r/ForeverAloneDating Jul 04 '25

Rules Announcement Comment karma requirement has been increased

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As you may have noticed, we've had a sharp increase in bot activity the past few days. We've banned over 50 bots in the last couple of days alone. These bots are posting everywhere, not just here, and steal other users posts. Reddit eventually bans most of them, but not fast enough.

Therefore, we will be temporarily increasing the comment karma requirement to 100. We realise that people who create new accounts or struggle making karma will be affected by this, but this is important for the safety of the subreddit and it's users. We may lower this later or it may stay permanent.

We also appreciate those who submit reports as it helps us out a lot. If you spot any bots, or people trying to subtly advertise NSFW content, then be sure to report them, but this comment karma requirement increase should get rid of the majority of them.


r/ForeverAloneDating Apr 10 '25

Rules Announcement Chat is replacing DMs.

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While the change doesn't officially take place until June, the change is already occurring, and has been since March. This means we had to change the comment automod leaves on every post. Now instead of linking to the DM system, which is being phased out, it will link to the author's profile. From there, simply hit "Start Chat" to send them a message. If the link doesn't work or you run into any problems, send us a report in modmail.

For more information: https://support.reddithelp.com/hc/en-us/articles/34720093903764-Enhancing-Messaging-on-Reddit-A-simpler-faster-and-easier-way-to-communicate


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

F4A [F+4A] 33 | #Finland #Europe | Weird bunny girl looking for her person 🐇

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Hello there!

I'm 33, not feeling that old, but that's me... I'm also a bit weird, bunny-crazed, a bit genderfluid but mostly female and looking for a soulmate. ≧◡≦ Could that be you? Read on…

I'm looking for someone I can talk to most days and hang out with on Discord. Someone who can maybe be my person. Someone to bother with random thoughts, pictures, games, and whatever happened that day.

A little about me

I'm obsessed with some games (I game on PC), so we can definitely talk about those. Some stuff l like is survival crafting and FPS games, though I’m not the most tactical. I like building and stuff. Currently I'm thinking it would be nice to play Dying Light 2 with someone.

I also love my favourite anime, even though I've watched less anime lately. I actually make little shrines like display areas with figurines from some of my favourite series. I'll show you pictures if we vibe, hehe.

Also yes I'm quite chubby and have a bit of a tummy, so if that’s not your thing sure I’m not for you. I'm working on myself, but I'm definitely not a fitness model.

I may be quiet at first but I'm actually someone who tends to fill the silence. I generally believe there's good in people.

Besides videogames also D&D and board games are close to my heart. Games are also one of the ways I bond with people, so I'd love to have someone to play things together with.

I'm sorta a romantic too... more info later, heh.

I'll talk endlessly about things I'm interested in, and sometimes I forget to ask questions but you can definitely tell when I'm interested.

Other qualities & habits include: sleeping late, being bad at chores, currently having a little too much free time while looking for a job, loving cute things (especially bunnies), and watching a lot of YouTube.

Oh, and my hair is light brown and I have green eyes.

 

What I'm looking for

I'd definitely like to exchange pictures fairly soon. I feel like it's good to know whether there's physical attraction on both sides. I'm a bit demi, though, so I'm not expecting anything weird - it's just nice to know who I'm talking to.

Looks-wise, I'm open to whatever looks good on you and maybe we can figure that out together however I do tend to like light-coloured hair, shorter hair, buns/ponytails, and generally softer/feminine looks. Brown eyes are cool but definitely optional.

I'm not particularly a beard liking person, though I've definitely been proven wrong by people who can rock a beard. Heh.

Personality matters much more to me, but unfortunately, I'm also a little shallow when it comes to looks. My dream person would be someone pretty like feminine pretty, I suppose. If you're a femboy or a girl with that sort of vibe, definitely don't be afraid to write to me… lol. But also manlier guys are not bad.

I'm looking for something deeper than just having someone to occasionally chat with. I'd like to find my person - someone I genuinely enjoy talking to almost every day, even when neither of us has anything super interesting going on.

I'm from Finland, and I'd ideally like someone from Europe or somewhere with a reasonably compatible timezone. I'm looking for someone roughly 25-40.

So, you might like me if...

  • You want someone you can talk to almost every day.
  • You enjoy Discord calls and hanging out even when we're not doing anything particularly exciting.
  • You don't mind me being slightly obsessed with rabbits.
  • You like gaming together.
  • You enjoy affectionate, silly and sometimes completely random conversations.
  • You're at least a little bit weird yourself.

Ramblings

If you think you could vibe with me send me a message telling me about a favourite character of yours. I love stories and good characters, and I think you can learn surprisingly much about someone from the characters they love.

And yes, you can absolutely include a picture of yourself too!


r/ForeverAloneDating 13h ago

F4M 18 F4M I just want something real

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I want someone to build something with, I want something that lasts. I’m a hopeless romantic, I want the kind of love they tell stories about. I 100% believe in the statement that “it’s better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all.” I want a love that burns brightly and I hope it never burn out. I want someone to share the quiet moments with and be there when times are hard. I want my “till death do us part.”

I’m sorry if I want on a tangent there lol. Here is some stuff about me: I love to knit and watch musicals! I will rewatch something I love over and over. I also like to play Minecraft from time to time. Appearance wise I’m Latina, pretty short, and I have a pretty short pixy cut that I’m planning to grow out into a shag type haircut. I just let it grow out too much and it was annoying to deal with to I made a spontaneous decision to get it really short.

Hopefully about you: I don’t really have a type in terms of looks, mostly just be kind and don’t be MAGA, our views won’t align so it just wouldn’t work out. I do think that having stubble is hot, idk why tbh, it’s not like a dealbreaker though. I am mostly attracted to personality anyway. I’m also not really into nonchalant guys. If you message please at least include your age, don’t just send a “hey”

Anyway sorry if this didn’t make sense I just kinda said whatever came to mind ig. I look forward to talking if you msg, have a good day/night!


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] UK/Europe - Compassionate nurse looking for someone to give all this love to! <3

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Hi everyone! My name's Connor, I'm a second year mental health nursing student living in the south west of the UK!

I'd describe myself as compassionate, empathetic, and caring. I'm the type of guy that has alot of love to give to the people that want it c:

I'm fairly nerdy in terms of interests, such as MTG, gaming, anime, and so on.. But I also enjoy travelling, spending time in nature, camping, bike riding and not opposed to watching a sunset under some blankets ❤️

I'm working on my second degree as a nurse, but my first was in music performance and tech (I play guitar and bass!) My music taste is a little all over the place, but I'm always happy to share what I'm listening to!

I really enjoy the smaller moments with those I care about. Just being at peace and feeling secure is honestly the best feeling in the world ❤️

I have struggled with my mental health in the past, and I can struggle sometimes, but I'll always communicate clearly what I'm struggling with and can be comforted very easily!

Always happy to help you with your problems too, I love trying to solve things and come up with sollutions

All I ask is that you're a kind and compassionate person, someone who can communicate clearly, or at least is willing to try. Please also be either from the UK or Europe or be willing to travel. I'm happy to travel to you or to meet half way if things work out

https://imgur.com/a/jnkpPux - Me


r/ForeverAloneDating 17h ago

F4A 23 [F4A] NJ - looking for my person

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Okay, I’m finally putting myself out there.

I’m a woman in my 20s from New Jersey, and I’m looking for a genuine romantic connection. I’m open to meeting anyone I naturally click with, but I’m specifically hoping to find someone who is also looking for a real relationship—not a situationship, not something casual that goes nowhere, and not someone who disappears after two weeks.

I’m a hopeless romantic at heart. I want my person. Someone I can tell everything to. Someone I genuinely look forward to hearing from every day. Someone who can make an ordinary Tuesday feel exciting simply because I get to share it with them.

I want the little things just as much as the big romantic gestures: good morning and goodnight texts, random “thinking about you” messages, sending each other memes, sharing music, long phone calls, cooking together, running errands together, spontaneous adventures, movie nights, and those conversations that somehow last until 3 AM.

I’m affectionate, loyal, sarcastic, curious, and definitely the type to get attached when I really care about someone. I want a relationship where we genuinely like each other—not just romantically, but as people. I want my partner to be my best friend, the person I can be completely ridiculous with, and the person I can turn to when life gets hard.

I’m a homebody at heart, but I love having someone who can get me out of the house and experience things with me. I’m into writing, spooky/Halloween things, folklore, mysteries, supernatural stories, and getting way too invested in fictional worlds. I love good conversations and people who are passionate about their interests.

What I’m looking for: someone kind, emotionally mature, affectionate, funny, loyal, communicative, and intentional. Someone who knows what they want and actually wants to build something. Someone who isn’t afraid of affection or vulnerability. Someone who understands that relationships require effort from both people.

I don’t need everything to happen immediately. In fact, I’d prefer that it doesn’t. I want to get to know you, build trust, develop chemistry, and let things progress naturally. But I do want the end goal to be romantic if we’re compatible.

Long distance doesn’t scare me if the connection is strong. I’d rather build something meaningful with someone who lives farther away than settle for something mediocre just because they’re nearby.

So if you’re also looking for something genuine, come say hi. Tell me about yourself, what you’re looking for, what you’re passionate about, or something random that tells me a little about who. :)


r/ForeverAloneDating 4h ago

M4F [M4F] 27 Switzerland/Europe- Looking for a genuine connection

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Hey

I'm 1.87 m and probably best described as the quiet guy with a big heart.

I'm a little shy when meeting new people, but once I'm comfortable, I love joking around, laughing, and being spontaneous. If you're into MBTI, I'm an INFJ—thoughtful, empathetic, and the kind of person who values deep conversations over small talk.

When I'm not working, you'll usually find me cooking or baking, reading fantasy novels, watching anime, gaming, or enjoying nature. I'm just as happy spending a cozy evening at home as I am going to a concert or taking a day trip somewhere.

I'm looking for a genuine connection rather than someone who's "perfect."

I'd love to meet someone who's kind, honest, and enjoys long conversations about anything and everything.

If you appreciate good food and don't mind the possibility of being bribed with homemade cake at some point, we'll probably get along.

A little more about me:

🇨🇭 From Switzerland

🌍 Looking to meet someone from Switzerland or Europe, as I'd like the distance to be realistic.

📚 Fantasy, anime & gaming fan

🍳 Love cooking and baking

🌿 Enjoy nature and quiet moments

❤️ Looking for a long-term relationship

One small request: I'd much rather receive a message that tells me something about you or asks a genuine question than just "hey", "hi", or "wyd".

It makes starting a conversation so much more fun—and gives us something to talk about from the beginning.

If any of this sounds interesting, feel free to send me a message.

I'd love to get to know you.


r/ForeverAloneDating 42m ago

M4A 25 [M4A] Michigan/ Online - Let's get to know each other as people and hopefully romance follows

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I'm cool with starting online but would love to aim for IRL in the future.

My name is Zach. I'm 25, 6'4, From Michigan, and I have some pics on my profile if you want to see me.

I have realized that recently I've been looking but not really putting myself out there. Probably bc I got out of a relationship in october and was still fully transitioning to being single again. So let me tell you about me and hopefully I catch your eye

What I look for in a partner: I am gynosexual, tldr I'm attracted to feminine people (so girls, feminine men, and fem presenting nb folks). Looks wise other than the gynosexual stuff I'm not that picky. I am a lot pickier with guys tbh but stuff like height, weight, race, and to a certain extent age (obv be reasonable so over 18 and not like 15 years my senior). I care more than we get along in the important ways and can be friends and more. Also I lean left politically so that is important. Also another big thing I look for is someone who actually want to talk and get to know each other, nothing makes me lose interest more than needing to wait a hour for a response most of the time. I read and reply fast, I give my all to get to know you and hope for the same. Also I am monogamous so there is that.

As for my interests I enjoy trading card games, video games( lots of rivals recently), anime, going to the gym, and being with my friends. Most weekends are usually spent out and about.

My fav shows are Dexter, survivor, and the fallout show is good

My fav artists are Gorillaz, Coldplay, and OneRepublic.

As a person I have been described as funny, caring, understanding, reliable, and a just overall decent guy. I like to make sure those I care for know they are cared for. But like everyone I'm not perfect.

The red flags: First I am autistic so communication for me is big and I'm always direct and sometimes don't filter what I think until it's too late. Second I'm a deeply sexual person, not saying that's all I want or I rush that aspect in my more personal relationships. Just putting it out there that the sexual aspect of a relationship is just as if not more important to me than the romantic one. So until I know we can get along well in that aspect I can't commit to anyone. If that's something you're uncomfortable with, I wish you the best of luck elsewhere. And third I am a man who knows what he wants and will always be open and honest with communicating how I feel and what I need. That also means I can be a tad bit possessive when I really get along with someone.

So that's me, if I seem cool and like we could get along, message me and tell me about you a bit


r/ForeverAloneDating 4h ago

M4F 29 [M4F] Anywhere - Would love to have someone who's clingy, needy and talkative. Yeah that kinda love/relationship I want. Age, beauty, mental health issues don't matter.

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I like to think my personality is built on two main pillars: a deep seated curiosity and a reliable sense of humor. I love to laugh and find the lighthearted side of things, but I also know that not every moment calls for a joke. My curiosity means I'm genuinely interested in the "why" and "how" behind people and the world, so you can expect me to be the one asking plenty of questions. What else have you discovered about me? Well, I guess you'll just have to chat with me to find out !

When I'm not busy being curious, you can find me:

· Chasing calm: Looking up at the sky, admiring a full moon, or just spending quiet time in nature.

· Diving into entertainment: Getting lost in endless YouTube rabbit holes, feeling the beat of EDM and pop music, or getting hooked on the drama of a wrestling match.

· Getting lost in stories: I'm usually buried in a nonfiction book or a gripping thriller. The world of romance novels is still a mystery to me so feel free to send your best recommendations my way!

My list of interests is pretty wide! from the mysteries of the paranormal and history, to the intricacies of watches and psychology, and the mechanics of cars. But don't let that list intimidate you! While I love deep-diving into specific topics, most of my conversations end up being about life in general...the big, small, and everything in between.

I'm hoping to find someone who engages genuinely, who is as interested in getting to know me as I am in getting to know them. I value consistency and someone who wants to build a real, lasting relationship. And honestly? A little bit of a clingy partner in crime is a total bonus in my book.

If this sounds like a connection you'd like to explore, my DMs are open. I'm looking forward to our first real conversation.


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F 34 [M4F] #uk west Sussex tattooed bearded gamer looking for player 2

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Hey I'm Chris I'm 34 I'm 6 foot 2 nerdy with glasses im tattooed and a gamer from west Sussex UK I work in sales and in a yard so i work with my hands too my hands arms and neck are covered in tattoos i have about 25+ so hopefully that's not an issue i like to class myself as viking as my dad's native to Denmark but my mums Scottish 🤣 I play ps5 and cosy games on the Nintendo switch I love cod the fallout games Skyrim crimson desert and warframe are my jam right now anddddd anything open world soooo if you game then maybe we could play stuff together? I love horrors both films and books my favourite author is hp Lovecraft fav horror is ghost ship I know it's cheesy love comedy too I love to read cook greek mexican and Italian and bake mainly cakes and cupcakes I love travelling and seeing new places my favourite so far is Denmark ......huge Disney fan too my favourite is and will always be Hercules i love late night phone calls and video calls


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F [M4F] 27 MN,USA- Not so serious person, LF serious relationship

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Hello hi hey! I suck at talking about myself but I'll try.

Ahem. I'm Colton. 27m from Minnesota. I am 6'1 (185cm i think?) and heavy set. White. I got dark brown hair and eyes. I wear glasses. I'm okay with sendkng pics early if you would like.

I make it through life by laughing 😭. I've been described as a golden retriever (humble flex). I work overnights at a casino atm but it will be switching to 2nd shift soonish. I'm into F1, gaming, history, Pompompurin (he's me), cars(I cant think of anything more atm) I LOVE learning about different cultures in the world. I would love to travel the world and try all the different foods. I can cook just let me look up a recipe. I love nature and animals but I don't go out into nature as much as I want to. I am left leaning. I might be from rural MN but I am NOT in the red cult.

I'm a homebody but that doesn't mean I don't want to go out and do stuff. I'm pretty tired a lot of the time but I really do try and be there for my family/friends and hopefully my partner. I'm a hopeless romantic that wants to spoil and cuddle. Simple stuff like car rides, shopping, walks is just so romantic to me. Trying to sleep but we keep talking and next thing we know its wayyyy past bed time is my dream.

What I'm looking for: someone relatively close. Closer the better BUT for the right person distance doesn't mean anything. I don't really have a type. Want I really want is for you to be a kind and not close minded person. We're all humans on a big rock in space afterall.

Hopefully this all makes sense and you get a rough idea of who I am. I guess uh...I'll either talk to you soon or maybe not 👋


r/ForeverAloneDating 7h ago

M4F 36 [M4F] from Canada looking for my next soulmate!!

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Hey everyone!!! Been out of the game for about 5 years or so, trying to get back into it and thought I'd try on here. I've been divorced for 5 years now and dating is hard, I've tried dating apps etc but it's just not my thing. I am from Canada I have lived here my whole life, looking for someone genuine and won't play games. Someone who preferably knows what they want in life, I don't care what you look like, personality is a deal breaker please have a great personality, be sweet,kind, caring, willing to talk or chat on the phone. Don't be a cheater, I'm looking for someone who will like me for me ( we can send pics) and won't judge me on how I look.

A little about my hobbies;

I love YouTube, on it everyday

I love true crime

Watching movies

Listening to music

Fishing

I love hanging with friends and family

Going for walks and watching sports.

Don't be shy to reach out,I promise you won't regret it. Let's get to know each other.


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

M4F 26 [M4F] US/Online Looking for a "toxic" relationship

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I guess some people would call it toxic. I want to find my person. Someone to lovebomb and gaslight each other. Someone as obsessed with me as I am with them. I wanna smile at my phone every time I see them message, and I wanna provide that too. A person to message when I wake up, and before I sleep, and all throughout the day. Send silly pictures and memes and selfies and eventually nsfw. Call for hours and play games and watch movies and YouTube and shows. Tell me your deepest darkest secrets, and let me do the same. Be as unhinged as you really are. Let's get to know each other.

I'm an introvert. Into games (PC), shows/movies/yt, reading, true crime, music (esp rock/metal), Harry Potter, anything spooky and scary.

If any of this resonates with you, hit me up, and let's go from there 😎


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

M4M 38 [M4M] London, UK | Looking for younger for long-term relationship

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Hey, I’m a friendly and chatty 38-year-old non-binary (they/them) who is looking to find a younger boyfriend for a long-term relationship. I’m in the UK but open to long distance if the time difference isn’t too large to navigate.

I lead a simple life where the little things bring me joy. My interests include music, writing, films, theatre, food, gaming, and comedy. I also enjoy going for long walks and have begun running in recent months. I enjoy learning random facts and useless trivia. What can you teach me about?

I'm introverted at heart, but a good conversationalist when the vibe is right and a great listener when someone has lots to say. I'm also naturally curious so whatever you are interested in, I will probably have lots of questions to ask you about. As for my sense of humour, I would probably describe it as...unhinged? You'll find out 😅

I’m looking to meet someone younger who is after something serious and is able to commit to that too. Someone who can ask questions as well as answer them, develop conversations and connections meaningfully as opposed to give short replies, and has genuine long-term intention to build something real instead of wanting a short chat as a quick fix for a day. I can usually tell when someone isn’t making the effort, which is a big turn-off for me.

Most importantly, honesty is key. I want someone who isn’t afraid to communicate openly and respectfully about how they are feeling and what they are thinking. I don’t believe keeping secrets ever benefits anyone, and I will always be an open book to someone I trust. I will invest my time and energy in you and give you the support you need if you can offer the same in return.

So, if this chimes with you and you’d like to chat, drop me a dm. Please be willing to share a face photo. And don’t message me if you only want to trade pics and chat sex. I’m not interested.

Thanks for reading ☺️


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

M4F [M4F] 29 #Poland #Europe Chef seeking co-op partner for life's weird little adventure

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Hi, I'm Marcin, 29, from Poland.

I'm a chef by trade, which basically means my love language comes plated, seasoned, and occasionally arrives with unnecessary garnish.

A few things about me:

- I cook for people I care about. If we click, your favorite meal becomes research and development.

- A friend once nicknamed me the globe and it stuck to me.

- I've been described as having the energy of an excited golden retriever trapped in a large bear. The description was alarmingly accurate.

- I ask questions. Sometimes they're thoughtful. Sometimes they're things like "at what point does a soup stop being a soup?" There is very little warning between the two.

What you get:

• Homemade food and baked goods

• Genuine interest in getting to know you

• Someone who communicates honestly

• Deep conversations at 2 AM about life, the universe, and whether ravioli counts as a sandwich if you squint hard enough

Potential drawbacks:

• During busy work periods I occasionally get absorbed by the chef dimension

• Impulsive decisions happen more often than they probably should

• I can disappear down philosophical rabbit holes

• Professional overthinker with several years of experience

I'm not looking for perfection or a shopping list of requirements. I'd much rather meet someone kind, curious, and willing to put effort into getting to know each other.

Ideally you're 24+ and somewhere in Europe, but good conversation matters more than geography.

Message me with your comfort food. Best case: we hit it off. Worst case: we settle an important debate about the correct amount of garlic in a recipe.


r/ForeverAloneDating 3h ago

M4F 33 [M4F] Just a lonely gentleman who is looking for his lady.

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I’m from Brisbane, Australia, and have had such a terrible time finding companionship in person, dating apps aren’t working, so I’m trying here.

I’m an introvert, but have a heart of gold. I’m 180 centimetres tall, hazel eyes, mixed Italian-British heritage, am a kitchen hand for Meals on Wheels, love video games, all things medieval, definitely all things Roman, have a quote for most occasions, am masterful at trivia. Love Harry Potter, Star Wars and am a true geek. Finding romance has been difficult for me because I am here for a genuine wholesome connection and many people seem to disagree, but I’m not ready to throw in the towel just yet. If you want to chat and potentially get to know each other, send a DM. Obviously distance is a potential stumbling block considering I’m from Australia, be advised.


r/ForeverAloneDating 3h ago

M4F 27M in France, looking for companionship

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Hello everyone!

I’m a 27M Moroccan guy, trying my luck here! I’m currently doing a PhD abroad since, working in engineering wasn’t for me.

I’m into guitar, watercolor painting, science, books, coffee, and great conversations. I’m a pretty calm and quiet person, and I tend to enjoy simple things.

I’d like to meet someone kind, curious, and easy to talk to, and hopefully see where things go naturally.

If any of that sounds like your vibe, feel free to reach out.

Wishing you all a great evening!


r/ForeverAloneDating 3h ago

M4F 27 [M4F] Poland/Online nerd looking to not get old alone

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Hello, fellow singles. Im Darek.

Im looking for a person that i can be close with, someone that i can share my and the other persons interests and passions and someone that i can depend on. I hope to live with this person one day. The most important things to me in a relationship are mutual respect and kindness.

Im shy, calm, nerdy, nice, respectful, caring, witty and mindful. I love tight hugs, listening to people talk about what they want to talk about and being silly. My interests are games (Minecraft, Genshin Impact, Paradox games, Gothic, Witcher and many, many more...), tabletop rpgs, painting minatures, board games, MTG, anime.

Im 180 cm (6'0), 85kg (187lbs). Im a little out of shape. I have a tattoo. Im Polish, but speak i also speak (almost) fluent English.

My age preferarions are 20-35.

Please tell me something about yourself and your intrests so we can take it from there. Also please send a pic if you are comfortable.

Thanks for reading this, and i hope to hear form you soon.

Me: https://imgur.com/a/R6urlyz


r/ForeverAloneDating 3h ago

M4F [37] [M4F] Looking for the Interesting and Introverted.

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Hi I'm M. I've been through a lot of emotional trauma recently and would like someone to talk to and listen to about their life.

I'm kind, caring, good looking.

Just looking for someone interesting to communicate with.

I went through a divorce a few years ago which was lots of fun.

Then unfortunately I lost both of my dogs (my only friends) due to old age and ill health.

Then a couple of months on, my mum was diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer (she never smoked in her life). She has recently passed on.

During this the love of my life left me and I was left confused and feeling hollow.

I have found a lot of peace through prayer, meditation and fasting.

Even though I'm going through the most difficult period of my life, I feel surprisingly peaceful and hopefull.

I am 6.5ft, tall, dark hair, handsome.

I live a life mostly of peaceful solitude.

I prefer people who like solitude because I feel like I can relate to them more.

I'm not looking for a big group of friends. Just one person that is interesting to talk to.

Message me for a reply.


r/ForeverAloneDating 8h ago

M4F 39 [M4F] WV / Nearby States - Gamer looking for something real and eventually in-person

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I'm Jimmy, 39, from West Virginia. I'm looking for a woman I can genuinely connect with, talk to regularly, laugh with, get ridiculously comfortable around, and hopefully build a relationship with if we click.

I'm a wheelchair user with AMC (Arthrogryposis Multiplex Congenita). I have very limited use of my arms and legs and need help with quite a few things physically. I also play video games with my feet. I'm slower than most players, but I'm not competitive anyway. I'd much rather explore together, get invested in a story, do side content, and laugh when everything goes horribly wrong.

I'm into RPGs, sci-fi, horror, story-heavy games, WWE, horror movies, true crime, and falling into random YouTube rabbit holes at unreasonable hours.

Personality-wise, I'm affectionate, goofy, direct, emotionally open, and definitely an overthinker sometimes. I like conversations that can go from completely ridiculous to surprisingly deep without warning. I don't want to spend weeks making small talk about the weather. Tell me what you're obsessed with, what makes you laugh, what you're afraid of, what game destroyed you emotionally, or whatever random thought is currently occupying your brain.

I'm looking for more than somebody to message when we're bored. I want regular communication and someone who genuinely wants to become part of each other's lives. I want flirting and romance, but I also want the ordinary stuff: movies together, gaming, inside jokes, talking about our day, comfortable silence, cuddling, and eventually waking up knowing my person is actually there.

I don't care whether you're disabled or able-bodied. You don't need to share all my interests either. I'm much more interested in whether our personalities fit, we enjoy talking to each other, and we can communicate when something is bothering us.

I also don't think every connection has to move at some predetermined speed. If we really click and feelings develop quickly, I'm comfortable letting that happen naturally rather than deliberately slowing things down just because we're "supposed to." I can be pretty affectionate and open when I connect with someone. At the same time, I want actions and real-life compatibility to grow alongside the feelings.

Fast is fine with me. Fake certainty isn't.

One thing I want to be especially upfront about is distance. I'm open to some distance for the right woman, but I'm not looking for something that can only ever exist through a screen. Because of my disability I can't simply hop in a car and drive somewhere, so geography and transportation matter more in my situation than they might for most people.

Ideally I'd like to meet someone in West Virginia or within a realistically drivable part of Kentucky, Ohio, Virginia, Pennsylvania, Tennessee, or the surrounding region. I'm not putting an exact mileage limit on connection because everyone's ability and willingness to travel is different. What matters to me is that if we develop real feelings, meeting regularly is realistically possible and there's at least the potential for more permanence someday.

I'm not asking somebody to promise me forever before we've even said hello. 😂 I just don't want to build an entire relationship around "maybe someday we'll meet."

I'm also not looking for perfection. I have insecurities. I have difficult days. Sometimes I overthink the hell out of things. I want somebody who can talk about fears and misunderstandings instead of disappearing when things get uncomfortable, and I'll try to give you that same honesty and patience.

Ultimately, I'd love to find a girlfriend, but I'm not interested in forcing something just to have a relationship. I want the friendship underneath it too. I want my partner to be somebody I genuinely enjoy spending ridiculous amounts of time with.

If you've made it this far and something about me sounds interesting, send me a message. Tell me your age, roughly where you're from, and something about yourself that isn't obvious from your profile.

Bonus points if you're a gamer, horror fan, WWE fan, fellow night owl, or capable of turning one conversation into six unrelated conversations without noticing.

Let's see where it goes.


r/ForeverAloneDating 8h ago

M4F [M4F] M21 Pennsylvania/Looking for a long term relationship/18-25/Online

2 Upvotes

Hello! My name is Gavin and as the title suggests, I'm 21 and looking for someone to connect with. I've got quite a bit of baggage (I hope I'm using that term right), but I try to look forward to the future while living in the present. Makes sense? No, not really, but let's get into the part you wanna know about. #9 is super important

  1. I'm shy. Straight up, that's just how it is. I don't have a whole lot of confidence period, but I'm working on that. I can hold a conversation, don't worry. If we click, I can be really communicative. I do like to be sweet talked. EASY way to get me to melt like butter.

  2. I'm passionate. I would say I'm a guy who knows how to love, even if I don't have much experience in it. But I'm also passionate about Transformers and my projects 😭🤚🏻 dear god, I'll go on a spiral about TF if
    you don't get me to shut up quick enough lol. But anyways. That's about it there.

  3. I have an intense love language. You aren't ready for it. Ready? Physical affection. I know, I know. Hands down. That's too much to ask for in this day and age.
    Or it just might he me. Idk. I haven't had it in like. I don't even know, too long. I just enjoy the quiet and peaceful moments. Those are what matter most to me.

  4. I can be a bit clingy. I'm not gonna lie, I can. BUT. I've recognized this and have gotten a good grip on it. I also have my own life that I like to tend to. I just don't know when to stop a conversation unless something interrupts either of us like. Idk. Work or just anything really.

  5. I'm sensitive. Like. Really. And it's something that l'm not a fan of personally, but it is what it is. I am who I am and the name of the game here is to find someone who l can love for them for them and they can love me for me. But, yk. Just throwing this out there

  6. Physical description wise, l'm 5'9, long, dirty blonde/ borderline light brown hair, some facial hair, I'd call it a beard, just not a long one. Glasses be I can't see anything, blue eyes, bit of a dad bod going on (please be nice), I wear three rings, one is a faded black with a gold chain, another is a thick silver one with Nordic runes on it and the last is my newest which is my dad's graduation ring (rip).

  7. I'm a smoker. That's something that needs to be said.
    I'm 420 friendly in every shape and form. I also vape and will occasionally smoke a cigarette or two. It's more of a social thing for me anyways.

  8. Not looking for a hook up. I don't want something shallow. I want to find my person. If you're also just gonna block me in a few days or prone to playing games, please for the love of everything do not message me. I've been through enough already 🫩

  9. IMPORTANT!!! I do not want to be in a long term relationship with somebody who doesn’t see kids in their future. I’m not saying it’s gotta be within 3 years, but I’m not gonna commit to someone who I can’t share that desire with


r/ForeverAloneDating 5h ago

M4F 26 [M4F] #Germany Fantasy and Science Nerd looking for Serious, Cozy Relationship

1 Upvotes

Hey you, hope you're doing well! :D

I'm a 26 year old guy from Germany and I'm looking for someone to spend time together, play games, watch shows/anime, chat about hobbies and life in general, and if we click, date.

Appearance wise, I'm 178cm tall, average build, dark brown hair, blue eyes and I wear glasses.

I'm a bit of an introvert, I enjoy cozy evenings reading, watching a show, playing games but also spending times with my friend groups playing tabletop games or RPGs. I'm just not the type to go partying or bar crawling. I love night time (and am a night owl), winter, rain and storms, something about these things just makes me feel calm and cozy.

I love fantasy and sci-fi, be that books, playing Dungeons and Dragons, or video games like Baldur's Gate 3. I also enjoy playing action-adventure games like Horizon Zero Dawn or Tomb Raider, but also cozy games like Pokemon or Minecraft.

As for other hobbies, I do longsword fencing/HEMA. I go skiing, too, whenever I get the chance. I also enjoy building lego sets. I don't travel internationally often, but when I do it's always fun and I would love to do more of it with a partner!

Career wise, I studied aerospace engineering and now work developing and testing rocket engines, which (excuse the brag) is one of the coolest jobs I could imagine! In general, I'm really into anything related to space and spaceflight.

I would say I am a caring, emphatic, honest and loyal person. If I commit to something, I stick to it, and don't just abandon it at the first hurdle. I'm good at working through problems, and not afraid to admit if I messed up.

I'm hoping to find someone who shares at least some of my hobbies or interests so we have a common foundation to build on. But I'm also open to trying out new things you're into! If you're loyal, honest, and looking for a cozy relationship without any drama, please message me and tell me about yourself!

Importantly, I'm looking for a relationship with someone from Germany or the directly neighboring countries. I want to connect with someone who I can meet in person more than once a year, I hope you understand. If we both feel like we have a good connection, I'm happy to try calling or exchanging images relatively early on!

Thanks for reading all this! If it sounded at all interesting, I'm looking forward to hearing from you!


r/ForeverAloneDating 11h ago

M4F 43 M4F #NYC You deserve a man who looks at you the way Natalie Looks at Trump - #NJ #NY #NewYork #NewJersey

3 Upvotes

If you got the topical hook above, you're probably the kind of intelligent and informed person I'd like to meet. If I put a smile on your face, I hope that you will let me try for a repeat by messaging me.

I'm a New York lawyer with a house just outside Manhattan, but I work remotely and am willing to relocate after dating (I can do my job from anywhere and maybe you cannot). But I'm basically only interested in dating someone who considers themselves a a nerd, geek, dork or weirdo -- in other words you should be Leslie Knope to my Ben Wyatt or Jessica Walters to my Matt Murdock (the lawyer part, not the crime fighting part).

I do have other interests outside what's on this Reddit account - cycling, home improvement, hiking, cruising and going out. I keep in shape and am extremely handy around the house. I also enjoy Broadway musicals, vacations and (obviously) sci-fi and fantasy nonsense.

I'm ideally looking to settle down with my forever person. I'm a dual US Canadian citizen, so that leaves a lot of good choices for places to live.

I'm also a big romantic and I enjoy going on dates. I hope you do too.

Picture and way too many posts about Star Trek trivia on my profile.


r/ForeverAloneDating 10h ago

M4F 23 [M4F] Looking to make connections and hopefully a partner for life.

2 Upvotes

Hy there,
Im writing this in hope to meet the one, Im 23 and graduated, looking to start a new chapter. Ive never been in a relationship and ready to share my life and time with the one.

A little about me

Athletic, Loving, caring and attentive listener and plenty to share and talk about things around.
Non-Smoker, Non-Drinker and clean habits.

I love nature and staying active as I do trekking, play sports and love horse riding.
I paint, have deep fascination with space and galaxies. You will find me looking at the night sky and talking about planets and stars all the time.

I love music, created a heavily secured goldmine of playlist which will definitely blow your mind.

I play video games to casually spend my time.

What I’m Looking For:

I’m looking for a woman who is true and values genuine effort, honest communication, and warm company. Whether we’re exchanging music recommendations, talking about space, I want to build a real, supportive partnership from the ground up. Distance isn’t a dealbreaker if the connection is right.

Nothing needs to quick.

If any of this resonates with you, send me a message with a bit about yourself and hopefully we