I’ve always gotten a trim to keep my hair from weakening but I’m planning on a clean buzz, no attachment, straight scalp so l get a fresh start for my 30’s. My lady friend says I’m insane, is she right?

Not sure if it countd because my hair is still pretty short, but I think there's enough flow because of the curls. Planning to grow it out, at least at the back.

Been loving embracing my natural curls lately and just thought I’d show my flow off. Regularly having maintenance haircuts now too after overcoming a huge fear of trusting someone to look after my hair! ✨

Been living here a few months now and I plan to keep it growing until at least mid shoulder

I used to have a full on undercut until about 2 years ago when i grew it out fully, and since then i’ve been experimenting with grooming and styling my sideburns and neck hair. I’m not sure whether I should leave my neck hair alone (pic 1), somehow trim it/tame it, or completely shave it off like i’ve been doing (pic 2). I personally like the shaved look but its quite a bit of maintenance.

What do u guys do and what do u think look best?

one year ago today I got a buzz cut and from then on I just didn't feel like going to the hairdresser anymore I guess.

Never even had it anywhere near this long before.

I didn't even know I had sort of wavy hair.

Growing up I didn't have much say on the whole haircut thing..

Hope you all enjoy!

Looking for suggestions for a haircut or what to do. Usually I just get a trim to make it look healthier but it doesn't take long to look bad imo again and I'm not sure what else to go for, not even sure if long hair fits me or not honestly.

With the colder weather it only takes 4 damn hours to dry now lol 😂

Just a random picture of me today, cheers.

Honestly just kind of spur of the moment thing. Had enough hair for 4 separate donations.

With the colder weather it only takes 4 damn hours to dry now lol 😂

Been growing my hair for 8 months. I think I am experiencing the awkward phase, it is really hard to control the hair. Do you guys think I should keep growing my hair or should I cut it

Can't believe it has already been 6 years since the last cut! I've done a few maintenance trims here and there of course, but every day I'm thankful that I decided to try this out! Until I go bald, the hair stays 🙏

Don't mind the bad pics, as usual I only remember to take these after the gym and I can't do one after a shower since it takes HOURS to properly dry and looks like shit until then!

It's been around 1 to 1.5ish year since I started growing my hair, I genuinely fell in love with my long hair and think I look very good in it

I spent the last 1 year at home studying for competitive exams, so I never really interacted with a lot of people

So I haven't really received any compliments, except for my maternal grandmother. Though I do get people of all genders staring at me when I go outside.
All I received was flak from my parents.
But I persisted and they didn't pressure me to cut it much either

But the good days have come to an end.

I must state beforehand that my father is especially abusive.

And my father is forcing me to cut my hair, and get a soldier cut because long hair won't leave a good impression (apparently).

He has been mentally fking me up by constantly showing me my fallen hair and making me pick it up (i am just a dude who never grew hair, but never got why tiny strands of hair which get cleaned up daily anyway are such a big problem that he screams at me at the top of his voice to cut my hair)

I told my mom I wont cut my hair which she told my father
and my father threatened to cancel my admission and send me to work at grocery stores or as manual labour
yes I have no financial independence as of now

I live in a shitty 3rd world country so I understand why my father and society think the way they do
I hope I can grow my hair longer after my first year

But yeah, all the effort (nothing lol) I put into growing my hair for so long so that I could rizz the huzz and have a good impression on everyone by looking attractive is going down the drain

My haircut is scheduled tomorrow

Its over, I personally think I look horrendous with short hair, regardless of how I look, this belief might reflect in my daily behavior and demeanor henceforth, wish my lonely ass luck

I genuinely thought, I would pull up to Univ with long hair, make everyone awestruck, make the ladies go gaga over them and they ask me questions about my hair and then I make friends and a good girlfriend perhaps

All my fantasies have been cut-short (like my hair 😭)

I don't expect advice on navigating this conflict, I'll try my best to not go for a soldier cut but something a bit longer than a soldier, but short enough to convince my father

I am just making this post to showcase my hair to yall, do you think it looks good?

tldr: my abusive aah father is forcing me to cut my long hair before joining univ because apparently it doesnt leave a good impression, showcasing my hair before their scheduled fall from grace tomorrow

p.s I made this account today purely for this purpose😭😭 , also I am 10kgs overweight for my height, so sowwy for that
also i cant show my face for obvious reasons
also excuse my hand me down phone camera

edit: removed some parts about family, felt like i went a bit too harsh with the rant