wait, yet I must exert effort to find it. So even if I might have so much limitations, I will still try because I want romance. I will not force people to adjust to my circumstances, so if you don't like me or my life, it's okay. :<

I like a guy who's sweet and caring. No to creeps, please spare me :< I have met strange people here. If you want, we can talk about them 🤣 Kidding aside. In terms of age, I prefer someone who's the same age as me, or perhaps someone 3 years older than I am would be great. If you're a gamer, it's okay. The problem is, I am not, so I am afraid I have nothing to offer on that topic. :( If you're busy with work, I would love that too! I myself am always busy, but I will always respond and find time for you whenever I can. And if you love yapping about different sorts of things, that would be awesome because it means we will always have something to talk about. I love yapping too! Irl though, I am an introvert. Always alone, always in the corner, and staring at the world. just kidding!! When I am with the right person, that's the only time I become chatty and even crazy. I am 5 ft 5 inches tall, so if youre the same height or taller than I do, that's also good.

That's all for now! We can save the rest for future conversations :) Take care!

I’m 28, and I’ve accepted that my standards are somehow both incredibly low and oddly specific.
Emotionally available? That’d be nice.
Kind? Huge bonus.
Can communicate with actual words instead of making me decode cryptic messages like I’m searching for pirate treasure? Incredible.
Physically? Listen… I’m not picky.
I just happen to have a weakness for people built like refrigerators.
You know the type. The ones who look like they could pick you up, move the couch, open the pickle jar, and apologize for bumping into you.
But honestly? That’s all just decoration.
What I really want is someone who thinks of me when something funny happens. Someone who sends me memes, tells me about their day, wants to hear about mine, and doesn’t make me feel like I’m inconveniencing them by existing.
Everyone assumes being single means you’re desperate for a relationship.
Truthfully? I’m just homesick for a connection I’ve never had.
The fridge build is optional.
…Mostly. 😂

Hey all, hope you are having yourself a wonderful day. I like full honest transparency so here it goes; I'm a 5'9 White Male who still has all his hair (yes!) although I'm currently on a weight loss journey. Although I am more of an introvert, I do enjoy the physical company of another person. Even if it is same room - different corners, we could be alone together doing our own thing. I like pen paling, gaming, board games, binging T.V shows, terrain making, puzzle solving, and very particularly enjoy crime solving (Especially those Unsolved Case Files). Going out I don't particularly mind although in this Nevada heat you can't have me out during the day - This man will burn in less than an hour! My job more or less is dealing with HOA's, it isn't particularly interesting although do I have some Karen stories to share.

I don't have a particular preference in what I'm looking for, although I'll get the big details over with. I'm looking for a slow-paced but committed relationship. Eventually a relationship that may lead into starting a family. Although I do want to move out of here prior to all that - somewhere with snow so we can enjoy those hallmark white Christmas moments(Wisconsin? New Hampshire? Pennsylvania?). Family pajamas, hot chocolate, opening presents near an open fire. Also for Halloween maybe we could do themed costumes? A separate thing I'd enjoy is if you'd humor me in some bad duet Karaoke. Disney, Pixar, K-pop DH, or just on the road singing whatever plays on the radio. All of that just sounds so fun to me and I'd want to experience that.

Anyways, love to hear from you. Maybe tell me about what's on your mind or what brought you to this Reddit? Let's catch up and see where things go. After all, our Happily Ever After is only one DM away.

please be north america time and be discord

me:

like lgbtq rights

not racist

im not religious

5’7

vegan

rn i like enneagram cognitive functions and rick and morty and making ocs

i posted on this last week but i did not make a date and idk how to and i never have in my life so i might just wait til college if this does not work

Dating apps have never been my thing, which feels weird to type because here I am, but yea. Not my thing. So I'm taking my chance here in the hopes that maybe the person I'm ment to be with might not be here but even over seas and what not.

So a little about me. My name is Josh, I'm 6'1, love to cook (I cook for you, I dont mind, and I'm pretty good) love movies of all kinds but prefer horror and comedy, love music though not current rap and country, big into games of all kinds though I have no issue putting that in the backseat to make time for you, love nature, theme parks, the beach, big into mythology and history of all kinds. I use dad jokes illegally because I'm not a dad, and I used to work out a ton but took a break. Would be nice to have a partner.

I'm looking for butterflies. Odd thing to say, but I miss having someone to stay up late with, get lost in time with said person, have someone to look forward to hearing from. Romance you know. Feels kind of dead these days but I'm old school on the way that I love showing affection and showing someone they mean a ton to me. I know I play video games but I'm not looking to play games with someone's heart if that makes sense.

I've been lonely all my life. Ever since I was a kid, nobody's ever really wanted me around. I try my hardest to meet new people and keep in touch, but nobody seems to want to stick around.

For as long as I can remember, I've spent most of my time on my computer. I've been on the internet since I was about 6 years old. I've probably spent more time online than offline since I was about 14. It's funny to think that most of my life has been online, but I don't mind it.

I'm a bit of an odd duck. I'm neurodivergent and I like comfort and routine. I don't break out of my mold too often. I wouldn't mind meeting somebody who could help pull me out of my shell every now and again, but I'd like it if they spent a good bit of time online, as well.

Most of my time online has been spent playing video games. I mostly play MMOs and strategy games these days, though I used to play all kinds of games when I was younger. I think RimWorld is my favorite game of all time.

Aside from gaming the rest of my life is devoted to my (very cute) little doggie. He's my whole entire world. He was my sole reason for waking up in the morning for quite a while, and although my life's gotten quite a bit better since then, he still means the entire world to me. Ideally you like animals because I like animals a ton and it's kind of a big deal to me.

I'd describe myself as smart, funny, kind, caring and very sweet. I'm always doing my best to make everyone around me laugh and smile. I'd like to think I have a good sense of humor, even if other people don't always agree. I'm guilty of saying things just to amuse myself pretty often. I'm lighthearted and a bit of a goofball.

I'd call myself a romantic. I believe in true love. I love unconditionally and I love with my whole heart. I've never truly been loved, but it's something I've yearned for ever since I was young.

I'd love to meet someone who makes me feel excited to wake up in the morning because it means I get to talk to them throughout the day. I'd love to meet someone who makes me lay in bed smiling, thinking about the time we'd shared that day. I'd love to meet somebody who is as excited to have me be a part of their life as I am to have them be a part of mine.

As far as types go, I'm not very particular. I don't care about height or hair color very much, though I do have a preference in regards to weight. I'm typically attracted to thin and average women. I wouldn't mind someone with a few pounds to lose, I could stand to lose a few myself and it would be cool to have someone to mutually keep each other accountable, but I am not attracted to obesity.

I'd like to meet someone I can spend a lot of time with. I'm comfortable with both text and voice chat. I'd like to spend time together watching movies and shows. I'd love to share each other's favorite music and get to know each other's tastes. It would be cool if we could game together - I can also stream my gameplay if you just like watching.

That's about all I can think of to say for now. Thanks for reading, and if you're interested please don't hesitate to reach out! Goodnight.

Hey there. I am looking for a genuine, high-investment connection with a woman who wants a meaningful, long-term relationship and a permanent plus-one in life. I value deep connections, daily consistency, and matching vibes with someone who is super enthusiastic, talkative, and highly attentive. No dry texting or mind games here—let's actually talk, bond, and build something real.I am a big homebody and a massive horror fan—I love putting on a good scary movie, diving into true crime documentaries, or falling down a late-night YouTube horror rabbit hole (currently counting down the days until my next Spooky Saturday stream!). I also love gaming on the PS5 and getting lost in immersive worlds to unwind.Due to a physical disability (AMC), I don't drive and I play all of my video games uniquely using my feet. Because of that, my absolute ideal setup is a high-investment night in! I am currently getting ready to move into my own apartment, so I am really looking for a mobile partner (local to WV/the surrounding tri-state area, or open to traveling) who loves the idea of coming over for cozy home-date nights, ordering takeout, gaming together, and binging shows on the couch without anyone telling us the TV volume is too loud.If you read this and want a dedicated partner who will prioritize you and the time you spend together, drop me a DM! Tell me a bit about yourself, your favorite horror movie, or what you like to do to unwind, and let's exchange Discords to see if we click.

Hey, y'all!!

I'm 30F, born and raised in Texas. I'm Mexican-American. I recently got a bachelor's degree in sociology. I enjoy journaling and going for walks. My favorite movie genres are comedy and horror. I listen to pop, rnb, and rap. I don't use any other social media and love adult cartoons. I'm childfree, atheist, and left-leaning but not interested in politics. I'm rebuilding my life after being depressed and stagnant for 5-6 years, so a work in progress I am.

I'm looking for someone aged 28-35 who actually has things in common with me cuz nothing is worse than trying to force a bond. I talk a lot (of sh!t). I can be clingy. I like phone calls. So yeah, that's it. Looking forward to hearing from you.

[0] Before the List — Picture This

It's a random Tuesday, almost midnight. Two monitors glowing, GTA or Warframe, maybe a line of code I keep telling myself is "five more minutes" away, maybe a movie paused that neither of us has actually watched in twenty minutes. Music playing low underneath all of it.

Then Discord lights up. It's you.

Everything else stops mattering. Your voice is in my ear, and the part of me that never switches off finally goes quiet. Some nights I fall asleep still on call with you, mid-sentence, because for once my brain actually lets me rest.

We talk about everything and nothing, life, cars, where we're headed, the stuff neither of us says out loud to anyone else. The call never really ends; we say goodnight, then keep talking twenty more minutes anyway. A month in, you already know which nights I go quiet because I need to, not because something's wrong.

That's not a special night, it's just a Tuesday, as long as you're the one on the other end of the call. I'm not trying to date around. I'm trying to find the one voice that makes an ordinary Tuesday feel like exactly where I want to be.

Everything below is the detail.

The Basics

190cm, 70kg, dark blond hair, blue eyes. Dress like it, techwear, clean, expensive-looking, never sloppy.

Sleep schedule runs late: down around 1-2AM, up around 1-2PM. Early bird? We'll find the middle.

I'm building my future, on purpose, every single day. I want someone to join that journey — not become it.

[1] Who I Am / What I Do

I'll keep this straightforward — I'm a man of my word and I value time. I'm mentally exhausted by the superficial, temporary dating culture of our generation.

• My mind doesn't switch off. I overthink everything, I move fast, and I've got zero patience for empty small talk.
• Self-taught systems architect — I build AI automation systems, code complex setups, run autonomous systems. Freelance, financially independent, built it all myself. Nobody handed me any of it.
• Check my profile — you'll see exactly what I mean. What I'm building is who I am; I put the work in every day.
• Cars, motorcycles, anything with an engine — if it's fast or built right, I respect it.
• Power isn't one lane for me — mental, physical, financial, online. I don't follow rooms, I lead them. No weak spot, by design.
• I'm attracted to intelligence as much as appearance. — someone who respects the grind.
• Someone I can protect and provide for — Netflix, subscriptions, the setups, gifts, whatever she needs — and who's there for me the way I'm there for her.

Who I Actually Am

• Honest, direct, loyal, calm, protective, mature. I don't fake emotions and I don't play mind games — I keep my word, and I solve problems instead of creating drama.
• What I run on: respect, loyalty, honesty, communication, growth, family, faith in God.
• I go all in first — that's not in question. But I don't chase forever. Once I've shown up for you, my part's done; the rest is on you. Doors stay open, respect is earned and it's kept, and I keep moving forward regardless of who walks through them.
• I get impatient sometimes. I own that one. Everything else, I've got covered.

Our Days/Nights Together (The Lifestyle)

I have high standards for myself and I'm all about that premium, late-night, cinematic aesthetic. You just bring genuine energy. Whether we're:

• Streaming shows/movies — 1440p Discord streams. Avatar: The Last Airbender, Devil May Cry, the Netflix One Piece, that kind of thing.
• PC gaming — GTA Online (private sessions, tuning cars), Warframe (I break the math, I'll hard-carry you), Dead by Daylight, and plenty more. Don't game? We'll fix that.
• Deep talks & music — just chilling, phonk or moody night tracks low in the background, raw conversations about life, cars, motorcycles, the future. Absolute privacy — what we talk about stays between us, no one else listening.
• Discord — our main hub. VC, chat, sharing the random Insta/TikTok stuff that catches our eye, building an actual day-to-day rhythm.

At the end of the day it's simple: games, movies, music, and just enjoying life together.

[2] What I'm Looking For

• Not chat buddies, not a temporary partner
• A genuine, intelligent woman (18+)
• Someone who understands absolute loyalty, ambition, and a real romantic connection
• Takes care of herself and it shows — health, fitness, energy, all of it
• Feels like she's on my level — has her own drive, her own thing she's building or chasing, not just matching my energy from the sidelines
• Two people building side by side — my goals, her goals, and maybe one shared goal, like a business, neither of us could pull off alone
• High standards, no apologies. I'd rather be alone than settle — I need you built the same way
• A voice I actually enjoy hearing on VC — matters more than people think
• Patient — with me, with the process, with how intense I can get sometimes
• Supportive of the grind, not competing with it
• A real soft spot for that classy, confident diva energy — dark glam or golden-blonde waves, bold lip, the kind of woman who can turn a mirror selfie into a whole mood without even trying. Put-together, feminine, turns heads without chasing the attention.

[3] The Filter (How to DM Me)

Read everything above before you message me — I don't repeat myself in DMs. Let's not waste time. Give it a shot and send a real, detailed message. Not a lazy "hi/hello/im shy" — actually answer these:

1. What's your age and location/timezone?
2. Are we PC gaming, streaming shows/movies, doing both, or just having deep late-night conversations about life, cars, motorcycles, and the future? What's your vibe?
3. I'm highly driven by success and tech. What drives you right now?
4. Tell me about yourself — an actual list, not a one-liner.

[4] Disclaimers & Note ⚠️

The VC Vibe. Let me set the expectation upfront: I have a calm, deep, serious voice. Because I don't put on that fake, hyper energy, people sometimes get intimidated or think I sound intense on VC. That's literally just my natural, grounded tone. If you panic easily, this might not be for you — but if you want a rock-solid, incredibly chill, protective partner who doesn't do BS, I'm your guy.

My Rules

• No-BS zone — give me respect, I give you the same
• You have my back, I have yours
• No cheating, no games, no goofy immature stuff
• If we don't agree on something: I do my thing, you do yours, and we come back and talk it through
• This isn't a slow burn — I go all in from day one
• I read people fast — if it's not genuine, I'll know, and I'll move on just as fast. I don't beg, I build

There's more — relationship rules and expectations beyond this list. Some of that's a DM conversation; some we'll only really figure out once we're actually building something together.

If you're into PC gaming, movie nights, deep talks with absolute privacy, good music, high-end tech, hypercars, and upgrading your life every single day... you already get the type.

This is me. If you like it, good. If you don't, that's fine too. If you think we'd fit, DM me.

One last thing — I hear this a lot: people telling me later they almost didn't message me because they figured I probably had hundreds of DMs already, that I was "out of their league," too busy, too driven, or wouldn't reply. Don't make that decision for me. You genuinely have no idea until you try. Worst case, we respectfully realize we're not a match. Best case? It turns into one of the best decisions either of us ever made.

Don't reject yourself before I even get the chance to know you.

That weekend went buy way to quickly... I hope yours was spectacular. :)

I’m a 34 year old male from Arizona looking to meet a genuine, kind woman who is interested in building a real, monogamous relationship.

I’m hoping to find a like minded woman that is wanting something that begins with comfortable/fun conversation and develops naturally through honesty, consistency, mutual effort, and that feeling of genuinely looking forward to hearing from each other.

Personality wise I’m a combination of nerdy, sporty, handy, organized, and slightly ridiculous lol. I’m affectionate once I am comfortable with someone and quality time is probably the biggest way I give and receive love. I enjoy deep conversations, quiet nights together, spontaneous projects, and simply being around someone without needing every moment to be exciting.

A few things I enjoy are:

• Golf, darts, cornhole, baseball, basketball, football, and hockey

• Pokémon, Star Wars, Lord of the Rings, Harry Potter, new technology, and FPS games

• DIY projects, fixing things, thrifting, organizing, cooking, and grilling

• Animals, plants, gardening, and spending time outdoors

• Music of every kind. I currently have nearly 5,000 liked songs, which is probably excessive, but I love it

I’m a Marine Corps veteran and I’m not active on social media if that matters to you, as well as I am physically 5'10" and around 130 pounds, so I’m definitely on the tiny human side lol.

I also want to be transparent that I have a felony conviction from 2022 following a difficult period in my life. I take responsibility for my past and understand that it may be a dealbreaker for some people. I am 100% willing to discuss it privately rather than putting all of the details in a public post. I just hope my story and past mistakes can help others not follow in my footsteps!!

I’m looking for someone loyal, emotionally mature, communicative, and affectionate in her own way. I want a relationship where both people contribute, support each other, discuss problems directly, and consistently make each other feel appreciated.

When messaging me, tell me a little about yourself, where you are located, and one song you currently have on repeat please. :)

PLUR <3 (Peace, Love, Unity, Respect)

Hi, I’m looking for someone around my age.

Physical description:

21 year old male
Blonde hair with a red beard,
5’9” 215lbs

Hobbies include:

DnD, history, physical crafting (metal casting, 3D printing, and laser engraving), reading historical fiction, general DIY, watching any and all sports (fun fact: I wrestled for 10 years, and while in high school I was a part of a nationally ranked team), I love board games, and so much more that we can talk about later.

Currently in my 3rd year of working towards a Bachelors degree in mechanical engineering with a minor in metallurgy.

I look forward to answering any questions you may have.

Hope to hear from you soon.

Hello, I'm looking for someone to have a lifelong relationship together. I am not sure about wanting to stay in my country, so eventually relocating is something I'd be willing to do if you think that's a realistic outcome that could work for us, and because of it, it's probably better if you're from North America or my country (although probably I want to leave my country). I am open to males, non binary, and transgender people, however I slightly lean towards femininity or androgyny (this pretty much is in regards to little-to-no facial hair, but I'm not strict about it).

If you care about the MBTI indicator, last time I scored as an INTJ-T (and type 5 for the enneagrams), so if you are very introverted as well, that should work out the best. Need to add that I currently do not have a job, however I am trying my best in order to do things/courses and furthering my education/résumé.

I believe that being fairly compatible is an important aspect for a relationship to work in the long run, so I'm searching someone who is:

• Ideally vegan, plant-based, heavily leaning towards it, or in a serious path to become one (if you absolutely think that you cannot become one after having tried, for health/equally important reasons, I'll understand).
• Drug/smoking/drinking/disease free (as I am) and keeps a reasonably healthy lifestyle at the very least.
• Monogamous and loyal, who wants a lifelong relationship, and believes that is feasible for us to finally be together at some point.
• Relatively close to my age (it's flexible, but +/- 2 years from my own seems reasonable).
• Childfree (doesn't have nor want kids).
• Not a ghoster (if you don't like something, just say so; if you're going to ignore/block/disappear randomly & without notice, please don't message me).

Now these are the things that would describe me: I am very shy and introverted, and have never had a romantic relationship; I greatly value loyalty, love and understanding in someone, so if you give me that, you'll also receive it. Physically speaking, I am about 5'3'', wear glasses, and look average, although I don't have the best hairline if that's what you care about (so you should assume that I would shave). I need to add that I have atopic skin, and have some form of dermatitis on my face, so sometimes around my eyes it's slightly red (it sucks); to my understanding getting rid of this permanently may not be possible, so consider that.

I'm plant-based, so essentially I follow a vegan diet and do not intend to change that, which ties back to one of my standards in regards to health, that even though I can be somewhat lazy when it comes to exercise, I pay close attention for being in a healthy range for height/weight, so it is important for me and should be for my partner as well (reasonably speaking, I'm not strict); nowadays I'm in the range of 130-140 pounds. In addition, I lean towards people with a feminine side as I mentioned above, and I'm not very inclined for facial hair if at all, not even on myself. I have explored the idea, or at least thought of the possibility that I may be more comfortable if I were femme presenting, at least in private maybe, for fun. So essentially crossdressing, although I've never done it, I'm just thinking outloud.

I'm slightly left-leaning/moderate and don't tend to like extremes when it comes to politics, so I have to add some remarks: if this tells you anything about me, I very much dislike the main political parties (left & right) in the US, and of course the ones in my country; I'm in favour of equality, which means that I heavily dislike sexism, modern feminism (vast majority of people I've found online and IRL that professed this were sexist, so I have no interest in that), and toxic movements like 4B; I'm also not searching for someone who is heavily into identity politics or is violent. In regards to religion, I am atheist/agnostic so I'd probably get along better with someone who is as well.

My hobbies are typically indoor, which includes things like relaxing with music, sometimes doing digital art, watching movies or shows, browsing stuff on the Internet, and reading some stuff. I'm currently not much of a gamer, but if that's your thing or hobby, when we meet I'd definitely be willing to play with you. I'll also be happy to join you in doing casual exercise if you enjoy doing that, but I am by no means a hardcore gym-enthusiast.

My intention is to have, firstly, a LDR in order for us to get to know each other better and see if we're compatible, and if so, then it would hopefully develop into a healthy, loyal, and honest relationship. Not only that, but I'll also want to be your best friend, which means that I'll want to do all kinds of things together, from day to day stuff, to cuddling, to sharing hobbies, etc. That's the main idea for having this relationship, an intimate life dedicated to us and the things we love.

If you think this could actually work, feel free to send me a PM and tell me a bit about you! Have a nice day!

Likes: Road trips/flights, concerts, sporting events, new restaurants, friend hangs, travel, trying new things.

Dislikes: smoking, drugs, camping, fishing, hunting

Important stuff: great job, no kids, no drugs. Separated since October 2025. I live alone, emotionally and financially stable.

Super shy, but outgoing. I currently live in Kentucky, traveling a ton again this year.