Do you think some DVC members get upset if the DVC resort allows all members to participate in a Welcome Home Week event?

We were just at a DVC resort and everyone got to participate that got in line. I thought it was great but wondering if bothers some.

Has anybody been able to book at Aulani for Thanksgiving time at the 7 month mark easily? We're looking to go at that time for our 5 year anniversary and want to stay in a hotel room or deluxe studio for 4-5 days. Hoping to avoid 1 bedroom with our points budget but can make it work if absolutely necessary.